What is wrong with the ML, he ignores his wife and favours another woman even rushing off to see her while his wife is left going to hospital on her own and he lets this other woman hang off him like a leech and then he gets angry if his wife even blinks in another man’s direction and when his wife has finally had enough he won’t divorce her, why? because he’s a narcissist who’s now lost control of his human doormat. If there was no major previous misunderstandings and he said he wasn’t forced to marry then why did he treat her like crap for 3 years.
I know Their married in real life. But for the sake of this drama, she should have been with her best friend that likes her. He is always there for her This is there third drama together
I love the Mom and Grandfather in this. Husband is an idiot, can't blame the wife for wanting to jettison him out the door. Even though the 2FL and ML never consummated their relationship, it still is cheating. His wife gets diagnosed with breast cancer and he is with the mistress, his wife almost dies on the side of a road and he is with his mistress, every time mistress calls he is out the door, sorry but that is three strikes and he is out. I like the fact that the FL is strong and smart and doesn't put up with the nonsense. And love the fact the mother in law and grandfather in law want to keep her and get rid of their grandson. It is a cute show and the chemistry is fantastic between the two leads. Not sure, but I think I read they are married in real life, would explain who the scenes seem so well acted.
I feel sorry for the 2nd ML..He loves her since they were kids and he sacrificed his own love.That’s a true love..not selfish,willing to give up his own happiness for the sake of the happiness of the woman he truly loves.
He really was a good 2ML, willing to take on her unborn child as his own, but stepping aside when he realized that those two were madly in love with each other but just not able to communicate it properly.
In all honesty, she should have ended up with her bestie. The man she married got her always last on his prioroty list, preferring his mistress than her. It was good her friend told him: you did not cherish her. I will cherish her for you. He was not reliable and his actions shwed FL she cannot rely on him. In real life, the friend is obvious choice
The drama makes light of a painful situation, -- being second (or maybe even third since second would be the business) to a woman in her husband's list of priorities. Three years is a long time to wait for your husband to show love and affection. Obviously, it's not real life since any self-respecting woman would have left the minute she learned about the "other woman". She could have had a good life and love with the other guy. Notjing to miss from the first marriage, anyway.
2:01:19 yeah. He literally say “we were so good together” but from what we know they have been married for 3 years without consummating their marriage (until after she asked for a divorce), he has basically treated her as a second class citizen in their marriage, and all of his memories of them being good together are of HER loving and supporting HIM! None of his memories of them being good together are of HIM loving and supporting her-because there were none. Typical self centered and arrogant male lead! (But at least he was never overtly physically abusive like in so many dramas!). It would be nice to see him reflect on how little he cared about her and come to his own realization without her having to tell him that he is never there for her! Yes, the grand gesture of pushing her out of the way of the car is good-but honestly how he treats her every day of their relationship is more important.
Yeah, I really got annoyed by this "debts of gratitude" that this plots impelement. It's ok to be thankfull, ofcourse, but ruining own life for that, being blind, brainwashed and stupid?! Well...
ODIO a la protagonista por soportar una y otra vez el abandono de su esposo a la llamada de la amiga instigadora, interrumpiendo, incluso, sus momentos intimo. La ODIO doblemente, por abandonar a un hombre bueno con ella, en el altar, para quedarse con su ex MALTRATADOR emocional y psíquico. Se merece que la siga maltratando.
I think, actually, If ML really loved his wife, he wouldn't neglect her like he did, leaving in the middle of their intimacy, running for another woman out of his wife's hug. FL indulged that for thre years, real patience... and also he didn't find it wrong... Other woman saving him was just an excuse for his behaviour, while the true problem was his lack of love... Even his chasing after divorce was domineering and rude, showing no respect for her feelings... Jumping infront of car was his only moment of grace, bu did he deserve another chance with FL? I wonder...
If he truly loved her, why did he never ask about her life, find out about who she was, what she liked and disliked? Why didn’t he kiss her or try to have sex with HIS WIFE for 3 years? You have a very odd description of true love.
This MIL 🙄... How disgusting is it to try and use a baby to keep a man? And, just because they're a couple in real life, it doesn't mean their CHARACTERS being together at the end is a good thing! 🤦🏼♀️
I always look for that. I’ve searched love at first sight dozens of times. Where two people just meet and fall in love. That never seems to happen in these dramas. It’s always lies and green tea female dogs.
Maybe you can search mainstream chinese dramas. These type of mini dramas are purposely made to make our blood boil as much as possible 😂 (and pay more money to unlock the next episodes on their original platform)
AHHHHH why do they always write about how stupid woman are if he really loved her he would of told her about her why he keep going to that woman long time but instead treated her like trash and they let her go back to him i hate these stupid writers making women into fools
This was a sucky ending. She should not have agreed to marry best friend when she knew she still loved ex! She did to friend what ex did to her….not right….just not right…you don’t play with a persons heart! Yeah I know it’s not real but it sends a message to viewers that it’s ok to hurt others as long as you get who or what makes you happy!
