Single father now because of it fam. Bill split was 75/25. Spoiled her. Took care of the kids. Shorty said the same thing and wanted validation from friends who led 304 lifestyles and had FOMO. Now I have sole custody. Getting it on my own and shorty out here struggling but happy to be having times in the streets and sheets rather than being a mother. Sole custody my guy. How many men do you know have that bro? And she didnt save a dime with the bill split after 5 years man. Best advice I can tell my future son is be a good man not the nice guy. One is a host the other guards the door to his kingdom and stands on business of his goals.
Yep that was me and my kids father all the way up until the day he left the earth. Even though we both knew that our relationship was not good for each other we knew we loved each other but the respect I had for him was the fact that he wasn't leaving his kids because he knew he was the best person to guide and help our kids. I learned alot from him! Some women really dont know what they have or had until its gone and thats facts 💯
Dam my wife said the same thing she was scared and thought she didn't deserve me cause I was treating her like you suppose to treat your girl. She almost destroyed our marriage with that shit now she submitt and cook dam near every day 💯💯💯💯💯👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
That is WILD man I’m telling you I really woke up when the same thing happened to me it was some what insane. Glad yall worked it out brudda 💪🏾🔥 thanks for watching don’t forget to subscribe hope all is well!
“Sometimes you can treat them so well, it will scare them off”. Man that’s so damn true. They will leave your ass and find someone who will cheat and beat on them.
All facts right there because once you understand both of you can come up with a solution that can fix the issue/ problem. Appreciate you watching that video hope all is well! Don’t forget to like and subscribe much love 🙏🏿🔥
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser, i wasn't going to let my marriage of 18years crash
ON MY SOUL 😂😂😂 like make it make sense? They will go right back to that toxic relationship like nothing happened 🤦🏾♂️ …… Appreciate you watching the vid don’t forget to like and subscribe 🙏🏿🔥
I'm the same way and honestly all it does is it makes me feel like an idiot after all is said and done. I have gotten better and I continue to work on it.
@@2tuffjuancrazy thing i don't see my wife as having flaws. That's just her. She had no flaws. She do things i don't like somethimes. 15+ yrs and 5 kids going strong.
ALTHOUGH, I REALLY don't care for Charleston White HAVE to give him his props on this interview. He ACTUALLY was spitting 🔥 facts💯👍🏽. Thanks for sharing this😊
And that’s all facts just cause you feel a certain way doesn’t mean you act based on your feelings! Appreciate you watching the vid frfr hope all is well! 🙏🏿🔥 don’t forget to like and subscribe much love!
My ex-husband never took time to communicate and his infidelities actually brought m8ne to our front door. The man I met was the husband of the woman he'd impregnated. The guy was actually a wonderful person. Feelings became h8gh and the gut and I sat down and we were like what are we doing? We're friends till this day.
-My ex-husband never took time to communicate and his infidelities actually brought m8ne to our front door. 1-We have to take your word for it as he's not here to defend himself, communication works both ways. Let's say you were communicating and he was just a cheater. Cool. Keep this thought in the back of your mind, you chose him right? Red flags always exist, ignoring them and not seeing them is not an excuse, it's done often in relationships, I know for sure. -The guy was actually a wonderful person. Feelings became h8gh and the gut and I sat down and we were like what are we doing? 2-A wonderful person would not have came to your house and doggystyled you on the couch "emotionally", this is lacking integrity and you both childishly knew it was really a "get bacK" release but you capping like "feelings became high" women often speak vaguely and men who know women understand this. Your husband committed adultery, man popped up and you committed adultery in return. That man chose his wife just like you chose your husband. Ignoring red flags due to emotion, love, lust, whatever reason gets you in trouble. This is the moral of the story. I'm married and have 6 ex gf's, I know a thing or two. I never cheated, I chose slightly better women in my past than most, so never been cheated on, but they were not the best women I could have chosen so they had other issues. Almost everyone ignores red flags, I guarantee your ex husband had them. And if you both were the problem, you had or have them too.
REPEAT THAT CAUSE PEOPLE NOT HEARING YOU!!! You spot on with that one… Thank you for watching and I hope all is well🙏🏿🔥 don’t forget to like and subscribe much love
He isn't saying anything that's not in the Bible. People continue to speak against what the Bible says Jesus, marriage, heaven, and hell. More people are going to hell more than heaven.
Correct that more people are going to hell than heaven because most people refuse to accept the Gospel and get saved. It's literally a free will choice you have to make. It does come with responsibilities but those responsibilities are to be a good man or woman, you're saved after accepting the gospel in understanding. A lot of folks DON'T understand, hence why they can go to Church their whole life and not go to heaven, because that Church never gave them the gospel OR they never understood it to begin with and just participated in activities, but people aren't really ready to talk about that. You have to know what the gospel is, how to get salvation, what even is salvation and why you need.
