It's actually from a song by Mel Brooks - "Hope for the best, Expect the worst!" Excerpt from the lyrics - Hope for the best, expect the worst Some drink champagne, some die of thirst No way of knowing which way it's going Hope for the best, expect the worst!
My dad always told me "Expect the worst, and prepare for it to get even worse, and do your best to make the situation better." Nothing easy is worth working for.
Doesn't like being ganged up on but has no problem putting his hands on his mom and sister. Tears up the patrol car but comes in crying and whining. Please put him in GP.
He also said underscored how disrespectful the cops were when they showed up with shotguns at his front door. 🤦🏻♀️ I always wonder if they actually think/feel/believe that way, or they’re just saying it out of stupidity.
Cops do that allll the time. Demand you do something while another cop is demanding or forcing you do the opposite thing. Then they get pissed you "resisted" and it escalates.
Oh, that poor woman charged with battery and assult. I know that growing up in negativity often results in choosing a negative partner. Prayers for her peace.
The guy in the beginning is putting on an act. He knows his paperwork is bad and what he has done with his Mother and Sister is terrible. May he get the proper help and beat down he needs.
So many people are using “ panic attacks “ as an excuse for bad behavior. As a person who has full blown panic attacks, there is no fighting. What is really the problem is lack of accountability and they get mad because they got arrested, and blame PTSD, panic and anxiety for bad behavior.
Exactly and everyone is saying I can’t breathe as they’re screaming and crying and kicking out windows. It’s just pathetic how cowardly they act once they can’t bully someone into doing what they want or take what’s not theirs. 😂
He can smack his Mother around but then he becomes a little baby in jail. What a son. He needs a hard lesson. Anyone that abuses his mother needs to be in jail for a very long time
Sissy boy #1 - Fake issues and his acting is terrible. Grow up! You can get meds for free from drug companies and behavioral health clinics. No money is no excuse. 🤡
Wait until that drunk driver finds out the poor woman he hit is now going donate what organs they can use from her but before he made that stupid decision to drink and drive she was an alive lady. Shameful what a drunk can do.
like i always say.. 💁🏼♀ the accuser is usually "the ACUSEE" (like, if some1 persistently insists that the other is cheating, they're probably cheating THEMSELVES)
@@stebstebanesier6205 everyone different because this need be careful for me enough 1 small glass of wine and I'm finished so I'm not drinking alcohol for 30 years already it sometimes genetic
Drunk Francisco in Multnomah county cracked me up. 😂 Happy amicable drunks are easier to deal with, and can be entertaining like ol Francisco here. Hope he gets it together and things go well for him.
The first guy was just a liar and doing his best to resist without overtly resisting. They knew how to deal with him! You have to laugh to hear him begging for mercy and asking God for help. I wonder if he thought about that when he was strangling his Mother and/or sister? POS. Not to mention he is faking his panic etc. I have two room mates that have panic attacks and I guarantee you it is fake.
Yea, he’s faking. I have anxiety and the occasional attack and it’s already hard enough without pos like this trying to make themselves pitiable victims.
The female Sgt. from Multnomah county is what all detention/correction officers should model themselves after. She is polite, respectful, and you can tell she genuinely looks at people as human beings. At the same time she maintains a rigid sense of control and puts up with no nonsense. She deserves to be recognized for her poise and professionalism in her career. Hats off to her.
If you're referring to the blonde offers, she's not what you think she is.She starts mess just to get the attention. If you watch a few more, especially the ones from Las Vegas. She's arrogant and dangerous.
She should deffo be a trainer; the way she manages to be firm yet still people give respect while acknowledging their struggle (like with the drunk guy shoe situation) is remarkable. She's extremely good at keeping a situation under control and projecting authority without bullying.