A história é linda! Muito romântica e engraçada. Eu amei do início ao fim. O elenco é ótimo. O casal protagonista são lindos e muito fofos, a química deles é ótima. Muito obrigado pela legenda em português BR ❤
I think I watched another version of this drama.They just used other ML and FL. The reason why he didn’t touch her for 3 years,it’s because during their wedding night at the peak of their love scene,she was uttering another man’s name.of course,vice versa,if the other way around,it will put you off right. Imagine during your wedding night, are calling someone else name during your bed scene. That was the reason,he didn’t touch her because he thought she love someone else. She thought he doesn’t love her. They need open communication to end up misunderstanding.
ML ignore his wife and goes to the SFL each time she calls him. FL had enough and divorce him but took him back because he took the hit for her. I feel bad for the SML. He was always there for her but she just doesn’t love him to be with him. It’s a good drama to watch
It always annoys me when a couple should and are going to divorce and a mother or grandparent butts in with the " sex soup" and messes up their decision!
The ML consistently prioritized his mistress over his wife, even while they are intimate. It doesn’t matter what the relationship is between the ML and mistress. If your spouse doesn’t make you a priority and repeatedly chooses someone else over you, then leave.
I have seen many drams with same ending like this. first male lead tortures his beloved wife for mistress then he realised at the end he was wrong at last he saves from mistress attack. writers please wake up dont copy and paste ending
Overall a very pleasant watching experience with limited violence/toxicity, and quite a few shenanigans by the FL. Recommend if you just want a nice time watching a good drama.
I don't like this drama. He really loves her but not fully, he didn't trust her, he didn't gave time to her and did so many other things he also cared about the other girl more than his wife and even if he thought that she had saved his life he should have trust his wife but the FL did not choose the other one. I really don't like this drama.
Самое страшное это равнодушие мужа, даже если у него есть спасительница которой он благодарен , он не должен жертвовать и пренебрегать женой , как можно такое простить , спасительница с мужем нападали не раз на главную героиню как собаки , у неё от мужа за 3 года не было не поддержки ничего, когда ей было плохо и чуть не случился выкидыш он сказал ей не создавай проблемы и повесь трубку , после такого даже у самого любящего человека , вся любовь пропадёт , одним словом говномуж, зачем такое прощать
Actually i like this couple i already watch their pair together in others drama, the thing i don't like in here is ML character selfish and to doominering, well we agree everytime the leads in intimate moment there was distracted thing from evil girl character and ML choose to visit the evil girl, and why he can't say "i love you or i like you" before they get divorce and he didn't get chance to said that before divorce, but there was some good thing in here even thought for me itself the drama not that complucated i find myself still enjoy it to watch it, just need some improvement
I felt sorry for the SML, but I don’t understand people wanting him to be with someone who doesn’t love him. She was only marrying him to give her child a father. The same way she deserved to be loved by her stupid husband , he deserved the same. It’s too bad he wasted so many years loving her. Sadly, the heart wants what the heart wants. He did the right thing by letter her go. Being with someone who loves someone else is more painful.
In the long run such reletions can become toxic. It's better to not waste your life on someone who has feelings for another person. Look for someone who will be just yours
at 1:26:15 the abject disappointment on the faces of Mother in law and Grandpa in law at the FL leaving and the ML's inability to say a cohesive sentence
Know this just a whacky C-🎭 but I’m going to point out a few things in which the ML is very inappropriate and disrespectful to his marriage life: 1) since he’s a married man the 2nd FL shouldn’t be calling him when she needs thing…he has a wife and an assistant who could be his go between; 2) shouldn’t be drinking along with 2ndFL when he knows her intentions aren’t pure…alcohol clouds the mind; 3) shouldn’t be taking her to a club as if they’re dating; 4) shouldn’t disrespect his wife by taking 2nd FL’s calls while him and his wife trying to work out their problems in the marriage; 5) shouldn’t allow 2nd FL in his personal space and physical contacts…nothing is innocent when it comes to touching; 6) if the person you love ask you for a small favor, you should accommodate them…she really wanted him to attend her physical exam; and 7) not consummating the marriage within the first month, forget the three years 💩…is he really a man by now they are in the “friend zone”😡 This just the stupid things he did within the first 20 minutes of the 🎭🧐
I think the actress is Chen Fang Tong aka Dawn Chen. Was in Maid's Revenge with Dai Gao Zheng. Can't guess the Drama name or the ML but if it's that important to you google her name, then go through each of her dramas until you find a photo of him as ML
She forgave him to easily. Even if she gave birth then rekindle that would be better at least he would have a longer time to reflect on his past actions.
