Captain Anshuman Singh के Parents की तरह Commandor Nishant Singh की मां का हाल, नहीं मिली Pension 

Q

Aap log likho act change karana ka😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Mother's life is over, wife's life has just begun. Mother should get a part of the pension and the rest only if he's unmarried and without children. If wives won't be factored into the policies who will marry you?

Yes sir

Yes

Pension 50-50 karde

Right 😢😢😢😢😢

ये सरकार कया कर रही है? इसे गहराई से सोचती कयो नही इतना बड़ा मुद्दा पर सरकार को तुरंत संज्ञान लेकर पैरेंट्स के लिए कोई अच्छे वयवस्था कर कयो नही रही है?

Very very true. My wholehearted support for his poor mother

This should also apply to IAS, IPS and all govt pensions. Also with life insurance policies. Then what is the use of that nomination form? Why did their son not include the parents in his nomination. you mean to say the office is dumb? Govt is trying to remove pension itself and here we want law on the pension distribution which is done solely based on the nominations given by the officer/soldiers. Educate them. Show them examples of Hardik Pandya and such parents so they will learn the realities of todays world. And parents should not be financially dependent on anyone.

agreed

180,000 is a biggest lie about pension.

अक्सर फोर्स वालो के साथ ऐसा ही होता है, जो कि नही होना चाहिए, मन भर आता है साब, जहा सिंगल चाइल्ड हो वहां का हाल ओर भी दुखदाई होता है, ईश्वर इनको शक्ति दे,

Haan bilkul.. vo apni bahu ko bol rahe hai ke apne devar se shaadi karlo.. unke saath raho.. humara dard tumhare dard se zyada hai.. 26 saal ki ladki vidhva ho gai.. maa baap ka dard zyada hai.. abe dard dono ka hi zyada hai lekin ese sochte ke maa baap ka hi dard dard hai kyuki shaadi lambi nahi thi.. ESI bakwas baat hai ye.. ab tum jese bolenge ke vo toh dubara shaadi karlegi . Kyu rahe aklei saari umar.. patni ka dard kisi ko nahi dikh raha..

@@kritikaghai5882 behn tumhe pura interview dekhna chahiye tha chhoti chhoti clips Mt dekho unhone ye kaha ki -1 hm khud krayenge dusri shadi beti bnake ghr se Vida krenge ,2agr vo is ghr me rehna chahe to Chhota beta h usse shadi krva denge 3 agr vo sari umr hmare bete ke nam se jina chahti hai to ghr ki bdi bahu Malkin vo hogi or chhote bete ki pahla putr uske godi me de denge .....behn tum achhe se dono side sun kr bad m bolo ...unhone kbhi nhi kaha ki unka dard jyada hai ...yaha bat smman ki h jo shaheed ke mata pita deserve krte hai

@@kritikaghai5882 dubara shadi krni chahiye kyuki uski puri umr baki h hr kisi ko hkk hai khush rhne ka ......smriti ko b pura hkk h vo jese b jina chahti hai lekin anshuman ke mata pita ka kya?......behn jb tum khud maa bnogi na tb pta chalega

​@@kritikaghai5882 tumhare baton se lagta hai ki tum clips dekhi ho full vdo nhi...they have never said they will get her married to younger son....it was a proposal...she was educated and smart ese hin koi bina marji sadi nhi kara sakta....I agree every in-laws aren't innocent but why don't you accept that cunning dil do exist in the world who never wanted to share her husband money with parents....his parents are wrong but smriti and her parents aren't innocent either

@@jyotimeghwal786 why can't people deal with this agony in their way.. kyu karao usko shaadi.. aare use apne life ko dekhne do khud.. dekha hai mene interview. Ek side ka hai interview.. you don't know shit about other side. Ek side lo story chal rahi hai

Diffrance me ye hi sabse badi galti h rule hi easa bna rakha marriage se pahle parents nomeny hote h or marrige ke baad wife or fir wife sab kuch lekar chale jate h

