CALLER: "IS IT THE RIGHT TIME TO TALK ABOUT FINANCIAL ASPECT?" | HELLO S.T.G. 

If you can't even communicate it will never work❗️

If you are asking for the many "whys", you are absolutely not ready. Any slight of hesitation in progressing a relationship in itself will eventually end up in a break up. You haven't loved yourself being alone. You have jumped from one fling to another and when you found someone who you think you have more things in common, you attach yourself right away. That shows you my dear that you haven't given the love that you deserve for yourself by yourself. Please when you get into a relationship with someone factor in your kids. Don't just bring in someone into your life when you are not completely a single woman who can easily just do so. Love yourself first. Don't be afraid of being alone.

galing tlg mag analyze ng situation si papa jackson😁👍

Ate, You're extremely codependent and also independent. If you continue what you're doing, you'll just end up paying gas every time you go out with him. As Papa Jackson always said, "you deserve what you tolerate". Goodluck nalang talaga

Don't rush everything girl❤

There is nothing wrong if a couple is rushing to move in. Ang hirap i-explain pero minsan once na ma-fall ka, ayun na talaga. Pero itong si ateng caller, 31 na with 2 kids (different dad) by this time dapat she’s smarter na and wiser to make her decision. She should have learn something from her past relationships and apply it in her new one. Who the hell talks about moving in and start looking for a house but not talk about finances? How the hell you gonna pay the bills and rent? Who will pay for that? Come on ate 🤦🏻‍♀️

Aba Ngayon ko lang uli napakinggan at napanood si papa jack,,last na napakinggan ko sya last 2010 pa nasa love radio pa sya 😅

Sa totoo lang, alam mo na yung sagot caller. Naghahanap ka lang ng validation para ituloy yang gusto mo.

Red flag rin nung sabihin nung magulang nya na meron ka na namang bagong lalaki. Mukang si ate hindi marunong na magisa. Gusto laging merong lalaki sa buhay nya. Ni di nya makita na merong mali sa ginagawa nya. Baka kelangan ni ate maging single muna at kilalanin nya ang sarili nya at kung ano talaga ang gusto nya hindi yung nag guy hopping sya dahil ayaw nyang magisa.

Broke po yung guy na meet mo! 🤣And it's super rush, kaya rush din yung nangyayari sa buhay mo,caller! Huwag kag magtaka.

Love is unconditional girl

I had one night stand and we officially on. Move in together after 2 months. Now we are 7 years together as a couple.

Papajack paano ko po kaya kayo makakausap ng personal.kasi parang kilala ko po kasi tong guy sa kwento ni girl.sana nga lang MALI AKO NG KUTOB AT KABA NUNG.MARINIG KO2. Para kasing HUSBAND KO UNG GUY AT MAY MGA BINAGO LANG SIYA SA KWENTO.

One Aggressive Decision of moving in together.. Question is: does the guy willingly wants to move in? Or its the suggestion of Miss liz to move in? Kaya theres a hesitation to ask about finances! ✌ kasi if its the guy who wants to move in then i think He will voluntarily will talk about money!

May 200k daw sa bangko. Pero pang gas wala. Hahahahah. Ano yan teh

I am a single mom of 3 (different father). I have a LIP now na nameet ko rin sa FB dating app. Pero we decided to move in after 10 months of our rel. Pero before nagsama kami we already know ano mga obligations namin sa house. Both of us have a good job. Good thing sa LIP ko he never ask for money from me kahit mas malaki sahod ko pag nagdadate kami siya pa lagi nagbabayad. He never allows me na gumastos. Kaya I am lucky sa partner ko. Tsaka sinabi ko sa kanya din na ayaw ko pinagaawayan ung pera. I have access din sa bank accounts niya pero I never ask for any.

Dear Ms. Liz, here's my two cents: Focus nlng po muna sa mga anak at sa sarili mo ... pwede ka namn po makipag relasyon but leaving in together sana ang pinaka huling bagay na iniisip mo since galing ka naman sa pag-aasawa .... alam mo na ang pakiramdam .... at kung hindi rin financial stable ang partner mo ... mas lalong NO! NO! .... unahin mo ang mga needs ng mga anak mo at paghandaan ang future nila kaysa e'sustento lang sa ibang needs ng partner mo .... kung meron tayong pangangailangan bilang babae pwede nmn kitaan lang di na kailangan ng leave in .... yun lng naman ....

Let her ruin herself again the 3rd time..maybe ndi nya naramdaman ung hirap raising 2 kids kc nanjan parents..why live together if you can just see each other everytime..laging kapos si guy paano kung mag ka anak na kayo..

