@hazod3156 well yeah whatever whatever. Point is, if a chick can't appreciate and adore you at your lowest, she damn sure can kick rocks when you're at your best
@@jonahhex8178FACTS!! I WEAR MY $20+ (SUPPOSEDLY TITANIUM) BAND- HIS AND HER SET! I LOVE IT (AND for years since, MY 2kt, white gold BEAUTY...REMAINS 'SECURE' IN A BOX). MY FINGER IS NOT GREEN. IT SHOWS NO SCRATCHES ... AND I WORK ON OUR HOUSE, YARD, AND MULTIPLE VEHICLES (OURS AND FAMILY AND FRIENDS...)! I'VE BEEN MARRIED, JUST SHY, 8 YEARS. I MARRIED A MAN; NOT DEBT. I MARRIED A MAN; NOT A RING. I MARRIED A MAN THAT MADE MINIMUM WAGE (AND REALISTICALLY MADE EVEN LESS FOR ALL OF HIS HOURS WORKED, WHILE IN THE MILITARY AND WE WERE GOING TO COLLEGE) BUT WE MADE IT WORK!. AND I CONTINUE TO BUILD WITH A MAN: MY BEST FRIEND ❤️😚! BTW, HE STILL DOESN'T MAKE 70K TAKE HOME! LITTLE GIRLS AREN'T MEANT TO GET MARRIED! IT REMINDS ME OF THE TRICKS COMMERCIALS.....(EDITED) "SILLY GIRL, RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE IS FOR WOMEN"!
Yeah that's lucky. When my husband and I got together he made less than $10 an hour. We had literally no money at all. He worked his butt off as did I. As soon as he "made it" left me for a younger, hotter, blonde.
@@mehranpritchard4314 I hope so, 15 years and we are still crazy about each other. I wouldn't sabotage or take advantage of that for anything. Each day is work, each day is an opportunity to please and do something nice for your other half. I try to appreciate what I have right now and not think about what could be or what can happen.
When I met my wife I was in the army. When I got out going through my hard times making $0.00 a year for a whole year, she stayed and even moved in with me. Packed her shit up from Florida to come to Georgia for a struggling guy an inch away from losing everything to today 6 years later living in our lovely house and I'm bring in 6 figures and about to start a business. None of that ever mattered she was always here for me.
And giving her a 3 was being generous in my opinion. We all know the highest paying job she can secure is working the cash register at a McDonald's drive though and she's acting like someone making $75k a year isn't good enough for her. 🙄
I married my husband with zero money. He had just graduated college and his realstate job wasn't bringing in any at the time. I knew he had potential and I loved him. I thought, the worst thing would be he didn't end up making much, but at least I'd be happy. We got pregnant 9 months later and he told me he'd work 5 jobs if he had yo so I could stay home. 19 years later and 5 kids. He makes near $400,000 per year. Life is good. No financial struggles, but i still budget and respect and conserve money. I believed and trusted him and things worked out.
Yes she is, i have one of my own, when we met i was making $67k a year working my ass off in camp jobs, almost 16yrs later I own my own business that makes high seven figures a year and it’s all because she believed in me and kept telling me to keep going
@@mrradyt7329not sure if you’re aware of this or not, but people who own businesses also have cell phones and internet and take time off daily. Shoot sometimes we even take vacations
@@mrradyt7329 hahaha that’s funny, just like all business owners don’t have time for personal things, you never see a business man doing anything other then work right?
My wife was 17, and I was 19 when we married. We were so broke when we married that after about 4 months, I told her she deserved better. I told her to go back to her parents because I couldn't afford to feed her. She said, "How dare you, I married you for better or for worse, it can't get any worse, so I'm sticking around for the better." That was 48 years ago, and we retired when I was 55, which was 14 years ago. We made it!
That is really good to read. Tired of bad stuff. My Parents were the same, Met as teens in 1963 and got Married in 1967. Stayed together until my Mother died at Christmas 2019. ❤️
I met my wife when I was trying to raise two tiny little girls after their mum decided she was better off without us all and left… I was also working full time and was really struggling, so much that all I ate was the food my girls left once they were full. But she took all that as part of me, accepted me and my predicament, embraced my girls, and we grew together and made it work amazingly well ! We just celebrated our 22nd wedding anniversary, we’ve been together in total for 25yrs ! Now SHE’s a REAL woman 😊
When I met my wife I was living in my brothers basement with no real job besides a little business I was trying out I start. My wife was movie star beautiful too. Today I’m a multimillionaire thanks in part to her support and I spoil her for being with me when I had nothing.
My wife got with me when i had no job 2 pairs of pants and one shirt. Later on down the line of me bettering my life i got to a point where i was proud of making 10$ an hour because i never made that much. I was even prouder to make 14$ an hour. The entire time instead of downing me she supported my decisions and backed me 100% i now make enough to support my entire family by my self and got a bigger house. My woman deserves the world for how she supported me and i plan to give it to her
Bro I feel feel you, been with my wife for 16 years. She met me when I had a bedroom apartment, a blow up mattress and pots and pans from the recycle. I was 21 years old. I’m 38 now and there is no way I would be where I’m am without her. I’m doing real good.
