Thank goodness someone knows the truth some what 😅 Ps Shawn will always love her and she will always love him it may be rough now but that friendship that was always their will never go away hopefully 🤞🏼
Well whose fkin fault is that then? Women can literally have their ideal man right in front of them but they’ll always be searching for the next best thing. Never fully happy and content with what they have. If you’re lonely after the breakup, why Tf did you break up 😂😂with
Even without relationships she's a human she got human skin that's gonna look dry or hella oily and get spots or more darker bags sometimes. Let her exist lol
It's just human to bloat from stress, work, periods, ovulation, meds ect. Or gain/lose weight from holidays stress of work demands, sleep patterns, ect
I work out every day, and my girl works out with me every day. She ain't gonna get fat nor am I. Being in a relationship gives you motivation to look your best, not be a lazy turd.
This is toxic. She said herself she put on weight due to covid and lockdown and felt comfortable in her relationship. She’s always looked good and she was happy. You can’t compare street photos to photoshoots.
I saw a lot of comments saying that he was cruel with her. Wtf? Even Camila said that's their relation was good, being friends or whatever. People always wanna talk about him like he's a villain. She even said that she felt uncomfortable when she couldn't eat what she wanted. The only thing I see is that she was happy but things are not always how we want 🤷🏻♀️
Shem is an angel and camila was an overdue gift to him bc he was Soo good to hailey but never happy then he was Soo happy with camila and it made my heart melt
They actually say you gain weight when you’re in a good relationship because you’re happy and comfortable and relaxed and aren’t hyper focused on your appearance
@@yes-gs2rd Women usually gain weight after a couple kids and thats totally fine for a husband. Camilla putting on weight without even having a kid was bound to doom their relationship. Its like she wasn't even trying anymore.
She looked good either way. And how her weight went up when she was dating Shawn just shows how comfortable she is with him and how well he treated her.
True. I don't like how people always say weight gain means bad relationship. It could simply mean that person is happy and comfortable. People, especially a lot of women worry about weight and how they're seen but once they get a good relationship they realize someone loves them no matter what and they can calm down and be happy however they are. I have an ed and was really small but once I met my bf I gained weight, not massive amount but I got a little chubbier. This was cause I finally found someone that loves me how I am and even made me feel good about the body parts I've been taught to hate all my life
I some cases the person gains weight due to the psychological abuse she suffers in a relationship... I am not saying it's her case. I don't think it was. But gaining weight is not always about being comfortable, sometimes it's cause the person is not taking care of herself, not being encouraged to... I've seen it's before
She is also, very evidently, a woman in her early twenties with the weight fluctuations the female human body experiences. AND she is attractive. We can absolutely stop pretending that a healthy body is somehow not that because it is not exactly the ideal. I think we can let her live like that.
Absolute nonsense who brainwashed you? Being slim is healthy and a sign of self respect, likely she realised that it’s not ok to let herself go and get fat as high value attractive guys don’t want fat girls
Yeah it's so weird because I've noticed a theme between their music, Camila Cabello's "pretty when I cry" lyrics are kinda sad but the beat is happy, and then Shawn Mendes's "Why Why Why" it's the same and he's smiling so much but his lyrics are so so sad I feel like he's hiding something
During him: unedited paparazzi photos of her laid back After him: photos you found on Pinterest that got edited before the people who posted it edited even more
The real reason she's like that while with him is because she feels confident and she feels loved, even if she's getting on the curvy side. I believed they broke up because they were both busy building their careers, but they remained friends. So, Shawn didn't do her any harm or anything, but rather, he loved her and gave her confidence.
@@mehmeteray1907 she’s not overweight, she’s compacted due to her height. Also Europeans are far more skinny than most people can be, so if you guys call that overweight, I’d hate to see how you guys treat plus sized women.
@@user-my3rb3zi8q I am saying a thing called a joke. Idk why you are so offended. Also, don't you think you should care for your body? If you are overweight you are unhealthy in 99.99% of the time (some people are overweight from eating a lot of healthy food, which means that their fat is stored under their skin, not around their organs). If she is more careful with here diet she can be healthy.
@@step2807 camila publicly didnt admit it but her conversation got leaked. And it was pretty obvious what happened. Camila was so in love w him u can see that on every video so why’d she want to break up? And shawn started hanging out with other girls as soon as they broke up. Camila’s La buena vida song’s lyrics says it all
@@what.are.you.doing.stepbro and if he broke up with her bc of her weight gain than u can't blame him for that,bc he never let himself go, Plus it's really unfair to him that she didn't work on her weight when she was with him,not his fault..I mean why'd he be with someone he doesnt find attractive ?
