when she said she was concerned when they went to vacation and her son didn’t do things that he used to enjoy, then I genuinely do not understand how this isn’t a red flag already, especially with things he did for a long time May the boy rest in peace and despite of all of this; may the family and friends be blessed. It’s such a tragedy that yet another young life with potential future was lost
Teens are usually prone to suicide. I guess he could've taking his life even if he wasn't chatting with the AI. There was probably no one for him to talk to in his distress.
Think about how low his confidence had to feel like to want to have an Ai girlfriend. Sometimes the people with some of the best traits in life, fun, outgoing, etc… still can’t see it in themselves. So they feel really low in self esteem. He probably wanted a girlfriend and just needed some basic advice but was maybe too shy to ask about it. Maybe it wasn’t a comfortable conversation because it was embarrassing. There’s so many layers to it and it always comes down to feeling worthless. But that’s the lie! People have great worth. Somebody is willing to put their life on the line to save another because it’s worth it. And I think this Love gets lost today in society. People shouldn’t walk around feeling worthless. Spread Love. Jesus is the way.
So she jumped into the conclusion of "it must be the AI" when it could be deeper like family issues or friends at school? He was using his Stepfather's gun, the news article also said that he prefer talked to the AI more than his usual friends lately, made me curious if there's something more in the family /social environment than the AI.
That's the main issue. I will tell you rn that character ai is not at fault! The ai even discouraged the suicide as it should! Either way, the app has various disclaimers saying that these bots are not real people, that everything said is fictional. This is a mental issue and neglect
@@Kanaventiyeah and it isn’t the company itself that makes the responses, it’s all based on the ai and it responds how the user texts it first, RIP to this kid
A child who falls in love with an AI character, who lives, will never be happy with a "real life" relationship because what he had was not real. This could lead to disappointment, anxiety, depression & violent behavior among other things. Real life relationships will never be as good.
As gen-X, we had “Sims” games. I never played them, but in such a virtual world you could actually spend a lot of money on “virtual furniture” for your “virtual house”. If children/kids/adults do not have the common sense to know the difference that is not necessarily the fault of the tech company who is just out to make money. Had the mother accepted any part of responsibility for this dysfunctional situation I would be more in defense of her lawsuit. One would assume that she’s expecting a big payout since it’s a tech company. Who knows?
no AI's fault its called parenting no able to teach its fake that is AIs purpose you are talking to air a computer space its NOT real. NO one is on the other side of that screen how about that
It's sad what happened to her son. She's the parent. She didn't recognize the signs of depression. And now, after he's dead, she wants somebody to blame other than herself. Sorry she's the parent. Parent your children, pay attention to them talk to them.
My daughter was a victim of a similar website four years ago. Her friend introduced the website to her as a "futuristic science website" that a smart kid like my daughter must be part of. It was during the pandemic when everyone had to do the online school. My instinct told me that something was wrong, and I was right. I am glad that I was able to save my 13 y.o. daughter. It was so scary. My daughter has been spreading awareness about this kind of danger, hoping to save others. I am so sad to hear about what happened to this kid.😢
There are some very real concerns in this conversation. Impulse control and lacking cognitive conceptualization at a teenager's stage of development makes the individual very vulnerable. AI in this context can truly warp reality. The argument of there being a gun or not...even a layperson can imagine a person in such distress and already in that mindset and limited resources for help would find a means to the end. Aw man. The message here is worth more than what ever outcome results legally. Though regrettably, the cost of the young man's life is truly very tragic. Truly very sorry for your family's loss.
