Maria Rai My mom did said the said thing when i was elementary times too but I would like to say never. Gladly I'm still single and jobless, I also did graduated in highschool like 4 years ago and not ready to go college BC the pandemic period ;-;
Vrayya Intan it isn’t scary if you marry someone your age but of you marry someone older than you that’s 100 times scarier than marrying someone the same age
Well, look what is common practice in Rajasthan: What's the maximum in one household that girls were killed, because they only allow boys to survive ... ? 😮
That’s pretty judgmental of you. Like I bet most of the parents just don’t know any better and they are just trying to give their kids the best life they can. I really don’t think they are acting with malice.
@@NunayahBuisness uhm... making your daughter MARRY SOMEONE at 7 years old. Isnt " giving them a better life " they sell them to the highest bidder for money for themselves
Brianna Vingless I never said it was the best life. I said it’s the life the parents themselves had and they think it’s the best thing they can do for their daughter. If your going to come at me at least use things I said. It’s hard to have a debate when I didn’t say the things I’m supposed to be defending.
Mebae Berhanu case in point. Your people kept slaves until 1930s but I’m not going to judge them for that cuz again that was a part of your culture (Ethiopian) . A bad part but a part nonetheless and it takes time to change beliefs from one generation to the next. I’m not advocating for it I’m just saying try to understand where these parents are coming from and why they are doing this. It’s not coming from a bad place. They are doing what they think is the best for their kids based on how they were raised. That’s all I’m saying. Again not advocating it.
Actually it's illegal to marry before 18 in India for girls but our system is very much corrupted and most of the under age marriage happens in villages basically cz they are orthodox/poor/they think girls are burden for them ....and even if someone will make a fir or will file a case police will not do anything instead they will ask money from the family to suppress the matter...😢
@@PankajSingh-jr3qd ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-y2he3dzekQs.htmlsi=gKfR0S_540abR9XO 🤣🤣 There are lots of documentaries on hindu temple pr0stitutes. So those videos are 100 years old? 🤣
it's a very real problem that is occurring everywhere in the world, middle east, Africa, Asia. I once knew a girl in my class who was 14 and was already engaged.
I felt pity for Ismorah, I can see a child who lost her will. Her mother talks like she doesn't need to apologize or she has nothing to atone for because she didn't do anything bad.
It sounds like this is a learned trait, i don't think the mother should be blamed, it just sounds like this is a way of life to them, from generations to generations they have been brought up this way. Glad these younger ones are becoming more informed and standing up for their rights though
@@amaliacoria3063 Yeah, I think the mother is like - if i can live through it, so can my daughter. It's so sad. I think she thinks, long-term wise, it was better for Ismoarah to get married than hold a flame for some boy who liked her and would harrass her.
this happens around the world even in christian and Muslim countries ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8YXMSk7TJjI.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dMWbaep-Tyk.html
Do the parents not realize that doing this only adds to the poverty of their society? 14 year old girl gets married and has 2-4 babies and their husbands leave them and they are stuck to fend for themselves. This is part of the reason why they are in poverty is because they are already poor and then making more and more babies in a poor environment. They are just continuing the cycle of poverty, sadness, unhappy and unhealthy marriages and too many children. If they let their daughters go to school and get degrees this helps break the cycle and they can make money on their own. The more they are in school, the less babies they make, the smarter they become, the more chance they have at a good job and eventually having a happy marriage.
Sometimes traditions and crimes can make people really dumb, I mean what you said is so true, child marriage is a sin, but for something that has been done for many years suddenly was identified as wrong-doing is understandable but still I blame the guardians for not thinking straight, all they care about is money even for a short While all I can say is, BAN CHILD MARRIAGE, FREE ALL WOMEN AND WOMEN RIGHTS, ESTABLISH EQUALITY!!!!!