"she forgave him too easily" you sure we watching the same thing?! because she was different from other FL in other drama"s, before there divorce, and after divorce he chased after her for really long time until she finally gave up, watch again if you don't understand a single thing happening there!!
I feel sorry for Second ML...ML doesn't deserve FL.. She waited for her 3 years and u dont have any sexual relationship nor took with each other... If someone save one life that doesn't mean your life is his... What's the meaning of regret
7/10 worth watching for the strong FL, in-laws and FL friends. not a 10/10 bc ML sucksssss *spoilers* Even though it was a romcom, ML seriously made my blood boil with anger, he is not physically abusive but he is a hypocrite with his ambiguous "friendship" and was never there when the FL needed it, things were played as if they were light but they weren't, sexless marriage for 3 years, he only started to care about her when she asked for a divorce which shows a feeling of possession and lack of respect, he abandoned her alone in the middle of intimate moments and went to 2FL and when she asked him directly for help and he refused to help her even though it was something she didn't do often so he should have taken it seriously, she almost lost the baby because of this, as she said, they didn't even talk so much so what did they love about each other? It's easy for him to dedicate himself to her in the end when the other woman turned out to be completely psycho and didn't save him, he isn't even aware about the FL almost losing the baby thanks to him going to the other woman. Honestly the other woman always made it clear to him she expected to marry him someday so how dare him even question FL friendship with the 2ML? he knew his relationship was dubious with the 2FL, that old woman made it clear at the beginning what everyone thought about his choices for the 2FL. All that said I enjoyed the drama thanks to all the other characters especially the FL, she is amazing and strong, I love how she says the right thing like when she points out his double standards when he complains about her male friendships. I like this actress a lot, she can be so sexy and then so cute! the in laws were great too, FL friends were great.
Él abuelo es encantador, la suegra maravillosa, pero el exmarido no merece que esa mujer le perdone. Él nunca la escucho, era un marido ausente, pero tuvieron que fastidiar con el embarazo y con la loca que no encontró cuchillo y arremetió con el auto. Estos guionistas empeñados en conseguir que la pobre mujer regresé con un hombre así. 🤦🏼♀️
Sin suegra metiche ni secuestro. Demuestra que uno mismo se puede arruinar la vida al no hablar o demostrar sus sentimientos. De qué sirve decir que amas a alguien si realmente no se conocen. Hacerlo por el bebé es no asumir la responsabilidad. El amigo demostró lo que es el amor verdadero.
Another 2ML syndrome. At least the scriptwriter gave 35% of the last part of the drama for the ML to pursue her again. In some similar dramas, the ML regrets his actions only in the last few minutes of the drama.
disgusting ending ML who never came whenever FL needed always use her as a doormat , ML can prefer other girls above his wife but can't she her with anyone. He expect to behave like a wife but can't do his husband responsibilities. that's so ridiculous.
For me... Is ok.. Back remarry to ex cuz them misunderstanding and ex very 'kayu'. 😂😂😂😂😂 and them love each other...and FL not in love with bff... But sian gak bffnya tu tp kahwin ngan org tak sayang lg payah... 😅
Oh my god this is ridiculous how disgusting the male lead he wants to hook up another woman and not even make Ml male friends. This is such a disgusting hypocrisy, I hate this
Oh, come on, seriously I would have married the 2 ML he is more handsome, smarter, and better character. It was all over red rover when she almost lost the baby and he was with that other bird. ML was not likeable or attractive, face or personality, sorry to say.
Me too. I don't like to talk about people's appearance because they can't help how they look. I'm usually of the motto "cute is as cute does," but the sour puss expression of the ML fit his character just right. I LOVE the sassy "take charge" attitude of thecFL. She knows her worth and is concerned about her mental and physical health. Good! Most FLs almost kill themselves trying ti stick around thevML and this heroine is dumping the chump for a better future and health. She knows he's cheating in some fashion with that vile sea monkey and won't fight to keep someone who doesn't want her. I love how the MIL and gramps support and love her. The ML is just crap compared to the 2nd ML, and he knows it! He's just jealous that the FL is throwing him away to get rid of him and possibly hook up with someone better. I say possibly.
The ml angry the wife standing up for herself, he don’t wanna divorce but literally while saying this he has the mistress in his arms,for 3 yrs he never even looked at the wife the only person in his mind & heart is the mistress is like always the ml just want to control & keep prisoner the wife, so he can hurt, humiliate her in private & public. Plus he wants blackmail her but he still being with mistress like having 2 women is normal in the wold. Soo tired of the husband never really in love with the wife only abused them and insult them, always let the mistress hurt the wife never really punish the mistress if ur in love with the mistress why not leave the wife always the husband just want control over wife they never actually in love when will this writers write a good script about love cuz love is not abusing, hurting, almost killing and cheating on the wife like they have no value. They always treat the wife like they not actual ppl and wife always forgive them after being hate all time by the husband cuz they think don’t have value without the man.