Calling Our Mothers on the Podcast | Chunkz & Filly Show | Episode 21 

Lawrence is such an unexpected integral part of the pod, when he was first added I was happy cuz I like Lawrence but didn’t know if he would be a good fit, but he actually adds a lot

The whole pin pon section got me crying 😭 , when he said did she want the world to have a final look at him , whatttt🤣🤣

I love when Lawrence interjects at times, it elevates the conversation at times

She said “YEAH! SAY NO MORE” 😂😂😂😂 🙌🏽 Fillys mum is on another level 👸🏽

Lawrence needs his own camera frame. Like he is just as much part of this podcast as Chunkz and Filly at this point. Blessings to all you though. ✨🙏🏼

Filly's mom had me gassed with that, "Say no more". He need to bring her on the pod, I swear loool

How awkward Chunkz gets when pinpon is brought up is hilarious 😂

As a married woman for almost 7 years and very very close to my parents and I love my 2 boys so much but its husband, kids, parents. One day my boys will leave me and get married God willing, and i pray they put their wife first. Before getting married i never would think anyone could come before my parents. Chunkz and Filly I feel like once you two get married your perspective will change 🙏🏾

Need a lawrence cam seeing the banter and back and forth of you three having a deep convo was real nice. It was nice just having the trio and no guest after a while the deep convos always nice too

I’m really trying to petition for Lawerence’s face cam .. cause what he said at 15:21 has me rolling 😂😂😭

Chunkz is probably the most genuine and intelligent person in the entertainment industry

As a married person, i agree with Laurence (wife, kid, parents). Your parent's understand that and they have the same order. Some factors may result in changes, for example cultures and religion. Happy wife happy life is the most true and evident statement. When you prioritise your wife, she will in result be happy and in result the kid will benefit. Because your wife and kid are now happy, you have time to visit your parents. It's a order that makes sense.

I am married. Have been with my husband for 7 years. It’s definitely spouse, kids, and mom. As a christian, (which I am) when you get married, you become one with your spouse so in a sense, its like, how can you put someone else above another part of yourself?? I think you have to secure your home first and make your home as happy as possible. You never want your spouse to subconsciously feel inadequate. At the same time, for me, my mom and spouse both understand the order and love and respect each other to the point that there are never force me to choose one over another-they always tell me to pick the other person out of respect. Hope that makes sense. Love the pod!

Filly is actually such a good actor. Like you can see the emotions in his acting.

Filly goes into character so naturally, I feel like he could potentially b a great actor

I am married for about 6 months and got a 8year old daughter. The correct order is Wife>Kids>Parents.. the reason behind it is.. after you leave your parents house you are supposed to live with the wife and live with her and raise kids together.. and after your kids grow, they will also leave to their partners.. the only one that will stick by you till the end will be your wife.. hence why the order is that way! Love love

Been married for 27 years and have two sons (25 and 21). My opinion has always been Wife, Kids, then Mom. The moment you marry your wife is first and foremost in your life. It is you and your wife against the world. It doesn't mean you don't love your Mom, but but your inner circle changes when you marry. Just my opinion.

It’s Wife, Kids then Mum. People don’t understand how important marriage is, it’s literally two people making a promise to God that you will be with this person for the rest of your life. You become a partnership, and as a Man it’s our duty to protect our new family & honour the marriage. One day your wife will be the only person there when you’re sick/old. Edited: I feel like people don’t actually understand how important and holy Marriage is. Society has damaged the way people look at Marriage. (Western World mainly)

I used to prioritize my kids until I realized that the head of the family unit is me and my husband. If we're not good, then that seeps down to the kids, and the whole family unit gets impacted by it. The thing is, it's easy to prioritize your children. It actually comes really natural as a parent (especially as a mom). But if your actions go unchecked, you can end up becoming nit picky and micro aggressive towards your spouse, who is the only person that actually understands what you're going through. Raising children is a blessing but it's not an easy task, but what's important is that you guys are in it together. Then one day your kids will eventually grow up, move out and have families of their own. If you spent the last 30 years prioritizing them instead of your spouse, what happens when they leave? You're left with a stale marriage and essentially a roommate. I decided that's not what I wanted for my marriage so I started prioritizing him first.

Whenever I see it’s no guest episode, I would sometimes go ‘is it worth watching?’ Then when I play it in the background, I’m suddenly tuned in and listening to every word, they speak so maturely and on a deep level, proud of you guys.

"theres one in hoxton" killed me man

"... and the rest, init" 😭 gotta love women like Filly's Mum 50:28 ❤

50:27 “and the rest init” I’m absolutely finished 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

the sly mention of filly sitting in the back cause he doesn’t have his license anymore is TOO FUNNY

Honestly the only thing I look forward to on a Thursday. Keep it up with the podcast.

