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Hello and Welcome,
I hope you caught a vibe and enjoyed your experience with today's video.
It's a LONGGGG grwm. I've held in so much because of anxiety and how I would be perceived but I'm just ready to be myself laugh and enjoy my life, moving forward. Life is for living I've made some mistakes but I'm ready to move forward - I've had some really stressful months and it's taken a huge toll on me mentally, and physically and this is what I feel most comfortable with sharing.
We speak about some weighty topics and banter a bit.
I hope you enjoy it.
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@BreenyLee
@BreenyLee 3 года назад
Hairrrrrrrr 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Breeny thank you so much my lovely ❤️
@nadadebraga7981
@nadadebraga7981 3 года назад
She bought it and bought it plenty
@empressjuly
@empressjuly 3 года назад
AN HOUR??? nah the lockdown easing has really made you generous, we're thankful!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Lmao I guess so - I hope you enjoy this one 😂❤️
@MsFearlessEmpire
@MsFearlessEmpire 3 года назад
TRULY GENEROUS
@jmg512
@jmg512 3 года назад
@@melachild hg
@xauceamani
@xauceamani 3 года назад
MADAM the face you were serving us in the beginning. Aht aht! please next time give us a warning! with her bare face, she is glowing like I've never seen her before eye bags or not 😂
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Amani don’t gas me 😂🌚 the bags really have been bagging the gworls 😭
@ANa-qt7tt
@ANa-qt7tt 3 года назад
Other tips that have helped me with my mental health: journalling, painting/drawing, going out everyday even if it’s a 10 minute walk/ having a set morning and night routine that I do EVERY day ( could be the simplest things) .These all help me keep on routine and that makes me feel more accomplished rather than sitting in bed all day feeling drained so I hope this helps you 🤍🤍🤍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I’m heavy on the journaling one and workouts/daily outings outside it’s just the routine that I need to perfect!
@salem7503
@salem7503 3 года назад
Mela! Your aura is so genuinely beautiful. I haven't watched you in some time as I take breaks from the online world, glad to come across your channel again.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Salem! That really does mean a lot I hope you’re well 😌❤️
@abs.tract_
@abs.tract_ 3 года назад
This hair and beat is a classic 😍🥺
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much my lovely! ❤️
@Naa_Louiza
@Naa_Louiza 3 года назад
Some gospel music with a lit candle n some journaling is my go to. God speaks in that quiet hr. You look BOMB per usualllllll
@ousmanjallow7518
@ousmanjallow7518 3 года назад
The black mist aura is a vibe like she’s coming to reveal her true femme fatale! Black diamond is the richest vibe I absolutely love her!
@ShanieceTeresa
@ShanieceTeresa 3 года назад
1 HOUR!! Thank you for blessing us xxxx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I tried 😂❤️
@ifiruledtheworld1st
@ifiruledtheworld1st 3 года назад
Girl what about your spiritual health? I feel like it’s always when we’re at worst that Jesus really helps us and He brings healing and everything. Weeping may come for the night but joy comes in the morning psalm 30:5. Psalms are honestly the best when going through it 🤧 but also the gospels and maybe Romans 8 bc knowing you’re constantly and consistently loved in Jesus is pretty good. I don’t know, I just really hope things go better for you and you see your better days again and can fully enjoy them ❤️❤️❤️ Alsoooooo your ability to back yourself is INCREDIBLE and the energy I need to possess.
@carpediem8855
@carpediem8855 3 года назад
That is so weird, from my knowledge therapists aren’t to tell you what you are feeling, they are meant to help you work it out for yourself :/
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I thought so too but I’m going to try a different therapists but right now I feel better without the therapy sessions!
@carpediem8855
@carpediem8855 3 года назад
@@melachildWhen you feel better leaving a therapist, that’s how you know it was bad 😂, but yh, journalling is great, definitely therapeutic too. and Girl, YOU’s the definition of Chef’s kisses 😍🤌🏿 such beauté!
