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Yo the comment you made about understanding how another person shows affection really opened my eyes I know this video is like a year old but I felt like having and abba and preach day so I’m rewatching all of your old content but I’ve been married to my husband for almost 5 years and I always thought he was not very affectionate till I heard you say that then I thought back (because we are high school sweethearts) and really thought about it and realized he really was it was just different from what I was used too. You teaching me this really made me look at my husband differently I understand now thank you adda and preach!!!!!!! ❤️love from Jacksonville,Florida
I can so relate to this comment. Been with my husband going on 20 yrs, and his love language has always been that he literally kills himself at work to provide for me & our children. It's the only way he knows.
@@Dakkaroni that makes no sense? You mean simp, as in simpleton? Because she was a girl? I can't even process the stupidity of that reply. Makes Absolutely no sense. Pretty sure, had it been a guy, Aba would have done the same (minus the drama probably). All my friends that ever slept over my place, always had the offer to take my room. Because I can easily sleep on my couch. It's called natural respect and courtesy for your guests...
@@Orbital_Smack yeah aba would meet up with a guy from overseas and host, sleep in one room and forgo his sleep for a man. Take him out and shit. Thats not suspect. I know you may not believe this but men and women are different and we respond differently and act differently on a subconscious level
@@Dakkaroni Nope in most countries, hospitality is considered very important. Your guests - male or female - must have a good time when visiting you. Thats a matter of family values!!
The word simp lost all meaning. Just sexists using the word to excuse their sexism at this point. Compliment a female? Help a female? Do anything nice for a female? Simp.
Edit: please take the time to read through the thread. this is why we need more men speaking up about the abuse men face from women and for other men to take those stories seriously.
Yoooooooooo if that ain't THE TRUTH! I never realized that and yeah that is totally on point, its like their brain broke and they can't compute that you're not just gonna take their shit
It's good she revealed herself early. The worst case scenario is her hiding her personality disorder and you investing time, emotional connection, etc, and this abuse comes out under even worst circumstances.
I’m a woman and your right. Nobody cared that my mom was physically abusing me as a kid because she was a woman. If it would of been my dad once I told anyone he would of went to jail.
Moms are some of the most abusive. My mom was brutal to me. My best friends moms all abused them. I don't know a guy who hasn't had their ass beat by their moms.
NCR Trooper I personally haven’t bc by the time I was like 10 my mom wasn’t physically capable of abusing me, but I hear you sorry you had to go through that
Leslie Starck yikes. Just because a woman hurt you doesn’t mean it’s ok to be sexist. I wouldn’t blame you for something a man did to me but that’s just what my small woman brain tells me.
Ravenex2 I had both parents and my mom just pushed him over. He was a pushover and didn’t want to confront her because she’d yell at him for hours and it just drove him to never confront her.
My mother used to say, "A drunken mouth reveals a sober mind." Alcohol doesn't change who you are, but it releases inhibitions, in the same way that power DOESN'T corrupt, it merely gives you the ability to do what you WANT to do.
Michael Davis one of the rare times when I was drunk I lied a guy that I was 21 when I was 26. i don't know why just for the thrill because I have anxiety to lie even on simple things. But I guess it was the truth that came out🤣🤣
@@hirrorstories Ah, but WHY did you lie? Could it be so that you could do something that you otherwise couldn't have done? I didn't sat drink made you honest. I said that it releases INHIBITIONS. Anyway. Good for you!
To be honest i think Preach was shocked himself and tried to cover it up by going along with Aba. He was talking way too much afterwards and "joking" around. Earlier in the video Preach was reminiscing about all off the "tough" situations they went through together in Haiti, and how Aba was always the calmer one. I think the "no friend" thing was actually a big shock... You'd have to be friend's to have endured that much right?
just because their don't define their relationship with the word "friend" doesn't mean they don't have a meaningful, positive, and rewarding relationship. the guys on Mythbusters, Jamie and Adam said the same exact thing for the same reason.
