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Her saying it was crazy for him to be cheating 24 hours before he proposed & not understanding that moving forward with the engagement is even CRAZIER! Although she may have found out after saying yes, she still could have stopped it at that point. Because he would have to earn that trust back if it were me!
If your partner cheats or has cheated and you decide to forgive them, please keep that between your relationship because once you tell your family, they won’t forgive as easily as you forgave.
My ex (in college) proposed to me after I found out he was communicating with his ex. She said it wasn’t physical but I was still heartbroken. I told him I needed time to process things. The next day he proposed (we already talked marriage when i graduated but he proposed a year early). Umm sir no and it’s over completely now because I can’t trust you. That’s some manipulative ish there!
And skewed priorities clearly 😭😭.. cause how can you take money and go have fun when we are struggling... what is she planning to build with him..? A life of scarcity..?😢
Apparently Chace is afraid about her glaucoma and the meager prospects of having a baby as the reason she chose to stay with him. Familiarity isn't a good enough reason to stay, INHO.
she just doesn't want to be alone and wants kids. stop blaming your mom cause she has health issues and she thinks she can't do better and no one will take on her health issues. the mom can be more softer in her delivery but the mom is definitely telling the truth
If you refuse to leave, please allow that man to cheat in peace. The daughter needs to comprehend that no one is obligated to agree or participate in your toxic cycle. This couple is completely delusional and are emotional leeches who feed off of each other's brokenness. It is important to understand that broken adults tend to create broken children, and if they do not break the cycle, it will spill into their future offspring.
I’m sorry, she said that the night before he proposed to her, he was out CHEATING on her…clearly he’s NOT ready for marriage, he’s selfish and doesn’t take his partner’s feelings into consideration and she’s so scared to be alone that she’s willing to settle for disrespect and trash…smh🤦🏽♀️
How rich is it that she blames her Mom. She keeps saying her Mom raised her in a negative environment and the only thing she mentions is her Mom’s reservation of her dating a man who is a serial cheater. Stop bringing people into your relationship issues if you don’t want their advice
While smoking is a terrible habit it doesn’t necessarily affect fertility. He has the low sperm count and would need to address that behavior if they need to reproduce.
She should absolutely listen to her mom. If she does go thru with the marriage she should accept the fact that her mom will not accept it. She shouldn’t come to her mom about anything involving her relationship because her mom’s response will be the same.
So you always run and tell your mom about him cheating but you want her to approve your decision to stay? Girl are you okay? Your mom is not a yes-man like your friends are, she’s keeping it all the way real. She doesn’t think your dumb, she loves you and wants better for you and can’t seem to understand why you wouldn’t want that for yourself.
We need a 'Where are They Now?' episode! I'd be willing to bet he's still a cheater and overweight. Hopefully she didn't bring children into that dysfunction.
I agree. To add, him not being more mindful of their finances. Their entire situation is a pot waiting to boil over. I'm not a proponent of people trying to heal together..usually one comes out even more damaged on the other end.
For some people cheating is not a deal breaker. She has pent up anger that she can't handle properly, it comes out extremely easy verbally and non verbally. The man clearly feels emasculated and less that her. Hence his cheating and his weak financial muscle. Both should be kinder to themselves and each other and heal or MOVE ON.
She mad at everybody else because she choosing to be with a man who she continually complains about. Stop telling everyone how wrong he doing you just to turn around and defend his behavior just cause you dont want to be alone.
She said no one has had my back like this man. Thats tells me that shes marrying him for comfort.. so she wont be lonely or have to face life alone. The point of marriage it to sacrifice. To give up parts of yourself to make you a better person. The minute he doesn't make her comfortable, she will be negative towards him. This will send him to comfort himself...and he will use alcohol, spend carelessly n cheat. It will be a vicious circle. This is a bad match.
Her mom is right. 6 months is a while. He only stopped bc he got caught. He the type to have a baby w/someone else . She has 0 self love or self purpose.
She doesn't want to be alone and that's sad...I had an aunt who stayed with a married man for years because she didn't want to be alone just for him to cheat on her DUH!..she single till this day