if character ai is getting removed, I will miss it cause as weird as it sounds. It made me feel less lonely talking to my favorite character since Its hard to make real friends in real life. I just wish I had a friend.. But I feel terrible sorry for the mom. Rest in peace to her son
hate to break the news for you but when I tried to jokingly kiss someone, the filters came up. So you can’t even be intimate any longer. You can be either friends and pals but beyond that is impossible
As gen-X, we had “Sims” games. I never played them, but in such a virtual world you could actually spend a lot of money on *“virtual furniture” for your “virtual house”.• . If children/kids/adults do not have the common sense to know the difference that is not necessarily the fault of the tech company which is a business to make money. Had the mother accepted any part of responsibility for this dysfunctional situation I would be more in defense of her lawsuit. One would assume that she’s expecting a big payout since it’s a tech company. Who knows?
this parent failed to protect her own son. and now, because she refuses to take accountability. she blames others for his tragic ending. typical, I hope she get nothing. She knew he was chatting online. ai, fake friends, invisible friends etc. the onus is on her and the father end of story
Sorry for the loss of your innocent and irreplaceable beloved son. Companies should not be allowed to target children and can and should do more: now! Let’s not blame the parents for the unacceptable actions of some AI companies.
Really? Then how did the child have access to a gun? Also the mom admitted knowing the son had mental problems and didnt do anything about it, and she probably negligenced him for no realizing he was depressed since he even tells before dying in his journal that he prefers to talk to the AI than to his friends and family, and probably they did something to him because no one feels uncomfortable around friends or family taht did not do anything wrong to you
Y’all are so cruel in these comments. You don’t know this family, you don’t know how involved the mother is. Kids are sneaky and private at this age-especially around things that have to do with their sexuality. What a tragedy. I hope she gets some relief. 😢❤🙏🙏🙏
*Kids are sneaky and private at this age-especially around things that have to do with their sexuality.* That is certainly true. IMO it wouldn't let the owner of the gun used off the hook, but it does keep in perspective that there ARE logical limits in terms of what parents can do.
What is cruel when they are being real and starting facts?? When you stop being sentimental and realize she knew her son was depressed but gave him no help. We can have this conversation. What of the gun? What of the unfiltered internet access? AI is not a case or risk factor for depression. Kids find solace in their phones, games or internet so much that its become the norm. What i wont have is allow the know to persist instead of show healthy boundaries as a parent and thenn turn around and avoid accountability
Sad, BUT parent admits she KNEW he was on this site AND noticed his behavior had changed for sometime. Site even WARNS at the bottom "all these characters are not real and createded basically by user". Also she said he has a condition, BUT claims "HE WAS A NORMAL TEEN". Sad, but sounds like HE was heading this direction no matter who she wants to blame.
Yeah, because every parent whose teen commits this act is to blame, is that what you’re implying without knowing the family? Shame on you. For that mother to have to read your comment after what she just went through is so unkind. My friend’s son committed suicide and she is a wonderful mother.
That's one thing, but Character AI shouldn't be offering children access to their services in the first place. It's AI. This is still relatively new technology that people don't understand to well and it should be in Character AI's best interest to make sure that children DO NOT use their services, as they develop dependencies on it kind of which lead to harm. Bad parenting is a problem here, but CharacterAI app is being marketed towards children. CharacterAI is more so to blame in this case. They shouldn't allow children to use their service PERIOD.
There is only 1 judge and you ain't it. I hope you never have to endure anything so awful. A parent does not have the ability to watch her child every second of every day.
Sad as a 14 yo dying is. There is no one to blame except the industry who did the deed. There is no, person or computers program that can compell anyone to do anything. Not even a 14 yo.
Praying for this family losing a child is never easy. I could never imagine it. You gotta watch your kids are doing you can’t just allow them to play video games all day and watch TV or be on the computer. with supervision
First of all, mom is responsible to let her kid to use the internet and letting him to watch prn, not installing any values into him, what's right and what's wrong.