@msc14111990 people are vegetarian coz of their religious beliefs and people eat meat who want to eat it I am an Indian but I am a meat eater and it's India not America where vegetarian food is just fucking mashed potatoes and boiled vegetables with just salt and pepper in it
A lot of People in my opinion are so mislead by western media, they'll believe anything because they are so stupid.. The west sadly is being so manipulated by the media. Vice should make a program on how men from non Asian countries go to Asia to wave their money to have sexual activity with children.
Child in your head (until you ask her age)... which they say in the video is 16 and 14 and the likes. If they hit puberty they have to understand they now have everything it takes to replicate themselves and give birth to others. If you encourage adolescents to live as children that will result in adults with adolescent mentality (possibly even childish mentality). An adult is not an adolescent, an adolescent is not a child.
John Villanueva If you think marrying off these children is okay, I hope you would be okay with a good 10% increase on taxes to take care of teen moms in public housing. I’m sure you would love that, right? Paying more. Because we know now that kids that age cannot take care of kids ADEQUATELY or give them a good quality of life without sacrificing their own.
My parents have asked me not to get married 😂 My father had a hefty bank account set up when I was born, which was eventually meant to used as my marriage fund. After I graduated with my bachelors degree, my father sat me down and told me that whatever he has saved up for my marriage can now be used to fund my Post Graduation studies. He wants me to move abroad and live my life.
Not only girls, boys are also victim of child marriage. Last year I met a boy which was probably in his mid 20's.He was forced to get married by their parents at the age of 14/15. From that age, he has been suffering from depression. He told me how he was unable to maintain a healthy relationship with his parents and family. Besides this he got cheated by his wife which made his life more painful.
Meanwhile everybody ignoring the draconian law of "grape on false pretext of marriage" Around 20-30k men in India (solely men, women aren't charged under 376!) yearly become a victim of this state sponsored terrorisim yet you won't see a single news channel cover it, heck they don't even call it forced marriage!
My mom was married at 14 years old and had me when she turned 17 years old. I have the upmost respect for her because my mom was strong and I love her for taking care of me when she was so young herself. She always tells me to forget marriage and have a good eduaction and get a good job because that's more impotent. Now I'm 18 and she is 36 and I'm going to fullfill her wish of becoming successful because she was never given that opportunity.
Wow.... Your mother is so cute.. By their thinking...... But all mothers are not like your mother..... They supports child marriage.. By giving example of their own child marriage
So stupid! What is fashion? The youth runs after daily changing tends like a sheep and feels liberated? Tradition has many reasons. Here why the girls are made to marry asap? Coz even after they study most of those don't get any jobs! They end up doing minimal jobs. The meaning of education is lost when it doesn't help them improve their life. If education was improving their lives when don't they have examples of their school seniors. From far away it always looks Very easy, just give people education and everything will be alright. Isn't it?
My grandmother was married at the age of 15 and my mother was married at the age of 30 after graduating med school snd becoming a doctor. I hold immense respect to both of my grandparents for breaking the chain of child marriage and supporting my mother's wishes.
Even my grandmother as well as grandfather both maternal and paternal were married in their teenage. But still they lived a happy married life and are continuing to do so. But my parents and uncles and aunts weren't child married.
"we stopped 50 marriages" this teacher is a big hero. 10/10 principal skills. Edit in 2022: JESUS MAMAMIAA 5.9K LIKES!?! THX Y'ALL MY GOSHHHH edit again: Srsly tho, 8.3k likes? Are y'all serious?
Yeah he seemed more active than that chief officer itself. He really seemed like he doesn't wanna give any efforts to stop this situation 😓. I really don't understand what would happen by thinking that something is hard it will be still hard rather we should take time for considering solutions nd turn thinking into actions.
At 15, I was lazy af, watching anime and studying for my exams in a private school. I suddenly felt so lucky and should be cherishing my life. My childhood was saved and I'm living a normal life. I hope these kids find their salvation and solace in this world.
