For me it is congratulations to the baby mama for leaving with her dignity . Number one , he didn't offer marriage to her, number 2 he cheated on her , number three i believe the were time's she had a one on one conversations to change his ways . Let's remeber men promise things to women say things they don't mean. For having a baby in a relationship it happens when two people fall in love it happens even when not planned. The most important thing we learn here today if a men doesn't show commitment to you . The first sign or red flag he will cheat on you . Cause you are not the one and will never change for you cause you are not the one . As women we are smart creature's we see thing's from a mile away if it will work out or not that's why i say good for her for walking away. Men change for who they want to change for . Why should we look down on her when she took a responsible and healthy choice for her and her baby. No child wants a stressed mother filled with worries it changes the mood so i say let's learn from her . She saw the truth and walked away . To find the one who will treat her with love and respect ❤.
Man dont change babe thats why plenty of them are still angry over their first gfs who broke their hearts when they were 15 . Give it time and you will see that being a born again doesnt take away ubufebe i feel sorry for the new girl she is marrying what casper wants to be and if i tell you that he will still cheat you will think im lying.. im a christian by the way
Honestly speaking Thobeka is the one that is on the upper end it depends were you looking at it from. I always thought he didn't deserve Thobeka she is such a lady.
I feel sorry for the baby mama. As a woman I understand the hurt, nothing hurts more than seeing your ex change for another woman. Lapho you were crying the whole relationship sending paragraphs on WhatsApp begging him to change only for him to change for who he thinks is deserving. Amadoda guys 😢😢
Someone saying this is what I want to do does not mean this is what I will do. It’s such a long journey he still has ahead of him. Let’s talk in two years.
She left her and she decided to marry someone else, she was always in the picture. If you not happy you let go,good for her she will find someone of her dreams and Congratulations to them.
I don't think being baptised ,changes someone a behaviour,change your behaviour first and seek God,what if he do this again after being born again or the devil is going to catch a stray for someone who doesn't take accountability yet again
Women and men should marry their best friends . The secret to your union lasting is that you don't take anything too serious if you know what i mean. It's a mentality ❤
Who has bewitch women let us love and protect each other even if a person is no longer in your men she deserves some form of respect cause God has a way of dealing with pride arrogant stupid behaviour and it most of the time gonna be more painful and sad like what the other felt ,it always does happen
In the middle of whatever what if tomorrow the walls will fall apart in a way ,so yes you are beautiful kuhle but a little respect for other women unga
@@YolokaziChagi what if Thobeka has already moved on with a better and wants nothing to do with him but to co-parent. I know a lady who didn’t want her baby daddy even though he changed. She was completely done with his ass no matter what. So we don’t know honestly.
Hayi khuzani why women would like to brag over anything against any another women sithakathwe wubani oodwa ,don't be too excited when a men leave number of women including his baby mama do you ,once you throw words at another women cause Wena u happy who. Knows maybe is for a Eason ,lwr women love each other support and protect each other noma ngabe sewuyhathe indosa yomuntu at least respect the other women
@@patiencesanelisiwe5845 she could be the source of his tranquility, yet their bond remains strong as friends. Men value peace and balance. And childhood friends tend to learn how to love each other like that
Leopard will never change it's spots🙄sokesibone time will tell.Tjis is painful xem Thobeka has her own money . Anyway singenaphi kodwa that Pulane girl and relax xem kulowomshado unless she's doing self employment.Since kunganamisebenzi asazi.
I'm nothing surprised or feeling sorry for baby mama I just sympathize with her for being a laughing stock cause X is mean.....If she really wanted marriage she wouldn't have fallen pregnant first sis ain't a teenager nor a pre teen she knows better I think she didn't really want the marry but she actually wanted the baby and that's not a bad thing....its like that saying of "if you really want to keep your relations don't borrow your loved ones money or do something for them and expect them to reciprocate in the same manner" it also applies with kids "if you really want the marry don't fall pregnant before he marries you"....ofcos there are men who marry their baby mama but let's be honest exception don't make the rule
I don't envy the fiance. Getting engaged to a man who admitted to leaving his wife and child to go look for ass at 3 am in the morning is not a flex. He didn't care about the safety of his family. He is no prize. Just a matter of time
@@user-vx2xq3vi4o if she wanted the marriage she would have clawed her paws on him and had that baby after and yes you can just want a baby cause babies are a tie that actually last till death