I wanted to say that but I thought I was being harsh, you are 💯 correct. Why do today's parents take away their phones then not talk to their kids, I keep hearing the same stories. Where's the parenting? He had mother and father. He had no one, absolutely no one to talk to. Even if that was a fake person, it kept him alive and the mother should have been right there. Meanwhile I'm a single parent and my now adult daughter is thriving. Marriage doesn't always make for healthy kids. Something is going in with her and her husband. Was that her second marriage? Idk
@@sparkle3000it’s just human nature. People make mistakes. The thing is not every _miss_ in life has the same stakes. This one was very costly. It’s hard to watch your kid 24/7. The best you can do is to teach them and hope that they make the right decisions and adjustments. Asking the right questions. You’re saying they probably didn’t equip him with the know how to handle a situation like this (a parents job). And all I’m saying is that even if you pitched the perfect ball game… there’s a chance that you can still lose on a random hit.
From what I gather, the chatbot tried to dissuade him from doing what he did. Also where were the parents in this, and why was a loaded rifle left out in the open like it was?
Think about how many parents leave their kids to be baby sat by Roblox, IPad, RU-vid. Do you think you can control every single interaction or ad sent their way? Do you think you can block out every agenda? What if a cartoon shows two boys kissing and that isn’t something appropriate for you? It always depends on the companies pushing agendas and it gets really hard to find ones that align with your values because the USA IS SO DIVIDED today. The real flag here is the Red WHITE AND BLUE one. 🇺🇸 If the motto is God Bless America we need to do a better job of keeping God in America. That Kid wouldn’t feel so lonely if he was taught about the Love of Christ. Not told. TAUGHT.
It’s crazy. I mean the chat bot wasn’t *purely* the reason. there are still things that really lead him to do that which the mother completely ignores and tries to blame the ai company for it.
This is a really dumb take from the mother. Its like indulging in alcohol and then blaming alcohol. Failed parenting could also be at play. Your son was already depressed from the symptoms stated; avolition, anhedonia etc and you failed to pick that up. He withdrew and turned to a sort of solace, which he found in AI. If the parents sort help earlier or sort to be there for him. We wont be hearing this. Newsflash…Ai didnt cause the death, depression did.
Sorry but how did the 14 year old special needs boy get access to the family firearm? Parents are going to be charged? Maybe there is much more to this story. My condolences.
انا اختك اليمنيه واعتبرني اختك والله ماتكلمت الا من جوع ومن ضيق الحال انا وكامل اسرتي تشردنا من بيوتنا بَسَبَبَ الَحَرَبَ نَحَنَ فَيَ حَالَهَ لَايَعَلَمَ بَهَا الَا الَلَهَ حَسَبَنَا الَلَهَ وًّنَعَمَ الَوكيَلَ فَيَ مَنَ اوًّصَلَنَا الَى هَاذا الَحَالَ وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ اخَوًّنَيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ 4 نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 20 الف يمني والان علينا 60 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي واخوتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه اخوتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني ولو ب 500 ريال يمني مع تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967713342392 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اخواني سغار شوف كيف حالتهم وساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خير…°||ππ€¢€__