@liszbet95
@liszbet95 3 года назад
Your skin is soo lovelyyy Melaa omg what a natural beauty I stannnnn !! Also random but your arms look really nice and tonedd xx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you much Lisbet 🥺❤️
@makishapatrece3309
@makishapatrece3309 3 года назад
1 HOURRR!! Let me get my wine, this beat is evrythinggg 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Makisha 🥺❤️
@wxvy_taz
@wxvy_taz 3 года назад
i love the gap but if it boost you confidence and comfortability within yourself then I'm completely here for it
@jordaneeee06
@jordaneeee06 3 года назад
Not Mela Herself Making My Whole Flipping Dayyyyy. AN HOUR ?! AN HOURRR No one distract me , im learning from the best x
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Jords I mean we’re learning in this one but it’s not makeup application 😂❤️
@mariamcamara9889
@mariamcamara9889 3 года назад
AN HOUR ??? * Soulja boy’s voice * we thank you sis ❤️✨😭
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
You welcome lovely ☺️
@mariamad283
@mariamad283 3 года назад
I have ONE question. WHERE’S THE BAGS SHE TALKIN BOUT???? sis i can’t see the🥺 And do what makes you feel better about your appearance ❤️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you darling ❤️
@alimatormusa7435
@alimatormusa7435 3 года назад
Have us a whole podcast episode and I’m here for it😩
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I mean I might as well - making up for all my absent days on here 😂❤️
@russenoir4001
@russenoir4001 3 года назад
Precisely...righr?!!
@xauceamani
@xauceamani 3 года назад
It must be my birthday because an HOUR?! Not only has she been consistent but to drop an a lengthy chit chat video. OOoh wow Madam Mela truly loves us! Let me get comfortable 😂😌
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Well happy birthday to you 🥳 I appreciate you noticing the consistency and hope you enjoy this one 😂❤️
@russenoir4001
@russenoir4001 3 года назад
Agreed 100%
@xauceamani
@xauceamani 3 года назад
@@melachild No no Madam, it isn't my birthday 😂😭 I used it as a expression that it must as well be because this 1Hr video feels like a gift!
@theMadMarsz
@theMadMarsz 3 года назад
oh my gerd an HOUR UPLOAD!? NO PLIS I HAVE A DISSO TO WRITE. I'M SAVING THIS FOR WHEN I'M DONE MELA OMG .. I can't believe this (p.s. you look beautiful AS USUAL!) 😭💕
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
We love a disciplined babe 🌚❤️
@dearamira1161
@dearamira1161 3 года назад
It’s her voice faaa me 🔥🔥
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Amira 🥰❤️
@liya6475
@liya6475 3 года назад
The makeup and hair are giving as usual!!!!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Liya 🥰❤️
@OlianaZuzai
@OlianaZuzai 3 года назад
Thank you for so much quality content, Mela 💜 I'm really sorry the house renovations took such a sour turn- especially since it all seemed to go so well at the beginning. But it really is nice to see you doing well and moving on and up and looking into apartments for yourself. It makes me really happy seeing you flourish!🌈 Also, please do the fragrance video, I need the inspiration 🙏
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
You are most welcome thank you so much! Honestly it’s not your fault I definitely should have done more due diligence but I learnt an awful lot from that experience so it was something gained in a weird way but thank you so much for your kind words Oliana - I hope you have a wonderful Sunday ❤️
@vicm25
@vicm25 3 года назад
You blessed us with a long GRWM and it was all I needed on a Saturday! So glad you're safe because that driver was not the one!!! Thanks for being transparent and discussing cancel culture and therapy as well 😍😍😍⭐️
@leolondon1856
@leolondon1856 3 года назад
Not you shouting me out, not you giving us a GRWM, life update and mukbang all in oneeee
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Here she is 😂❤️ I was wondering when I’d see you in the comment section!
