I simply cannot fathom how people live through this. I know they mostly do because they have no choice but my mind won’t allow me to fully process the pain of losing my husband. I just can’t 😢 My heart breaks for her and anyone that has experienced this 😔
I knew he wouldnt survive once i started seeing hair in his head. Chemo is a poison that slowly kills you. He decided to acept his fate and stop the treatment to survive a couple months more.
@@AshErin8304 well I lost my mom from cancer and it still hurts now after 10 years. She was a strong single mom. After she left our siblings lives fall apart and now we were living separated from relative to other relative. No home anymore. Sometimes, I just couldn't help but think what would happened if mom survive.
@@aulila7572 omg i am so sorry for your loss 😔 that’s terrible…I think It’s normal to think about what life would have been like if she was still here. Life is simply so unfair, I’m just so sorry 😢
@@AshErin8304I don’t think you ever move on from that pain. My dad died from cancer last year and I have these moments where all I can think about is him and the pain of losing him. It sucks. But you kind of just keep going forward.
I feel you two! I developed a very rare and aggressive blood cancer only 22 days into being married. We had our honeymoon in the hospital. 5 years later I’m cancer free and we just celebrated our son’s first birthday.
"In sickness and health, till death do we part..." These words are not a reality anyone would expect to be dealing with so early in a marriage. Your husband fought like a warrior, and thankfully, you were able to bless him and yourself with beautiful twin boys! A lasting legacy for years and generations to come! What a lovely man!
Throughout the short I kept saying "please give them a happy ending" but here I am sobbing at work. I'm so sorry for your loss. A little piece of him lives on in your children
Me TOO. I am 41 and I was diagnosed with stage 3 and everyday I wake up I have to battle fear 😨. I haven't even been going to chemotherapy bc I'm just like MAN I NEED A FREAKING BREAK 😮💨😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
My mom suffered from cancer 5 years ago. Now she's alright, but I'm always scared of the worse. I wish she could attend my wedding and see my children, I am sure she's gonna be the best granny ever.
This literally made me sob. I thought he was going to make it. My dad has cancer and all he wanted when he was first diagnosed was to see his kids grow up. I’m sure your late husband wanted the same and fought hard to be with you and your children. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
Im really sorry about your dad. My dad passed away from cancer and his ultimate dream was to see me graduate from college, sadly, he couldn’t make it. He died a month before. However, I’m glad your dad is living his dream♥️
The way he stayed strong and held on just to meet his kids and how she now looks after 2 boys alone is just wow. Both are so strong, I'm sorry for your loss.
She got pregnant through ivf, knowing he might not be around, i honestly dont know what to say. Those kids r fatherless and she loves to share these stories and get attention.
I'm so sorry for your lost. I'm glad he got to meet his children. I wish you the best on this journey and I hope you have a lot of love and support surrounding you.
In a world where people throw in the towel when things get too hard, I truly commend you. Your resilience and good character deserve recognition. God bless you ❤
@@rayanspalette may be it assures you anything can be possible in real life unlike movies, and you can be mentally ready for anything bitter. that's why.
My heart goes out to You. My 1st husband had cancer after we married,he survived 23 years and watch Our children grow into adulthood. I pray that God send you a Godly man like he did me
I’m so sorry for your loss!!! You have a BEAUTIFUL family!!! I’m so glad he got to meet his boys!! They will forever know how much their dad loved them and fought so hard to be there for their birth!!! I wish you and your family all the best!!!
As the video went on, I was thinking he was gonna make it, but once I saw his gravestone, I cried. And he fought so long to just see his children. I know he would've been one of the best fathers if he was still here. And I know that he was a great soul, and it's devastating to see someone great get taken away. I'm so sorry for you lost.💗
The way he kept his last breath and strength for his own kids, and then could finally rest in peace..... It's just, so heartwarming and sad at the same time
Leaving your wife & new children.. that you need more than life, and that need you more than life.. doesn't leave one to rest in peace. Only speaking from experience.. as I recently buried my husband at 36 when Our daughter was 18 months.
@@Mandy-nt2cs im sorry for your lost. Have a 6 month old boy and couldn’t image what I would do if I lost my amazing husband. My condolences. Sending a big loving hug your way.
His smile reminds me of my late baby sister. She smiled throughout the cancer battle till the last day I saw her. Can't believe it's been 2 years already since she passed. ❤from Malawi😢😢😢
@@17till70 I think the yellow ribbon means bone cancer. Which I'm guessing this commenter beat 17 years ago? If so, well done buddy, we're glad to still have you with us! 🍀✨️
The fact that you were able to piece together this video so beautifully is just a testament to how strong and loving you are. I’m so sorry for your loss, his love is with you forever in the form of those two boys.