Who cares whether their friends or not it's not for us the viewers to determine whether they are or aren't friends thats up to them and if they say they aren't then they aren't. Just cause we watch a 30min vid of them doesn't mean we know them they put bits and pieces of themselves within their content which makes it more authentic but at the end of the day we do not know these dudes let's just enjoy the great content they put out and leave it at that.
They aren’t friends…. They’re partners and they’re basically COMPLETELY sharing interests, incomes, and livelihoods to a certain extent… to be honest their connection goes far deeper than just “friends” I wouldn’t call these dudes friends either.
“people can do better” i love that. abuse is abuse. i can’t even begin to explain how bad toxic femininity is in the workplace. most women can be so unbelievably manipulative.
Haha I love how you turned the feminist "toxic masculinity" back on them. S'true tho. Neither gender is any better or worse than the other. We're all human and we're all capable of good and evil.
Girl thank you. I had my first office job before covid hit, and being a woman interacting with these other women I thought to myself "No wonder people believe women are bitches in the workplace". I was so fucking mad how manipulative, petty, and overall bitchy the other younger women I worked with were. I wouldn't think to talk to them how they talked to me and others because of how straight up unprofessional it was.
Always! It’s literally tha 1st thing I try 2 do wit ppl I think highly of when tryin 2 get 2 know them. I wanna know tha real U, tha unfiltered version of U
This is late, but 2 years ago my mom admitted she beat on my father first, a lot, and I grew thinking he just beat on her when they fought. They're both dysfunctional and shouldn't have had kids, but it still opened my eyes to a woman's behavior in a relationship. It made me realize I want to be nothing like her. I love my mom, but she needs therapy.
Most women i know that were hit by their man, hit first at one point. And would constantly yell and insult at their spouse to a breaking point. Yes we women tend to be very abusive to men because we get away with it and when they abuse back, we're still the victim
@@PeanutFairy let me break it down for u in the biological stand point men never hit women with out a purpose there are times that happen but lets be realistic thats rare men are HARDWIRED to protect women and women are HARDWIRED to protect them selves and their seed women start most abusive relationships not the men we protect women on a biological stand point and women need to look after them selves because they are vulnerable this isnt misogany its facts women are heart less because they need to protect them selves and men are the more careing of the 2
Seriously. I can never tell a full whole life experience without someone say, "Yea that happened to me too.." and then now they're sharing their story. People listen to respond these days, they dont just listen to listen.
She was inconsiderate, rude, and verbally/physically abusive toward Aba. Woman like this are used to facing zero repercussions for their actions and get away with these types of things simply because they’re woman. Aba must have Olympian level self-restraint because he was well within his right to make her catch a UFC submission in self defense. But then again, we all know he would be painted as the villain if he retaliated.
@@peachescastle6659I didn’t say only women like this are rude or inconsiderate. I’m saying that women like her who get abusive with their male partners continually perpetuate this type of behavior simply because they’re used to facing 0 consequences due to their gender & the fact that violence against men isn’t treated as seriously as violence against women which shouldn’t be the case.
@@peachescastle6659it does because men know the repercussions of such actions and would think twice before doing so even in self defense. Women know they can get away with it that’s why they do it. When people Don’t have consequences to their actions they will push boundaries with what they can get away with.
woman vs woman is far more cruel, dangerous & threatening. I had a fair share from my own family/relatives that being bullied & threaten by another woman (& her friends) for months.
@@purepit4ever1200 Lol, yeah. But she wasn't saying it to me though. She'd say it during a conversation about someone she disliked or someone she knew disliked her. 🤣🤣🤣 Or someone who was wicked.
When you said “I don’t like yelling because I came from an environment where people are always yelling and fighting” I could relate so much and its like in this generation, they feed off of people fighting and arguing which is another reason why I don’t waste my energy towards this bullshit ideal, namaste.