@MichelleMidori
@MichelleMidori 3 года назад
THAT EYEBAG DEPUFFER DEVICE 💀💀💀💀 DYINGGGG
@ANa-qt7tt
@ANa-qt7tt 3 года назад
If you are thinking of therapy again . I would definitely recommend better help. You can pick the person you want (ethnicity/age/religion/race) and its all online (which takes hella pressure off for me) & I’ve heard lots of good reviews from everyone
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I’ll definitely try better help I think that would be a better pick it makes sense to pick someone
@sofiasiyad8085
@sofiasiyad8085 3 года назад
Love chit chat/grwm videos, they are just so relaxing to just litsen to and get ready to. Feels like ur having a conversation with someone. Love it.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
🥰❤️
@preciousdalu
@preciousdalu 3 года назад
Thank you for an hour, I'm braiding my hair and this is what I needed
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
You are welcome darling 🥰
@ladyluizah3486
@ladyluizah3486 3 года назад
This is what I call CONTENT
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you my love 🥺❤️
@suki9487
@suki9487 3 года назад
Had to stop what I was doing.. so I can watch this. Mela girrrl you are spoiling the people.. an hour? I'm here for it! Your skins look good. I need to figure out a way to get my hyperpigmentation around my eyes under control. 😭
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Sukjae 😭😭 I really love the Ole Henriksen Banana Bright Eye Cream!
@suki9487
@suki9487 3 года назад
@@melachild I'll definitely try it out, thank you for the recommendation. 💜
@Lamideelizabeth
@Lamideelizabeth 3 года назад
brb just gonna put the kettle on to really enjoy this x
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Lámidé what a pleasure to see you here 😂❤️
@saffrona9286
@saffrona9286 3 года назад
I love how i can actually can sit and watch you for a whole hour and 10 mins.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I appreciate you watching for so long 🥺❤️
@sofiasiyad8085
@sofiasiyad8085 3 года назад
Can we just take a moment and appreciate how gorgeous u are, just found ur chanel and I'm here for it!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you darling ❤️
@arikahandy1528
@arikahandy1528 3 года назад
I wouldn't give up on therapy. Those people go to school and learn the traits that people who you see every day will not understand. Also therapy isn't easy abd quick it can take years.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I think I didn’t gel well with this particular therapist I’m open to trying it again but I’ll find the right therapist for me
@s.a.6038
@s.a.6038 3 года назад
@@melachild yes not every therapist will be the right fit for you and that’s ok. Sometimes you have to try different people (many work from different perspectives). The ultimate goal is to feel heard and seen by your therapist. ❤️
@samirahssphere8187
@samirahssphere8187 3 года назад
@@melachild Hi hun, I am a massive therapy advocate, But it is very much about finding someone who is a match for you. I'm 26, and I have had 4 different therapists, this current one I gel with so well and it has helped me so much. Of course, its not therapy isnt compulsory , but I do think that having one that you match with can be life changing.
@mg-r1742
@mg-r1742 3 года назад
Find a black therapist.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
@@samirahssphere8187 I AGREE i think its definitely like dating
@celinakorin
@celinakorin 3 года назад
Your face! Absolutelyyy stunningggg> Everything is a vibe. And thanks so much for sharing and opening up!!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Celina ❤️
@russenoir4001
@russenoir4001 3 года назад
Ahhhhhh you no dey dull at all, the content is LIFE, I even let my 🐦 listen, it's now a Phoenix rising out of ashes chale 😂😩 what kine brilliance be dis?!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
🥰😂 I’m glad that you enjoyed!
