chemistry vs compatibility: is he "the one" or is he just tall lol

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knowing the difference between chemistry and compatibility in romance is crucial for receiving the relationship you deserve. there’s that initial spark you get to building a foundation that’s made to last, and in this video, i talk about how you can learn to better navigate dating and make smarter relationship choices. hopefully my tips can help any of y’all brave enough to put yourselves out there and find your match (:
c h a p t e r s
0:00 intro
0:43 chemistry vs compatibility
2:32 modern dating: the rise of the apps
3:57 danger!!
5:40 how to know if you’re compatible
8:18 final thoughts (remember this)
9:28 outro
m u s i c
september child - vendla
liljeholmsviken - vendla
pagina blanca - gustav lundgren
Q & A
how old are you? 22
what camera/mic do you use? sony zv1f
what editor do you use? final cut pro
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chemistry, compatibility, dating culture, dating apps, relationship advice, dating tips, modern dating, self-improvement, love and relationships, emotional awareness, building strong relationships, long-lasting relationships, understanding chemistry in relationships
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@savannathies8022 Месяц назад

Something I def consider about a person is how they react when they are being vulnerable or I am, how they are around their friends (if they treat me differently or act differently) and how they treat/ talk about their family

@texirratalks Месяц назад

oo yes those are super important to consider!! i had the first two on my list already but im definitely adding the third

@1whospeaks Месяц назад

And compatibility without chemistry is like bringing a Pokemon deck to a knife fight. You'll never beat my Charizard.

@savannathies8022 Месяц назад

7:22 was such a good point on asking questions about yourself and how you act during tough moments, even around your partner or not, and how they react to your behavior during bad times

@ojin2763 12 дней назад

i think chemistry and connection are different too, where chemistry is inherent, connection happens when both people are healthy and open to be vulnerable with each other and trust. something ive noticed a lot recently is that gen z often gets past the chemistry part and then gets scared to show affection required to built connection. a lot of people have been hurt once and now have defensive walls put up that dont allow them to actually have genuine connections. meanwhile the other half of the people only chase after the high of the chemistry. chemistry is reactive, compatibility is proactive while connection is the bridge that connects the two, and a lot of people like to burn that bridge, they rather only have chemistry because you dont have to work for chemistry meanwhile for compatibility you have to sit down and think thats what i think, anyway, great video as always, i pray that your channel gets way more popular !!!

@texirratalks 11 дней назад

love the way you worded this and i totally agree with you!

@zenkenzie 2 дня назад

my problem with compatibility is i have someone who wants the same thing as me and has aligned values but had a very different upbringing which makes us clash a lot. although chemistry is like 1000% up. compatibility is also about YOUR value system. you have to see yourself and what you want as valuable and glamorous and not chase after some external measure of success from society standards

@texirratalks 2 дня назад

hiii! i totally get what you're saying; compatibility is nuanced and it can go way beyond wanting the same things and having aligned values. i feel like this is where intersectionality can come into play, because everyone's experience is different. finding ways to bridge the gap can be hard! I love how you mentioned it's important to see yourself and what you want as valuable!! working through clashes can strengthen relationships, but it's also important to recognize when differences are too much to overcome and can't be compromised (like differences in religion for some people). balance is key for sure when it comes to long-term compatibility. thanks again for your comments! i love when people add to the discussion. i need to watch your vids, your channel seems dope! (:

@zenkenzie 2 дня назад

@@texirratalks yeah I made a video about compatibility a while back but I was lowkey in denial back then 😭 but I resonate with your pov on this. I sent you an email! I’m trying to launch a self-improvement youtuber accountability group. Let me know if you’re interested ✨🖤🤙🏽

@texirratalks День назад

oo i'll have to check your vid out! going to check the email now 🏃🏾‍♀️💨

@NorahCasas Месяц назад

omg you explain things so well!!! balancing chemistry and compatibility is essential. I love all of your relationship advice!

@texirratalks Месяц назад

thank you so much!! i’m glad you liked the video 🥹

@fabricehategekimana5350 Месяц назад

Thank you for this amazing video ! I totally agree ! 00:02:32 Yes, nowadays dating use the same mechanics as job job seeking. One's cv/job offer can lie X)

@texirratalks Месяц назад

thank you for watching! yes that’s sooo true omg

@savannathies8022 Месяц назад

These vids are so helpful and so straightforward, thank you!!

@texirratalks Месяц назад

i’m so glad you like them!

@zenkenzie 2 дня назад

relatable

@waleolabowale9825 Месяц назад

Great...sometimes insecurities fear of expectations or like carry over insecurities gail relationships ..compatibility is a bit more than doing same things it can be built

@texirratalks Месяц назад

yess i totally agree with you! you make a great point, i’m in the process of making a video that sort of goes with this!