Alain Dulon those who say don't worry, or we'll both be just fine, don't be so dramatic... only see u as someone to cuddle... This movie for me is just a summer fling, just like mine this summer, he and Nicolas are just sweet talkers who know how to flirt and how to make u feel they need u and and develop an attachment toward them... Fuck it
@PTRAINBOY I think in that situation complete silence and looking them straight in the eye could get how you feel across more than any words. I don’t like watching stuff like this though, because it just makes me feel depressed about how I’ve never been in a relationship, and how I’m still a virgin. Also I don’t know why I’m telling this to a stranger on the internet. Quarantine has jacked me up.
Right?! I understand if he was in love with someone else at the same time but that was so wrong, and to find out that way is even worse. That’s not a friend :/
Im late to the party but I was just in the same situation with my "friends" it really calmed me down to see a movie properly portraying the emotions of how same sex and bi relationships.
The ending of the movie is just right. He don't need Nicholas and that girl as a friend. I better be alone than to have those two. I smiled genuinely when he walked away to Nicholas. Phil deserves to be loved.
I can understand how you must have felt.. But I have a question.. Are you suffering from anxiety?? Because I am and that's how I feel when something triggers my anxiety..
It happened with me in actual reality I loved a guy and he was with a girl having sexual bond with her and when i found out he dont even answer a damn word ...and i had to let him free. Now his girlfriend has left him and he wanted me back but i got hurt by that incident so much that im not able to accept him to my life again. Im crying seeing this movie the whole time
Can't believe Nicholas had the audacity to ask Phil to accept that he wants both of them. Its not like they are a throuple. Just disgusting. I'm glad Phil dodged two bullets. His maturity is amazing.
The ending was just as it should be. Phil walked away from both of them . They both betrayed him in the most unforgivable way. Phil shows how strong he was by walking away from Nicholas and that he respects himself . As for Kat she was just a skank!!!
Absofuckinglutely! I could't agree more. As it should be . . . I was wrecked by that scene. And, when he went in for that kiss, I screamed NOOOOO. lol. So happy for this movie to have sent this message of courage and self respect.
As much as we want to ship Nicholas and Phil, let’s remember that they were not the point of the movie. I honestly was much more invested in the family drama and felt legitimately saddened by everything going on in Phil’s family life. Phil asked Nick if he loved him, when his mother’s first piece of advice was to never do that. I loved that they went full circle on that and Phil learned why his mother was crushed with her relationships the hard way. At the end, Phil mentions that his family was the “Center of His World.” That’s so important and I’m so happy for him. I never felt comfortable with Phil and Nick in the first place. At first it seemed cute, but the movie was making it pretty obvious that the relationship was not a good one.
Shawn C I was having a hard time finding it too. I found a torrent file for it and it was safe, but I had to download my own subtitles. But that part is easy, VLC attaches it for you and it matches perfectly. If you don’t want to go through all that (which doesn’t take too long) then you can always rent it on amazon.
Some people are polyamorous. We often have multiple love interests and partners. There's nothing wrong with that. And some people, like Phil, can't grasp this way of being and can't imagine "sharing" people.
No Nicholas is not bad he just isn't a monogamous person and he was completely honest and open about it that doesn't make him worst or best. Just makes him not the right guy for Phil since he needs monogamy in a relationship.
Though I am now 70, as of Valentine's Day 2021, watching this story line just drove me to tears. Phil was so horribly betrayed by Nicholas and Kat. Honestly, If I had met a guy like Phil when I was younger there would be no limits on what I would do FOR that man, yes MAN. Nicholas was just a boy experimenting.
When I watched the scene I felt so sorry for the character of Phil. To be betrayed in such a way by the people whom he cared & loved so much would be so painful to say the least. But his character in the end showed grace, dignity and strength just to walk away.
Louis Hofmann played the lead in this. He is very young and an enormously talented German actor. He was also in Land of Mine-and is terrific in it-you have to have a strong stomach to watch that film but its a story that needed to be told. He was also in Sanctuary and was outstanding in a very difficult role.