@delilah8939
@delilah8939 3 года назад
We getting spoiled with the uploads fr fr !!!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
It’s only right 😘❤️
@arikahandy1528
@arikahandy1528 3 года назад
Mela is always a vibe
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you Arika 🥰❤️
@priscillaxsafi
@priscillaxsafi 2 года назад
“ i’ve missed enough meal last year I didn’t know if I was going to make it” I felt that and I’m glad you spoke about the sexual harassment especially the stare, I get all the time thank you for the advice
@sheisbims
@sheisbims 3 года назад
Melaaa! The love is real when you can watch an hour long video without feeling guilty about the time spent on yt😭❤️ A beat as per! In regards to the therapy, I remember from when I studied it that as a black woman is very important to find the right ones bc especially in this country black people are more quickly diagnosed with disorders because of cultural bias. Different cultures have a different norms (even within the black community) and sometimes when others deviate from it, it’s very easy for people to say “that’s not what I do so that’s not normal”, it’s unconscious. Also I definitely agree I don’t think everyone necessarily needs therapy but everyone definitely needs a mental outlet, mines makeup and cleaning (especially because I can very easily fall into bad eating habits that cause me to lose excessive weight when I’m in my head mentally). Also so sorry to hear about your experience with the house renovations I remember how excited you were to do this for you mum on ig posting all your inspirations and visions. Some builders just do work anyhow and it’s not nice at all. And thanks for the tips about sexual harassment because their are some real weirdos on these streets. Anyway I’m typing too much, let me go watch the next vid, loved this!👏🏾💕
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Awww Bims thank you so much baby girl. I completely agree about choosing the right therapist for sure! Wow this comment you really watched the whole video and answered to every single section thank you so much for watching this Bims 😭❤️ but yes I was really excited about doing it, my mum is very happy which is the most important thing but I did leave me extremely upset and distressed No you’re not typing too much at all I’m glad the sexual harassment tips were useful 🥰❤️ Please have a blessed day ❤️
@pre_mwah
@pre_mwah 3 года назад
Needed the laughs you gave me in this video! Looking absolutely hot ma'am 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Glad you left the therapist before more harm was done. I know I waited too long with some of my therapist and I regret how I allowed myself to endure the mess I didn't need.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Really glad that this got you what you needed - I think it’s good to interrogate them a bit more to make sure they are the right fit
@ANa-qt7tt
@ANa-qt7tt 3 года назад
I missed your long videos 😭😭 I LOVE THEM!! I love the way you give rich classy vibes always🥰
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much my lovely I’m so glad you enjoyed the vibe 🥺❤️
@Ohhanahoney
@Ohhanahoney 3 года назад
An hour and 10 minutes?! Lemme go and grab my jollof!!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Yes Hana 🥺❤️
@redpanda43
@redpanda43 3 года назад
I kno u didn’t ask for it but an ice cube around ur eyes ever morning and night. It helps me minimize the puffiness. And all of ur eye masks/creams/serums put them in the refrigerator. That with massaging the eye boom.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
No I most definitely welcome this - it’s useful advice and your approach... Magnificent I’m going to see if I can get my hands on a skincare fridge thank you so much my lovely!
@redpanda43
@redpanda43 3 года назад
MELACHILD 🥺 i didn’t even think you actually see this. not me thinking I’m wasting my energy typing u out a novel. hope it does u well! 💕
@ebonybrown2221
@ebonybrown2221 3 года назад
Girl you are absolutely beautiful!!! Skintone, body type and face structure😍😍 aiaiaii
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Ebony 🌚❤️
@henriethegreat
@henriethegreat 3 года назад
Wow I have not even started the video, but I know it will be nothing but vibes from my PM💕
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I hope you enjoy it baby girl thank you for tuning in 😘❤️
@ladybee0881
@ladybee0881 3 года назад
Your skin is just amazing! Can you do a video or list of products you use for your 10 step Korean skincare routine. 🤞🏾
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
It’s coming in and up 🥳❤️
@adwoaasarekonadu9622
@adwoaasarekonadu9622 3 года назад
I cannot wait for you to get your own place cause I just know it’s going to be lit.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I’m excited too but I hope the right one comes along 🥺❤️
@paintedbypreston4014
@paintedbypreston4014 3 года назад
An hour ?! I’m finna do my makeup then 🤩
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Do it do it ! 😂❤️
@davinauche3195
@davinauche3195 3 года назад
AN HOURRRR AN HOURRRRRR SOMBODY HOLD MEEEEE!!! E chokeee😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Yes baby girl an hourrrrr 🥳❤️
@mikunpecku1861
@mikunpecku1861 3 года назад
the way you're glowingggggg whew
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Mikun thank you so much my lovely ❤️
@tayxxmonster
@tayxxmonster 3 года назад
We won!!! 🤧🙌🏾 about to listen in as I clean up my room.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I hope you enjoy 🥰❤️
@larabeautysage
@larabeautysage 3 года назад
The video quality is giving.✨💛
@hanna-nm7kb
@hanna-nm7kb 2 года назад
your experience with therapy is so so common, and especially as a black woman. people tell you to "go get help". yet don't want to talk about how hard it is to get. Financially there are restrictions and there's so much cultural incompetence. Sorry I ranted I just really felt u on that
@abby5695
@abby5695 3 года назад
I love how you interact with your viewers and what you said about cosmetic surgery is so true
@dorcasopoku
@dorcasopoku 3 года назад
A good therapist should empower you to live a full life, I’m so glad you left that therapist. Self awareness is knowing what is for you and what works for you. In future you should try and speak to quite a few therapist and find your best fit before investing in a long term commitment.