OMG i relate so much too.. Fucking chaotic loud unstable environment.. loud people, aggressive tones, not minding your business.. Yelling at strangers like that, idk it disgusts me aheh
@@anniet494 he was basically a great Mexican American actor and other stuff from back in the day. He's a legend, you might have seen him in Zorba the Greek, Hercules playing Zeus and lots more. And your names are the same so I thought maybe you made it up after him idk. 😀 But maybe it's a great coincidence and that's your real name. 🤷 maybe you're too young to know him idk
@@deddrz2549 That's quite shallow. And that is their point. The word "Friend" means something quite deep to them, as it does to me. I've got exactly 4 people who I could call my friends, even when I hang out regularly with people who aren't my friends, because we can respect each other and get along. There are boundaries there. Now with my friends, that's who one can open up to emotionally, who you can exchange advice with, when it comes to their, or my, deep history. Shit you can't even tell your family. I'm not trying to belittle you or anything. It's just that your definition of "friend", is a more accurate description of "acquaintance", or "colleague".
@@gintuner4371 But by your definition they should be friends, right? Both of them exchange advice in every single video, and they talk about emotional stuff like this video?
you cant be best friends with your co-worker, it never works out in the business aspect. Im sure if they didn't work together and knew each other they'd be best of friends. Respect to aba and preach, real shit. Real talk.
I’m just like you on the argument thing. Me and my wife have been together for 26 years and 22 of that spent married. We had an argument at my moms one time and my brother I guess was watching. He came over and asked,” Were y’all arguing?” I said,” Yeah.” And he says,” Damn it just seemed like y’all were just having a conversation.” I told him that I don’t see a reason in yelling because what does it do besides draw attention.
Oh that how I am. I believe in every situation whether you talking to a child always be calm so that you can reach some level of understanding. Never yell at anyone, otherwise your statement will be useless
I don’t even bother having conversations once people start insulting, mocking, yelling. If they wanna talk, we can talk. If not, they can do their clown dance by themselves.
I’ve never seen such a “Friend-like”, no friends relationship. Maybe y’all have another word for it, or y’all are family, but it’s definitely a caring relationship.
I lost my dad last May, leaving me an orphan way sooner than I expected. My son told me it's not his concept, but he heard once that grief is like a big rubber ball in a box with a button. As time goes by that ball will get smaller and as it bounces around inside that box it hits that button of devastation and loss less often. Be kind to yourself.
Well, lesson learned, the woes of the hookup culture. Can't be intimate with someone you don't know. I don't mean intimate in a sex sense either. Staying in the same quarters is very intimate.
Thank you for making this comment. Idk how people did it back then but our generation do this so casually and wonder why or even how somebody usually the female is getting emotionally violent/ attached. #thehorrorsofhookupculture
The whole thing about sticking to your threats is huge for raising children too. It’s also the same for making promises. You have to be a man of your word, good or bad.
This video is really heartbreaking because this is how a lot of people fight. It's not about resolution, it's about transferring hurt, or sharing the burden of it.
Sorry for reupload, had to fix audio problems towards end of video. Anyways, I think one thing i learned from all this is, dont allow people into my personal space on a whim. I have to protect my home from bad energy We all got thangs to improve on. Also she has long since apologized profusely for what happened. Me and her are good, not involved but we cool.
The bad thing is that because there are such people, who fuck you up, you have to guard up next time with other people, who are probably the nicest and sanest people. And you miss out on stuff because of shit which has been done to you
I don't know why people are freaked by them saying they're not friends. I have known a lot of people that I've worked with or went to school with and had great relationships with but I didn't consider a "friend". They could just have a more narrow definition of what they think of when they say friends.
You can have "casual friendships", like this coworker you really get along with at work, but you don't hang together after work. People seems to forget that there are different types of friendships.
i think people got confused because their definition of friendship is different. most people define the word friend in a more intimate manner like sort of a brother or someone very close to you. while some define the word friends in a casual manner. like someone you cool with and can hang out with, which seems to be the case for aba and preach. but i have to admit tho, for them to go through so much together and know personal stuff about each other and consider themselves close enough where they would handout outside of work is a bit weird. and i think its understandable why people freaked out about it.