U r right ​@@SavinaSansanwal

फौजी क्या करे।विकल्प ही नहीं है कानून में। कानून ही ऐसा है कि केवल पत्नी को मिलेगा। भगवान की कृपा से मेरा बेटा स्वस्थ है और राष्ट्र को सेना में रहकर मेजर रैंक पर सेवा दे रहा है। मेरी इकलौती संतान है मेरा बेटा। ढाई साल पहले शादी हुई थी। बहू 7 महीने साथ रही और उसके बाद मेरे बेटे को छोड़ कर अपने घर बैठ गई थी। अब हमें पता चला कि बहू के तीन रिश्ते पहले भी होकर टूट चुके थे जिन में से एक मंगेतर ,उसकी बहन बहनोई, पिता पर इन्होंने लालची होने का केस लगाकर 15 लाख रुपए भी ऐंठ लिए थे तब केस हाई कोर्ट से ख़ारिज हुआ था। अब मेरे बेटे को धमकी दे रहे हैं कि दहेज के लिए तंग करने का केस लगाएंगे नहीं तो 50 लाख दे दो और तलाक कर लो। लेकिन बेटे ने कह दिया कि एक पैसा नहीं दूंगा झूठे इल्जाम का। अब दोनों का तलाक का केस चल रहा है। अब बहू ने भरण पोषण की मांग की है फौज से।जो बेटे को सैलरी का लगभग 20 प्रेसेंट देना पड़ेगा। ऐसे कानून भी परिवर्तन होना चाहिए कि 7 महीने शादी निभाई फिर भी भरण पोषण लेकर मजे से घर बैठ गई है।मैं सिंगल मदर हूं। विधवा हूं। बेटा बहुत प्यार और सम्मान से अपने साथ रखता है। फिर भी कानून में बदलाव होना चाहिए कि मां को भी अधिकार हो।

Matlb woh paiso k wajah se gujre huye pati k maa baap ka paas rhe... Waah Sab saas se poochti hun unke pati k gujarne se woh rehti kya waha apne sasural mein.. Main dekh rhi wife hona gunah ho gya hai Mat karwao apne bete ki shadi Rakhna apne paas Fir Jo Paisa mile le lena..kisi ko dene ke zaroorat nahi

To jo paisa mila h wo uska h kya akeli ka ? Fr uska name ka paisa ku le rhi h wo​@@devleenasarkar6203

Papa ne to.kubka chhor diya...she is a single.parent

Ye v divorce lekr baithi h inne v apne sas sasur ki koi seva nhi ki h to apne karmo ka fal maan lena chahiye

Ladkiyan badtameej nahin hoti , Wo tumahare jaise log gain , ldkiyan idiot hai Jo financially independent nahin hoti aur inke jaise jaleel logon ki baat sunati hain

​@@Riyasn8ijठीक है पर अंशुमान के माता पिता की क्या गलती है

@@sushmasinha2000 unke ghr me thodi rhti hu ki mujhe pta ho ki unhone kya glti h .. or apni galti koi khud btata v nhi h or bhu kuchh bol nhi rhi h

Sas sasur nhi dekha to kya huwa apne bache ka dekha bhal to kara rahi hai na tamij nahi​@@Riyasn8ij

Dusri shadi ke bad pension band ho jati hai, govt. already smart hai.

Absolutely 💯

Live-in chupkar rakhti hai mahilaye.@@thejourneyoflife_shaurya53800

​@thejourneyoflife_shaurya5380 You really don't know how twisted world has become. They involve in live-in.

Kisi ko aise mat bolo...koi nai jantakya hua...dusri shadi karna koi gunah nai hai

Itni choti age hai bahu ki fir wo to dusri shadi karegi,usse shaheed ki poori pension kyu mile

What nonsense. Pension is given on the basis of relations, not where you live. That way the son doesn't live with his parents so why should they get the pension at all. There are couples who have to move constantly due to the postings as the parents stay in one place then the parents shouldn't get it, only the wife should, according to your great idea. The wife is not the in-laws servant.