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I'm glad that I've left too! I do feel a lot better leaving
@Hxoxoxoxo
@Hxoxoxoxo 3 года назад
Mela! Omg everytime you post it makes me so happy!! I’m so excited 1 hour long wow! Yesss goody 😍❤️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Hanni 🥺❤️ I hope you enjoyed
@corneillesangivimpy
@corneillesangivimpy 3 года назад
I loved everything about this video, 1HOUUUURRR! Thank you for this 🧡🧡🧡
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you for watching! ❤️
@whitneytachie5022
@whitneytachie5022 3 года назад
ONE HOUR 😱😱😱😱😱😱😱 BLESSSSSSSS
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Whitney thank you so much! ❤️❤️
@tablefor2484
@tablefor2484 3 года назад
“Calm down relax”🤣🤣🤣
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
😂❤️
@Angelkaaya
@Angelkaaya 3 года назад
AN HOUR😍😍🥺I can’t wait to finish work so I can watch this !!!
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I hope your shift is going okay 🥺❤️
@i.am.you.beauty8428
@i.am.you.beauty8428 3 года назад
Now that’s a beat ! 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
🌚❤️ thank you so much!
@SGMTC
@SGMTC 3 года назад
I’m already here for the vid and it hasn’t even started yet 😚😍😍
3 года назад
It’s giving what it’s supposed to gaveee🤩🤩
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I am so glad Chloe I am so glad 🥳❤️
@maymayt8333
@maymayt8333 2 года назад
I'm soooo late to the Mela game but it's the skintone, eyes, lips n gap for me. 💖 the advisorings (yes advisorings) and spirit of the content...so fun and informative. Thank-you for being YOU and doing what you do so well!!!!
@gifty2595
@gifty2595 3 года назад
Your eye bags look hella cute! 😭❤️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Gigi please don’t say that girl 😭🙂
@skymccreery
@skymccreery 3 года назад
It’ll be just fine . You are beautiful inside and out. Like you say go for what you know . If it wasn’t broken why fix it..💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you Sky! You are too and I agree as well improving the methods things will be just fine ❤️
@ItsHadja
@ItsHadja 3 года назад
Girlll an HOUR 🥺 feels like Christmas 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Hadja 😓❤️
@onyiokafor1012
@onyiokafor1012 3 года назад
Not me watching her at 3:00am US time and getting up looking at my makeup and wanting to be bougie. I’m here for her
@SGMTC
@SGMTC 3 года назад
I’m already here for the vid and it hasn’t even started yet 😚😍😍☹️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
An absolute real one!
@GreatGospel97
@GreatGospel97 3 года назад
Ugh this video!!!! I’m sorry you’ve had that experience babes 🥺💕 I hate that we’ve all been there. You look amazing and glowy as per! That bit about knowing you’re attractive and that you have the juice is too real! I’ve just realized what my body looks like this year...really kinda sad to me cause it’s been my body this whole time. Also just started loving my face-the pandemic has allowed me to slow down in that regard even though I’m busy with a hellacious work schedule lol. I’m working on my contentedness as I wait and move towards the next step in my life but it does hurt a bit. Also that therapist diagnosing you from jump feels sus to me...very sus. Glad you double checked with your peoples. Hope you find someone who gels with you better Lastlllllllly happy you’re happy, I’m happy your bf seems to be taking good care of you-you absolutely deserve it. Excited to catch up on your content!