Aba & Preach so is it like a Myth Busters situation where you guys butt heads a lot but the when you do agree on something it’s almost as if you’re reaching in each other’s minds?
Aba, so glad you were able to keep your head in this ridiculous situation. You my man have serious emotional intelligence. Your ability to express yourself and insight you share in this story is so impressive. If more men (myself included) learned how to understand their own emotions, and handle these situations in the same way. We would all be much better off.
I hate when they say “we’re not friends...” 😩 In my head you’re brothers and I’m your long lost baby sister that just found you last week and now I’m catching up on your videos to learn more about my fam. Don’t go breaking my heart!!! 😭😭
@@artofmajic that doesn’t make since if their aren’t friends then what’s the purpose of them making vids together lol. That’s weird never heard or seen that before 😆
About being drunk: That's why I never will drink alcohol because of what one neurobiologist said: "when you are drunk you are not the person you suppress, your mind is just having massive chaotic error and goes dumb, just saying shit that you never even thought when you are sober". Anyway, I believe that in a small amount, alcohol can reveal your true self.
I just spoke to my boyfriend and bestfriend (male) about toxic femininity and how women and girls are never expected to take accountability for things where they 100% should be held accountable. It's sickening.
@@bruhmomento1319 Really don't. My bestfriend is male. Immature people aren't able to have friends of the opposite sex, that says more about them than the people who are friends.
back when I was dating, any girl that made me want to hit her, had to go. Not that it was her fault, it just was not a match, because I never want to be the guy who wants to hit his girl.
I talk to my 17 year old cousin about toxic women. I would LOSE it if I EVER found out some chick is trying to get him to hit her. That is a snake who’s trying to ruin his life. Good for you for understanding your limits as a human #standupformentoo
I agree with that. I tell my nephew to defend himself against ANYONE (including his crazy ass ex) if necessary, and if he doesn’t want to hit a woman in self-defense, tag my ass in and I’ll GLADLY do a bid for him 🤷🏽♀️
About 6:22 is some of the realest relationship advice a man can ever get. Checking a woman is necessary, don't be weak. You're setting yourself up for failure if you don't.
Straight up teaching the masses about relationships and personal issues, and can entertain us at the same time. I am baffled and in awe at you guys! It’s like PBS for adults
When I found out that my boyfriend (now ex boyfriend) was cheating on me. He suggested that I punch him in the face. That to him, was...something like equal punishment. But I don’t put my hands on people, and I don’t believe in putting my hands on the man I love. Unless I am defending myself. I’m not breathing that type of energy into any relationship. Of course I was angry, and sure I wanted to destroy him because I was devastated. However, it will be a cold day in hell before I bring abuse into any relationship of mine. Fast forward, him and I are decent acquaintances who talk maybe every few months. There is never an reason for abuse, just walk away. I can’t imagine this type of behavior.
@Wyatt Peck Nah, I never pussy out. I'm being honest with myself, you and who ever else reads this. I just don't see any reasons for abuse. I don't know if I would've thought differently if I walked in on them. But i've always thought beating up the women is stupid, because he's the one that broke my heart. Not her. I like to live w/o regret. I am extremely happy with the way I handled myself, and where I am now.
he asked you to punch him in the face because he knew you would not, if you were capable of hitting like a man and he thought you'd hit him he would not have mentioned it.
@@jasonolinger6967 What ever you say man. Theres nothing I can tell you that could make you see any of this in a different light. You clearly are going to have something to say no matter what. And i'm going to stop wasting my energy defending myself to you. Just for fun, i'm going to do some extra pull-ups right now! Just because I know what i'm capable of. I feel good about myself, and life is good.
Travelling to see you in L.A.? Yelling "East side" in public? Hitting a man without expecting 2be knocked out? I knew this was a Becky from the beginning🤨
I’ve seen a lot of black women hit men. They weren’t knocked out. It’s not white thing, it’s a entitled woman attitude present in a lot of modern women.
