idk why everyone loses their faith in the human race. the despicable humans you are always thinking about are either super rich, celebrities, or politicians. your typical regular everyday people have and always will be good people. you view the entire human race as the people you see online. next time you stop by the gas station, I guarantee someone will hold the door open for you. i hope you start to view the world a little bit more positively, bc there is good everywhere if you just open your eyes
Hi Guys! I’m a labor and delivery nurse in New York! Not sure how it is in Cali! But if you want Cody in the room for the epidural Cody would be positioned in front of you and wouldn’t really see it unless he tried to see it! Here’s my list of things I never think people are prepared for: 1. Once your water breaks it continues to come out untill baby arrives. Birth is a messy process so if you need a dry towel under you just ask your nurse! No need to be embarrassed we’ve literally seen everything before:) 2. Labor hurts, a lot. But I truly believe half of it is mental, if you want to go natural great! If you don’t, medicine is a beautiful thing. 3. There is a difference between sharp contraction pain and the pressure of the baby sitting on your pelvis. That will not go away, but the epidural takes the sharp away which makes the pressure much more bearable. 4. YOU are in charge. Never be afraid to speak up and ask for clarity or for your options. The providers do this everyday and sometimes forget that this is your first time so always always always speak up!
Such good advice, thank you. I don't plan on having a baby any time soon as I'm still single and I'd rather not want to be the sole provider for my child(-ren), but I will keep this information locked into my brain until then. I think the whole "mental" thing actually reminds me of breathing therapy. I remember watching a woman's insightful vlog about how she was planning to do a natural (water) birth at home because she had PTSD from previously giving birth in a hospital. Now keep in mind, she's also terrified of pain. She got a lot of advice from other women who went through similar trauma and she decided to focus on her breathing--which, surprisingly, actually works. Certain delivery breathing techniques can put mothers into a type of hypnosis which essentially eliminates the pain that comes with giving birth. She vlogged the experience and, sure enough, she had a painless delivery. There is always so much to learn about pregnancy and birth because of how different it is for everyone. But I'm glad there are people out in the world who are kind enough and patient enough to share these things. Thanks again for being one of those people.
Great advice! I’d love to add to that by saying ; planning is wonderful make a plan sure if that’s part of your process but 9/10 times those labour plans don’t work out 😂 I planned for a calm water birth and all natural. After 29 and a half hours I had no to have an epidural, episiotomy & forceps🙃
It’s adorable that Kelsey went “Hello?”while Cody was on his phone, just seemed like something he wouldn’t normally do so she had to correct it, idk just seemed cute :)
Health class is worthless. You don't learn what it's actually like until you go through it yourself or somebody thats gone through it explains it to you in depth. Its so unfair that we go into pregnancy and parenthood basically blind when it changes everything about your body and life.
my wife had a horrible pregnancy and this shit got me fuming. I honestly don't understand how he could eat even one of the chips, let alone all of them. and then still not show any signs of understanding her reaction and showing remorse. bro just laughed it off but it's actually a pretty big deal. even if you find her reaction irrational (it's not) it doesn't mean that her feelings are invalid. bummer to see her feel like she has to almost back pedal and preface everything with "I know I was acting crazy" type phrasing when she's clearly still a lil pissed off about it.
@@georgerolandallenThere’s a lot of problems in the world. If you can’t look back and laugh at yourself for being upset over not being able to eat a lime chip you probably will have a hard time adjusting to daily life. Some people have it much worse who even cares lol.
Book Recs: For Cody: Malibu Rising (same author as Daisy Jones and the 6 which I know he read, but focuses on a family of surfers living in Malibu in the 70’s) For Kelsey: None of This Is True by Lisa Jewell (a physiological thriller about a woman who’s podcast guest seems a little off, some chapters are told as a Netflix Documentary that is about the case after it happens)
I’ll never get over the graphic design of this podcast and everything Cody does… it’s always so well thought out, cohesive, outrageously cool and professional looking. The logos, transitions, opening sequences, music… across all of his channels, merch lines and projects - it’s always top notch. And I know work this good doesn’t come cheap, so kudos to whoever is doing all this incredible design work with Cody!
Living for the pregnancy content as I'm having my second in 10 days, I love hearing other people's experiences, especially first time parents!! Congratulations to you both so happy for you
I loved hearing the high stories I felt like I was there hahah, it’s so relateable the way Kelsey is with weed too 😂 I’ve been thinking I’m ready to remember why I hate it as well
You guys are so so lucky to have each other. This episode genuinely made me so happy I love hearing stories about people living and experiencing little things that aren’t that significant but you remember them because you shared them with someone you care about. Thank you guys for real, I needed to be reminded that love like this is possible
22:54 this is so incredibly healthy, i love to see it. memory is very emotional and you can avoid a lot of arguments by taking into account the fact that your memory might not be accurate
Kelsey trying SO hard not to let any chewing sounds get picked up on the microphone, and then Cody just chewing directly into the mic is making me cry laughing
The part about getting anxious & regretting it when you smoke but u just keep doing it for some reason thinking “it’ll be different this time” is so ridiculously real
Full on Chirckler here, loud and proud! So happy for you both and can't wait for you guys to hold your baby boy! Also Kelsey is 100% hilarious and I love it when she's with the guys and cracks them all up!