I notice that Kat might be sleeping with Nicholas from the beginning, because she's so adamant that Phil should NOT date Nicholas without any clear reason. The red flag is that they're comfortable hanging with each other like if it's 4 people and 2 couple I could understand, but three people and one coupe? A recepie for disaster. It's great that Phill walked away, especially when it's clear that Nicholas put his "needs" over Phill's (saying that he didn't love Kat but also didn't reassure that he loved Phil, which for me means that he loved himself). Nicholas didn't deserve Phil because he didn't live Phil, he just using him for sex, also Kat too.
I wanted Phil to tell Kat off after she came up to him. The audacity to say that “she’ll wait” and knowing how much Phil loved Nick. But Nick was so selfish, he needs both?! No. That’s not how it works. Then the audacity of Nick to send Phil his snow globe back, thinking that that would some how repair the relationship!!! In conclusion, Nick is selfish and Phil is moving on the bigger and better things without Kat or Nick🥱🥱
I was literally chanting "just walk away, just walk away, just walk away!", And I'm glad he did. I hope this movie gets a sequel, Phil's adventure in America, finding his father and finding love.
Reminds me of a guy that I feel for and he liked me aswell, soon after I started noticing he would fuck around with girls. So glad I had the strength to say no and not waste my time on him.
Nicholas’ character is like so many selfish men. He only thinks about what his needs are. Nicolas says he needs Phil, but does he care about Phil? I doubt it. Phil cares about Nicolas. Deeply. Phil declared his love for Nicolas, only to have doubt cast upon his feelings by Nicolas. Not surprising really. How could Nicolas’ character know what love is anyway? I feel like Phil did the right thing in letting Nicolas go. If Nicolas had said he was extremeley sorry for doing the deploarble thing he did with Kat, and that he DID care deeply for Phil, but also needed to be able to have sex with her, perhaps the ending might have been different. Who knows? Some gay guys like monogamy. I kinda like the idea myself. As for Kat, she was deceiptful as all get out! She knew how deeply in love Phil was with Nicolas, but she still did the nasty with Nicolas behind Phil's back. Why couldn’t both of them have the guts to face Phil with their feelings for each other, rather than dismissing his needs and indulging their desires with such a ‘to hell with the consequences’ attitude? I would have ditched them both too. I’ve responded similarly to people who called themselves my 'friend’ but who ultimately betrayed me, and althought it hurt real bad at the time to kill the love I once had for them, ultimately, it made me a stronger person and enabled me to love myself more deeply. I’ve gone on to form the value system that I have today, which means I attract a lot less of the riff raff out there and have good, dependable people close to me. One day, maybe even a husband? If I live long enough for random chance to bring us together that is… Wish me luck! Good luck to you too!
I kinda agree, but I think Nichola does care about Phill too... The problem is that for some reason (in the movie it's not explained) Nichola can't love him the way Phill deserves to be loved. He does like him, maybe need him too, but he doesn't love him, so they can't continue their stranged relationship. Phill does the right thing because he wouldn't be able to stand an open relationship with someone he loves and adores... He would end up broken, but anyways it's hard to see him go leaving Nichola behind...
I don't think Phil should ever forgive Nicholas. If they cheated you once, there will definitely be a second or third time. These cheating men have an insatiable appetite for sex you can never imagine! But your edit is very creative, I really appreciate that:)
Why the heck people think that having sex with others when you are in a relationship or marriage is ok? Like how? Can't you control your own desires? If not then break up directly? Don't cheat and say it's just sex.
I purposely didn't watch this until now but phil did the right thing. I was so angry while watching this scene like most of the people. so glad phil knows he's true value.
I was cheated by my boyfriend too and it's a terrible feeling that i've never been through. I was angry at first and than my heart was like broken into one hundred pices. He appologized and wanted me to comeback to him. I was soft hearted and agreed. But i still couldn't forgive and last night he was crazy, blamed on me cause i refused all his efforts. What a shame on me, i should be walked away like Phillip instead of give him a chance or whatever. I just scare of being alone and can not find anyone that give me sincere love. But i feel ok now and i will move on
I feel for Phil as he’s heart is broken by nasty Nic, not once did nasty Nic say to Phil, I love you. Good short film with brilliant acting and convincing characters. 👍😊🇬🇧
Phil made the CORRECT DECISION off walking away from Nicholas, as heart wrenching as it was. It showed a strength he probably didn't know he possessed. Good for him.