Naw, y'all are friends by my standard. For me, friends are just people who enjoy hanging with you and treat you like a person. If I had a friend I worked with on a near daily basis, I wouldn't want to hang out with them afterwards either. People need their own time.
I live in a state that isn’t home for work with a bunch of guys in a similar situation as me. We work 40 to 60 hours together a week and you are right, I rarely want to hang out with them after work. Now I do at times is there is something we can go do but a lot of the time I just want to do me after work you know?
Wow... I’ve learned a lot from aba and preach but this... THIS.... “if you aren’t a man of character they think they can defy you & you will stick around” That really hit me, I know it seems stupid and may seem obvious that that is something everyone should know, but I never saw it like that. I thought I was just being caring or whatever, to give a person another chance after I said I wouldn’t. No matter what it was about. I’m genuinely going to do my best to live by that, because it is sooo ridiculously true. I’ve gone back on my word so many times weather it’s with an ex, or something as simple as “say that to me again and I’m leaving” But you guys are absolutely right, and I could have saved myself a lot of heartache and pain just from living by that. I’m going to start drilling that into my daughter. That simple line I feel like could save a lot of people from things. But Man, Thanks guys ❤️
When I heard the recording I thought it was a grizzly bear but then it hit me and realized he must have changed her voice for obvious legal reasons.......
@Brad Smith yes your right. Whens the last time you heard a MAN asking to be spoiled like a Disney princess? Never.... too many women have this "baby me" syndrome. Dont get me wrong though there's nothing wrong with taking good care of your women but being forced to do so is the issue. I like a women who can go on with or without me but still chooses to be with me. Anything other then that and i just feel used.
Hearing stories like this make me so happy my dad was my sole caretaker. So yelling and screaming wasn't something I grew up hearing. I take it as a compliment when guys tell me I act like a guy. I'm very much female but I just don't agree with actions like this. My mom and sisters are this crazy and I enjoy watching an idiot argue with themselves. I've had guys get mad and say I'm cold, heartless and emotionless cause i choose to calm down and then talk like an adult unless you are constantly cutting me with words then I walk away. This level of ignorance is from her past and instead of being an adult she pulled her insecurities out and threw them on you. Arguing leads to nothing but anger and pain and we have enough of that in the world we live in. I hope after all these years that she has seen the light and worked it out too cause it shows she doesn't know how to be rational and express herself reasonably
The whole 7 year sober thing resonated so hard with me - i know that fucking feeling man, from 5-18 i was fighting 2-3 times a day almost every day, just pure hell spawn, 28 now and havent had a fight in 10 years and nothing feels better, the rage is still there you just mature and learn to control it and think rationally and logically, feels so much better.
This makes me sad. She's lucky, you were extremely patient with her. I feel that she was taking advantage of your kindness, but good that you stood up for yourself. Your advice is very relevant and I've learned a lot from this video, I'm sharing this with my siblings that are getting into the dating stage
They're friends but not in the traditional sense. If they weren't working so much together. Its draining to see the person you were working with all day after work too.
Really? I just figure there’s a lot of people out there that just can’t handle their alcohol, and maybe she hadn’t eaten and got on the piss on an empty stomach when she went and spent the arvo at her other friends or something? Made a mess of herself...
@Kai Eon alcohol is just like any drug.. 🤷♂️ we all have things we might be ashamed of, carry guilt for, feel insecure about etc etc. With lowered inhibitions we will simply behave in the ways we would sober if we never thought of such things as consequences, past experiences and how they effect us or those around us, etc etc. But one thing that absolutely is fact, and this actually annoys the living f#*k out of me when I hear stuff like this, is it doesn’t change you as a person.. I hear people try to excuse other people’s toxic behaviour with bullshit such as “he/she was on drugs..” Obviously, it will bring out a lot of negative behaviour and choices that they otherwise might have self control over, but they are still there within them being suppressed otherwise.. drugs don’t make people do anything, people reveal their moral compass when they are under the influence and have a lowered sense of self control and inhibition..