Obviously she's strong, yes. This tho? Yeah this right here is just her type A personality. The ppl that *always* have it all together- ᴀᴋᴀ Super Mom. This is literally my sister. Girl is ridiculously organized and I wound up with effing ADHD. Even if I made any organizational plans, it's not like I'd actually complete them. God this was so sad I'm crying in the convenient store parking lot lol!
I’m so glad he got to meet his twins before he passed away. I’m so sorry about what you two had to go through. His kids should know how great of a dad he was❤
I’m sobbing 😭. I thought he was going to make it. I’m so so so sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was an amazing person, and you probably miss him every second of every day.
Every word you said. Just bless you and your forever family. The world obviously knew you were capable of hero size love and strength. Ty for sharing your story ♥
@@freshanointing3541 maybe not here? I understand its ur religion that's totally fine but instead maybe a prayer in the name of jesus for them? Idk just my opinion
@@freshanointing3541 look I’m a Christian man and I believe in God but she’s just tryna be nice alr? Yes Jesus is everything of course he is but she was just tryna be nice
I’m so sorry for your loss. Enjoy your life. Life is really so short. You’ll turn around and suddenly find yourself 40 with kids. Stand by your mama and if she’s lucky enough to find love again after this awful heartbreak & loss of her love, be kind to her. Make your dad happy & proud. I know you will 💙
im so sorry for that. sending you and your whole family love. my friend went through this, sadly, i hope you and your family and loved ones recover soon and take care of yourself, youre loved
Stories like this should make you grateful for the health God has blessed you with. Life is beautiful when you cherish every moment as if tomorrow were your last.
We just loss an amazing strong woman a few days ago. She undergone surgeries and chemo and was cancer free. But then it came back aggressively. She tried so hard. She passed way on the day of her 4 year wedding anniversary with her husband. She was such an amazing mom to her kids. When we see her she always had a smile on her face and manages being up beat.
This broke my heart, I actually am tearing up right now. Such a beautiful family. I know she won’t see this comment but if you’re reading this send good energy to her and her babies ❤️
@@JGL999 and you don’t know that it wasn’t exactly how she pictured it from the video. There’s always someone who wants to be negative.🙄 🥰I’m glad they had each other for as long as they did, and he was able to meet his boys, and they met him. I wish these boys, and their incredibly strong Mama the very best. Much love and strength to them!💕
This is so sad I'm literally started bawling when his Cancer came back. At least he got to meet his sons even if they don't remember you can see in the video he adores and cherished those boys more than anything. I hope your doing better now. ❤
Same, omg I’m so hurt 😢 To be with the love of your life and have them be gone so quick. I’m glad she was able to enjoy life and have kids with him while he was here. Life is so short! 😭
I’m speechless…. I don’t even know him and I feel pain in my heart and chest after watching this, I can only imagine how hard this must be to her! I’m so sorry for your loss. May his soul rest in peace
I'm glad you were able to record those precious memories wherein your children can see for themselves how strong their dad is and how much their dad loves them despite the pain and hardship he was going through. I can only imagine what he was feeling during those moments, both during the journey of fighting for his life and knowing that his time with his children may be cut short.
Hyy! Saw u again...I just read your comment under a comment section...When u were defending the dancer girl who was just performing at her school festival with a guy infront of her boyfriend... Although it was a funny meme yet those so called incels were cursing and shaming that girl without knowing anything about her personally...With out any reason Some conservative guys were talking about controlling their partner's passion and desires in the name of boundaries... After reading your comment i genuinely felt that u are definitely a non judgemental supportive and a nice human being ❤❤
So heartbreaking. He was a beautiful man, husband and father and he left a beautiful legacy whom he’ll live through. May he rest in peace. Praying for your family. 🙏
I have read in every comment section that girls cheat on boys. But my father says that if a girl loves you, she will be ready to do anything for you. Today I felt my father words after watching this video.... 😥
As a man this is actually tearing me up, I'm so sorry what you went through, but him and God will never leave your side and will always take care of you and your kids
I'm so sorry you lost your husband in this way. I have a stage 4 diagnosis, too, and the idea of leaving my family is the worst over all other symptoms. Sending you so much love.
praying for God's mercy and blessings over you, death is nothing to be afraid of, it's the suffering that hurts :( im sorry you're going thru this, i pray you live as long as possible living life as fully as you possibly can
HAVE FAITH IN GOD AND YOU WILL SEE THAT GOD DOES CURE!!!! HAVE FAITH THAT HAS MORE POWER THAN ANYTHING!!!! PRAYER FOR FOR EVERYONE WHO IS BATTLING SICKNESSES IN JESUS NAME I REUKE ANY SICKNESS THAT TAKES OVER THERE HAPPYNESS I REBUKE THAT THE SICKNESS WLL BE GONE IN JESUS NAME THE SICKNESS THAT KILLS EVERYONE THE SICKNESS THAT NO ONE DESERVES I REBUK ANYTHING THAT IS HURTING THEM IN ANY KIND AWAY THAT PULLS THEM AWAY FROM HAPPYNESS TO BE WORRY FREE I PRAY IN JESUS NAME LET THEM FREE LET THEM BE FREE FROM ANY HARM THAT THE DEMON HAS OVER CAME TO TAKE POWER I JESUS NAME I PRAY FOR HEALING AND STRENGTH AND HONOR TO PLEASE REBUKE UN WANTED STRESS IN JESUS NAME I PRAY HEALTH EVERYTHING THAT COVERS HAPPINESS ANYTHING THAT WILL LET THEM FREE I KNOW WITH THE FAITH AND THE POWER THAT YOU JESUS MY LORD HAS I KNOW YOU CAN CURE THEM IN JESUS NAME I PRAY AMEN !!!!!
