CCGRWM: 50/50 Relationships, Dating, Living Alone | Marie Jay 

I lived alone for 3 years when I was in my late 20s and I swear that’s what made me understand myself more, nothing beats that true alone time. As for friends I never was lucky in that department but I know everything happens for a reason. Absolutely LOVED this chit chat video Sabrina 🤍

I recommend every person live on their own if they can before kids and a relationship. I did not do that and I so wish I did now that I know what I know. Also congratulations on doing boss woman sh*t! Love to see it ❤

Sabrina girl, we don't need to meet your boyfriend, we don't need a relationship podcast, we don't need couple travel vlogs. There's a difference between secrecy and privacy. Protect your relationship at all costs! I will say.. should the time rise where there is wedding on the horizon, I would happily tune in for any and all wedding planning related content. Just sayin :)

I lived alone for 5 years and I completely understand all the feelings. Its a good experience everyone should have in their lifetime, it helps to know yourself better and not to mention its fun to have your own space! Enjoy this time ☺️

Love this!!! I recently moved out on my own with my kids after 12 year abusive marriage and last 5 years with my mom again and it feels AMAZING!!

I completely empathize with you about living alone and feeling lonely. Feeling lonely, at times, doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. You’ve worked hard and earned everything you have. I appreciate you’re honesty about that topic because I’m going through the same thing. We gon’ make it.❤️

The intro and quality 👌🏼👏🏼 you look gorgeous as always 🥰 we need more videos like this 🖤

Guuuurrrrl, you are in your grown woman era and as a fellow grown woman I feel confident saying your following is just a buncha grown & sexy people growing up together who get it, who get you, who feel like you get us! Remember you create the content, your life/life events do not. Protect your happiness! Much love and ty for always being so organic, it's why you stuck with me/us! 💫💫💫💫💫💫

I’m divorced and I love being alone. I’m not really alone because I have my son. The only thing I miss is having a driver 😂 I’m proud that I can provide for myself and child with no help

Girl! You’re spot on with your thoughts on living alone, so nice but like everything there’s moments when it doesn’t feel good all the time.

Thank God for social media. It has given so many people a way to live a lifestyle they may not have been able to live. A pet does help with companionship.

You know what I say ? Everything happens in our lives for a reason . We learn life lessons situations help us grow and like you said it’s age . I’m single after 22 years of marriage and I come and go and do what I want and it’s refreshing. The word is noise

i’m still watching the video about but i had to comment. i am so proud of your growth and success. i love seeing you grow in each video and you have truly been an inspiration for me since high school. i just graduated college and will be getting my masters soon and seeing you with your apartment is making me excited to have mine. wishing you all the best and sending you so much love.

I live in the exact parallel situation you do . I live alone , work alone in my environment . No pets….. personally I think it’s a mindset . You got this girl 💕🥂

@mariejay I’ve been living alone for the last 10 years since my divorce. I’m actually in the processing of moving. Plus work from home since the beginning of the pandemic. It always has it’s ups and downs but after surviving a blood vessel rupturing in my brain over 6months ago now I’m stepping into this next chapter with more positive energy verses holding onto past. My children are grown and now I’m finding me.

Love this video, I honestly never get tired of your videos, or conversations/ chit-chat's! So insightful! Also your makeup is so flawless!! Sending love and blessings! Hope to be able to submit a question on the next Q&A!

I feel the same way about living alone. I absolutely love it here.

You hit the nail on the head about a lot of things I’ve discussed recently with friends. I appreciate your viewpoint about living alone. I miss not having that experience but I know there’s pros and cons

Omg this almost made me cry because currently, I live at home, and literally, 4 days ago I was on Zillow like "I'm never going to move out and be independent" and so many of my friends have their own place like you said Sabrina, it's amazing to host ppl or just pull up to your own place. I truly hope this happens for me soon or in 2023. BTW love this video very inspiring.

