Scanty dey talk sense when it comes to relationship matters😂. Mr. Romantic ❤😂. I agree with what he said. Tell Sheldon am waiting for his Vals day song breakdown 😂😂😂😂
This is a delicate issue .. I always say it is me that I’m going to marry not my parents , but in hindsight you need their blessings and they are the same people , you can turn to when it turns sour .. it’s really 50 , 50 … me like this my dad didn’t attend my wedding because he had some issues with my choice of partner , 2 months now they are best friends . Sometimes our parents ain’t always right .. and here I come again , communication is important 😊🤝
It depends on multiple variables, sometimes the answer is yes and sometimes the answer is no. But being a family person or independent person should be looked at. There are people who make it in life because of their family and others who does better because they distanced themselves from their family. Also look at the goal you have set for yourself and then you will know who can help you achieve it with less disadvantages, nothing is 💯 correct or wrong, so weighing the pros and cons will help in making sensible decisions in these situations.
Good take Scanty! The girls will always argue for you not to be in tandem with your parents and their advice. It’s to their benefit. To Mr. Street supporting the females, you’d be 60 one day too and you’d understand. The older you get the more perspective you have over everything. With age, you see the other side of love. You get to first hand experience or hear from others experiencing what’s like after love turns sour. You see the various factors that come to play that are a make or break which are almost impossible to consider when love is young. At that point you can hardly apply those experiences to yourself, the best you can do at that point is advice those coming, your younger family members or your children. But at that point too, they’d say what you’re saying. “Your time was different from my time” “I really love her/him” “Our love is real and will survive anything”
Thank you dear is very true,I witnessed a home where because the man is rich the woman marry him now that is in his 70ties the woman is 50 and she doesn't care about the man because the money is not coming anymore,if the man don't give money for cooking meaning that day they'll be no food for him and she will not also bring money to cook,so she will rather go to a friend and stay there for days without finding something for the man , she just don't care.Hmmm the only luck side for the man is he has a child with someone before he got married to this woman,so that child sort him out most times and he has to hide it you know hmmmmmmmm.There I learnt something 😢paaaaa herrrr, the sad part is she made her kids marry rich women or ladies, she will tell you love will fade away one day and is the money that will sustain it herrrrr hmmmm.
Okay, I found a nice and a perfect lady whom I introduced to my mum but she said she don't like her because she's Ewe. This lady in question too is someone I really connect with and see a good future with so in this case, should I disobey my mum and go with my lady or listen to my mum. I'm a fante and She's Ewe. The relationship now is not strong like before.
Naaa Scanty on a more serious note, if you are making this argument then you should be one of the people who should be quick to introduce your partner to your family at an early stage to avoid any form of time wasting from your side and that of your partners’.
But what Scanty is saying be true paaa definitely there will be some reason for our parent to say no to a woman or ladies we brought home sometimes so we should obey our parents so we can’t dump them and get into relationship that can brings problems no
A mother advised her daughter not to date me because Gas do not take care of their children… it kept coming up till the lady had to be putting up attitudes and I had to give up. I understood and never held it against her. With the issue of the family not agreeing. If you leave without the parents blessing it might be a problem for you two in future. It’s best to have their blessing and support. Even Abraham sent his servant to look for a woman for his son Isaac in another town. Their reasons are always valid no matter how stupid it sounds.
Because of distance no marriage doesn’t make sense. What if the man will take the woman to America after the marriage. Will the family agree?? Cause I’m not sure they can go to America if there is an issue or a problem 😂😂😂
You chop the girl for long and you ignore her cos your parent and go for another girl too if don’t like her too then ignore her again…Eeiii wey informal format too this 😂😂😂
This can be a really good content but the dede is too much!!!! Plus Lizzie dey use emotion talk dodo abbaaaaa I think all parties should come with fact to back their opinions. This can be quite educational.
Scanty has a point, but Lizzy ain't having it🤣🤣🤣🤣 she should be open to diverse views otherwise she would end up having acache mentality. It seems the world is all love and logic to her. The real world isn't🥲🥲
Lizzy’s jeans dey funny 😂😂. But on a serious note the reasoning behind Scanty’s opinion is heavily based on our tradition but the truth is we the children choose our partners not our parents. However there is an element of wisdom to making sure both families are cordial and have agreed to your marriage. It’s not a must but it will surely cause less headaches. So Lizzy is right and so is Scanty to an extent
Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5 and Mark 10:7, 8 are texts that define the kind of relationship between a man and a woman. This kind of relationship is only achieved by the Bible coats; “For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother.” Sure there might be some reasons to why a parent might prevent their kid from marrying someone they bring home but at the end of the day, if the reason is not tangible, they have to do what the Bible says, leave their parents! Simple!!
HA .. I can see most of you guys supporting scanty... but make I take this space to share my opinion and chip in this advice.. guys, do not grow up with kids having in your minds to choose for your children when they are of age and have chosen their life partners.. a couple of reasons include. 1. your era will be different from theirs, 2. your taste will differ 3. they will be the ones to live all their life with their choices etc. it is always better to be at the supporting end than the choosing end when things go bad or when things are good.. you can easily become a third person even though you are their parent. a time is coming like in the states where all these long processes of marriage will be discarded and the decisions will solely be between just the two, witness, and priest. you can only guide, advise, and direct as a parent but the final decision is on the one going to live with the person. good choice or not, you still have to support and cheer. this is why it is a man(mature person) who marries and not a novice. you must man up, listen to the concerns and advice, and experiences of the parent and be able to deduce what is reasonable and what is emotional. so what if the mother likes her and the father doesn't? I am a Fante and dated two fantes but Charley naa..(another story) and know this that ewes don't even want to marry their men(i stand to be corrected) when you find a perfect partner the lord blesses it for you. it's your choice.. even God allows us to choose and he supports any of our decisions .. pardon my passage writing
Scanty makes no point at all in this topic, he only sounds reasonable but makes no sense. How should my parent be the one to choose the person I'm going to spend my whole life with? When you say a perfect partner, then it means the person has no serious issue for the parent to turn down, so a parent having his or her reason shouldn't be enough for me not leave the person for someone they may like but I won't be happy with for the rest of my life.