Brother!!!!! You are fucking blessed!!! Shes not just a real woman but a really drop dead gorgeous real woman!!! Rare breed my man GOD BLESS YOU BOTH !!!!
My wife met me broke, so broke i was the most miserable. And now I own my own company and a small dealership. God bless all the good men and women out there.
I was with a perfect 10 model (36-24-35) when I was 21 and broke. She stuck with me for a whole year until she figured out I couldn't facilitate her dreams. After 2 divorces I reunited with her 23 years later and we lasted almost a half year this time before we realized the same thing was happening again. She needed a man with money and it's not me. She now lives alone with two cats waiting for approval for disability and her parents pay all her bills. Love just isn't enough for most beautiful women.
I met my wife at a low point in my life and she never gave up on me. Now we have 2 beautiful daughters a wonderful home and a career. She is my rock and the most loyal woman I've ever met. Amen brother!
I consider $76,000 a year a good salary, and I have two degrees. That isn't a low point. It is well above the national average salary. Granted, your "low point" could be living in your parent's basement making 12 K per year, I don't know. Even then, who cares. Money isn't anything. It brings no lasting joy. Only Jesus does. People put so much emphasis on money that they are blinded to what is important in life.
That the kind of girl who would ride and die for you. God bless brother glad you have a good family just make sure to always put family first before anything time is so limited
Hopefully you dnt let other women or your wife, see you calling other women "ugly" knowing that lady dnt even knw of you in real life, like that disrespectful hill billy Jerk. Smdh
What most don't realize (whether the relationship involves intimacy or is platonic) there is suppose to be genuine interest present or whatever union will turn into a curse. There's no bringing anything to an imaginary table. As the one that a superficial mind believes to have nothing, was likely allowed to cross paths with them to birth something. Maybe not a full grown relationship with children and all the trimmings. But whether the connection last 30 minutes or 30 years......trust that when you're in good company (and at times bad company as well) tidings of some sort are always present.
My husband makes way less than $75k...he is the greatest man in the world. Works hard, can fix anything, loyal friend & husband. Wouldn't trade him for anything! Celebrated our 20th this year!
So very true…I got out of college making approximately 20k per year. My wife at my side supporting me through the crap times and kept me pushing through. She kept encouraging she supported me financially for a while and you know what? Now she gets to stay home with our kids (something she always wanted to do) and I have the care of my dreams. Loving spouses supporting each other both living out their dreams only happens because we both sacrificed and worked hard and put each others needs/wants above our own.
Facts, I was living on my moms couch, just out of rehab and bouncing from job to job when I met my girl, now I have a pull out sofa at my moms. Moving on up
When I met my husband he was making 12/hr in a dead end job. I supported him when he started an apprenticeship to be an electrician & took a pay cut to 8/hr. Now he makes 100k & we’ve been married 22yrs.❤
Creating success together walking side by side is amazing. In 40 years lookin over accomplishments, knowing each other completely is so perfect. I can't give the descriptive words, you have to experience it. Give others as much as you accept from them.
Bought my physical copy the week it came out. Unfortunately I couldn’t get the signed version because my wife and I collect both your albums and Toms albums and we try to get al of them signed. We’re just happy to have them regardless if they’re signed or not. MUCH LOVE, ADAM! Keep it up!
When my husband and I met, we were both a mess, broke mentally and financially, but were drawn to one another. We fixed each other and made a life together. September 28th will be our 10th wedding anniversary ❤️. We have 4 kids, I'm a sahm and he has a job he loves. We don't have it all and probably never will, but we are so much better than we ever thought we could be. Girls like her will never know the value of being a part of a mans success story, knowing his love for her was his motivation to do better in life.
She doesn't want to be apart of his story. She wants to come in when he's already done with the book and she has every right to her standards. Unless you plan on supporting her and his children that he can't, you should keep quiet about other women and their choices.
My husband and I got married at 21 while working at restaurants. He was studying and is still studying IT and over the past 2 years he is slowly but surely getting jobs that are paying more and more. At the start we didn’t have much. I actually had more money saved than him. Now he works while I’m at home with our baby and it’s really nice not having to go to a corporate job anymore.
When my husband and I met, he was a zip line instructor making just barely over minimum wage. I now get to be a stay at home mom with our beautiful little boy. I feel very blessed.
My boyfriend and I met in rehab 5 years ago and we moved into different sober living houses and proceeded to build a whole fucking life together! We supported each other when we literally had NOTHING but some withdrawals and barely a shred of hope.
Thank GOD Cause she's shorter than my standard And I only make 65k Enough to pay my bills, rent and buy 2 shares of Amazon stock a month.. I am at 5 shares and counting 😂😂😂
Awwww Adam your wife is beautiful. Treasure your love for each other always. I wish the both of you a million more healthy, happy, loving, more years to come.