@Kai Eon I’ve said it a fair few times already.. “if you’re a f#%khead when your on something, it’s because you’re just a f#%khead in general..” I can’t stand it when people use substances as some sort of excuse for f#%kwittery and shit behaviour like thievery, aggressive bullying and violent behaviour, controlling or possessiveness, domestic violence, etc..
You say this like Aba wouldn't be walking an equally dangerous field if the lass was asian or black. C'mon man, it has more to do with sex than color in this specific scenario.
To be clear, this is a dangerous situation for any guy regardless of race, but don’t pretend like you don’t know a Black guy being accused of abuse by a White female doesn’t elevate the circumstances in the minds of police & the justice system. I didn’t make it a race thing, the world judges situations like this on race. I’m just telling it as it is, not how I want see it. If the truth offends you, go back into your comfort bubble where people only tell you what you agree with.
@@erskinhansen1715 To be extra clear. The race of any person involved in false cases/innocence isn't a factor. The factor is whether or not the officer is actually a CIA Operative infiltrating the force to create strife and division. If you can't accept that, keep your rose colored glasses on.
"sometimes people don't understand how to receive/ understand love the way they're used to"... I knew something was going on with this channel that kept me awake way too long but never thought he would drop in the middle of a random video such a 💎
This is probably the biggest thing. A lot of people think they are fine because they can give a lot of love at times but when everything is in order and all they can do is sit there and be loved they know they have a problem when they're uncomfortable.
The whole 'friend' thing reminds me of japans biggest comedy duo Downtown. Nearly 40 years working together and they rarely talk to each other outside of work. Totally understandable tbh
Can you imagine if she wakes up and sees her boyfriend's dead body sitting on a messy house. She then calls the police and said to them that she woke up and can't remember anything from the night before. If this ever happens, we'll see who's fingerprints are from the murder weapon.
This drives me crazy, I see far more of my male friends suffer through abusive relationships than my female friends, and I think it is because these guys-who are really nice, chill people- give them to benefit of the doubt the first time this happens and then it just escalates until the relationship ends, which is usually with all of his friends begging him to leave her. It's fucked up that you had to deal with that, but it's cool that you see it for exactly what it is and dismissed that chick straight away like anyone should.
I won't hit a man ever (unless it's self defence ) because I might get hit back. Even though I do martial arts, men are stronger and I will get quite a few punches and kicks, eventually the male will still be able to really hurt me.
I am 5 '2. My exhusband, current husband are both over 6 ft tall. Their reach alone can stop me fast. Playing or real. His arm's are longer and a hundred times stronger. No effort needed.
It’s great that you don’t hit men, but this just sounds like you don’t hit them just because of the possibility they’ll hit you back. Sounds like if you knew for a fact men wouldn’t hit back you’d have no problem hitting them. The reason you shouldn’t hit men is because it’s wrong, not because they might hit you back.
New subscriber here. Can someone explain why they said that? How can having an intense work relationship mean you should not talk/hang out after work and be friends?
I was talking to a girl one time and she got drunk at a party. Started hitting my head and face (which I have a pet peeve about). Slammed my head into another guy's, slapped me with a scarf she was wearing a couple times. I got sick of it and explained to her about my pet peeve and told her not to do it anymore. Her response was to say "it's not my fault" and "I didn't mean to." Well, she got mad because she thought I was mad and she told me that she was gonna hit me in the face. Told me that twice. Then, surprise surprise, she hit me in the face. Now, this was the least painful thing she'd done to me all night but I told her that I was done with her. Luckily, she had another DD coming to get her so she left shortly after and I could go home. I cried my dudes. I was so upset that someone had gotten angry at me for no reason and had been hitting me. Don't let anyone treat you like that. Cut them out of your life (I haven't spoken to her since). Be good to yourself and you'll be glad you did. No one is worth being abused.