@@sam_9329 i mean if he didn’t like her weight he could’ve just told her to lose weight instead of just dumping her. When u love someone u don’t leave them the moment they gain a little weight. Weird how he said every song he has EVER written was about Camila. She didn’t wanna be in a relationship first but he tried again n again. And when he got her favorite toy, he got bored of it and left it for a new toy. Typical loser behavior. U don’t do that to someone u claimed to love more than anything. You could see tear lines on almost all of her pics when they broke up
This is just a woman who felt she didn't have to be slim for him. And was confident he'd love her no matter how she looked. #edit WOW 20k likes....thanks y'all
I mean, people do get lazy, keeping up with your appearances isn’t a bad thing, being lean isn’t bad, nor is wanting to be or preferring it. Good on her for feeling comfortable a bit chunkier and good on her for slimming down again
@@daxlucero2437 not if you're doing it for someone else. Most people in the showbizz industry feel the pressure to "keep up appearance" due to the negativity surrounding the standards the industry portraits.
@@Akinyelle82 the standards the industry portrais? You mean nature? Men like slim woman. Deal with it. Woman can leave a men who went broke behind and everybody is fine. So if a man who has options wants a slim woman, he should get one. Or more.
Shawn Mendes is one of the most uncontroversial respectable sweetest celebrity out there. He’s an absolute gentlemen who made her feel comfortable to be her and not worry about how she looked. He literally made all of his songs dedicated to her gtfo
@@ST-vg3vsexactly. “past”, he has WAY matured than what he has become now. he has apologized and has become someone who supports so much in many foundations and diversity.
Ehhhh we don’t know that. Songs are one thing but we have NO idea what happened when they weren't being recorded. And actually, it is a VERY common thing for a woman to look hot, when her partner gets jealous and punishes her in some way for looking hot in his jealousy, which eventually causes her to let herself go because every time she looked hot he made a problem out of it. Happens to men to but more often women.
Shawn is a great guy. He never once made her feel like she's ugly or fat. He accepted her just who she is, making her confident enough to go bareface. She doesn't need to glam up just to stay beside him. She was the most comfortable on being herself when she's with him. Now they broke up of course she needed to vent all her depression and anxiety on doing something to make her busy like exercise. It's true she had a lot of time now for herself. But if you're saying she look like that because she's with him, well let me tell you... That's something she decided on herself. She don't feel the need to constantly obsess over her appearance since Shawn loves him whatever she looks like or however she acts.
@@brandonlee747 I've watched a lot of their interviews together and the reasons for their break up😊 I really respect this two people so I don't like it when people are painting them wrong😊 you know, when they make someone look bad just to bring up the other one😊
@@chine209 to keep it simple Shawn stated back then that they love each other dearly but they decided to break up due to some personal reasons. He also said that since they started as bestfriend they will continue to be best buddies even if they're going a separate path now. I just saw this on some of the videos I've watched back then. So whatever it is that I'm sharing here are just things I've already seen on their Instagram, RU-vid and some articles. You can listen to Shawn's song It'll Be Okey and needless for me to explain you'll understand his feelings for her once you listen to the song😊
I know nothing about this relationship, but a woman (especially a celebrity, my God) feeling comfortable enough to relax and let herself gain a bit of weight is a major sign of a healthy relationship. Also, *damn* I want her hips.
She got lazy is what you mean. if i fall in love with a 150lb women you better stay around 150lbs. IF i wanted a chubby women i would go after a chubby women
@DoubleTapThatDotty Wow, I pity any woman who falls in love with you rn. You've got a lot of growing up to do and a whole lot of misogyny you need to work through.
Why do people insist in focusing on woman's body??? Let it be! This post tries to show that she's better now that she's thin. She is her better version no matter her weight!
It’s called healthy relationship weight. I don’t think you should ever compare a women’s body through her different stages. It’s part of being a woman and that’s beautiful
@@lindlind3859if your partner can’t love you the way you are, you shouldn’t be dating them because they’re simply not a good person. In a relationship, you’re going to see the highs and lows of your partner. Nobody is going to want to do their hair every day, put on makeup, keep a strict diet, wear fancy clothes, etc. every single day just for their partner. Especially later on in the relationship. You should be comfortable enough with each other to just be yourself and you should love each other unconditionally. If you truly believe your partner needs to look picture perfect every single day of your relationship with them, you are a shitty person and I hope you never get into a relationship for their sake.
@@honeyappletoasta person's moral fibre is not linked to their requirement to date someone they're attracted to. Bad news for women, femanism lied to you, if you get too fat your man will leave you or cheat on you or at the very least want to. And that's 99% of men, they just won't admit it because it's an ugly truth.
Camila looks like a normal person on the streets. Nothing wrong with that. I like seeing celebs not so glam up on the streets. Makes me feel like I can relate.