You’re not evil. The cop told him to stand up on his own but must have forgotten he was in restraints on his ankles and then seeing him be carried away like that, that was too funny. When they laid him on the floor in booking, it sure sounded like they hit his head, you can hear a bang, like oops, we didn’t mean to hit your head. 🤔
Yeah it's very sad. I've known many women who are in these types of relationships. Alot of them take on the state of mind that it's "impossible" or "too risky" to leave the abusive party and start fresh. They worry that they might end up homeless, alone, or God forbid if they have children, that the kids will end up homeless with them or struggling to survive. It's extremely sad and I pray Women in these situations can pull enough power together to act. I think most people would like to see more community programs available for women in these situations. Not always is it physical abuse, verbal abuse and financial abuse is just as traumatic. I'm a single father and the financial end of my life causes me great stress due to my son's medical condition. But I pray to God and give it my all every single day. I pray this lady can do the same. We all deserve happiness, peace and prosperity in our lives.
@@Star_Lord0889 I had to leave a situation like that, not only was I abused but he had me convinced that it was my fault, finally I got some good advice from a friend and beat it out of there. Fortunately for me I was advised to talk to his father about why I had left. My ex didn't want people to know what a horrible person he could really be, so he left me alone after that.
@sunnicalifornia15we were with these guys because we genuinely cared about them. Another factor is worrying that getting him arrested would make him even more angry. It's an exhausting cycle.
I love how the CO's ask you questions and get you to start talking and the second that you do, they interrupt you with directives and orders. It's almost as bad as when they ask you what you're in for. When they know the whole time. It gives me those feels of when I was 8yrs old and my mother would do that to me. She'd let me go on and on, bearing my soul; knowing the answer the whole time. If I ever get arrested, please good lawd, give me the strength to keep my mouth closed lol.
Frustrating when the domestic abuser asks for mercy. Im guessing that he never showed his missus any mercy while he was bashing her and she was asking for mercy.
What happens in Vegas just might keep you in Vegas longer than you planned. Unfortunately Corrections Officers arent given a lot of respect outside of their community. My late husband worked as a CO at the county Sheriff's Dept and experienced that first hand. But he felt like Sgt Gordan does. He passed away one month before he was going to retire.
These officers are tough and very compassionate at the same time. One moment their dealing with a belligerent drunk guy and the next moment their trying to help people like the girl in the blue shirt can't get out of a bad situation.
It's sad to see many many people out of touch w/reality and on drugs ..also, It's not'tradition', it's 'generational' curses that we all need to break;I hope / pray Yolanda takes care of herself and leaves her situation GOD'S PEACE AND LOVE TO US ALL 🦅🕊️ ✝️🩸💕🌹🙏🏾
Who else noticed the guy acting like a badass peed his pants? Kinda takes away from the look I think he was going for 😂. As to the guy charged with sex crimes saying he’s going to get his kicked…what does he think he deserves? If someone did to his daughter or sister or friend what he did what would he think should happen?
That poor woman is at the end of her rope. 22 years of an alcoholic abusing her and using her and she lost it. I hope to all the gods she left him and she has a peaceful life now.
Nobody forced her to live with a person like that. This show manipulates peoples emotions so easily. Yes it is sad but she is responsible for her own choices. And when her mother did the same it is even less understandable.
She attacked him. Why is this always excused or tolerated when it's a woman? Let's say she's the alcoholic. Her husband scratches her face so hard that he breaks a nail because he feels trapped in the relationship and wants out. Would you be as sympathetic for the man who attacked his wife? Or would you be saying he's a grown man who should have left before resorting to violence? She's an adult. She needs to take some accountability for the choices she made. I have zero respect for alcoholics. And I have zero respect for domestic abusers.
That poor woman broke my heart. As an alcoholic in recovery, I can confirm that love will make a woman put up with a lot. We alcoholic men somehow choose the most loyal women. Wives and girlfriends of alcoholics, thank you for everything you do and have done.
@joanmanship9595 no as a psychologist I know the difference quite well. The women often claim to be empathy, orvloyal and can fix the alcoholic. But they end up enabling the behaviour, so that's codependency.
Your degree does not equal to the experience of someone who went through it. You have nothing to say that we alcoholics don't already know. We don't need "help" from a scholar, we need guidance from our higher power.
