Pour crew here! My husband is Ghanaian and I love his mama but she is very opinionated and I appreciate that he always has my back and will check her if needed
I'm from the Caribbean and on my island it is very common to call your parents' older friends as aunty and uncle or at least miss/mister. It is actually considered rude not to do so.
@@jeepwrangler1252They only know the Carribeans here in London who are 2-3 generations removed, yeah they can't talk for people born and raised in the Carribean.
The other groups that prosper, thrive...buy from each other, organise together, empower each other. We end up buying from them on the high street. Yet we find comfort in the delusion of being another specific group.
That’s not a city girl mentality. That’s just being smart, not settling, and making sure you and any children you may have are set for the future. No woman with sense wants to be with a man who cannot lead and properly provide for his family.
Yes Drea at some clubs. We just had one club closed down due to my sweet girl passing inside because security let someone pay their way in with a gun. Same with strip club just this pass weekend. Please be safe coming to Atlanta
Pro-black is an agenda, it’s not just a label. It’s a black man and black woman coming together to produce black children to contribute to the black community. Ultimately contributing to the economy of the country to gain power and control over their lives. This is extremely important to us here in the U.S because of our history (slavery). It’s us trying to fully regain the autonomy that was stripped from us. So no you can’t be pro-black and date/marry outside the race. You can help other black ppl but you’re still not pro-black.
An agenda 👏🏾 exactly. Because who you choose to create a home and family with is a political decision that has economic consequences for your community (and race)
@@jasmineharris5800it honestly goes hand in hand. The path immigrants parents go thru to give their children better opportunity is because of love! They suffer physically, mentally & financially so that we don’t have to. Some parents don’t have that thrive or motivation, so when we prosper further down in life all we can think about is how we got here, so we’re very grateful for our parents & so in return of happiness & success we want to let them rest & take care of them. It’s simply just reciprocal Love
The Kiganda kneeling 😮 lmao, my family are so chill with the prostrating you know, but I feel bad because I know so little of Baganda etiquette as a Ugandan 🇺🇬 abroad!
Bro. Put your mum in her place, and let your wife or youe girl friend see you do it. If she gets it then that a mark in her favour toward becoming your 'traditional' wife via a traditional African ceremony. Also in the Carribbean we do call elders auntie, uncle or Mrs, Mr etc.
Caribbean people call their elders auntie and uncle. That gf of yours just didn't want to! No Caribbean person calls elders by their first name, we would NEVER!
Respectfully, this makes no sense. How you can you be pro black but intentionally choose to procreate with "Greek"? Does that make sense? Pro white men do not breed with non-white women.
It’s seems like people forget that the black person in an interracial relationship is still black and navigates the world as a black person. The other non black person doesn’t just automatically make your “blackness” null and void. To be Pro anything means you are for or in support of something. Why wouldn’t I be for myself? For my people? I’m still a black person. You can absolutely be pro black and be with someone outside of your race. You just need to choose an ally to partner with and not someone who demeans or fetishizes you or your racial identity.
Point stands, there are things that you can't really expect your non black partner to understand or even emphasise with. When you are pro black you have an interest in black people, black cultures world wide, your non black partner won't really understand. & then your kids will not identify like you either because they are mixed.
I disagree. How? Think about the psychology (self-hatred, thinking lighter skinned children are better looking, the white women is a trophy, white man is the white knight). I am attracted to other races, but if I can help it, I will end up with a black women.
@@malachiaadonis8178 as a black girl who has dated both I don't feel any self hate but I also Life in Europe so maybe its Different but I don't feel like black girls have a white savior komplex or self hate just for dating diffrent races go where you appreciated and loved
Going back to the dilemma: I feel like the wife was wrong, but she was not incorrect. She had every right to say what she said, but she probably shouldn’t have said it. I feel like the husband should have married a maid/his mom. There’s nothing wrong with keeping your house clean, but it’s next to impossible when you have children (pretty much any age). The problem is when the mom keeps coming over {seemingly}uninvited and complaining about how untidy it is.
Another reason not to get involved is because if u plan on having your girl around long term you may want to allow them time to work things out on their own in their own way or you will always be in the middle of it
31:56 I hear what the sisters are saying but you're both light skin so neither of you are 100% anything so you better give the mixed race people the same “Black as hell” respect.
Yes i will but he has to be older tgan my youngest brother... so keon issss what? 10 years younger than me? So he need to be at least 26.... but at 26 he gots to be hella mature. Not on no "im in college shit" aint enrolled in nobody school just want the college experience fof nk damn readon. That i cant deal with. Gotta be gainfully employed, gotta have all his facial hair, and cant be a part of prison culture especislly if hes never even bedn to fuckin prison. And cant get mad when i tell him he just a baby