​@@NidzShah-ps6krbut the pension should stop after she remarry this has to be done

@@prathamthakur5971 it will if she remarries. there are always two sides to a coin they got 65 lakhs from the govt. her husband was serving in the army too, so they also got a pension for that. for what they need more? and her father-in-law said in an interview they proposed to her to get married to their younger son. I mean WTF seriously. which is why I think things may be deeper than we thought

@@minha8821what if she lives with another guy live in relationship without marrying him enjoying pension whole life 🤣🤣

Hi

शादी ना करे अपने बेटे की parents जिंदगी भर NOK बने रहे।।।

Bilkul mat bhejo aur shadi bhi mt karo

Don't trust women

कुछ नालायक बहुओं की वजह से पत्नी का दर्ज़ा कम नहीं हो जाता। मां के लिए पिता जी ने कोई इंतजाम किया होता है (सिंगल मदर के लिए अलग बात है) लेकिन पत्नी अपने पति की पेंशन से ही अपने बच्चों की परवरिश करती है।

I feel circumatances ki basis paar decision lena chaiye.

​​@@sagunasaran4185aap kaisi baat kar rahe h ma ke liye pita ji ne intzaam kiye hote h sabke pita ji govt job wale ya rich family se nahi hote aise bahut se ma baap h jinka ghar ka karcha beta hi chalata h jo apne bete par hi depend hote h .Aur abi jo siachen me jawaan shaheed hue the unki wife to 13 din hote hi unki family ko chod ke chali gayi unke to bache b nahi the bas 5 Mahine hue the shadi ko sab Paisa jo sammaan mila tha sab leke australia chali gayi ma baap ko kya mila bas dukh aur takleef jinhone apne bete ko us layak banaya.

Pension for wife doesn't work that way. There is some sum of money given to the wife upon his death and a different sum based on the span of time she has spent with him BEFORE remarrying. So it's done on a case by case basis but the rules are pretty clear overall.

​@@sagunasaran4185 a wife is also a daughter-in-law dumbo

Aisi bahu mat lana aunty aap

​@@user-jl9zl8el1nharr bahu time ate hi apni aukat dikhati hai warna usse izzatdar dhongi koi nai hota😂😂😂

इसमे बहु की क्या गलती है ? कानून गलत है ।

@@ushaoza4922 शहीद की मां भी फौजी की पत्नी है । अगर इस मां का पती फौज में शहीद हो जाता , क्या यह सब कुछ अपने सास ससुर को देती ? कभी नही । जितना हक मा बाप का है उनको मिलता है और जितना पत्नी का है उस को मिलता है ।

purush jimmedari leta hai ladki ke maa baap ki , better shadi mat karo , ye tum logon ne banaya hai ki ladki husband ke maa baap ka dhyan rakhe , qpne apne maa baap ka dhyan khud rakho bhai, ladki ne theka le rakha hai

जिस तरह से लड़की पत्नी के पैतृक संपति का कानूनन हकदार नहीं होता है वैसे ही लड़की को यह लिखित में देना चाहिए कि वह भी किसी तरह संपति की हकदार नहीं होगी। साथ ही उसे शादी के पहले ही यह शर्त रखनी चाहिए कि सास ससुर की देखभाल नहीं करेंगे। लड़कियाँ ये न करे कि सपति के अधिकार के मामले में पारंपरिक बहु बन जाएं और कर्तब्य की बारी आये तो नहीं निभायेंगे। यानी चुड़ैल बन जाये।

जिस तरह से लड़का पत्नी के पैतृक संपति ......

