These young men are absolutely STARVED for this type of conversation! No screaming, no bullshit... just alot of shocked silence because they've probably never heard this kind of great advice from another man in their lives! Bravo Mr Kirk
I actually have respect for this young man for engaging in discussion and debate rather than melt downs and screaming. This is how we change minds and hearts. Voice your opinions but listen to others and ponder the responses.
Right? No name calling, no throwing things, no threats, not even a retreat to talking points without ever trying to dialogue... are we even watching a college campus?
The decline of society is a slow burn. I believe in positive reinforcement. We cannot survive as a population if we only focus on the bad. At some point we have to pick ourselves up, dust off our pants and say, I CHOOSE to be a better person than I was yesterday. So I say bravo to an intellectual, respectful and calm discussion.
i personally think this is the bar, this should be the bare minimum but our society is filled with unintelligent belligerent idiots, of all sides and types democrat and republican. western debating is a pissing match kinda.
This is one of the nicest and most sincere discussions TU has posted. I am very impressed that the students earnestly listened to what Charlie had to stay. Good job!
I agree with you for sure. These young men genuinely seem like they wanna pick Charlie’s brain and truly learn some things. No rage in these guys just listening and discussing
It’s good that Charlie keeps talking to college kids of today’s generation and I am shocked that this conversation was civil and it’s refreshing that no one had pink or purple hair lol .
A virgin man is attractive to me. It shows that he has great self discipline and control. This was a great conversation and Charlie is on point. People do not want to abstain because they fail to see the benefits of it and the negative consequences of fornication. Fornication results in unwanted pregnancies, toxic emotional bonds, heartbreak, STDs, paying child support, legal issues, emotional trauma, substance abuse, etc. Having sex is not just a physical act. It’s also a spiritual one. This is why we find ourselves in prolonged toxic relationships. Abstaining is not that difficult when you realize the consequences of fornication, you date with the intent to marry, and you avoid situations in which temptation is hard to avoid (e.g living together, late night visits, making out, sexual conversations, watching sexual content, wearing provocative attire, etc.) Abstaining allows you to see a person clearly in order to gage whether the person is right for you. Sex clouds your judgement and causes us to overlook red flags and deal breakers.
Unfortunately, you are the exception, not the rule. If you are a virgin AND a man, you will absolutely get eaten alive in the current dating market place.
Sex is 100% physical. If you think its spiritual, thats you projecting your beliefs onto a physical act. This is why Christians are becoming vastly outnumbered. Y'all are being beaten on literally every front that exists because of your prudish natures.
no it shows they are undesirable and unfuckable. any guy can stay a virgin forever. sex never falls into our lap. we have to put ourselves out there and show value to earn it. its shows competence and that you are accepted by the other sex. An old virgin man is fucking weird and a problem
@@monsieurdelaperouse9756 it is a bad thing. How many relationships start out with an attachment and respect only to end up in a break up after having being intimate? Most do and that’s how we end up going from person to person repeating the cycle of heartbreak and wasting years of our lives being in dead end relationships. It’s far easier to detach from a person if you’ve never been intimate with them. Dating should be for the purpose of marriage and it’s far easier to weed out the wrong people when you abstain.
I was a virgin when I married (at 27). My wife was so regretful that she didn't save herself for me. But, she was so enamored that she was my first and only.
My brother in law was saving himself for marriage when he got with my sister, who had started having intercourse quite young, during high school. After a few months, she told him she needed intimacy in the relationship and respected his position but couldn't get onboard with the whole waiting thing, so he 'gave in' and they just decided to get engaged and make that commitment to marriage and lifelong relationship early as a compromise. This was 2017. They married in 2018 and he's helped raise her daughter from a previous relationship and they got pregnant with their own baby in 2019. 7 years together and 6 married and they've gotten a house, have their girls in horseback riding and other activities, and he supported her through becoming a registered nurse and pursuing her career and educational goals. Great man. Not perfect, and not without flaws, but 10x better than most men today ❤
Attentive and respectful kids and very good points by Charlie Says a lot of hookup culture and how hollow it is as well as the pressure people feel for not taking part
I grew in the ASU area. My husband and I were both virgins. My husband has amazing self discipline in all aspects of his life. He is the most respectful and selfless husband and father. He was an athlete and always had a girlfriend. He broke up with his long term girlfriend because he wanted a wife that has morals and he could picture being a good mother. He met me soon after the breakup. My husband was also around other athletes that looked at porn. He refused to participate and did not hesitate telling his teammates that it was disrespectful to women, including their sisters and mothers. He was respected by everyone and still is respected. We have been married for 23 years and he has been 100% loyal and loving to me. Charlie Kirk is spot on.