Totally agree with you about men needing to be providers. My husband says it all the time- it makes him feel like more of man now that he’s able to provide for his family. And I love him more for it! It’s just the way we’re wired 🤷🏻‍♀️

Totally agree with your points on friendship. I think what’s important is “low maintenance” friends realizing when they’re just become bad friends because there’s a fine line

hey Sabrina! you might not know anyone in your personal life in the same living situation but here I am and I can tell you I am in the EXACT same situation as you are, no pets, no kids, nada 😂 and my SO lives relatively close but in another city so we live in different apartments for now! I afford and pay for everything myself and I hustle for myself and for the life I want daily!! living alone before you move in with your SO is not only necessary but also a privilege! we should be VERY proud of ourselves because we’re spending (and earning!) big girl money in things that make us absolutely happy and lemme tell you that should always be a priority!!! love your videos te mando mucho amor desde España 🤍✨

I totally feel you about living alone and working from home! I love my apartment and I feel grateful for my job, but when you work, eat, sleep, and everything else in the same place it does get boring and feel isolating after a while. It feels like you have to be that more intentional about getting that social aspect in.

I can relate!! In my 20s, Living completely alone, no pets, work from home

I like the list thing that you’re talking about for a man. I will say in my 20s the list was super long and I wanted more superficial specifics. As I got older I realized did I want someone to check me off the list because I didn’t have one physical feature but I was great in all other areas? I’ve noticed in my 30s, I’ve gotten way less superficial. For example, maybe I used to want height for a man, now it’s evolved where I just want someone that’s fit and healthy because that’s how I live my life. Of course you have to be attracted to who your dating but as I’ve matured, something that has attracted me in the past doesn’t mean it’s going to keep me with someone long term.

Adulting is far from easy. Especially living alone doing it all on your own. Im thankful for the life I’ve been able to provide for myself but there are definitely some days I wish I had someone to help share the load. One thing I can say when you spend enough time alone you definitely get to know yourself and be able to sit in silence.

My mom would always say "hold up your head when u walk into a room." I have always lived by that. Confidence is key. I work from home but I don't live alone and I still totally understand what u mean about not being in the house too much.

Ahhh I just want to say I love you and your content! You are really the only one I look at as a true, realest influencer on here. I enjoy watching and relating to your videos. Keep it up. You are for sure glowing 😊💕

Watched this over 3 days bc your girl is busy but I love this chit chat thank you for being real and open💜

I’ve followed you for so long I feel like we’re friends lol I do wanna say that I’m also an Aquarius and the emotions thing you said is me for sure too BUT going to therapy made me realize it’s actually from my “anxious attachment” which I’ve been working on and feel so much better now having difficult conversations and my view about “confrontation” has also shifted. Therapy was my ultimate grown woman move, especially having a Latina therapist in a similar age range as us. It has changed the game for me lol

Always look forward to your videos and your insta stories, Happy to see you in a good space in your life❤️

I enjoy being alone bc I enjoy the quietness lol. I can’t handle being with someone that’s louddd all the time. Once I get my own place I definitely want to live by myself for awhile to get use to being “more” independent.

I live alone and work remote and pay everything myself. Having time for friends helps a lot. I hang out with friends a few times a month or go on vacations or to concerts.

The part where you mention to sit at a bar if you are tying to meet people.. the first thing that popped in my head was Jeffery Dahmer 😂

I loved this so much, I truly felt like it was the realest you've been in a while or ever, ur personality showed through more with the jokes n all. So this was a good video to watch for me cuz I'm actually about to embark on living solo after moving from my parent's house into an apartment with my ex, n after living together for 8 yrs n together almost 12 yrs, we decided it wasn't working for us anymore. I'm excited about having my own space but I know I'll have moments of loneliness n listening to ur advice on living alone just gave me reassurance that I'll be ok. I'm 32 n feeling pretty fucking good about being on my own soon, send all the manifesting magic my way to get an apt asap please lol! ✨💕🙌🏼

Definitely love these types of chill vibes videos from you🥰 I could hear u talk all day lol...you Definitely need your own podcast with our chica topics ...we can listen while driving, getting ready etc like yasss lol

I loved this! Thank you for sharing, I really enjoyed getting to hear your thoughts & more of your personality. 💛

This chit chat was everything. Loved this. Thanks for sharing.