This is such a good question. In the Bible order, the spouse comes first before kids and parents. Matthew 19:5: And Jesus said, “‘This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.’

When yall were talking about if u cutting a friend constitutes as forgiveness, in my opinion forgiveness doesn't always mean reconciliation or maintaining a close relationship with the person who hurt you. Sometimes, it means acknowledging the harm done, letting go of negative emotions, and making choices that are in your best interest, even if that means distancing yourself from the person who caused you pain. GREAT POD THO, Lawrence has been a dope part of the podcast!!!

I truly love your guys energy man. Such interesting convos as well. Feeling like one gets to know you through a screen

Love you getting the mumzies involved, and love hearing you both talk in your different languages a side we dont always see of u both. Love the podcast i wait all week for it to come! Xxx

The guest are cool but I love it when it’s just the two of y’all

18:39 WOW, thank you Chunkz. I never really understood that saying "forgive & forget" forgive yes, but how can I forget? But you put it into proper perspective and understanding. Thank you for your wisdom 💛

Nah man Lawrence is funny af too, he makes this podcast even more entertaining imo

If Chunkz and Filly can get their mums and PinPon on the Pod, that will be the episode of the year! 🙏

Hands down my favorite episode thus far!!!…. The topics were top tier, the perspective were so interesting, honesty and very much understandable. I loved when the fellas called their moms such a dope moment and you can hear the passion behind their answers. Keep up the amazing epi’s

I honestly love the episodes with just these two the most. Their friendship, their stories, their banter is perfect on its own. They truly don’t need guests, but as long as they enjoy having people on they should keep doing it. I’m just saying they are magic together just them two✨👏🏻 And Lawrence is amazing as well to be honest. He is actually a great addition, but I don’t count him as a guest😆🫶🏻

Chunkz singing at the start of a pod is the best thing ever.

ILL NEVER GET TIRED OF THESE PODCAST HONESTLY HIGHLIGHT OF MY WEEK!

Easily the best podcast right now, 1 hour is criminal though! I need at least 2! 💯

Love this podcast fr, supporting from new zealand and wake up at 5 am every Friday to listen to this podcast. This ep was too good I didn’t want it to end, and big up Lawrence. 🙌🏾🙌🏾

I've watched each and every pod you've done, cause you guys are probably my favorite RU-vid duo. And this has to be the best pod you've done.

You guys are the best! A podcast that has a combination of everything really! To the deep belly laughs to the important and informative conversations! I enjoyed watching this episode a lot❤️

15:21 has just made me burst out laughing, so unintentionally cold from Lawrence and Filly's face, "what do you mean by that?"

This deep conversation like the forgiveness bit is so good to watch like I love how real you guys kept it.

Great episode ❤❤❤❤

Nothing wrong with forgiving and then keeping your distance.Great pod guys🔥

I really like you guys' take on forgiveness. Honestly have been on and off questioning myself if cutting someone off is a way of forgiveness.

honestly this the only podcast that ive been able to watch and finish and even watch all the other episodes, and it even mmade me watcgh almost all the beta videos and chunkz's videos, filly's videos as well as harry pineros, love these guys so much

my favourite ep really enjoyed this one man

For me personally.. kids wife mom... No love is stronger than what you have for your kids.. Your wife gave you your kids and is there for you and your kids. Your mom has lived her life and now understands the situation.

Fillys mum sounds the best. I lost my mum 14 years ago love the relationships you man have with your mum.. keep them close ❤💙

Everyone needs a friend like Chunkz bro!! God bless his heart

i think this is a perfect representation that two things can be true at once - no one person is “right” - this teaches people integrated intelligence - disagreements shows so much about the people and their point of views that there really isn’t a “right or wrong” way of thinking , it’s just the way people think due to their own life experiences

I think this conversation is super important and very timely especially the forgiveness part it was very wise from both parts. 👏🏽👏🏽

Another one 🙌🏿 had to call in sick to work today this is the perfect thing to watch while recovering

Absolutely love them both, such a nice podcast to watch. Well done guys, congrats 🥳 xx

I looooooooove the deep conversations guys keep it up❤❤

I really love these types of podcasts where its just chunckz and fill chattin

As a married man the order is: Wife Kids Parents Guys/girls that aren’t married think of it like this! When your parents pass & your kids leave home who is still there for you? YOUR WIFE

This was defo one of the best eps so far

I really really enjoyed this podcast. I have only recently started watching you guys and I really really enjoy listening