@@werhuman8798 to ladkiya husband ki property me hissa kyu mangti he? Ladke to wife ki and wife ke bap ki property me hissa nhi mangte Agar wife sas sasur ka khayal nhi rakhna he to property me hissa mangna bandh kar de

Mana yeh bhi galat hai lekin woh ladki bhi apne maa baap ko chhod kar aati hai apke vansh ko aage badati hai

@@anjukatoch1549 paisa chahiye hota hai survive karne ke liye sirf motivation se pet nai bharta

Kharch tu pahuchayegi

Bina paise ke mayke me bhai pr bojh bn jaye .. or dusri sadi me v paise lgte h

​​​@@Riyasn8ijkyu sasural me reh ke jimmedari nahi sambhal sakti kya....... husband ki jimmedari khud ke kandho pe nahi le sakti.....yaa saas ko lekar sath nahi reh sakti .........bas apni bachhe ko le kar kahi shift ho jaao......saas ko akela chhod ke.......ese maa ki bachha bhi uski budhapa me chod dega........ bhagwan kare esa hi ho.....

@@FactDynamics Jinke bache nhi hote unke liye bola h mene jinke bache hote woh vaise v sasural nhi chhodti h itna to har koi janta h dusri sadi me bacho ka kya haal hota h

@@Riyasn8ij iski Bahu ki bachha hai ek.........aur bachha nahi hai fir bhi sasural ke sath contact rakhna chahiye......it's a moral duty .........aur unke sukh dukh me sath hona chahiye

@@FactDynamics pati apni wife ke maa baap ko nhi puchhte to kya apni wife ke phle sas sasur ko puchhne dege .. ya to app ye jate ho bhu puri jindgi akeli rhe

महानता को भी जीवन यापन के लिए पैसे की ज़रूरत होती है ।

सही बात तो

Sahi baat

1 lakh 80 hazar m baccha palega?

​@@awesomeman970 Kyun nahi palega???

One widow of remarry benefits should goes to parents and if stay with in laws benefits should goes to daughter in law.

Who is going to marry with a widow in India specially , If she doesn't hv any money or property ??.​@@bikrambehera7192

She is not referring to pension. This is the salary which the widow would be getting till the debased soldier age reaches 60..post 60, she will start getting pension

Main to pura Mera next to kin policy maa ka naam kardunga.

​@@swatidasgupta8623 what?? Esa v hota hai salary v full milti sahid ki wife ko??

​@@swapnalishapradhan1391Parents of the deceased son in small towns and villages force the wife and her children to part with the entire pension and insurance after the soldiers death and have been known to turn her out of the house or forcing to marry her brother in law or uncle to keep her enslaved and keep drawing pension to feed and educate the family before her own children.

​@@sumanraut3008oh really so that your parents can throw out your wife and children!

Kya kehna chahte ho

उपेक्षा नहीं, " अपेक्षा"

Saar bhi to bahuon ko ghaas nahi daalti. To matlab rishta Banta hi nahi hain. Ladka hota hain to rishta hota hain. Ladka Gaya to rishta khatam.

Daba ke masti

Mze kargi ..sari ummar

Kisi ka kuch nahi jata total loss parents ka😢

tumahre pati ki mot hogi to tumko bhi mauj hoga nahi

@@rajyalaxmi2946 Mai tou randi hu ji...g.b road pe kaam karti hu didi..vaiisshaa hu maii

Kuchlog bolenge hi... bewakoof hai wo... parents ka haq hai... unhone bachhe ko pala hai, sena me bheja tha...wife ka haq v h par jab itni Kam time ki shadi ho ... bachha nahi h tab consider krna chahiye phle parents ko...aise kitne parents honge jinko kuch nhi mila...govt ko law change karna chahiye bilkul

True... Bacche maa BAap ko maar rhe hai

बात टॉक्सिक की नही है आप कैमनडेर निशांत की मदर कितनी समझदार है, अंशुमान के पैरेंट्स ने बात को गलत तरीके से पेश किया ।घर के बात घर पे रहे जाति तो अच्छा लगता।

@@belaanchalia71 pura interview pdo fr bolo kisik parents k liye

@@sbnerji12555 Bacche investment policy nahi hey

Ye khud b ek officer ki wife hai iske husband b navy mai officer the ye kahan se bechri lagti hai ki ye bahu k upper depend hai isne to khud apne Husbnd se divorce le rakha hai

Shi baat h

Shi baat h

Kaun damad apni biwi ke parivar ki jimmedari leta hai?