I’m so sorry for your loss, it was a blessing he was able to hold his babies. I just lost my beautiful niece age 34 from aggressive breast cancer, she left an amazing husband and two children. You’re in my thoughts. ❤️
This is one of the saddest things ever. I am so very sorry for your loss. I hope you 3 are doing well. Can everyone do me a favor, hug the ones you love. Because you never know when something like this could happen so please hug the people you love
My best friend died 3 days ago. She had beaten leukemia twice before but it came back with a vengeance. Several years ago she moved from the Netherlands to Sweden with her husband and I was planning on visiting her in November. Only a month ago I decided to bring my visit forward when she was told she would only have a few months left. She was still feeling OK, her pain was managed well with medication and she still had a clear head so I decided it was better to go and visit while she could still enjoy our time together. So I was now going to stay with her in the last week of October. Due to the Covid pandemic I hadn't seen her for a while and I was really looking forward to see her again. And then I received a message from her husband last Tuesday that she had died the night before (17 October 2022). So sadly I won't be able to hug her again. I'm going to miss her so much 😢💔
@@anita64 I'm so sorry, Anita. There are not enough words for a broken heart. I'm sure your friend always knew how much you loved her. While we are sad for the departure of our loved ones, we can also be thankful for their lives and for the time we shared with them on this Earth. Sending you a tight hug from Mexico. 💓
I guarantee the fact he got to meet his kids helped him greatly accept his death knowing he got to leave his mark on the planet. Just remember you're not truly dead until the last person forgets about you. Hopefully your kids will grow up to be wonderful people And always remember who their dad was. Rest in peace, I hope you're watching from above watching and protecting your family.
@@madisonflowwI understand your doubt I feel that way too but please don’t comment that on a video like this. The person commented to help make the woman feel hopeful and better about the situation.
My heart was truly hurting for you and your precious husband. I have such admiration for how brave you both were facing such terrible things. But, you faced it all together. Those babies are precious! ❤
my heart is in pieces. the photo of him with the fuzzy hair holding the baby crushed me, i knew immediately he wasn’t ok because it reminded me of the last month of my Dad’s cancer battle. Takes the breath right out of my body, cancer is so cruel. one minute your doing well, you start to feel ok and stronger again just for it to slip away faster than you can wrap your head around it. I hope Mom and those two angel boys feel all the love and have a village of people around them. Their Dad is a warrior and will always be there in spirit i do honestly believe that❤
Your a strong wonderful woman. Stranger I don’t know You. But I love you. I love that each and everyday your strong for them boys. And for them you keep going. U might be exhausted but you’ve kept going. Your the best mom ever. I love you. 💕 keep going. Never give up.
I don't have anyone close to me that's died from cancer and my parents are still hanging in there but yeah, I'm crying in the parking lot of the convenient store😥.
This is one of those videos where, you watch and you're hoping there's an awesome, happy ending where he recovered, the boys are here and you guys lived happily ever after. I'm so sad, heartbroken and sorry that it didn't happen that way, and that he passed away. That he never gave up and went down fighting means that your boys will have the same heart and spirit as their father when they face adversary in their lives. And that he saw his boys and held them in his arms before he passed away....he died a happy and complete man, having met his wife and sons before he reached the end. That is the ultimate honour a man can have because not all men have that, and you gave him that. So mad respect to you too.
I felt relief when I saw he was cancer free then I cried at the end and hugged my boyfriend who’s got his own health issues. ❤ cherish every moment you have with the ones you love.
So sorry for your loss. Know that you gave him much joy in his life. Those babies were a gift from God and your husband that you will continue to live, love and have joy all the days of your life. ❤
Yea have my deepest blessed with the loss of your Love one😢 But Congratulations on the joy and happiness of God’s gracious gifting with the two bundle of joy ( Twins). He left you with extra piece of your sweet heart ❤❤❤❤
So sorry that he didn't make it 😢 but he got the greatest gift ❤️ and that he was able to see the birth of his children and got to hold them and bond with them. ❤ You were his rock 🪨 during his tribulations and no doubt he was grateful to you for being there for him. Grief is love enduring loss. Hope you continue to receive comfort and compassion along your journey in life! ❤