This was a great chat Sabrina! You should definitely do more of these

which hair products do you use? your hair is soo beautiful, healthy and full of shine 😍

Seriously… it’s hard to relate when you don’t know anyone else doing what you’re doing by yourself, for yourself. 1000% agree!

Girl I’m part of the living alone crew with no pets no significant other living together and I know EXACTLY how you feel!! Abs it’s true people who aren’t in this situation don’t understand at all. I know how it feels to just not want to be home at all even though I absolutely love my apartment.

She said gahdamn!! I love when you add stuff like that it adds so much more personality 🖤😂

Soooo I'm 29 and I migrated to Canada. I've watched your vlogs and let me tell you something. Girl..... million thanks for sharing.

Sabrinaaaa I love this new chapter in your life. Yaas girl you live it up ! ❤

I’m very independent but love when a man will do things for me. I do things because I have to not because I want to.

The “got damn” voice over took me outttt😂😂💀 this was such a good video. ❤

I love this video and the fun editing in it👌🏾👌🏾💕

dropped at the perfect time ❤ loving the new intro too

My birthday is early, So I was 17 when I started college. I loved in the dorm and had a roommate for the first time who was boy crazy. I was never in my room By 19 I was living in my own apartment I paid for. I'm an introvert and prefer living on my own and I've worked from home for 10 years. No feeling of loneliness ever since kiving on my own. Wven thoughIve been married before. However, I've had friends that felt like you. Most would go on dates with people they knew were not for them just to get out the house, which crazy and mean to me (told them too). But we are all made differently, which is wonderful, The world would be boring if we were all the same. Also good for you noticing how you are doing it on your own without help!🥰 Not everyone can. I feel as women we usually overlook what we do for ourselves that are true accomplishments. It's like we don't notice how great we are doing or are as a person. Thankfully my dad is my hype man. Lord knows where I would be if he wasn't! ❤️ As far as putting your personal life on RU-vid. Do you and don't let others get in your head. I'm a private person. Always have been. I've also had two stalkers. So my social media is just about me. And as far as you not wanting a 50/50 relationship. I feel you. I was the main provider in my marriage and in another relationship I was in afterwards. It really made them feel some type of way, when it didn't bother me at all. Especially when I knew the potential. Then I had a couple relationships where they made big money (seven figures) and I didn't feel comfortable. I felt like they thought they needed to "buy" me because that was their experience with past women and that's not me. Bags and thousand dollar shoes mean NOTHING to me. It is definitely challenging especially for me as a woman who friends and family have always said was more like a man. Thank goodness for the more recent masculine and feminine energy conversations.

This is a random question but… How do you preserve your hair from getting messed up, wet, curly when you shower and go to bed? How do you wrap it if so?

Re: Those who believe you “got it so good and so easy.” Um…if what I got ain’t easy for you to come by, then understand that what I got ain’t easy. Grit, WORK, determination, discipline…it’s the pound of flesh I pay every day. And Sabrina, you’re killing it 🥂

living alone is definitely luxurious.

Loving the new intros!! ❤ Love you girl ❤

The “love you” part 😂🫶🏽

I relate to you so much on living on your own and working from home 😅 I do coffee shops and make sure I leave the house atleast once a day.