A NORMAL PERSON WITH NO SELF LOVE, THEREFORE LOSES WEIGHT TO ATTRACT A PARTNER OR "FOR A SUMMER" THEN GOES BACK TO THEIR OWN WAYS. HOPE SHE LOVES HERSELF MORE NOW
It's a shame then that she did not return his love by respecting herself and him by keeping active and not overeating so that she didn't gain all that weight.
@@MrErzberg in most of the photos of her in the street she was wearing active clothing-probably working out. a person’s weight is allowed to fluctuate. could be due to a number of reasons than just over eating like certain medications, disorders, hormonal imbalances. but that doesn’t take away from the fact that when you truly love someone that shit doesn’t matter as long as they stay active. love and respect has nothing to do with something as vain as a body fat percentage.
bro please, their relationship was literally one of the most healthy relationships ever EDIT: why y'all fighting under my comment i just said that cuz i thought the video meant something else iykwim and yes i do know healthy relationships are not meant to stay forever😭🙏🏻
It's one thing to gain like, 5 kg and then proceed to lose it once you resume a dietary and exercise regime. But Camilla looks straight up overweight in some of these pics. It's not attractive. Women with excessive fat around the midriff should not be wearing belly-bearing tops.
^ That's true but it could be both, it's not a completely good thing or a completely bad thing, it's not like he forced her to eat a lot or gain the weight, and he loved her the same even as she gained it, I mean he could have also watched out for her and helped her maintain a good weight but its not like he could have been like, you're gaining weight you should stop eating so much, but like I said it's not a completely good thing or a completely bad thing, but at least they had a healthy relationship
She’s a beautiful woman in all images. The poster alluding to the fact she’s now happier because she’s slimmer, is as equally as dangerous as yours. Both are ethically and morally incorrect assertions. Let’s grow the f up and acknowledge that a healthy weight does actually equate to physical health in most cases, whether psychologically or emotionally happy or not.
she literally shamed Normani for being the only black person in her previous group... plus she has documented old social media posts of extremely racist and homophobic content.. whatever shame she receives its apart of her making.. the universe doesnt agree with your bs lmao
@@Holly69Hernandez For camilla that's her main reason. Anyway, she easily shed her weight out when she started doing shows again so it's not a big deal.
She didn’t get a revenge body after Shawn they had a non toxic breakup and were very comfortable in their relationship at the time. During Covid a lot of people gained weight and lost it after the regulations lifted a bit
she not doing it because the break up... she want to exist in music again, then she need to loose weight. maybe also to get another man or for self-esteem.
love how this is implying she was "fat" when she was with him, and to lose the weight she needed to lose him like- 😭 huh??? think she's said multiple times that she's not ashamed of her body and loves the way she is.
@@BasziK There is even a Swedish expression about this phenomenon. It's called "sambo fat". When you live together you share most meals. I have many friends who said it themselves. As soon as they moved in with their BF they got so comfy and so bad habits, eating a lot of junk food. They got lazy together. A result they gained a huge amount of weight. Like insane. I did not recognize them anymore...
@@poppothepug2211 it depends on the person. Weight flancuates if you eat junk before a relationship you obviously are going to take that into a relationship there’s no magic weight gain
@@BasziK how can you be scared to be fat with someone? Just love yourself and your partner regardless of how they look. Looks/ weight should not matter unless their too obese/ skinny to be healthy.
@@VaultBoi420 some people care about how they look, they wanna look their best and feel their best and I think that's ok, it's also ok to not care about how you look.
@@trinitym5552it's not fair for him. He stayed fit while she became a fat slob. If the roles were reversed people like you would suddenly start to agree with my logic.
I love the fact that you used pictures of them going somewhere with gym clothes for 'during him' and her full glam professional photoshoot for the other one. Very accurate representation
Comparing casual photos of her where she might’ve been a bit bloated or gained a little weight to glam photoshoot photos of her is unfair. She’s human just like the rest of us and it’s impossible to always look flawless
It’s very normal I’m a lot of relationships to let onself go - she may not have been comfortable with her weight - But bodies fluctuate and that’s normal and okay
This society is so damn disrespectful and judgemental like someone gains or loses a bit of weight and it’s like the whole world exploded we really do not need to comment on everything keep it to urself fr
I'm with you I swear I don't know why great men get a bad wrap. It's getting worse everyday there are good men out there but some women and people all ways blame the guy if there body weight goes up !! What crap is that theses poor men can't win yes there are bad ones just like there's a lot of bad women's. And theses days some women can blame a man for abuse shit anything really if they are pissed. And that needs to change because it's destroying life's. Just like that Amber lieing saying Jonnie abused her all lies. And for a woman like me that has been beat abused I can see that type. And I all ready knows mr Depp was not one. Im a lady and it's pissing me off when theses woman go out and lie on there men just to hurt them. And two there are people like me have gone though hell so how dare anyone go lie like that they should be in jail for real...