Y’all need to bring AJ SHABEEL this guy hasn’t been on any podcasts and he probably has fun stories to tell

ah gents. ALL ROUND great episode. HUGE shout to loz and what he brings to the show. keep it coming. big love from south africa🇿🇦✊🏽♥️

I love this episode it’s actually amazing I also love the part where they called they’re moms❤

Loved this episode! The part where they called their mums was so wholesome 🥺

Chunkz and Filly the duo always🔥🔥🔥

Love this podcast ❤

You guys made me want to get on a podcast. Your questions are always really good and deep. I am a deep thinker. Therefore, i like these sort of questions. Forgiving someone is not easy, but it can be done and you never forget it cause at points in your life you just reflect on it and you either to choose to forgive again no matter how it makes you feel and use it as life experience where you grow from it. We choose to trust people yet the choice of being up for their trust falls on their shoulders. Forgiving is always an option but forgetting comes by time and how far you have moved from the specific issue in your life. Love your guy's work keep doing it brothers y'all are amazing proud of you both.

Love the Show

love when they upload actually makes my day.

Chunkz and Filly mum's are awesome. Big ups to all the mums in world❤️

Loved this episode ❤

Best pod ever! Love you lot so relatable! Perfect balance between jokes and being serious! 🎉🎉

No!!! Witch and the scarecrow has me dying!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️ loved this episode!🙏🏽🙏🏽🤣❤️

''I just wanna link God'' had me😂😂

great episode, so much here for a young person to learn. this is what a man to man podcast should look like!!! 👏🏾

This is already my favourite podcast😂❤ the banter and the brotherhood 👏🏾

I like how you guys include the guy behind the cam aswell, always fun

1. God 2.Husband 3. Kids 4. Extended family. This is why relationships break down because the unity isn't united. The family you create becomes more important than the family you came from because your responsibility dynamic changes. When the parents are happy the home is happy. When 1 parent is unhappy the whole house is unhappy. People need to know how to love equally whilst respecting the order of the home.

Honestly my favourite podcast rn 👏🏾

Not a chance on this earth am I watching #21 of this pod already👀 keep em coming man, shxts n gigs along with chip gotta be best 2 eps

Best way to spend your afternoons.

An hour before iftar with nothing to do Chunkz and Filly show comes in clutch respect

Filly’s laugh is contagious 🤣💀 ! Thank you guys for this amazing episode God bless both of you ❤️!

Love how both these guys speak their native language fr , i swesr we need at least 1 person each from you guys family to come on the podcast ❤

Chunks mom is so funny she really said “iiday ha ii waalinee waad ii waa li nee saa” meaning basically stop stressing me out 😂😂😂😂😂 gotta love our Somali moms

1. Kids 2. Wife 3. Mom 4. Dad My mom sacrificed a lot but she also made sure to make us know how much she resents her sacrifices every step along the way. She pit us against each other and alienated us siblings from each other. I forgive her , I love her, and I will never be able to repay her sacrifices but for my own sake I have had to sideline her in my own life. She relentlessly pushes her own agenda, and she's tried to drive a wedge between me and wifey just so she can fulfill her vision of me having the kind of bride she'd envisioned for me. Dad was just watching TV in silence my entire life, we're basically strangers to one another so he comes in last ngl

Loveeeeeeeee this episode ❤. I wished I was there I had a lot of thoughts to share. Keep it up 👍🏽

GREAT EPISODE!

Love how much these 2 love their mums 🥹

Filly’s laughter makes-me-LAUGH! 🤣🤣🤣

Love these two❤

I enjoyed this episode so much.

Naaaah, Filly’s mom is A REAL ONE. God bless her always and Que Dios la cuide siempre. SAY NO MORE! ❤

As a married Muslim, we cannot put an order. Mother and wifes love and connection are different. They are both just as important Putting an order will be an injustice to the other

I just love these guys!!!!!!! When filly said I can’t wait to link god and ask these questions I just love love love that cuz I feel the exact same way

Great episode

Tbh it’s kids, spouse, and then mom. In a situation where I have all 3 by Gods grace, my children will always be first in my family hierarchy

CHUNKZ X FILLY = BEST DUO EVER ❤❤ LOVE UR POD GUYSSSSS

Ayyyye 🎉 I'm loving Lawrence voice over Yes man 😂 Love this show so much n through topics raised.. Thanku Chunkz n Filly 4 never disappointing with the subjects raised ca they're needed in this day n age!! BIG UUP YOURSELVES 🆙️🆙️🆙️🙌🏾💫🫶🏾❤️😁🎉🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 Looking 4ward 2 More Content

really enjoyed this one