Ate, you have to assess yourself. Days of knowing a guy and deciding to go on living in is a huge mistake. You should know him first, deeper. You're 31 yrs old right? You're a single mom. You should be wiser this time. Think about the welfare of your children. Think about yourself. And be straight and tell him that you have to know him first. You're rushing things and blinded. Kilalanin mo at pahalagahan mo muna ang sarili mo, mga anak mo. Mahalin mo ang sarili mo at mga anak mo bago ka ulit makipagrelasyon. In your story Red flag ang ginagawa mo. As a single mom like me, I have been to a roller coaster in my lovelife, I learned a lot and i know now how to handle. Sorry to say masyado kang vulnerable hindi mo pa talaga kilala yung lalaki lalo pa me family din. I hope you take time to know yourself first. God bless you Liz.

You need to heal first before you find another love. Maybe the other person will take advantage of your weaknesses

Girl, you sounded like a desperate. You’re gonna be a Sugar de Mama Of this guy! if you don’t open up what’s on your mind , you got a big problem, headache … don’t rush everything and live together so soon!

Pwede naman na ma heal ka muna bakit dapat kailangan mag jowa 2 failed relationship is it not too much? U have 2 children wid different father's u should have check ur self muna and the fact that ur married I mean its ok to fall inlove ambilis mong mag move on ha

May mga babae talaga na dependent sila sa happiness nila sa lalake. Ate, sana matutunan mong maging masaya ng walang lalake. Mahalin mo muna sarili mo para mahalin ka ng totoo. Unahin mo muna intindihin ang mga anak mo. You dont even know the guy too much yet. D mo ba naisip, anong iisipin ng 1 guy na 1st meet up nyo pa lang nakipagjer2x ka na. Do you really think seseryosohin ka nyan? Baka gagamitin ka lang nyan.

Kalandian mo lang Yan Te. Live in para unli jerjer. Wag kami! 😂

A 31-year-old talking like this...di alam gagawin??having two kids and yet walang natutunan..you know what ate..you need to focus sa kids and sarili mo...dadating ang right guy for you sa tamang panahon...

Hayaan mo ung srili nio na makilala ung isat isa no need to rush naman kasi e mas ok nga ung makilala nio ung isat isa hanggang alam nio na kung pano ihandle ung mga bagay bagay na parang yang money matter na pang gas lang iritado kana so means d mo pa xa mahal kung baga naaatached kalang kasi sknya kasi d ka pa move on kasi kung mahal mo isang tao d ka mattakot naag ask na bakaaoffend mo xa give time to ur self ate gurl hrp ang padalos dalos

ate na rin tawag ko ha, although im 18yrs older than u , i got 4 children same father not married i was away 12 yrs na rin at no sex, i learned to be picky woman just because of my past, 900k at meron na rin akong business although its a sibling partnership !, may bahay na rin ako 2 story pero hindi pa din ako sumusulong sa relationship o commitment kasi nakakapagod puro problema instead mag happy kana balik ka naman sa uno life, isipin mo mga anak mo wag yong sayo.

Ang daming paligoy ligoy c ateng..inshort medyo my kalandian kang taglay..un lng un..daming pasikot sikot

I can understand Ate but honestly looking for love or temporary companionship Kasi lonely ka will never make you happy. You need to love yourself and see yourself that you can be happy without a guy or girl.

C ateng nagpapakatanga or nagpapakaipokrita be true to your self,open up everything to your boyfriend ipakita mo ung good and bad side mo sa kanya.khit tungkol sa pera yan ang pinakaimportante

base on my experience im also single mother mas ok parin mag fucos ka muna s mga anak mo caller lalo na s sitwasyon mo dalawa na anak mo be responsible and mature wala sa lalaki ang makakapagpapasaya sayo ky di nasa sarili mo lang tan pno ka maging masaya sana maging mautak kana sa pag pili ng lalaki specially financial and maging father figure sa mga anak mo wag kang magmadali learn ur mistakes

I think sa sobrang like nya ung guy gusto na nyang mag live-in sila. And scared na baka iwan nalang sya kasi at some point na offend nya thru her questions. ☹️ kung madami ka namang pera ate, ung tipong sobra sobra para inyo ng anak mo, ipush mo na yan. Ipamigay mo lang pera mo, gora na! Pero kung sakto lang naman ung pera mo para sainyo ng 2 anak mo, tas hndi kapa sure sa finances ng partner mo; kukuha ka lang ng batong ipupuk-pok sa ulo mo.

Kapag broken Ka wag Ka mghanap Ng ibng Tao na pupuno nun .KC wlng mgndang ptutunguhan mostly na gnyn ang gngwa.ako ms gusto KO self time muna pra mkapg isip isip

OMG buhay pa si papa jack.