A girl with a bf tends to be more comfy thinking ow he likes me how ever I look Then they tend to take less care of them Selfs After them going apart she knows no one would want her looking like shit so she would become fit again Same apllies for men
No, she looks like a bedside table That overweight bumper makes her legs look ridiculously short Awful She was absolutely pretty when she had normal body. (~5-6 years ago)
@@daisy291 what does that have to do with anything, also shes not obese pipe down. They were genuinely happy toegther and using random photos of her on the street trying to mind her own business is dumb
Alternative title: Camila on the street with no makeup vs Camila with makeup that took hours to achieve that look and Camila in a photoshoot with professional lightning.
Whoever made this is either really young and immature or just not nice. Don't ever comment on someone's body. Imagine if Camilla sees this ever? I know you'd probably enjoy that and if so that shows what kind of person you are. During COVID a lot of people had issues with food and weight because they weren't working as much. Staying home 24/7 also, was really depressing at times for some people and all of this is really hard on a new relationship.
he's literally the sweetest man ever he made camila so comfortable with him that she don't mind gaining weight, idk why you guys are dissing him he was the best :(
Wen you fall in love, some ppl gain weight, I did a bit until a lady told me " you must be love" I said "why say that" she said she could tell bc I gained weight.
I find this weird and didn't know it was a thing. I get getting comfortable with someone and they make you feel sexy just the way you are and you don't feel the need to try so hard. But I've been with my partner for almost 15 years, regardless of my weight (each did go up and down due to child birth and birth control selection) he's always been kind and de me feel attractive. But because of that kindness and support, it pushed me to keep putting effort into my fitness and keep in shape. I saw it as, if he can make me feel sexy when I didn't on my own, he deserved for me to feel that way on my own, so I could relax and we both enjoy our time together more without me feeling like he was having to deal with my insecurities.
I understand what y'all saying but I'm a Man, lol, I can't believe u assumed I was a woman, lmao. I'm in shape and the lady that told me this knew I was always working out and I kept working out but not as much, I was in love so yea I didn't get fat or huge but I gained, probably 10lbs. So it's not silly bc it's A reason some ppl gain weight wen they're in love. Which I think she gained weight. Also I work out for my health and bc I like it being in love didn't stop me, I just gained weight from eating and worked out less bc, we both did, we didn't notice it. Until I was told then I told the love of my life( which didn't work out in the end). U stop caring as much how u look wen in love
Studies show that ppl in a happy relationship tend to gain weight so if you’re with your partner and keep worrying about gaining a few extra pounds, give them a hug, show your love and appreciate them for being good to you if that’s the case ❤
Studies also show that a majority of people stress eat and gain weight due to chronic stress. A bad relationship can very easily make you gain weight. I honestly forget about eating when I am happy. I have no idea about these celebrities- so no comment on that.
there is a difference between a person who makes you feel who you're in that you dont have to put in a lot of effort to impress them and also those whom you have to work effortlessly to impress them like you.
@@shizukagozen777Lmao, just look for actual photoshoots of her from the "during him" period before calling cap based on paparazzi pictures taken against her will
i wanna emphasize what everyone is saying abt the healthy relationships and add that shawn is very active and encouraged her to workout with him IF SHE WANTED TO, but also was not bothered by her having that bit of weight on her. shes said that he was big influence on her fitness journey
@@imanopinionatedbitch442 sounds like they’re trying to say they’re surprised he didn’t leave sooner because of her weight gain. Which is ridiculous. Because she looks amazing.
@@hiimjai6064 even if he did leave for that reason, there wouldn’t be an issue? Men can’t hide sexual arousal like women can (if you know what I mean). If he’s not interested in her when she’s like then that’s not his fault. It would only make things worse for the relationship if he forced himself to stay knowing he’s no longer attracted to her.
What I’ve learned from excruciating heart break and unconditional love is that bigger me is the happier me. I don’t let myself go, I let my depression go.
There is a theory about weight gain during a relationship. For instance in female cases, if a woman is comfortable with the man she's with, her body gets prepped for pregnancy, breasts and hips get larger and metabolism decreases through thyroid function. As for men as soon their woman gets pregnant, their body starts getting primed to put on weight to prepare for potential shortfalls in nutrition during the early months after birth a.k.a dad bod, there is also psychological changes such as elevated paranoia and anxiety .
There are lots of reasons for body weight fluctuation. I was little all my life and had a hard time gaining weight. As soon as I got on birth control, I gained so much weight. My relationship had nothing to do with it. Not to mention, many people gain weight while in relationships because they’re comfortable and not worrying about the way they look all the time. They’re just being them.
Sometimes that could be it, but in my situation I gained 80lbs from being in a relationship with a toxic person. My stress levels were through the roof being around my ex and I turned to food for comfort. After I broke up with him, the majority of my weight came off.