My parents never forced me to married someone (I know underaged marriage is making me uncomfortable) I'm glad if I'm 21 already and I'm currently jobless and unmarried
@@YBAC_Katomin Wow my dad was a crazy. When i was 11he used to say me that I should be getting married at age of 16 like my aunt. When I asked him why I should be getting married at age of 18, he says that his grandmother got married at 14 and it's tradition. Glad that my mom divorced him
These girls are so straightforward, I mean they went on speaking fluently no fluctuations, and also mature enough to get involved in anti-child marriage. Brilliant!!
A simple answer points to the Indian caste system. There is an expression in India that “bringing up a daughter is like watering a neighbor’s plant.” India places women lower than men. There is a total and complete disrespect for women in Indian religious scriptures. The Mahabharata, Book 13 Section 40 (13.40), states, “There is no creature more sinful, than woman. She is poison, she is snake.” Other texts say that “Women are living lies.”
I like how the girls are looking out for each other coz they understand that child marriage is wrong. It gives me hope that they’re gonna be the ones to break this cycle
Gen Z is questioning these types of things and rebelling.... Racism, sexism, traditions vs change, religion vs free voice, and many others... I love it, and I hope future generations continue this fight for a good world...
Love marriages statistically are move likely to end in a divorce.. so it all comes down to what kind of arranged marriage you going to have. One- it’s arranged marriage u saw in the video, basically everything what westerners think an arranged marriage is. 2nd- its blind date on steroids where your family emotionally blackmail your in getting married to someone they think is perfect for u and you are given from few weeks to months to get to know eachother before you get married but you still gets ‘veto’ and then your family find someone else for u and whole process starts again.
@@kaveenamd2282 I am an Indian too and I am heading towards love marriage. My parents have NO problem with that. I can confidently tell you that many people are having love marriages. More intercaste marriages are happening.
@@gamingsingh4004 Success of a marriage depends on two individuals who are ready to make adjustments and stick to each other through thick and thin. There is no ready-made formula for a successful marriage. Ofcourse in arranged marriage money transaction happens in many places. Maybe thatswhy arrange marriage is still preferred. Btw I have seen many arranged marriages fail.
me as a 14 year old and from West Bengal this scared me and i wish i can help them out and now i am lucky that my parents are like : "don't even think of married till u get graduate university." i am really happy to have my parents with me rn and sad to see the truth abt this part in West Bengal..
No, actually the boy who had a crush on her was making her family "lose face" in society since romantic love and choosing your own partner is taboo in India, so they married her off to someone else. She said her parents were also afraid of her running off with the boy, which makes me assume that she reciprocated those feeling but her parents didn't agree. Even teenage crushes are considered a threat to the traditional values of society, and having your parents choose your spouse is considered moral and respectable. (I'm Indian, so I know.) Things are changing in modern times, but historically people did not have the right to choose thier partners.
@@gamerplayer300 I'm friends with Indians but I honestly can't like the country some of y'all do a lot of dum stuff like harassing the minorities over there sooooo
"i want to study and get married after 18" Thats... For real the bare minimum. She didnt asked for much :( Edit: idk if my english is suck or what, people in my replies arguing about what "minimum age to be married" is. While i was talking about minimum life wish. Some kids want cars, money, fame, toys, etc. This kid just wanted to study and married after 18 (whatever age it would be)
@@eatinsomtin9984 16 minimum? Do you get married to a guy u didn't know then? In ur age of 16? Is illegal to married at young age before 18 isn't..dating is fine and get to know each other first but married without knowing them well,who the heck want that? Is basic knowledge and world wide know or you didn't studies before? Idc you are guy or girl,you can take it as example
And here we are skipping classes cause we dont like the teacher, failing exams cause we dont feel like studying. Girls, i'm so sorry. İ think you deserve our lives more than us
I want to travel the world and help people who can’t help themselves, I want to go to India and stop a child married, I wanna go to Yemen and give people the medicine they need, I wanna go to school and give the students the supplies they need. I feel so bad that we take the things we have for granted. Like phones, school, freedom, and (most importantly) dinner on the table. I hate how these young girls have to go through such things. It just breaks my heart
@@lveder507 don't worry about hateful people who no longer hope for a better world. Keep trying to be a positive force and help others! You CAN make a difference!