@@YouGottaShootEmInTheHead Ay bruh you're not wrong, but if that was the first time experiencing some shit like that outta no where, you got be shook on top of being pissed and all that shit. If he didn't know already he learned bitches act up, now he knows what to do
Listen man, you did the right thing by not engaging. You're not a bitch because you didn't hit her or because you cried. When you're in that situation there's literally nothing you can do besides walk away. If you retaliated then the entire crowd would've been against you because (I'm assuming) you're a guy, you would've been the bad guy no matter what. You probably would've had a negative reputation and possibly took on charges. It's a messed up situation and it's no wonder you got upset. Fuck these dudes that said you should've hit her back; it's not because she didn't deserve it or that men can't hit women in defense. It's because our social norms are overwhelmingly against a guy in your situation. I wish you all the best man
Maybe they use “friend” differently in Haiti? I don’t know but it bugs me to think they aren’t friends because I enjoyed the idea of them being really good friends
Look the word friends gives the feel that they hang out. The reality is that as co workers that have a strong respect for one another. The difference is that when you work with someone who fits you it is easy to be your self around that person.
Raymond Pumphrey That’s a Friend. In the words of DOOM “I check the dictionary for the meaning of friend It said: person, one who likes to socialize with Sympathizer, helper, and that's about the size of it.”
This whole story reminds me of a thing that happened to my neighbours. When I was like 14, my neighbours were always yelling, the woman kept saying very aggressive and threatening things. Apparently she would shove him and hit him, and when he would even breath she would say "Oh you want to hit me, oh you want to kill me..." She did this over months and one day she was physically beating him and he reflexly slapped her, she went crazy. My dad's clinic was next door and her husband brought her there and was crying and saying he was sorry, this man was bruised up and still apologising for an involuntary reaction.
@Vladimir Routing Bruuuhhhhhhhh, Did I tell you what country I am from or what religion these people are. They are Muslim, I am from an African country that is approximately 50% muslim. Don't make assumptions. Alimony/Child support is not a thing in my country. take your propagana and move on
@Vladimir Routing BRUHHHHHHHHHHH Good for you the you have a great wife and kids but that wasn't the point of my comment. It is sad what happened to your friends and colleagues but glorifying other countries won't make them feel better or improve their situation. Yes America's culture on divorce(from what I have seen) is horribly unfair but saying islam could save the west is illogical. The fact that you dated closed minded people in America is on you. I called you essay propaganda because you copy and pasted it to other people's comments as well. You seem like a headache to be around. I did read what you wrote and all I saw was pro-Islam propaganda. I don't know why I am replying to another essay of yours but just chill.
@liz t yuppp. Can confirm with scientific data that is accurate. At least half of children abused end up becoming abusers if theyre not strong enough to diverge from it.
That w ok man did a huge favor that was a blessing. Because you c ou uld have been way more invested before you saw how toxic she was. So sorry you went through this
I have been physically and mentally abused by women on multiple occasions. The one time it hit me the hardest was the moment I realised how people could care less when it's a woman behaving badly towards a man. I was serving a group of girls. Whilst holding the tray on one hand and a drink on the other, one of the girls quickly asked if I have a big one before grabbing my privates. All her friends (including the people from the other tables) laughed out loud... The only thing that kept crossing my mind is, what would happen if it was the other way around? To her credit, she did apologise in front of everyone.
Kill 'em with kindness is what you did. The nicer you are to someone trying to get a reaction out of you, the angrier they get. Much better than giving them the reaction they want.
Wow. I can't wrap my head around the fact that they've both stated whatever they have is not a friendship. After watching so many of their videos i'm like "how is that even possible?". I'm honestly shocked.
Woman here: You are 100% correct, I'm sorry you dealt with this lady. The fact that you have to deal with this woman is a shame. I'm sorry you dealt with that. Yes people should be better.
Maaaan... My pops taught me, " if you're gonna step up to a man, you better be prepared to fight like a man." Those words follow me till this day. Also, I feel like you can always tell what woman has never had her ass beat. They freely just run their mouth. To everyone and anyone. Nah. Your words and actions have consequences, babe.
