Much to her mother's dismay Cami Li is adamant on getting a black dress for her wedding day. Catch Say Yes to the Dress on TLC - Sky 133, Virgin 162, BT TV 323
Yup, encountered this card so much that whenever my mom gets like that, I want to tell her to go die already. I was scared at first but after a while it just got annoying.
@@orphanedhanyou absolutely not. Just because you’re paying doesn’t mean you can impose your tastes on someone else special day. It’s not the parents wedding. They shouldn’t offer to pay if they don’t like what she chooses
@@orphanedhanyou nah uh, its like saying cause im paying you, you should select the college i want u to go to and take the course i want u to. People aren't objects u control with money.
YESSSSSSS but how Disney is right now we will get another live action movie we did not want and take out the good/ "controversial" parts ~cough Mulan cough~
@@alfwinnn4224 Ugh, amen. Mulan is one of my favorites and they're practically making it into what THEY want, not the people. I'd love if Camilla had her own movie or show.
I love that the mom realizes her fault in saying the the day that i die line because not all moms would admit to saying something wrong. This is one of my all time favorite episodes of say yes to the dress
1:26 “This is my wedding dress, woman!” 3:04 “You’d think that everyone in the peanut gallery would be happy, BUT NO!!” 3:29 “Send me to the nunnery!” OMFG I’m cackling so hard at Cami’s comments! 🤣
The only thing the black one matched was her hair. She looked good in all of them but the white one suited her the most imho. Edit- If she hadn't said a word about "matching her black heart" and liking black so much, no one would have thought the black dress was the right one to go with for a wedding dress. So basically she had to talk about her Aura for everyone to agree which is not really her aura shining through at all. It's just her convincing others with her words. There's a difference.
she also is the one who has to end up keeping the wedding dress. it's gonna be imortalized in pictures ect. it's sad when the bride gets hate for what she wants on her day, moms , sisters, or even jealous friends who take over the whole wedding and choices like it's THEIR day but they aren't the ones walking down the isle.
No but it's her mother, she have the right to say what she feels, like when you get married you Wil not listen to your mom. Her mother cares about her appearance
@@GhostofaFangirl will ur mom agree.... Most of the mother's will not agree for something they don't like.... In your wedding you think you will choose what you want but do you think your mom will let you wear something she don't like?
WOOOW this episode was a roller coaster for me. Her mom is EXACTLY like my mom, even culturally (shout out to Caribbean moms lol). A lot of people may call her narcissistic; and it's true that so many of the traits are there, and in my case unfortunately there were a lot of challenges growing up. But I am my mom's whole life, and since the day I was born her entire life has been about me. That moment her mom realized what she had said was so hurtful and that she was crushing her daughter brought me to tears, remembering all the times my mom verbally stabbed me in the heart and then regretted it. She has the sharpest tongue I know, but she also has a really big heart, and she's worked really hard to reconcile the two.
Totally agree me and my mother have the same dynamic coming from a Latino household moms are very similar but they do love us hard! And my mom’s my whole heart too
This is the perfect example of family. The bride realized how important the white dress was to the mother and was willing to switch for her and her mother realized how much she mattered to her daughter and that she wanted her daughter to be happy
I can totally understand her. As soon as I told people that I wanted a blush pink dress and everyone was hating on me and was telling me it had to be white. I said it my WEDDING. They just wouldn't leave me alone. So I got tired of everyone trying to control me, so... just didn't invite them. 😊 I had a small wedding with only my best friend and his two best friends. It was drama free and intimate. ✨️
I wore a black rockabella dress with white dots at the of- shoulder sleeves and at the dress hem end ( it also had white buttons onfront)me,my hubby,my inlaws andmy mother loved it so much....and then there was the rest of my family "you should have worn a wedding dirndl or wedding costume " I f**** hate everything about dirndl and studf
@@yuzu8709 Let's not make a list of the many horrible things parents say to their kids. Honestly I think calling your own child disgusting out of anger or contempt is one of the worst
My parents been saying that since I was 12. It’s stating to follow every sentence that comes out of there mouths.I don’t see how it’s psychologically damaging though.
I absolutely hate when parents mainly mothers pull the “when I die” or “the day that I die” LIKE STOP.Parents don’t always realize how heart shattering that is to hear
The mum did mention that she said it without thinking and she felt very guilty for saying it! She acknowledged that what she said and did the wrong thing! Give her credit!