Sorry, two years lates to this party ... Words cannot express how much I LOVE that you did this. I haven't seen the movie yet ... only just going on a gay-movie binge during this whole carona lockdown business, but I have to say that your dedication to ensuring the ending is liked by your head is brilliant! So many times I have hated endings to these sorts of movies but I have never thought to do this ... you are awesome, and I love your new ending! .... Honestly, anyone who complains you've turned it into a fairytale ending need to just get over it. I get enough "real life" during my ... well ... real life! Sometimes I just want to slip into fantasy land with fairytale endings! 😘😂
Me encanta esta parte, donde por muy enamorados q estemos, no podemos dejarnos pisotear y ser excusa, el valor a nosotros mismo es lo primordial. Dejar deshacerte de lo q te haga daño y esperar a q la vida te premie con una persona que valga la pena formar una relación ...
The first one was very upsetting and unfortunately a lot of us want the true love aspect. Sharing is not an option for me either. The 2nd one is very happy as long as Nicholas isn't planning to go back to Kat. Also Nicholas didn't say I love you back. I can't make a fair choice because I don't know if Nicholas loves Phil. He looks like he does by his facial response. Phil looks scared to tell him that he loves him because he's afraid of being let down. Great actors. Both adorable. The first one killed me inside.
Everyone I know has gone through this in their lives, myself included. My advice to youngsters experiencing this for the first time.....embrace it for all it's worth.
What I find very interesting is that everyone complains about Nick. Yeah, he betrayed Phil and he's an asshole for what he did to Phil. So Phil made the only right decision to split up, realizing Nick would not change anything or anyone. But what I find much worse is the fact that Phil's longtime and supposedly best friend, Kat, has the audacity to have sex with Nick, although she knows full well that he has a relationship with Phil. And then she can still look Phil in the eyes? That's what I call callous. I'm also pretty sure Kat would have kept it if Phil had not seen her with Nick. And then she has to wait for the nerves or even hope that Phil will one day talk to her again. I probably would have had to be very careful not to spit in her face. I think if I were Phil, maybe one day I could forgive Nick, even if I never trust Nick again. He was just a guy who just might not know any better and has always behaved like that. But Kat would be dead forever as a friend, even though I would be as polite to her as a human being at some point in order to stop cursing her
I had to see this movie a few times to get the whole conspiracy theory thing down but I'm convinced Kat & Nicholas were fucking all along and the plan from the beginning was to bring Phil in, make him fall in love and then somehow convince Phil that bringing Kat in as a 3rd would be a plus. Simple fact of the matter is there is nothing worse then falling in love and to find out that they are cheating on you but what hurts even worse is when it's with your best friend. I give him major props for not losing it when he saw them cause had it been me it would not have been pretty
Nicholas is one of those selfish assholes who "...want their cake and eat it to..." It's all about THEM. The best thing to do is stay clear of guys like that.
This scene could be referred to as the scene between the "Cynic and the Innocent". One that believes in love, and one that has lost his faith in it. One that wants to be loved, and one that is yet to find out that even love, comes to end. One that believes it is possible, and one who doubts it all, including his own feelings. There is always someone better than us. There is always someone that can love better than we can. Always someone that can give more, offer more, need us more. No need or hurry trying to settle for less. In the end, if you were to do that, you would end losing so much more than his "affection". Some people want it all (isn't that part of a song?). Others, just want/need (depending on how you define love), one. I didn't care too much for this movie. It had nothing much to teach me. It was OK, I suppose!...lol
I love you Pr0d1g4L... deeply!!! This is amazing with what you side. This made my whole day... in fact, it mad my whole life. Thank you. Lol, I was a little dramatic
If it was a wattpad story all of them would end up as throuple. But I actually like this ending, Phil knows he worth so much more and need someone who would love him and only him.
Phil is a good guy and it’s a hard decision to want someone but ultimately let him go because his feelings doesn’t align with yours. Some relationship works with three people and that’s okay but honestly, I can’t share someone intimate like that as well in the long run
No.... I don't agree with you... Phil was in love with him and if he had been real and apologised then they could start again and try to find a way to go on... It would not be easy, but would be a try.... I hope someone...somewhere really is being loved by someone else... True love is the only shit that matters.... we're all gonna die... we're all gonna be worm food.... but it all make sense if you loved and was loved back... I hope someone loves me before I die...