@user-ci3pn8hx6z
@user-ci3pn8hx6z 3 года назад
Yes for sure you are glowing.
@baloves28
@baloves28 3 года назад
We love a long video let me start 🙋🏾‍♀️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
🥳❤️
@reallyvivian
@reallyvivian 3 года назад
YOU AND THESE BAGS LMAO THIS IS HILARIOUS YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL REGARDLESS BUT THIS PART IS WHAT HAD ME WEAK MAN I SWEAR 😂😂😂😂😂😂💜 7:58-8:03 I would have done and said the same thing 😂😂😂😂
@Ohhanahoney
@Ohhanahoney 3 года назад
You’re supposed to use the gua sha when there’s serum on your face for slip so it doesn’t tug as much xx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Noted I’ll try that for next time 😘
@user-sg3hz9iy5w
@user-sg3hz9iy5w 3 года назад
so beautiful😍😍😍 but separately i definitely think next time with a therapist look into a getting a black therapist that’s probably a woman too
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you my lovely and I really got both of what you suggested and still 😭
@KidYouNott
@KidYouNott 3 года назад
She told me it is all my fault a basically to suck it up. When your seeking help instead of self medicating and get that smh. I feel like I hidepieces of myself to please others and I’m at a point of over it but then its like I have to find who I am all the way again.
@Prettylayx3
@Prettylayx3 3 года назад
An hourrrrr?? Let me get to cooking then cuz YASSSSS!! 🥰
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Really hope that you enjoy this baby girl!
@breem9381
@breem9381 3 года назад
Love everything about this. Also the alcohol part is so true makes me feel weird. I was planning on getting invisilign but never saw a review of people with gaps so I was a bit hesitant, can you please do some videos about the process and everything pls xx
@simiolaniyi67
@simiolaniyi67 3 года назад
When I saw an hour I just got excited 🥺
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Simi you are sweetheart!
@TemiT22
@TemiT22 3 года назад
I had to double check my eyess...an hour. Mela.... thank you xxxx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Yes it’s an hour Abi - we’re bringing length and strength from now on!
@alexisobi2666
@alexisobi2666 3 года назад
Mela dear🥺❤️. You look so pretty
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you Alexis ❤️
@onyiokafor1012
@onyiokafor1012 3 года назад
Her expression when she said Me…. I’m hollering
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
🌚
@suprzonic
@suprzonic 3 года назад
wait, the therapist was trying to diagnose personality disorder over the phone? if I scream. on a serious note, pre-pandemic I was going to therapy. it was in person with a therapist who was a fellow black british woman like myself, and boy, was it a great help. while I don't think therapy on it's own does the "fixing", I think it's a great foundation to get you thinking. it definitely exposed me to those "toxic traits" you mentioned. and while I've been away from therapy for the last year (due to lockdown), I've been able to grow as a person using the change in outlook going to therapy gave me. it's a journey, and healing isn't linear so be easy on your self! it's perfectly reasonable to go to therapy for a few weeks to months at different points in your life. spending years on end in therapy definitely isn't necessary for everyone! anyway, I'm at the 32 minute mark of the video - let me continue watching, haha 😊💕
@suprzonic
@suprzonic 3 года назад
I don't know if you watch The School of Life here on RU-vid? their videos are a mixed bag but I've definitely found some of them relevant/helpful to my self development xx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Ma’am I didn’t know that wasn’t standard protocol - thank you for watching all the way through 🙏🏿❤️
@justaraba
@justaraba 3 года назад
Sis really gave us an hour 🥵🥵🥵... it’s the eating portion 😂😂😂... got me hungry
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I had to the absence was too much! 🙃❤️
@nas1029
@nas1029 3 года назад
MELA you are such a stunner sis... I’m not going to be one of those annoying people telling what to do but your teeth are so beautiful naturally with that said I look forward to seeing the after cos you are an exquisite beauty eitherway❤️❤️❤️ also, please check your B12, vitamin E, K and vitamin D levels eye bags could be from a vitamin deficiency so almost impossible to completely fix topically hopefully it’s not but defo worth checking x