On second and third run, this is a great debate. And the students are genuinely interested and quite respectful too. And they use arguments, not emotions (which many today wrongly assume are arguments as well).
The problem isn't that Johnny can't read. The problem isn't even that Johnny can't think. The problem is that Johnny doesn't know what thinking is; he confuses it with feeling. ~Thomas Sowell
Unfortunately, Charlie's advice will get you eaten alive in the current sexual market place as a man. TradCons, respectfully, need to stop thinking this is 1970.
It is very encouraging to see that many young men listening to a Godly man. This applies to 30 years ago when I was in high school. There is nothing new under the sun, including our defiance.
Unfortunately, Charlie's advice will get you eaten alive in the current sexual market place. TradCons, respectfully, need to stop thinking this is 1970.
I felt so good watching this video, seeing young people talking about fundamental things in such a civilized way, that I shared and I watched twice! This young generation needs help. Desperately help! There are so many good kids that need someone with good sense, wisdom and responsibility for advice them, that's is unbelievable!
No real "clashing" here. This was great. These students actually LISTENED to everything, regardless of how they might have disagreed. Charlie was blessed with an unusually kind and intelligent group this time. I looked at the faces and body language of these students - no fidgeting, no smirking, no over-talking, no rolling of eyes, etc.
Love Charlie’s ability to articulate his position without being condescending etc. These young adults need to hear that there are alternatives to the mainstream culture. Keep up the good work, Charlie.
Charlie Kirk, thank you getting out there and speaking the truth to those young people! I really appreciate you!They need it explained to them tactfully and respectfully, SO much! "Masculinity is about doing the HARD stuff, not the EASY stuff" - you took the words right out of my heart!
The amount of peer pressure I received in highschool when people learned I was a virgin was astounding! People I had never spoken with, would hear about it and we're hounding me and judging me and picking on me for being a virgin. Ridiculous. And there were people during high school and after high School when I was in college that became sexually frustrated and the relationship broke down because I would not give in and have sex. Now what he mentioned about those who sleep around being mentally tormented? I find that to be very accurate because I was one of them. My virginity was stolen from me, and I felt lost and hopeless. I had the mentality of well it's gone, it has been taken from, what is even the point anymore? I was filled with so much rage and despair that I didn't care and drowned myself sexually to try to hide from the horror I experienced. Luckily God led me to my soulmate who helped pull me from that black tar pit I was being swallowed by. Now it wasn't easy. Those sexual desires did not just stop when I realized I found the man I was going to marry. The devil chose to tempt me. To try to pull me away from my now husband and father on God. So what he said about you can start over, is true too. I remained faithful in the face of temptation and all those horrible desires melted away! I have now been with my loving husband for 8 wonderful years, 4 of which spent married It's not easy, but it can be done
women that have zero or low (less than 5) body counts are BY FAR the most desirable by men seeking relationships. I wish more girls recognized this. no sane man of value wants a former hooker as a wife for a reason....its gross and shes psychologically wrecked. they will pound them at 2 am, but that means nothing for securing a long term relationship.
Charlie was spot on here, and the crowd of young men truly listening was such a beautiful thing to see. Something else that supports Charlie’s points is that people who save themselves for marriage and are wholly committed to each other actually have more satisfying sex lives. This has been proven in studies over and over again. There is not only trust and safety, but a level of intimacy that gets stronger and more fulfilling the more you know each other. Having male role models is so important, and it’s great to see youth gaining wisdom from such an example.
Thank you to those young students to not only be open minded but had a great conversation. Neither are wrong and both are right. I wish we saw these more with students. Loved this conversation!
I think the often overlooked fact of the "compatability" argument is that love is a choice, not a feeling. There should be that initial spark, but through getting to know someone, that will either lessen or deepen. After that, "compatability" is decision.
I love this so much! The topic, the calm conversation, the truth being shared and heard! I pray more people save themselves for marriage. I wore the virgin label proudly all throughout my life until I married my virgin husband! Resisting temptation is hard, but we can do hard things!
My husband and I went to the same church. He proposed, 9 weeks later we were married, 22 years later we’re still together. He was my first and only, and will be my last. I feel so sorry for this generation.
