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Tim I have a new dimension of respect for you. So vulnerable and courageous! Maybe I don't know enough people but it seems few men (famous or not) would share personal thoughts and fears so publicly. Can't see how you will not end up with exactly the match you seek (authentic trustworthy beautiful etc.)
Check his background, there is si much more intimate stuff he shared. After, you won't be ashamed for your own negative experiences and be able to take on challenges beyond comprehension Thank me later by buying 2 homeless kids food for a month
I don't often watch or listen to podcasts more than once. But this is my third time through, and I will likely listen to this periodically for the rest of my life
As a holistic corporate life & leadership coach, LOVE the openness, honesty, and authenticity you two held throughout this conversation. So many people would devolve to "playing to the crowd" with the camera rolling, but this felt pure with great guidance from Matt. I appreciate this shows some of the best aspects of coaching when it's truly present and not performative. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing so much of your stories and inner struggles - you know more than anyone how profoundly helpful they are for your listeners/viewers. Hoping that some time from now you'll meet again, and then you'll tell us all about how things went way better than you expected. Good luck! 💚
Tim! Your perfect person is out there man! People would be hard-pressed to find someone who has worked on themselves as much as you, and that alone is the trademark of a good life partner - the ability and willingness to change one's self. You work to see your blind spots, and that's all anyone can ask for. Wishing for you, and everyone else reading this, to find their perfect person in this beautiful Human Experience.
You are not the only intelligent, sensitive and evolved being out there. Let go of expectations....but in the same light, visualize ane TRUST the outcome!
Love the interviews where you engage with interviewers in their areas of counseling expertise and we get to see how their techniques work on someone and the structure of those techniques. Even better with video (IMHO)! Also funny the parts of therapeutic/cognitive techniques that are in multiple fields.
Thank you Tim for bringing up great speakers and enriching our lives with actionable insights. The recruitment process Matt outlined works very well do Senior leadership hiring who have the maturity to appreciate the reference process but people who are viewing this should not misconstrue that it will work for every position and every market.
Thank you so much Tim. You and Matt were open & vulnerable which made the entire episode very relatable. Thank you for asking the difficult questions. 🙏🏽
There's a mourning period after the end of any type of relationship, especially one with a person that was/is evidently so special to you. So, yeah, by all means, go to dinners with friends, explore new people, but also - understand that in as much hurry as you might be to find that partner, to have kids, you might need a breather before you dive back into the whole relationship thing. You are a healthy individual of 45 years, not 80, there's plenty of time. So maybe give yourself the time to process and mourn. And have fun while doing it. Someone down in the comments suggested traveling to Argentina :) Why not? Nothing like taking yourself out of a situation to gain some perspective. Maybe instead of Argentina, explore a place you've never been... Hope you find exactly what you are looking for at the end, Tim! 🤞 You certainly deserve to find happiness! 🍀
New beginnings? Just go back to Japan! (...maybe far from Tokyo for more quietness) Really appreciate the labeling in your podcasts. Jumping to the specific info-bit you are looking for THAT moment is perfect Tim, just like your books! Thanks!!!
Thank you for this wonderful podcast and the vulnerability on both sides. Really learnt a lot from all the advice. I don't know you Tim but I am confident that you will meet a wonderful and beautiful woman who has great EQ and IQ and a warm heart. My impression is that you overthink life too much, I hope you are able to feel more and quiet the mind every now and then! All the best to you!
Feeling vulnerable myself for a couple of weeks/months (probably years tbh) at the moment. You both inspired me a lot and sparked a great sense of hope within me. Going to revisit this episode.
Dear Tim and dear Matt, thank you so much for such exceptional podcast. I have learnt so so much from it and is helping me with the making of a "fear experiment" I want to carry out in Barcelona, where I live. With regards to the situation of anger you experienced Tim and, thank you for sharing it, I loved how Matt also manages to explain the word anger in such an easy manner and one of the solutions he offers, which is to address the writer and share the boundaries that were crossed. etc. Can I ask if the other solution can be the following? I have been reading and learning a lot about ego and learning to trust absolutely everything that happens in our life. In this case, it is clear that Tim's ego was badly affected but once you are conscious of it (by writing and accepting the pain in detail) can the other solution be to just leave the situation as it is? simply, accepting and understanding what happened and believe that whoever read the article and doesn't want to even try Stoicism then is because it has to be like that, and those who are meant to start practicing, the article will not even cross their paths? In this situation this is how Ego vs Conscience would react. Ego (this is what I believe, what I have gone through and want to prove a point or just be heard) Conscience ( I will not let this media piece affect me in any way and there is no need for me to react, my good intentions remain untouched and I will not "fight" for any cause or argue my points) because the minute you "fight" for something as much as you believe in, your ego is being fed. Ego loves being right, proving a point whereas conscience accepts and there is no need for anger, distress, just let it flow and let it be as it is. I would love to hear from any of you guys regarding my comment and I thank you for taking the time to read it.