Divorce le rakha hai to kya ye galat hai ? Uski Marzi , itne me tumne judge kar liya ? Ye lady jitni powerful hai na tum kabhi ban bhi nahi paogi. Jaahil ​@@mansa25

मतलब सैनिक की ज्यादातर गलती होती है जो वह ठीक से वसीयत बनाता नही।

@@kavishwarmokal124 Yes, aur sabke family alag alag hoti h uske according wo will banate h 100, 50-50, ya 70-30 aur jo NOK hota h baki sab unko milta h aur insab parents ko rules pata h pir bhi ab bahu ko galat dikhane k liye media m aarhi h Warna agar kisi ko sach m prbm to court case karna chaiye aur inko ex husband se bhi ab lena chaiye agar bahu se mang rhe h aur apni bhabhi se bhi le rhi h to unse bhi le army walo se mile k ex husband se pension dilwaye wo divorced wife ko bhi pension milta h

​@@prachishekhawat8733 Kya bol rahi ho ,kuch sharam aa rahi hai bewakoof

Inki bahu nahi..govt se shikayat hai aur inhe apne husband se paisa lena chahiye

Well said

Army officers to vaise bhi biwi ke chamche hote hai..meri sister in law hai army officer ki wife.. sasural na jati hai na apne pati ko jane deti hai

Plzz mat bhejna

What's money got to do with love for protecting the nation. Its a noble passion of every soldier to lay his life for one's country.

फौज में जाना सबके बस की बात भी नहीं हैI जिसे खुद से ज्यादा देश से प्रेम होता है वही जाता हैI

​@@yolandadesa250money से घर चलता है, भीख मांगे देश की रक्षा के लिए?

Han dusron ke bacche hain to jaan dene ko. Sab ye hi sochen to desh to gaya. Gratitude for the parents who send their children to the army inspite of all this.

Bahan tum sahi kah rahi ho.

Wo chodo iske condition mein bolo.....

And she's alone... it's really sad...😢

Yes, Every case is different….her case is genuine with single child,single mother. Anshuman’s Father comes across as Toxic!

I agree. ​@@anamusmani9749

Ek dam sahi kah rahi ho mere pati nahi rahe delhi police me the khatam ho gy maine Sara paise unhe de diya sasa ko fir wo kisi se ye bat nahi bolti ki bahu ne diya sab sahi nhi hote

Vo maa bhi kabhi bahu thi .... isliye vo bhi socho @Riyasn8ij

@@Ankit20340 isliye to kah rhi hu pati ki property patni ko milni chahiye taki bete bhu ke samne hath n felana pde agar bache dekhbhal krte h to unko do or nhi krte to ghr se bahr nikalo

@@Riyasn8ij is case mein kis favour mein ho phir aap

Aisa mat socho... ekbar is maa k bareme socho ...ye us umar me akele 18000 se gujara kar rhi hai...kya is liye unhone navy me bheja tha bachhe ko...wife ka v obviously haq hai...but aise cases me jab wife independent hai, bachha nhi h...sas ka khayal rakhna nhi h tab to obviously maa ko v utna hi milna chahiye jitna bahu ko ..mai khud ladki hoke ye bol rhi hu...kya us 1lakh 80 thousand me se is maa ko kuch nhi dia ja sakta ? Aage inka tabiyat kharab hoga to kon hoga inko dekhne... award v parents ko nhi dete ...ye galat hai

True

बहुत सही कहा आपने

Hato isiliye samman mata pita ko milna chahiye, wife ko nhi

Ye India he, yaha western culture nhi chalta, hindu culture ke anusaar rahna chahiye