As a man who has only been with his wife, and my wife has only been with me, I can say that i pity people who aren't in my position. We have had many ups and downs, and experienced great hardship; however, if we had both been eith partners before, our marriage would have ended. Now, we are stronger snd more in love than ever, and always growing together. Put God first, and your spouse second, and you can overcome anything.
So good to see constructive conversations with shared experiences and thought processes being discussed among a group of differing loyalties. Maybe there is some hope with this generation after all [albeit with a very small minority within the city areas].
Charlie, thank you so much for standing for young folks KNOWING ITS OKAY TO WAIT FIR THAT RIGHT PERSON!! I can see all the men around Charlie becoming very uncomfortable, but it’s so needing for this generation not honoring themselves. Thank you for protecting this generation. I give these young folks Kuddos for staying to listen!! God bless them! 🙏❤️
Charlie is so right, I lost my virginity at 19, and after that, I was promiscuous in my 20s and an escort... Now I am 37. I've let go of my past. I Started believing in God again and I've been celibate for a few years now by choice, and I've never been happier... I have stopped abusing my body to meaningless sex and started respecting myself and my body more ❤
WOW! This was wonderful! Watching these young men respectfully listening and engaging in healthy dialogue was remarkable. Cudos to all! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🙌🙌🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Charlie is advising kids to live virtuosly. This should have been taught at home and school. These kids have a chance because they are respectful of this conversation and are critically thinking.
For the fact the amount of young men standing there listing not talking over anyone. Mouths closed absorbing information and expressing there on feelings in a mature manner speaks volumes of what they know is right and wrong. It’s hard to see by the body language of this young man he struggles with the social atmosphere to obtain a way for him to be accepted within himself and by society.
Incredible conversation. Very proud of Charlie Kirk's ability to communicate with young generations and expose the toxic culture destroying society. Beautiful discussion...I hope to share with my children one day when they're much older.
You guys should start putting more thought in the names of the videos. He was not pushing anything, it's a normal discussion as it should be. Noticed that on a lot of videos.
So impressed with Charlie and those guys being willing to have this conversation that I'm in tears watching this. It's a completely different generation now where children are so messed up they have no value for each other or even themselves. Charlie didn't even go into the spiritual side of what happens when you are lustful and promiscuous. If he changes at least 1 or 2 males people in this audience it's a big win for society because they will pass on their lived experience and teachings like Charlie is doing. These guys are so scared to be laughed at especially by girls because everyone has messed up views on morality now. May God work in them, there is hope.
I love seeing the young men's faces as they contemplate Charlie's view of the "hookup culture." He is putting good moral thoughts into their minds. This is what lots of young people are missing, a fatherly figure and the things a father shares with his children.
This is the kind of dialougue we need between difference of opinion thes days! very rare to have! a lot of young men might go home thinking about this conversation
I really, really believe that at least a tiny smidgen of idea had been planted in this young man's head by the end of this conversation. Most importantly, he was open-minded to hear opinions other than his, he was respectful and was willing to listen. Very refreshing to see.
Thank you, I've been arguing for a minute that men need more men in society that refuse to fist bump promiscuity among other men. If this stops being a bragging right in male society, it changes everything. Marriage and the family unit, crime, intelligence and success rates all improves by men not egging each other on to sleep around.
I absolutely hate that my husband was with two women before me. I have only been with him. In the 20 years we've been together, he has never even looked at another woman, nor has he ever made me feel inferior, but I wish so bad that we had saved ourselves for each other only.
Amazing to see college kids open to Charlie’s arguments! I’m not the first to say it, but young folks are looking to be challenged, because they want direction. They want guidance. Each of the young men who spoke up were respectful, even pleased to see Charlie’s perspective. Maybe there is hope.
I entirely agree with Charlie. My husband waiting with me until marriage made me love him and respect him even more! It was an honour and it made it easy to trust him to always respect me, and also to trust him to stay faithful to me. I thank God every day for that gift.
Makes me so happy to see a married man who have the conjugal act it’s proper place and Can now talk and inspire these young men. I’m sure they won’t forget this conversation. Amazing!
As a man that was raised in a Christian home I was taught since I was young to wait for marriage. It was hard but it was so worth it. I know if I didn’t have that taught in my youth it really would have been near impossible. So I really appreciate Charlie’s approach to not shame but to encourage. Hope these conversations can happen more for young people!