To have to come to the realization that crime is rational is a privilege I’ll never know. Of course it is! It’s survival and trauma. Jesus. Phew. That triggered me but the rest was great. You’re effort to help them is amazing. People just need belief and a second chance.
Tim was together for 18 yrs and found the wonderful amazing woman I am now with by doing what Matt suggested And I’m not famous but in a small community you get the same type of reaction especially if you earn enough suggest you try it it I got the advice from a good friend and I thought she was galloping mad But it worked, 8 years in now and getting married next year if she says yes, life has no guarantees
Manage energy not time. Focus on those energy producing value generating activities. Time and energy are limited. Energy is restorative. Time is not. Maximize impact. Decide what to "delete" and "not to do".
About checking references, I am wondering what are his views if the candidate asks the interviewer to connect him with ex-employees to get feedback for his/her managerial style and if they would work with this manager again? :) 59:59 At some point, I thought he would advise you to do the same on the dating scene. "Connect me with your exs, I want to check how good you were and if he wanted you back" Also deciding on the first 5 minutes as he suggested, based on your intuition, by definition is biased, this "gut feeling" many cases is a result of mood, stereotypes or subconscious past experiences that maybe irrelevant, and for these reasons large organisations try to tackle this by training interviewers to focus on objective criteria. Your gut feeling is irrelevant. Having a scoring system, like you suggested Tim you do, and applying conscious reasoning is more relevant approach 55:50.
not the best lighting situation. Natural light + recessed lights behind the speaker. The window and ceiling lights are harsh to look directly at. Speaker himself is illuminated harshly and artificially from behind camera. The speaker should rotate this whole setup towards the window. Let that window be the primary light source.
Women always worry if a guy just wants them for s@x the same way guys worry if ladies only want their wealth. In both situations, it's impossible to tell. All you can do is hope to attract those with true intentions.
I hope your notes during this podcast remained relatively organized so you don’t inadvertently apply his recruiting tips to your dating life- “Here’s a list of all my worst qualities..” 😅
I also have disagreements with the though process of saying NO - it looks deeply rooted it is all for me mindset rather than the more accommodative and holistic approach.
If you are sirious about it, Tim, announce publically that you made a bad call on investment and lost it all, in debt up to the ears. Then see what sticks. Aka remove the percieved "threat".
Tim, why don’t you have a CFO/family office to handle everything in your life regarding finances and legal. I do this for clients. Just like Birchall for Elon Musk. I bet even Elon spends very little or no time doing these things. You can have that kind of service even if you aren’t a multibillionaire.
You can. And hopefully have the insight to realize the foolishness of Ayn’s philosophical narrative and how it failed her. She ended up being a taker and not a maker…
@@JamesDecker7 Is writing a novel that continues to sell 100,000s a year (sales have doubled and redoubled every decade since the 80s) and inspires millions what you would call being a "taker?"
@@jeffbeamer9882 Yup. When you wind up on social security after your fundamental philosophy is that such social safety nets should not EXIST…you are a hypocritical person who’s philosophy is obviously flawed. That’s a taker in her OWN words.
Tim, I promise you there are tons of attractive single women who have no idea who you are.. learn cold approach, pick up, and you can meet your future wife and be certain of no preconceived, ulterior motives .
Make the sacrifice to wait until marriage for the next one and she'll come. Trust first. Give it to God and work on the thing that caused you two to fail. She will come when you will be ready for her. Do not go seek her until you know you're ready no matter how long that takes. Sorry to hear about your breakup, man. You have so many good years left. Sending you love
He did it successfully already? And he is not even getting money out of it as he stated towards the end, he just has fun with it and those CEOs seek him out because they find his advice helpful