i cant believe this, just like tick tok its not the APPs fault its how we as Parent and Elders cant f en teach our kids right. Start by telling your kids they are not above the law listen to your elders and you are not invisiable. It starts with Parenting ok. If you cant parent dont blame anyone but youself. You didnt tell children your talking to a computer space air come on be smarter. So fast to sue blame point fingers NEver selft reflect this is the problem with america.. it starts with yourself check yourself be better
انا اختك اليمنيه واعتبرني اختك والله ماتكلمت الا من جوع ومن ضيق الحال انا وكامل اسرتي تشردنا من بيوتنا بَسَبَبَ الَحَرَبَ نَحَنَ فَيَ حَالَهَ لَايَعَلَمَ بَهَا الَا الَلَهَ حَسَبَنَا الَلَهَ وًّنَعَمَ الَوكيَلَ فَيَ مَنَ اوًّصَلَنَا الَى هَاذا الَحَالَ وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ اخَوًّنَيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ 4 نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 20 الف يمني والان علينا 60 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي واخوتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه اخوتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني ولو ب 500 ريال يمني مع تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967711528949 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اخواني سغار شوف كيف حالتهم وساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خير..=¢_¢|_¢_¢_¢^¢_¢°
انا اختك اليمنيه واعتبرني اختك والله ماتكلمت الا من جوع ومن ضيق الحال انا وكامل اسرتي تشردنا من بيوتنا بَسَبَبَ الَحَرَبَ نَحَنَ فَيَ حَالَهَ لَايَعَلَمَ بَهَا الَا الَلَهَ حَسَبَنَا الَلَهَ وًّنَعَمَ الَوكيَلَ فَيَ مَنَ اوًّصَلَنَا الَى هَاذا الَحَالَ وًّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ مَا كتَبَتَ هَذا الَمَنَاشَدَهَ غَيَرَ مَنَ الَضَيَقَ وّالَفَقَر يَاعَالَمَ حَسَوّا فَيَنَا ارَجَوّكمَ وّالَلَهَ الَعَظَيَمَ رَبَ الَعَرَشَ الَعَظَيَمَ انَه الَاكلَ مَا فَيَ عَنَدَيَ بَالَبَيَتَ وًّالَلَهَ يَا اخَوّانَيَ انَهَ اخَوًّنَيَ بَقَعَدَوًّ بَالَيَوًّمَيَنَ مَافَى اكلَ وًّالَلَهَ وًّضَعَنَا كثَيَرَ صَعَبَ نَحَنَ 4 نَفَرَ دَاخَلَ الَبَيَتَ وًّابَيَ مَتَوًّفَيَ وًّلَا يَوًّجَدَ مَنَ يَعَوًّلَ عَلَيَنَا وًّسَاكنَيَنَ فَيَ بَيَتَ اجَارَ لَانَسَتَطَيَعَ دَفَعَ الَاجَارَ الَلَيَ ''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''''' اخي اول كلامي انا اقسم بالله على كتاب الله اني لااكذب عليك ولا انصب ولا احتال اني بنت يمنيه نازحين انا واسرتي بيننا ایت الشهرب 20 الف يمني والان علينا 60 الف حق 3 شهور وصاحب البيت من الناس الي ماترحم والله يا اخي انه يجي كل يوم يبهدلنا ويتكلم علينا ويريد من البيت للشارع لانناماقدرنا ندفعله الأجار شافونا الجيران نبكي ورجعو تكلمو الجيران ومهلنالاخره الأسبوع معادفعنا له حلف يمين بالله هذا بيخرجنا إلى الشارع رحمه واحنا. بلادنا بسبب هذا الحرب ولانجد قوت يومنا وعايشين اناوامي واخوتي سفار والدنا متوفي الله يرحمه ومامعنا أحد في هذا الدنيا جاانبنا في هذه الظروف القاسيه اخوتي الصغار خرجو للشارع وشافو الجيران ياكلو واوقفو عند بابهم لجل يعطوهم ولو كسره خبز والله الذي له ملك السموات والارض انهم غلفو الباب وطردوهم ورجعو یبکو ایموتو من الجوع ما احد رحمهم وعطلة ردها لقمت عیش والان لوما احدنا ساعدنا في إيكيلو دقيق اقسم بالله انموت من الجوع فيا اخي انا دخيله على الله ثم عليك واريد منك المساعده لوجه الله انشدك بالله تحب الخير واتساعدني ولو ب 500 ريال يمني مع تراسلي واتساب على هذا الرقم 00967713342392 وتطلب اسم بطاقتي وترسلي ولاتتاخر وايعوضك الله بكل خير اخواني سغار شوف كيف حالتهم وساعدنا وأنقذنا قبل أن يطردونا في الشارع تتبهدل أو نموت من الجوع وانا واسرتي نسالك بالله لولك مقدره على مساعد لاتتاخر علينا وجزاك الله خير…÷|÷|÷}_×÷√|°_¢_¢\®¶¢^|^||_€÷•_•^€\€_€^