No, the only reason why she choose him IS because He is tall. They both Look tall. I Bet she was taller then Most Guys around her thats why she choose him. . That have nothing to do with real woman
Yes sir, a real woman that loves you will stand beside you and be your biggest cheerleader! And it goes both ways, the man needs to stand beside his woman.
That's true if you're with a woman and poor and she sticks it out and not leave for a man with more money. Nowadays women won't even look at "broke" men so love wouldn't even develop.
Their roast beef done turned to Sloppy Joes a Loooooong time ago. Most of these gals have miles of pipe laid on 'em by their mid 20's and are so jaded, there is nothing left but a loose, empty taco shell....rolf
Love the positive music messages Adam ! As a 64 yr old southern lady whom grew up with telling it likè it is, you an Tom are the truthslayers that inspire others to rise up an be better than what the controllers have groomed people to be. Thank you ❤
MAAAAD RESPECT! You got that shit right! My first wife was a high-school drop out. My REAL (now) wife is a M.D. for veterans. Work on yourself and you'd be amazed what you could actually become.
"She pushed me to chase my dreams..." I love that. I do that for my husband. I see so much in him. We've been married for 9 years and I'm so proud of the man he is. Thankful for your success, partnership, and for speaking up!
This is EXACTLY what most women do not understand anymore. They act as if men need nothing, most don't understand that part of a woman's immense power is the ability to inspire and motivate a man. When properly grounded, women are equally as powerful as men just in a different way . . . I applaud you for having the presence to be there for your husband in this way . . . . . .
I was with a chick for about seven years who used to say she was pushing me to my full potential. I eventually realized that she was pushing me to fulfill *her* dreams. Not saying that's what all women do. I'm just saying, be careful fellas. I was absolutely miserable trying contort myself into her version of what *she* visualized as my *full* potential. We'll do a lot of things thinking that "this is what a man is supposed to do". If I were into giving advise (and I'm not) I'd say be true to yourself men. If you're goals align with what she sees as her dream guy, rock on. But make sure you're not twisting yourself into a pretzel 🥨 trying to be who she thinks you should be. Even the world's greatest contortionist can only hold an unnatural position for so long. My wife now actually likes *me* for who I am. Not for who she thinks I could be. Trust me dudes. It's not fun to be a "fixer upper" man.
@@dex2591 I'm glad you're with someone who appreciates you now. I'm sorry you had that experience. The best way to tell the difference is asking yourself if you're with someone who truly considers you before themselves. I've known my husband since we were teenagers (almost 20 years now). I knew back then I wanted to marry him. He and I have both made sacrifices in order to build the family we want, but I try every chance I get to push him to do what he really wants to do instead of settling for the 9-5 just to keep food on the table (he's absolutely brilliant and loves creating and programming video games - self taught!). I leave it ultimately up to him, but I'm sure to be that push he needs to get past his excuses. And I definitely hang around to help in any way possible. He's my teammate for life and I want the best for him. He does the same for me. ❤️
I met my Husband was broke as shit,when I met him.The love I have for him..I dont care if we lived in a shack..Being with him is like I won the lottery..
Thats funny, I met my wife and we lived in a wooden cabin on someone else farm. we called it deliverance. LOL. Some of the best times had in that little cabin. We now own our own Horse farm with lots of horses and a fantastic life.
My wife supported us for 3 years when we first met. Now I pay the mortgage and the bills while she goes to school and takes care of our kids 98% of the time. Good women are still out there gentlemen.
My women was by me at $24k we lived in a storage unit and now I’m at 300k a year. God is good. She is still the best blessing I’ve received from God. Everyday I’m next to her is another day to cherish.
@@Amateracu1991DFFOO Build knowledge and skill in an area ( for me, electrical), become a master, you can make good money being an intrapreñeur but I recommend you leverage your skill and start a business. TLDR: profitable skill or product , knowledge, hardwork, dedication, work ethic. These are the words a 7 figure mentor told me.
@@Amateracu1991DFFOOyou can make that with the right sales job. Of course you have to be good at what you do and sells isn’t for everyone. I do b2b selling software, copiers, and IT. Some of the top reps at the company I work for make over a million yearly from just commissions.
It's awesome that you give her credit. It's just proof that many of us are just lacking a little love. You always had the talent and that potential locked inside, but she gave you the key.
My husband was still attending a trade school when we got together barely making a dime while living in his grandma's rental property. I didn't get with him for money, I just wanted a good man to treat me with love and respect. Here we are 19 years later my husband is a career man making great money, and living out his dreams.
When I meet my wife I was 25, living with my parents, making $30k a year and in debt. I dropped out of college. She had a Masters degree and working finance made WAY more than me. We fell in love, got married had a child. I wanted to set an example for my daughter and help my wife provide. For 4 years I worked full time, college part time, helped raises my daughter, worked on the house, spent time with my wife. I took NO vacations. Now I make as much as my wife. That was 20 years ago. The marriage is strong and they are my world. My love for them woke me up. I can’t thank them enough!!!
met my husband 10 yrs ago he wore beat up shoes, no car and worked at the Dollar Tree he now make 6 figures working in Tech and he adores me ..money is'nt everything when it comes to love it's really about the person inside