Jonathan DAnjou your kidding right? So you dont mind a threeway relationship? Nick wants them both and continue their relationships. Phil made the right decision! I’d rather be single than to share the person i love. Nick doesnt love Phil, if you’ve watched the movie, Phil said i love to nick and nick just smiled!!!! He just needs Phil for the pleasure not for the love and its not a healthy relationship!
@@YOLO_LLT Very true and I'm agree with. I think someone with the mindset of Nick is profundly selfish. They only think of the physical pleasure and wants to have the good parts without investing themself in the relationship. One must not like the other to be capable of such thing...
@@jonathandanjou1948 what a crap your comment 😂😂😂 Phil deserved better, MONOGAMY AND FIDELITY is first for a real relationship, im happy for the final decision of Phil for Nicholas and Kat
Beautiful boy like him ... it's what he wants and needs that counts. Wow. Selfish much? Poor Phil. Double betrayals. Brutal to have to withstand at any time, much less at such a tender age. Good to see that despite his naivete, he has enough sense of self to walk away. It won't be long before Kat, that poor excuse of a "best friend" finds out how it feels to be cheated on by Nicholas.
Interesting story. For me it feels like Nicholas is not necessarily a true bisexual, but maybe tries to act straight with Kit for some reason (is he really out of the closet?). Or at least he doesn't go for true love with anyone. Bisexual or gay, that doesn't really matter here. A bisexual guy is not a cheater in any meaning. Cheaters can be straight, gay or bisexual. In fact even a love relationship with 2 different people at the same time could be lot more peaceful than what we see here. He says he "needs" Phil and "needs" Kit. That sounds like anything (maybe pure lust?), but no love.
After watching this movie, I feel like a psycho always thinking if I'm Philip I could have killed them both or burn the small house. The start is so good but the ending is so heartbreaking. At least his family was settled before he leaves and I think what he did to the b!tch and the @sshole is just right. So, the ending was just. such an amazing with amazing actor.
Gotta Have A Strong Heart, To Walk Away From Those You Truly Love... It Hurts, Gotta Have You Emotions In Control And Your Mind Right... Love Is So Strong It Can Makes You Crazy 🙏🏿❤❤❤❤❤
I hate Nicholas sfm. The moment I saw "that scene" I want this movie to do a 180 and go the slasher route. Phil didn't deserve that. He be doin' wood work for him when he could just go cut Nic's wood.
I like the ending. Normally, it should end like that. That's how you have to deal with betrayal! Not all stories have a happy ending, especially when it comes to betrayal! Just go, just leave! They don't deserve you!
Doubt, confusion and the need to know where we are going? Is a form of wisdom determine in the choice of our destiny. Certainly nothing is stable in the search for an ideal love! Even for what appears conventional, such as social morality. Today I love a very pretty young lady and here I discover the great love with his brother!
the brown-haired guy, whose name I ignore, is one of the most handsome guys I've ever seen. The blond one has such a sweet face....he's disarming. One should be ashamed to do him any kind of harm. Now, the only "funny", unlikely thing about all these tv series narrating of two boys falling in love with each other, is that it makes you think that it's so easy to find a lover your same sex...which isn't, actually. maybe because I by now belong to the "older" generation, don't know, or maybe because it depends a lot on where you live...I can't believe thigns have changed so much and that the "percentage" of gay/bisexual people (guys, in most cases) has risen so much...it would have been nice in my times to find someone and have a true love story without anybody hrting and interfering and slagging, though....but it never happened
The moment when Phil said I LOVE YOU 5:05 and he was hoping for Nicholas to say it back but he didn't I realized that Nicholas don't love him the way Phil did
Good for Phil (for him decision) and the real final in the movie, CHEERS FOR THE MONOGAMY AND THE FIDELITY!!! Nicholas deserved it, and Kat for traitor and the worst friend
Is there one fucking movie that doesn't kill me like this. Like seriously guys, name one beautiful movie with a relationship that doesn't end sadly. Cuz I really need to go watch them.
If I were Phil, when I saw the two of them in Nico's shed. I will go in and take a look at them and I will give the gifts I brought to both of them as a congratulation.