I had a literal breakdown over my vanilla wafers getting eaten by my husband, the chip situation is so valid, you don’t even realize how much I feel you girl
@@bunnikruis I was a huge reader when I was a kid, and then kind of stopped as I got older and got busier. COVID lockdowns got me back into reading, but it never felt like I had to force it. I just pick books that seem interesting to me, if I start reading a book and I hate it I just put it down and pick up the next one. You just have to find what interests you :) I can try and make some suggestions if you let me know what sort of themes you enjoy!
@@OriginallyToowie my fav books when i was growing up were 13 reasons why (hate the show lol), chasing brooklyn, i heart you you haunt me, the chronicles of vladimir todd.
pretty sure they said it happened during Kelsey's first trimester, so I'm sure they've talked about it in the six-ish months or however long since then. if that's not good enough for you then idk what else to tell you
So happy for you guys!! One fascinating thing that I learned when nursing my son was that our milk changes composition to suit their nutritional and immune needs. I didn’t even know that skin to skin worked the same way. Our bodies are so cool!
some book recs for cody and kels!! cody- what i talk about when i talk about running by Haruki Murakami (memoir about Murakami's dedication to running and how he uses it as an outlet when writing his extremely popular Japanese novels) kels- conversations with friends by sally rooney (you are reading about a close knit irish groups messy lives and affairs, most plotty imo of rooney's novels) both also great as audiobook options if you are doing stuff/errands with the baby!!
book recs for Kelsey! i just got back into reading and these kept it going: - gone girl if you haven’t read it, absolutely insane but can’t put down kind of plot - song of achilles and/or Circe, both by madeline miller, incredibly well written and heart wrenching stories from greek mythology. basically adult percy jackson for adults - The Patient by jasper dewitt, super suspenseful thriller i ate it up - Sycthe by Neal Shusterman- great dystopian novel and the only book that made me buy a sequel this year
This was very cute and funny! Cody and Kelsey's love is the most aspirational I've ever witnessed, but I am older than them and have never had such a healthy relationship.. I'll have to live vicariously.
41:56 I got married April 15, 2023 and found out I was pregnant on July 4th with first day of the last period on May 17th :D So blessed and lucky and my husband and I are so grateful :D
I got engaged Dec 2021, found out I was pregnant Jan 2022, got married June 2022, bought a car in July 2022, bought a house Aug 2022, had a baby Sept 2022. lol
I am 9weeks 2 days, and kelsey talking about the first trimester is so real. I literally told my husband today I feel so guilty because I feel like I can't function like a normal person. I'm SO ready to feel normal again😥
For book recommendations my absolute favorite of 2023 and maybe all time - Neverwhere - Neil Gaiman (urban fantasy) regular man ends up in secret underground world below London. Rat people, a mysterious girl named Door, sewer folk and so many more, amazing characters and writing:)
reading rec: the interest thing is so real and normal always feel free to start another book! sometimes i read like a few chapters of one and a few of another and switch off sometimes it really helps with the reading momentum and if you start to bore of one you can drop it and you still have leeway to continue reading the one you like above the other! no shame my book recs as a lifetime reader with motivation issues: the invisible life of addie larue, aristotle and dante discover the secrets of the universe, georgia peaches and other forbidden fruit
book recs: okay like Ryan was saying, the secret history can be very slow, and kinda pretentious. I really liked it and feel like Kelsey would like it, but it can be a lot of words lol. In that same vein, "If We Were Villians" has a very similar vibe, but much more digestable and way easier to read (reads more like a movie vs a classic). other book recs that I feel like Cody and Kelsey (and the rest of Insanely Chill) would like: -"Tom Lake" by Anne Patchett -"Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow" by Gabrielle Zevin -"Into Thin Air" by Jon Krakauer -"Finding Me" by Viola Davis hope these recs help get yall back into reading!
My tip for avoiding boring books is reading classics. Start with Animal Farm by George Orwell- its really captivating! And short as well. Toni Morrison is also A really good writer with A great language that never feels slow
Some books I can recommend that have gripped me: -Beautiful World, Where Are You by Sally Rooney -Wild Catch: My Mother, Her Lover, and Me by Adrienne Brodeur -I'm Glad My Mother Died by Jeanette McCurdy -My Body by Emily Ratakowski -My Dark Vanessa by Kate Elizabeth Russel
my boyfriend will take a bite of my burger and somehow manage to eat half of it. now when i give him a bite of my food i have to say “GENTLE” like he’s a dog
I'm dying over Cody drinking the breast milk 😂 He's absolutely right about playing it by ear. My sister produced so much breast milk their freezer was packed with it and she had to just keep pumping in between feedings. Her baby dad ended up drinking it as pre workout 😂
I would highly recommend having Cody there while getting the epidural! You have to hold extremely still if you want a successful one, and doing that while having contractions was the hardest part of my labor. Having my husband there to hold my hand and support me was so so helpful:)
Proud Chircler here! So happy for you two in soon welcoming your baby boy! Brings a tear to my eye thinking back to 2017/18 at the start of all the reaction videos and watching your relationship grow into what it is today :')
42:56 "what do you hope to achieve this year?" Kelsey: "I think really just focus on the baby. I don't know that's my, that's our, main priority, obviously. Just like learn how to live with the baby. I don't know we'll see." Cody: "Cody run fast"