Nagmamaang maangan pa tong caller na toh!! Hahaha! " really im in a rush".. may gudness, kunyari pa. PLaying stupid.. LOL🤣🤣🤣.. HeLLo to you Papa Jackson!!❤️❤️❤️

Teh unahin mo muna mga anak mo .hindi sa paggng judgemental dalawa na po anak mo at mg kaiba ang ama sana naman this time be wise hindi ung kakakilala palang mag sasama n kyo agad .hindi mo pa sia masiadong kilala ANG BAGAY N MINAMADALI MABILIS den mawala ateng ..wag kng masiadong ata mag jowa hahahha jan ung dlwa mong anak it takes time ate para jan its to soon to live in parsng kang mawawala ng lalake .. 😅

Hay naku girl ..tama na yan

Sounds like desperate .. if u rushing urself into a relationship, expect no respect to a guy .. if u consider urself as expensive woman then be wise .. yong tipong hindi ka basta2 nakukuha sa isang tingin lang .. dapat maging feeling expensive .. hndi ung nagmumukhang ikaw pa naghahabol. Be smart sis. Magtigil ka nga, Dalawa na anak mo, pumermi ka muna kusa nman darating yan .. wait for a man who can fight the love u deserve ..

Parang kilala kita,,If im not mistaken BPO ka nag work,suki ka ng Tinder at madami ka tattoo

Katawa ka tlaga papa jack😂..ive been in same situation before,ive tried how many times to find a right guy then one time parang unti unti kong nanonotice na parang nagiging mamasang na ako😂,iniwan ko nlng siya para wala ng madaming prob😂😂😂

Duh, napakadali naman ng answer. OMG! Nagsasama na sa bahay ni girl tapos may balak magsama pero tinatanong kong right time naba pag usapan ang financial status? Graaaabe, i can't even.

Ate Di po sagot ang bagong lalaki pag may problema ka sa unang lalaki .. just fixed ur self first saka ka mag move forward to find another , kc pag nakuha ka ng mabilisan mabilisan din nawawala.. just saying

Girl has 2 kids (2 different fathers) .. that's a hard pill to swallow for a guy. Better give it more time to know the guy.

😂 somewhere north nga e! 😅

Naloka ako kay ate. 😂 Baka pag mag sama na sila mag turuan na lamg sila kung sino mag babayad sa mga kailangan bayaran at bilhin. 😂

She is his meal ticket.

Liz, focus ka muna sa 2 mong anak kung maari lang , baka mas kailangan nila ng atensyon mo kaysa sa ibang pag-ibig...at dapat kung mayrokn man darating kailang package deal yan 👍✌️

Pera Yan Ang kailangan na pinag uusapan na una Kasi pag Sinabi Ng guy na ikaw muna e isip isip ka na

Sinukuan ka na ni Papa Jackson.

Mukhang Makati din SI ateng😄 nagmamadali na Naman

Papa jack your the best 👍🥰

papa jackson only vaccinated lagi nacocomatose kya iwasan injection

So pag broken mkikipag stacation😅😅😅khit hindi pa sila

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nangongolekta ata panganay si ate

Bakit nag iisip ka agad na baka di nya kaya idate ka pag humiling ka

Alinganga ni Ate girl

To be honest the Guy he Treating you like a Sugar Mommy for Sure. He is not the Right guy For You. You better find someone who could love you for Real

Ai naku... 😅😅😅

Within 3 Weeks with this much engagement from listeners? Wow. I'ma barbie girl ang drama ni ateng haha! Be practical. Gusto nya ng matured na relationship but can't bring the relationship to that direction. Tpos would wonder in the end why things do not work 'cause she's afraid to face and address these things right away.

Gusto ni ate , maka-strike three bago magising.

Haaayyyyyy ate… nakaka irita yung mga dahilan mo.

longing for love si ate and more, wala sa tamang wisyo. Mahalin mo muna sarili mo, mga anak mo at una sa lahat ang Dios. Itutuwid nya mga mali sa buhay mo

Paano tumag pag nasa abroad like qatar? Sana mapansin

Wlang seseryoso syo kung gnyan ang klaseng set up ang gusto mu..think about ur kids..na kpag hnd ngwork ang "set up relationship" mu sa guy..iba na nman ipapakilala mu sa knila..i am not a perfect mom pro dpat bilang single mom set high standard sa lalaking papapasukin ntin sa buhay ntin llo na sa mga anak ntin..kc iicipin na lng nla na easy to get na kng ang mga single mom dhil sa gnagwa mu..

What you speak that comes from you should do it girl..ikaw ang nag offer nga kasi tapos questionen mo ngayon yan .

naku anteh ano ka kukuha ng papalamunin mo once n naumpisahan n ng gnyan n lgi xa short tuloy tuloy n yan wag tange ate naka 2 dapa ka na wg mo ng dagdagan susme un mga anak mo n lng pg gastusan mo.naman ante my gaddddd

Ssuusss, ate ano kala mo LAHAT Ng bagay ok lng?? 31 ka nga lng pro d mo alm pnu mpguusapan ang pera...