It makes me so so angry that she got convinced to change her mind and wear the white one. That first black dress matched her PERFECTLY, and she looked gorgeous. Her mother and sister are so toxic.
when my future daughter gets married, she can wear whatever dress she wants. honestly i wouldn’t care if it was white, black, red, etc. like i realize it’s her day not mine
@@nehaumapathy443 same but I'm not having kids lol, so maybe if I become a bridesmaid I won't critique I'll make sure they they're happy in whatever they wear
Yeah but some moms knows what's best for their child and they have all the rights to tell them what should they choose coz mom and dad is the one who made us...without them we won't even be born like they have all the right to tell us what should we do...my mom is like that and i don't care about my decision or what i wanna do...i just know that whatever my mom saying to me is for my own good thing and obeying them would just make them happy and that's what my happiness is but yeah ya'll are not strict and would let ya'll child choose whatever they want although i won't say it's a good thing i mean you should control and choose what's best for them yourself or else they might choose a wrong decision but yeah it's your choice your life
@@agilepanda3358 I understand what you're saying but I think this should imply only when the children are still minors. I would say after they are adults or as an adult have left the house it shouldn't apply to them anymore because they are adults can do whatever they want. Parents can give advice, but we shouldn't have to always listen to them. We have to make our own serious choices and mature from them, that's how you grow up. You at some point have to live for yourself and your own happiness(gotta make sure it's legal though) even if it means going against what others believes that are closest to you
Omg honestly though! And the low cut in the front looked as if it was made specifically to match her sternum tattoo and it just complimented her so much! From what I've seen attempting to hide tattoos always looks worse than finding a dress that beautifully frames them all.
That first dress was to DIE for. That dress was made for this bride. Amaaaaazing. They make black dresses with white trim and vice versa. Maybe both colors would satisfy both women...
I really don't like her for how she's talking to her mother. Like Learn how to respect elders bitch!!! Absolutely disgusting. The black dress idea is amazing but she should handle her mother in a tactful way. Not like that
@@blahblahblahbleh5278 She ends up getting the white dress anyway. That is her mother and that is their relationship. To you it may be disrespectful but to them it's normal.
Malvindee Fernando you can tell that she cares for her mother but they have a more friendship relationship it was meant to be taken as a joke, not in a disrespectful way
The first black dress was AWESOME on her, better than the second. Her tattoos just added to look, and the cut of it really helped make the chest tattoo pop! I don't know what her sisters were thinking, it wasn't a "dead bride" look. It was a goth punk look which really suited her and her loud, bombastic personality! Honestly she didn't need to try on any others, she was on fire with that first one!
@@missurielleshakirthesiren-3866 but that's her wedding not theirs,they shouldn't be that forcing about the dress even if they trying to advise,mom have already got her wedding doesn't need her daughter to have a wedding that is all planned just like what the mom wanted its hers
@@EstherWesther It’s her wedding day true. But the Mother of the bride should have a say. She has been dreaming of seeing her daughter go down the aisle as well. And they didn’t have a gun to her head they are Advisors’s. They were assertive not forceful. Every one needs leaders and advisors to tell them what to do. Leaders ( not to be confused with Dictators) give people hope & advisors help with decisions. Even the President has Advisors.
@@missurielleshakirthesiren-3866 but she can't just pick everything thath should be on her daughter wedding especially the dress,she could have just told her something about the dress that's bad not the colours,even the groom is surprise seeing the bride in white when the bride wanted a black one,black isn't even a bad color don't you think she's bored with white like everybody always see a plain white dress no other colours,her mother just act like the child gonna love it while she dont,just imagine later on she had a grandchild,the grandchild wanted a black or blue dress but the mother doesn't allow her saying "blue is for boys only,you cant get that!" Or "you cant have black,its dark colour you should pick pink",like she just gonna pick everything for the girl instead of letting the girl pick it by herself,even if she advise she cant just tell the girl to pick white and change the black she could have tell her to just change the dress type not the colour,just because she carried her for 9 monthh and gave birth to her she could have raise her in a bad way like if she wanna go visit a friend and she answered "no,you're not allowed to!",maybe she seem good at the camera doesn't mean she's good behind the camera,i do agree that she should have a say but she just have all the say!a mother should respect the child opinion and choices exept for the bad ones not telling them to change their opinion and choices just so the mother will be happy,what about the child?is she happy?the mother is obv happy that her daughter is getting a white dress,the daughter only did that so her mother will be happy and doesn't see her as a dissapointment,even some already wear gray dress to the wedding but the bride ended up wearing white,the girl wanted a black dress but got white,how will she have the wedding of her dreams?.