You’re like the big sister I never had🥺

Felt like I was talking to my sister. Love you and this video so much ❤

New intro! Yes ma’am! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

You are so mature for your age, you seem a lot older, that’s a compliment 😉 Enjoy your time alone! I’m happy and proud to say , I do it all too! Living in the city would be better then the suburbs! Toot your horn girl! You be surprise the women that wish they were in our shoes! Not always greener on the other side.😉😍

Bestvideo to watch on my lunch break. It felt like catching up with my bff. I can relate to so much. I am 33 and I have been living on my own and I too have moments where I feel lonely and it’s not something you can share with many people because they tend to focus on what you have not your feelings. I agree with not sharing your relationship. I’ve been with my bf for over 4 years and we made the decision to not post each other on social media and just keep our moments private between us. I understand social media is your job but keep as much to yourself as possible even if we want to know. There’s alot of haters and I just don’t like that energy. Btw-I miss the “Adios, los quiero mucho” 😭😫 each time I watch your videos and you say bye, I say it in my head 😂

Hello sis, I love, your channel! I am living physically alone, but, I know Father God, the Lord Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, is with me! I know, They, are helping, providing, protecting, and loving me through it all! I give Father God, all the praise, and glory! I know, it isn’t just me, doing everything by myself! 😊

Loved catching up with you! What was the podcast you mentioned?

I know and understand what you are saying . I was married for 12 years and my husband die in 2020 I’ve had to adjust and accept my life now. Yes I’ve accepted that I’m at where He, God has me to be.

Ugh I respect and admire you so much!!! Such a baddie!

Love living near coffee shops n live music 🎶 in SoCal

The older I become, the more low maintenance I am when it comes to relationships.

Hi Sabrina, you mentioned women should take their time when dating. How long did you wait between your current and last relationship?

Accidentally disliked the video, but I definitely loved it! 😂❤️ please do more of these x

No, I get it. It's called "Cabin Fever" when uve been in your home 🏡 totally alone. U start to crave interactions w/ others for a moment. I don't see that as complaining, I see that as bn human. Even though I'd rather have the CHOICE to work remotely & work my own schedule 📅 vs going to the office & somebody else dictating my schedule.

What is that small pointed black brush you used babe?

This video was so fun! The tik tok references killed me 😂

My brother is the soul provider of his family. My husband also takes care of everything in this house . I might pay to groom our dog and that’s 😂😂😂 . And it’s true most man like to take care of the finances. And if you as a woman want to go 50/50 that’s on you and your own family situation. As for me I don’t think I could do so . I will help if he can’t but I’m NOT trying to come up with no money to pay for nothing. Man I give you two beautiful kids that’s a lot already no money in the entire world can pay me back for bushing out our babies.

💕💕 to Vlog - always great content!

What moisturizer do u use before ur makeup ?

So off topic but can you please tell us where the sweater is from you had on with the orange shorts in your other video ? Can’t find it anywhere 🙁

Yay!!! Thanks for the upload!!

lol it’s the god damn for me 😂 love you!!

Yesss a grwm 💜😍

What Aaliyah video were you referring to? You mentioned it talks about different levels of friendship.

Love all your content! feels like a sister talk. Especially about not buying a house right now and solo dates! I literally just decided to explore seasonal traveling work, to find out where I want to make my home, I love going out on solo dates and meeting ppl so this is the perfect thing for me atm.

I really miss your Sabrina speaks videos

Have u tried HausLab foundation? Could you? Would love to c this on u.

Love your vids, can i ask you what is your hair color… looks so pretty… it is box die?

I know how u feel. I just bought my house. I live alone a year now and I'm over it.. It's lonely and there's no one there to talk to... Not being ungrateful its just not for me❤

Notification squad 🧡

Another independent woman here -- but 50/50 is a nah! :)

“Love you 😘” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Yassss I’m doing my cleaning good timing lol

Omg. I came back to 125 too!! ❤crazy

Can we just relish on the hair growth tho!!! Cause sis is lengthy

You're a sweetheart.....

Haha are you Sabrina.... you're beautiful. Thank you for sharing.

Me too 🙋🏻‍♀️

How tall are you hun ??

Love that hoodie! Where’s it from? I love your style!

So glad! Stay private😊

Hosting? Damn you couldn’t host things girl 😫 You look gorgeous btw.

good video

There were two food bowls for pets in her balcony in a fall morning routine video but she's saying she doesn't have pets in this video 🤔