Hello papa jack pwede Po pahingi ng ka chat

You’re just afraid he’ll leave you ante when you can’t give any. You’re too much of a pleaser. 🙂

Ambot sa imo dai.. first meeting staycation agad.. tpos 1 week mo pa lng nka chat? Omg... Ingat nka magkaroon ka ng pang 3 tpos iba na nman tatay

Obvious naman na pineperahan lang siya ni guy. 😂

Now ko lang napakinggan tong kwento ng girl nato na ka lugar ko.parang kulang ung kwento mo girl kay papajack.feeling ko kasi hindi mo sinabi na c guy kasal at may asawa.haynako

Desperada c gurl😅

The guy olso take u for granted xempre alam niang down ka😂😂😂 tpos ikaw pa yung nag ka idea na mag staycation which ikaw ung my gustong may mangyari 😂😂😂😂gurl kawawa ka pag ganyan

😂😂😂alam mo ate ang dali ng problema mo,,yung pag hingi pa lng ng png gas eh..mag isip ka nga ate,,,tapos pag salita lng ng about money di mo pa magawa..nattakot ka na ma offend xa...mas ok nga you asking him,,at doon mo malalaman na kung mahal ka nya..

Hello papa jack pwede Po pahingi ng ka chat😅

SD HANAP MO TEH😂😂😂

Nako naman si ate . 31 y/o na. Teenager yern

jusko 2 na anak in diff man.. pwede bang ang anak muna isipin then after makakahanap kadin ng totoo para sau saka first na magkitta 2night book in the resort agad kung aku lalaki iba iisipin ko wag niu po aku i bash kz iba iba nga ang tao pero pinablic nya problem nya kaya pwede makialam

Sori to say pro dhil din syo kya gnyan ang guy..he will take advantage on u cos u allow him and let him to do that..think about ur kids and their expences..i might give and buy everything for my kids than spending to someone i barely know..and no aasurance at all

Kya pla 2 anak nya at mag kaiba ama...?

Juice mayonnaise ang hanap mo eh mayaman, gusto mo pag maisipan mo lang umalis anytime aalis kayo.

c ateng may dalawa ng anak pero need pa rin ng guidance ng magulang.

the big problem is you think you're no longer teenagers, but acting like a child... don't know how to communicate and face problem head on... You're not even independent minded in the real definition...

mag asawa or partner ka ng mayaman teh business man like henry sy and all mga mayaman..and dapat financially independent ka teh wag puro dependent sa lalaki if you want more gala

Si papa jack pala ang original ng TAMA O MALI,,ganyang gaya ni banat by😂

Epokrita ni Ate caller

Heading to a disaster c caller

Sis is scared to lose a guy. Scarcity mindset 🫤

Ang arte ni ateng caller kainis nagmamaang maangan pa na hindi issue ung pera eh. Hays! Ate dalawa na anak mo, sana this time maging wiser ka pagdating sa lalaki. Maging hard to get ka naman. For now isipin mo muna anak mo nang hindi ka naguguluhan. Pray muna bago pumasok sa isang relationship, hindi ung pasok agad now tas problema later🫣🙄

Parang easy going lng tong babae kahit na matanda kna dapt nag kamali kna then you need to be matured😂😂

super arte hahaha

Nakakaloka si ate umayos ka ate may mga anak ka

Matindi ang kati ni ateng, i didnt hear her talk about her kids..puro lang labing2 nya with d guy...my gulay. Grow up gurl. Kawawa mga junakis nito

shes 38, but i think she think like 18, d nya alam gnagawa nya, 2 na anak nya at sa magkaiba pa na lalake, im pretty sure the pattern will continue with that kind of thinking, sabi nga ng parents nya, may lalaki ka na naman, parang may gusto nga sya patunayan sa mga tao, or bka hinahanap lng nya katawan nya ng sex kaya mabilis sya

Te wag ka mag feelingers especially when u talk di bagay sau 😅 nakakairita 2 na anak di pa natuto letse

kati lang yan teh 😅

lastly bakit ba sobrang gusto mo sya i-please??? ang kulit mo eh. puro ka how can i tell him without offending him? if gusto nya din na magleave in kayo dapat ok din sakanya na na pagusapan lahat including finances!! bat ka matatakot?!!! anyway paulit ulit na sinasabi sayo ung RED FLAGS and pinapaintindi sayo pero puro ka defensive… hahahaa 😄 tama yan good luck nalang tlga sa doomed from the start relationship nyo

serious/long term pala hanap mo pero bakit gusto mo iskip ung getting to know stage esp kakakilala mo palang sakanya tapos gusto mo pa maglive in together? kaloka ka girl. ndi mo pa paguusapan ung financial… ngyon palang wala na sya pang gas. papano kayo pag live in na kayo tapos wala syang pambayad ng rent? andaming red flag sa situation nyo 😅😅