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I appreciate your opinion baby girl! I think they’re still beautiful too but I think right now at what stage I’m at in my life I’m ready to change the appearance of them and really take my dental health a lot more seriously ❤️
@nas1029
@nas1029 3 года назад
I completely understand sis, there is a season for everything and you are such a beauty eitherway I really look forward to seeing your dental journey sis❤️ I edited my comment to add about the vitamins, really seems silly but we black folk have deficiencies at levels that are “normal” for other ethnicities so it rarely gets picked up xxx💕
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Omg yes I’ve just seen your edit I think you’re absolutely right I’m going to increase my vitamin uptake I think it’s definitely to do with that also I noticed when I eat more fruits and vegetables I feel a lot more energetic and upbeat thank you for pointing that out to me ❤️
@nas1029
@nas1029 3 года назад
@@melachild you’re more than welcome sis❤️ I had similar issue some time ago, it really helped connect dots I didn’t even realise correlated x
@prinnynahoti7873
@prinnynahoti7873 3 года назад
It’s the length of the video for me 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Prinny 🥺❤️
@deeluther4060
@deeluther4060 3 года назад
Road To 150k You Looking Hella Gorgeous Makeup on Point Hope u EnJoying your Spectacular Weekend Stay Bless n Be safe always
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Whoop whoop 😘❤️ Thank you so much Dee hope you have a wonderful week ahead too 🥰❤️
@deeluther4060
@deeluther4060 3 года назад
Your Welcome Keep doing your thing I Will Do
@Mk124-
@Mk124- 3 года назад
Not me thinking and hoping you were going to upload today 😩😩 THANK YOU❤️
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
We call that manifesting 🤩
@Ro.a97
@Ro.a97 3 года назад
Waited till I reached the end before I commented but ughh the look? Odo it’s so🥺 as well as the moment you start to feel the whole look. I live for those lmaoo as I always say: Give it to demm! Also loved to see more of your personality through the video: you’re so funny😭 but like not always that intentional which makes it even funnier. The topics? A1, shit is real outchea and we should talk about it! But at the same respect our own comfortzone and boundaries which u did and I love that you did it in your own way and tried to stay true to yourself. Honestly I wish you everything and more!! God bless you frr ♥️ Rew
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you baby girl 😂❤️ I’m really glad that you enjoyed the video!
@neoweo1862
@neoweo1862 3 года назад
You really blessed us with this I love it
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I hope you enjoyed Eniola ❤️
@ikranabdille
@ikranabdille 3 года назад
MELAAAAAA!!! THIS LOOK OMGGG
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Ikrannnnn babyyyyyy thank you 🥺❤️
@jpelumi7339
@jpelumi7339 3 года назад
loving this quality ma'am
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much ❤️😭
@m.0195
@m.0195 3 года назад
What concealers was used please it's not in the description box😩
@russenoir4001
@russenoir4001 3 года назад
Who ahhh dey 2 🐐's who disliked? Professional EOP'S?
@moeshaj.6637
@moeshaj.6637 3 года назад
Can we talk about the crispness, the crispiness* of this video, please and thanks 😍 Your gold necklace is shouting at me so simple yet.. where is it from pls x
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Moesha thank you so much 🥺❤️ I appreciate you noticing the difference in quality it’s only up from here and my necklace was gifted to me by my mum when I was an infant x
@moeshaj.6637
@moeshaj.6637 3 года назад
@@melachild ❤️❤️
@fayoaiyetan
@fayoaiyetan 3 года назад
Really pretty Mela! 😍
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Thank you so much Fayo ❤️
@ceeceeannon6355
@ceeceeannon6355 3 года назад
An hour?!!!!!! Nah I need to sip and listen to this. I'll be back xxx
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
Lmao I hope you enjoyed 🥰❤️
@vina4791
@vina4791 3 года назад
Uni had me in a chokehold but we’re back to catch up as per 😌
@vina4791
@vina4791 3 года назад
Thank you for the hour🥺😭
@melachild
@melachild 3 года назад
I appreciate the support - remember to take breaks when you need to but I know you can do this uni thing !
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