Our black cat Nightmares love language is belly rub and nudging your chin with his head getting as close to you as possible. Our orange cat Winchesters is being given treats and his stool to sit on, he doesn’t usually like being held but if you put him near you on his stool he will sometimes end up in your lap. They are brothers but totally opposite.
If our boys are inside for more than it takes to eat a meal, they will go to the deck door and look at it then back at me over and over, if I’m not within sight they will meow and paw at the door. They know what they want!!
My Siamese doesn’t like to be picked up, but she follows me everywhere, and she jumps up and want to be petted but only on her head! Anywhere else and she bites me and make me bleed 🩸! It hurts!
Get rid of her. Cats carry diseases that are detrimental to humans. Is your cat a Maine Cat? They don't like to be touched. Also, cats born in the sign of cancer love to be pampered.