The cop who was asking Rodey, and then Vincent all the questions, had a weird vibe- cadence with his voice..... He sounded curious, yet totally disinterested at the same time! Damn, that's a funky talant!😊
Self Realization… I looked in the mirror and took a good look at myself and didn’t know who I was when was using drugs… used for about a month and turned into a twig… didn’t like what I saw in the reflection… That was almost 20 years ago… almost lost my grasp on reality… Life is a lot better being able to function…
They need to make judges work here and see how people act maybe they will be charged accordingly instead of a slap on the hand. I admire the people who work in intake. I could not handle the attitude
Lots of Sorries for the lady with the alcoholic husband. The kicker for me was the last case, hit-and-run, where the lady will probably not survive and there was talk of organ donation. That young lady isn’t coming back.
@@HaLLiEB85But you have nothing to say about the dude btpragging that he "fights well" and beat up a woman while in county jail last time?? 🤔 I don't wish him any illm but women deserve to be protected too.
She mentioned going mainline really quick so that means the people she's talking about fighting are men, and she's basically explained how she survived.
I I absolutely admire Sargent Gordon in Portland. She is the essence of confidence and kindness. I think every interaction she is involved in gives the suspect every opportunity to comply and she shows compassion and respect to them all. What an inspiration.
Yolanda is the perfect example of a battered woman who FINALLY stands up for herself and fights back, then ends up in jail. All this because of a worthless, pathetic excuse for a man/human. ANYONE who abuses their partner should be thrown in jail and NEVER let out!!! NEVER hit a woman, for ANY reason!!!
IDK, seems to me like she's more an example of someone who's at least a co-abuser who got caught. Notice how when she's asked 'did he hit you' she doesn't actually answer? Just says 'Well, I defended myself' followed by a rambling excuse as to why *he's* bleeding, but she doesn't have a mark on her. By your logic, she should be thrown in jail and never let out. Also? That 'never hit a girl' b.s. completely ignores female abusers. Maybe rethink that.
Women aren't as fragile as you might think. If one hits you for whatever reason, you are perfectly correct to defend yourself, even if that means you strike her back. It's a nice touch of chivalry to say "never hit a woman" but if they're hitting YOU and abusing YOU, by all means, fight back. I don't hit my husband but if I did, I fully expect him to hit me back and vice versa. He knows he'll have to drop me from the outset or I will come for his blood. LOL Fortunately, neither of us are terribly violent people.
@@LauraS1OP said, "Never hit a woman, ever" which 1. Implies you can't defend yourself if attacked by a woman. And 2. Leaves it open to some to interpret that as it only matters when men do it to women. That's the way Lee interpreted it, at least.
It’s sad that our mental health infrastructure is so broken. It perpetuates this behavior and drug abuse. My brother suffered from a lot of mental health issues that were enabled by an Hispanic household that favored men. He could do no wrong and everything he did was awarded (good or bad). Either to shut him up or keep him happy so he wouldn’t act out. As he got older, he was harder to control as a 6 foot 300lb TEENAGER. This is where it turned violent. The enabling and the lack of mental health assistance turned into frequent stints of baker act holds. 3 days in a mental facility is all is needed for the anger to subside and turn to manipulative behavior to get out of holding. Then as it goes, they turn to drugs and alcohol to self medicate. I feel for all these people. Imagine what a loving home and mental health assistant could do.
@@HaLLiEB85 u do know that my using the term "hilljacks" was meant sarcastically as a joke basically as a way of saying, to the guy actin up & sayin he was all that, that we see thru his bravado, etc. If u didn't know this before, i hope u see it now. It was n no way a putdown to Ohioans. It was a sarcastic way of sayin even the least of us here, see that the "big man" peed himself n spite of all is big talk. Just saying... lol. 💛🖤💛
It’s sad to see Jason in that predicament. Again shows how our broken medical system is particularly for people with metal illness. That officer is fantastic at her Job!
My older brother, Joe, ahead of me by 17 years, was a jail deputy in Ft. Worth, TX. I never really knew him. Wish I had. The stories he could have told.