Charleston I really think you should write a book about relationships I really like that you speak your mind and keeps it real keep moving forward Charleston
False in general. The reason it's false is because "Highly respectable" is subjective and contextual. How many people by factual data highly respects the person? You don't know. Also contextually, you can be a highly respected CEO but nobody respects you as a husband because they know you beat your wife for example, so they respect your business mind but not your relationship actions, they don't like you really but you're the boss. Secondly, the word words "it was common" is used way too freely as this is a statement that must be proven with evidence if it was. You'd have to take ALL supposedly highly respectable men, put them on a list and then see how many of them were cheaters and adulterer's. If it's less than 50%, that means it wasn't common, I doubt you or anyone did this so why are you using this term that it was common when you factually don't know that it was? And to even make it worse, by Definition I'm even incorrect, because 51% would be by definition "Most" meaning more than others, when the term "Common" is at least 95%, so you going to prove 95% AT LEAST of high respectable men were cheaters? I'll wait on that. We know many respectable men who have not cheated at all, but you ignore them for the few you do know cheated back then which is a weird behavior to do.
Charleston is exactly right love ain't got nothing to do with it you could be married for 10:50 75 years and it ain't about love it's about being lovable which means I'm safe with you and you safe with me Dick Gregory
Say it again so the people In the back can HEAR YOU that’s all facts frfr! Thanks for watching hope everything is well for you don’t forget to like and subscribe 🙏🏿🔥 much love!
Me and the wife were going through it last year . She was inviting all outsiders into our marriage . Sisters and friends chiming in , was about to bounce , she got mad one day took her wedding ring off and threw it out the window , didn’t flinch , emotional decisions, her older sisters had a talk with her and with me , let’s just say the wiser sister said if she do not shape up leave her ass and keep being a good father to your kids , let’s just say I don’t guck with them family members and friends she had involved in my shit and she straighten up ,,, I cook clean I do laundry and I take care my kids , I don’t need her ass for shit and she sees that shit , let these women go if they don’t appreciate it and don’t ever tell them your feelings , rather tell the the devil that I’m feening than tell a woman all my feelings
SOOOO much luv n appreciation for you to speak on this topic. Real love seems to b so rare. But you called it communication and acknowledgement is everything. FACTs you should know who/whom your dealing with from the jump! It drives me NSANE whn mfs act like they dnt know who the chose to b wth. Ppl usually sho who thy really r frm the jump. Either u gonna rock wth it or not
I was talking to a Black Woman just last night, it only became an Argument after the Woman refused to hear the facts but wanted me to listen to How she felt, i looked like a Fool, because it made me angry, we were talking Feminism, and this Black woman said Feminism played No part in how the Black community is right now today!!! Just Unbelievable
Don't know the situation between them two. Some women never been treated like a woman. So when they finally come across a real MAN that treats them as such. It's weird to them. And end up doing stupid sht that ends the relationship. Not making excuses just sad. 😌
It’s crazy that not just guys but women too goes for people like that, that’s just pure stupidity thinking they can save that person but truthfully they can’t save that person can’t be saved they are for the streets
YALL GIVE CHARLESTON WHITE TOO MUCH ATTENTION, HE DONT KNOW REMY MA, HE DONT KNOW PAPOOSE, HE NOT A HIPHOP FIGURE OR PERSONALITY WHY ASK HIM ABOUT STUFF HE NOT INVOLVED IN. HE A WEIRDO FAMOUS FOR TROLLING HE NOT HIPHOP AT ALL.
You ain't lying G ! Can't be mad at a person from them being who they is ! Especially if they done showed you ! Gotta keep it player ! That a way you ain't getting hurt outchea fr
Offering a different perspective: if you are unhappy in a marriage and stayin for the kids, aren’t you just teaching your kids to stay in a forced relationship and take bs? And then if you arent happy how are you showing up for them? Ppl talk alot about there not being any long lasting marriages anymore but thats because ppl are more aware of the effects on the kids because there is alot of adults who grew up in a home like this and i guarantee they have issues in their relationships as well. When he says its about how much you can take, is he referring to how much abuse you can take? Emotional, verbal,mental, psychological abuse start to weigh on you just the same as domestic
He has a point to a degree , but why stay with a woman who's cheating and you do it to and let her get away with that instead of leaving this toxic situation that I don't agree with him.
Boy spit bars .That's real life. I just went through the same goofy ish. She left and wanna come back around..lol spent no dough though. And I ain't spending.
This man has 2 different personality's. One minute he's speaking true facts and talking with some sense next minute he wishing death upon someone and call some one ugly and being a snitch.