@@driftking4517 to Indian culture kya hai? bahu ko naukarni bana kar rakhna,Dahej lena khokh me ladki maar kar ladka paida karna taaki ladke ke paiso par saari jindgi ash ho. India me beta matlab investment

to Indian culture kya hai? bahu ko naukarni bana kar rakhna,Dahej lena khokh me ladki maar kar ladka paida karna taaki ladke ke paiso par saari jindgi ash ho. India me beta matlab investment

@@driftking4517 to Indian culture kya hai? bahu ko naukarni bana kar rakhna,Dahej lena khokh me ladki maar kar ladka paida karna taaki ladke ke paiso par saari jindgi ash ho. India me beta matlab investment

Ye sab baat hai na ki agar aisa law bana diya jaiyega toh na sasural vale bahut se aise bhi honge jo na Bahu ko bete ke marne ke bad torture krnge aur uske ghr se nikal denge aur jeene nhi denge aur usko majburi mein sasural chodna padega aur shadi krni padegi Toh har cheej ka nuksan hai Aise bhi case ayenge phir ki bahu ko jabran ghr se nikal rhe hain jisse bahu ka pension par hak khatam ho jaye 😢

मानो अगर सास ससुर बहु को पीडीत कर रहे हो तो क्यों वहा रहेगी ? इससे अच्छा है की पेरेंट्स को अलग पैसे दो और बहु को अलग पैसे दो ।

Bacho ka.....unko kya marr jna chahiye

Kioki saas apna 50 percent apni beti damaad ko degi kabhi v apne pote ko nhi degi

Divorce k baad usko kaise saare rights mil gye

Shayad officially na liya ho , on paper​@@Tobotobi

​​​@@Tobotobi I said because of her extra marrital affairs that other couple got divorced and I know them well..read my previous comments properly

@@jomnga8712 okay I got your point now

You know her personally?

I think kuch to hoga...aur parents ko aage aana chahiye taki govt ko rule change krna pade

Warrant officer to air force mein hote hai.... Army mein nhi...

Do. U know even the full story..?😢 Literally Shame on u for this type of mindset..Her Daughter in laws had an Extramarital affairs during COVID days..Even they were going to be divorced..But unfortunately He lost his life.. Even after all of this " Kya Bahu deserve krte hai" 1.8 lakh Monthly Pension Even Hse doesn't give a F*k If she alived or Dead..? Kitna giroge re Bahu sb jga torture hoti hai to Inn logo ka dukh nhi dikhta..? 😢

Babu torture hone ke baad bhi pension milta hai , Medical facilities milta hai, Insurance claim krta hai.. Parents ko kya milta hai..? Plz Give me answer..😢 Literally Unbelievable What type of Mindset of people in these Days..? 😢 Even after all of this She demands only for 50-50... Doesn't she deserve..? Single hai wo Atleast pension Medical facilities to milni chahiye na..?😢

​@@Piyush_Mallicksach kahu janke bahut bura laga But yar kya jarurat thi inke bete ko itni high fi ladki se shadi krne ki jiska affair chalana ho Khudh phle ye ladke advance ladkiyon se shadi krte hain aur achi sanskari ladkiyon ko chodh dete hain ab bhugatna padega hi 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@kahna2601 Plz Give some data where Kam status wala ladki respect karegi..? Ese thodi na kisi ko pta hota hai Samne wala kaisa insaan hai..🙂To usee kaise pta lagega wo acha hai ya bura..For your kind information Bina high figh ladki ka bhi ajkal character kuch thik nhi rehta..Ye person to person define krta hai..That doesn't mean high figh wali ladki hamesha Kharab hai.. At last Can I say Loudly..WOMAN☕😂🤣

​@@kahna2601are..ye kya logic hai..gaon ki dehati ladki affair nahi chalti kya..itne case bta du jahan bahuo ke apne hi devar jetho se chakkar chalte hai..

I think she said 18000