@@missurielleshakirthesiren-3866 Its her wedding day, the mother should express opinions, but shouldn't guilt trip the bride. Thr mother doesn't have a say in what her daughter should wear and be happy she gets to see her daughter getting married. All opinions matter of course, but when you keep hurting your daughter all because of the color of a wedding dress, thats wrong.
The first dress was absolutely beautiful. I liked how she stated what she wanted and didn't let her entourage tell her what to get. I feel bad that she didn't continue to stand her ground by telling them that the wedding dress is her choice. Not only that, the dress she ended up with did look good on her, but you can tell the black dress was what her heart wanted. Once again, a bride on this show gets controlled by their entourage.
She looks absolutely gorgeous in black, the first wedding dress looked like it was made specifically for her. Black is just her color, she really owns it. Her tattoos really pop as well and overall, she looks beautiful. ☺🖤 I relate so much to this, because my mom probably wants to see me in a typical white princess dress, but I look awful in white. Black is just my color and I really want to walk down the aisle in a black wedding dress.
I hate the fact that EVERYONE was wanting her to have a white dress when she looked absolutely stunning in the black ones, and who the fuck do they think they are to ostracize her for not wanting the traditional white dress? I myself want a black wedding dress and the ones she tried are gorgeous.
@@armystaytiny9913 Okay? And..? It's really no ones business on the color of dress she wears even if it "Looks like shes going to married the dead person" it's still her wedding and choice and they have no right to be dicks about it.
I think they all just thought that the black dress would give her a bad reputation or a bad image on her wedding day infront of everyone and they didn't want that to happen. This is just my opinion on the situation tho 🙂 it could also be traditional purposes or maybe no one really understood her style. It sometimes happens to me when I go to shopping with my mom and dad 😂 they don't understand me well enough 😑
They all acknowledged the fact the black dresses all looked good on her but not suitable for wedding especially when her tattooed back made them cringe.
I beg to differ. What I see is their closeness honestly and the fact that she choose to wear a white gown in the end to please her mom was sweet. She's a woman who knows what she wants. A bit forward maybe.
@@johanna5688She is a beautiful woman with cool tattoos. If the children are raised right, they would be accepting and not insensitive like you are :))
@@johanna5688 Maybe she doesn't want to have children? Maybe if she does her kids will love her for who she is? My dad has tattoos and my mom has her belly button pierced and that doesn't make me love them any less.
@phoe3030 phoe3030 You are the trash here. You go away. If you get tattoos, expect to be judged. Since when do ladies get tattooed? This is why all the actresses from long ago looked great. Their skin was smooth & flawless. This is what we were taught, to have clear beautiful skin. What's wrong with that??
That's because mothers, if they have daughters, will always try to imagine their daughters in a wedding dress at some point (because it is such a huge deal). I know when my day comes (if it ever comes), my mother will be over me like a hawk, but thankfully I also trust her because she knows what works with me as well.
I agree. It’s the daughters day to find a dress where they feel special in I know most daughters want their mom to agree that it looks beautiful on them but it’s you who gets to choose what dress you want to where on your special day and that was a messed up and cruel thing to say to your daughter that when she (the mom) dies they’re gonna remember this conversation that is a horrible thing to think about and say to your child 😠 one of a child’s worst fear is losing their parent especially the mom and for her to say that just I have no words but it’s cruel and messed up
Its LITERALLY HER WEDDING why would she ever have to compromise for anyone? That comment about her death day was heartbreaking and disgusting. people telling me to mind my own, this is a youtube comment section im confused why youre saying im being judgemental? what else am i supposed to do?
Hey dont be hard on the mom her daughter already look likes she has a attitude too. Look mom just wants what best for their kids and when they were younger everyone wore a simple white, time has change, mom needs to get use to that. And plus they're are way nastier parents than her
Wolfie GAcha devil some people play with their family like that; my family does and we all know it’s just in jest, probably what she was doing with her mom
I love that her mother realized she hurt her daughter’s feelings and paid attention to her. Some moms just think because they are mom only their feelings matter.
Omgosh girl I know!! A good example is this one mom who laughed in her daughters face when she had found her dress, idk the title but even Randy was pissed and had to walk away
Exactly. My mom always thought,and still does think,that because the is the mom only her feelings matter and its damaging to kids,or anyone for that matter. I still cant live normally because of it
“Black again, Camilla? But you promised you’d wear a white one now!” “I didn’t promise anything! Who are you talking to?” “TO YOU!?” *”NO!”* lol this family deserves a TV show
The white just looked unnatural on her to me. The Black was GORGEOUS. And the fact that she loved the black a lot better makes her look even more beautiful.
