Can Men Change? 

It's true. Men love when pretty girls are sweet/nice...they love you even more when you can take good are of them and once you do, they'll give you EVERYTHING. Very very true, men like being nurtured

I love this show but I wish they posted the whole episode instead of snippets!

Don’t try and mold a man into something that you want, that’s selfish. Male or female, we have grown, we are through being raised and we don’t need to conform to what others want/expect from us, male or female.if you want something to change to yourself then do something about it because you want to. it’s our imperfections they make us different from all others and it’s these imperfections that are often the most attractive things about us.

I swear Wiz cheated on Amber tho 👀

Guys and ladies get out of the relationship if the person your with wants to change you

Is it so bright in there?

I was in the audience at this showing! Justin Bieber was there too!

I mean if that particular guy is an A-H no matter how you try to make him happy then that is not the right guy for you even though you try your very best to be the perfect woman for him. That guy will never change until he realizes that you were the best he could ever have in his life. And if your man is the nicest man in the whole world, treasure like a gold don't give him a hard time. ;D

OMG the black girl needs her own show please !!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

Indeed I have, thought I first saw her in VH1's "I Love the..." series

Why would you want to change him?

Well said, Amber.

i love him! such a brave young guy ;)

I'm 50 and haven't even dated a woman seriously for more than 30 years. I may have been able to get myself into one relationship 8 years ago with a woman who was 10 years younger than me but I'm not really sure. I don't know if the women that I threw myself at over a 22 year period of time between the ages of 22-44 were just too cowardice to accept me for what I was at that time, or if I was never attractive to anyone. Depending on the woman I would have been willing to change some of my ways. Not that I was a player as much as I was a loser but I would have been willing to do things that she would have asked me to do. I had a few hobbies when I was younger (and working) that I have had to get away from to some degree. I haven't been in a relationship at all with any woman for 30 years, but there are chores and appointments that I would have been willing to do for her if she had ever asked me to do them. I would have been willing to give up more of my time to spend more time with her than what was happening when we knew each other. I would have changed some of my ways for her if she had asked me too and then given me enough time to do it.

did bethenny say to Amber, "glasses aside" you know how to work it. LOL!

1:55 when she started talking i couldn't stop laughing!!

YOU BETTER SAY IT LONI!!!!!!!!!

good luck ladies

Obsessed with leoni love I think that's her name? Need to see her more often!!

"cuz u gun get old and ugly" lmao i love het

Mmmm no - if he wants the chase, dump him, unless you always want to be running away from him/ect & never be close. True story.

queen treatment deserves a king treatment.

0:43 She's the lunch lady from Kickin' It! She's Marge!

I think I would also call my mother if I would break up with her....... I meann.... A normal person wont survive that! I love her so much tho! xD

Men should never be expected to change!

I have a problem with women, magazines, etc telling other women "how to keep a guy," meaning, why are we always trying to figure out ways to keep a guy?? or how to make him love us more, how to get a guy or get him back. I do not hear men as much as women do the same for us, or research how to love us better, more how to keep us etc. It takes work both ways to keep any relationship going.

It's Loni! She comes on Chelsea Lately

Why does the panel have all women for this question? How would a woman know this answer?

Guy's mom : Baby he don't wanna see you no more, now Let me pray for you... LMAO!!

they can change a tire

Loni Love I love you on the Bethanny show more then the Chelsea's show..you are damn funny...

her name is Loni Love

Girls cant change a man, But the man himself can. and vice versa. I don't expect a girl to change for me, I wouldnt get with her in the first place if i think she was 'broken' and needed to be 'fixed'

The black woman was hilarious she just cuts the bullshit and gets straight to the point, she's like that awesome aunt or gran you've always wanted

Who is the blonde with the glasses? She sounds a little bit like Christina Aguilera

wooohooooo!!

Bethenny hit the nail on the head: that girl panel WAS great, d@mn! Very insightful. I think that for men, what Amber Rose said was true: the woman needs to be a woman and actually treat HERSELF like a woman. THAT will want to make a MAN come to her! I feel like with women, they don't want to be the princesses that they see and hear about on little children's books. I think that's wrong. Us men, we neeeeed a woman to be a woman and not try to be the men. When I see women KILLING themselves in order to, "improve" their looks (for example, keeping up with the trends, starving themselves, looking like what they see in mall catalogs, in magazines, on tv) I don't have time for it. I feel like if a woman wants to have a man, then she needs to act like a woman and take care of themselves emotionally before attempting to, "date". Women don't date and neither do men. They should just be able to let us guy come to them and approach them and let us sweep them off their feet. Lately women do not like to do that and THAT is why so many men turn into (stupid) if you know what I mean. Not going to say the word because I think it's dumb what many men do.

i love loni love too!

Neutered? What is this the 1950-ties?

Change a man? lmao! Accept me as I am, don't try and mold me into something that you want, that's selfish...Any woman I am involved with I accept her as she is and if we don't click? No biggie, male or female, we are grown, we are through being raised and we don't need to conform to what other's want/expect of us, male or female. Now if you look at yourself and don't like the person you are, then you do something about it because you want to. It is our imperfections they make us different from all others and it's these imperfections that are often the most attractive things about us, imo.....

UNDER 100 CLUBBB!!

LONI LOVE!!!!!!!

yes i love loni love. have you seen her on the show World's Dumbest? She's the BOMB!!

I LoL-ed at the black woman!! The one with the weird alien goggles was just that WEIRD. And as I sat thru this video i thought to myself, "hold on are Bethany, the girl next to her and Miss goggles making excuses for guys? That they should be the perfect girl in terms of being pretty and doing stuff for him, so that he stops being a player?! Really?! " I think its about knowing your self worth (Man/Woman), choosing a partner who appreciates that and not taking each other for granted.

was this show filmed in LA? the set is staged just like the show The real.

Men decide to change when they have to, for any reason

name is Loni Love

Is that P!nk?

What a misandrist question. Seriously. If a group of men were to sit on TV and ask "can women change?" we'd get comments dragging them for years.

I love loni

Why amber rose looking like a superhero???

who is that black woman? does she own a show?

Is that Loni Love?

Why do they need to change

Steve Harvey said it all the times women keep exchanging these stupid information amongst themselves. Steve is experienced I am an experienced man also women's can change man it happens more often than most people realized, but it's not any woman that can change a man

loni love

hahahahah the black girl is hilarious!

why is she wearing those glasses though.... seriously? why?

More to the point can woman change? at present time not a chance because they have been brought up to think they are very very special with no humility.

The "black girl" has a name. Loni Love. Ugh and there are two in that panel.

lol " noone want him he old " :D

And why the fuck is Amber wearing sunglasses inside?

cause you gun get old an ugly - LOLOL , i love the black women, she's gorgeous to :)

No they can't! Sorry!

Even when George Clooney is 70 I'll still be attracted to him... He's like cheese, gets better with age.

As well as Women: NO.

Lonnie love and amber rose ar the 2 black girls

Loni Love , your fringe is alittle distractive, i couldnt pay attention wondering what the heck? no no no!

"I will cut you" --bethenny

You got dropped girl lol wiz khlifa

Amber 🙈

Bethenny talk too much and too fast for a talk show host...

I love that black woman. Real as shit

Yes, listen to the land whale.

This TV show sucks

I love that black woman. Real as shit