Notice in the start of the video these girls are studying in madrasa so the school principal who is fighting against their customs is part of the madrasa and the video is being made by a christian media ....i hope you got my point how muslims and christians are intolerant attack towwards hindus
The idea of having your childhood taken from you, being forced to be an adult in every sense of the word, losing your bodily autonomy at such a young age…is beyond tragic. I feel incredibly privileged to not have been born in such circumstances
What they are doing is sending those under age girls to be rape. Imagine baby borning baby. Very 😥 I don't think those type of parents really care and love their little girls. 😭
well thees only one thing to do in this situation let me just pull this Glock out of my pocket then will talk business it what id do if i was in this situation i dont support child or underage marriage
youcometome9 maybe it ends when there are no more people who think like you- people who’s ego is so hurt by others’ beliefs that they use a video about CHILD ABUSE to attack others
This is so common in my area. No one even thinks it's wrong. I'm so lucky I have internet . Otherwise I could've had mentality like that of my other girl friends who think marriage is the only purpose of their life and studies are a wastage
I am 18 and imagining getting married is so.... i don't even have words to describe it and forget me my sister is 22 i can't imagine her getting married anytime soon ,oh my lord this is so messed up i just hope girls like ismorah get over their trauma and their situation gets better.😔
@Mike Hunt Is Bald haa toh 22 shadi ki age bhi ni hoti or kid se mera mtlb childish tha and dimag abhi tak toh h but tumhare jese log jarur kha jayenge dhere dhere
I lived near Malda for a while. while I lived there, I had some friends who were about 13-14. They don’t know their ages. At that age they were ready to be married. One time, a friend almost got married at 12, but it wasn’t even a marriage, her family was unwittingly selling her into prostitution. We managed to save her, but a year later another girl, who was very close to me was married and we could do nothing. Now she has 2 children and she is 16. All my friends asked me When I was going to marry, I was about 12. I said that I would wait until I found the right man and I had gone through school. This concept was so far fetched to them. I now almost all my friends who are now 15-16 are married with children. They are about 10 years younger than her husband. I hate this, it breaks my heart
That honestly sounds terrifying. I hope you get the opportunity to keep with school and even go to college. Marriage can wait a long time. And some of us are very happy being single. I’m a single woman and bought my own house. I love it. I watch my niece often and my mom, sister and I go take walks together because I purposely bought a house close to my sister. Plus there’s always the option of meeting someone and getting married if you want. Most of the ppl I know got married in mid to late twenties or early 30s. I honestly don’t know anyone who married as a teenager. I’m from US, and that’s my experience here. Anyways just trying to say please don’t ever buy into the you’re too old thing if that happens because that’s not true. They’ll be nice guys to meet when you’re out of school. And if they really love you they will wait for you.
The problem with us Indians is blind nationalism. Yes ofcourse be proud of your country as we have achieved great things both in the past and present, but don't turn a blind eye to the problems we're facing too
I know India is a great country,but we are trying our best. As an Indian studying in America,I would say that I hope this will 100% end, besides there is Modi!!!BJP!!!Amit Shah!!!
Totally agree with you... People sometimes are more concerned about what is happening wrong in other countries than their own... Not only that media doesn't even show this most of the time
@@ghastgateway101 Modi, BJP & Amit Shah is the real problem here my brother. Last week, one of the ministers for RKA said that if a chip is made out of cow dung, there will be less radiation from our phones...
In the place where I live it’s necessary for children to get married at the age of 22 to 24. Parents and thier relatives select thier partners for them, like they pick any long distance relationship cousin and they are mentally pressured into marrying a random person of thier choice. Most in laws treat thier daughter in law like a maid and slave, my cousin are suffering the same faith
How are these parents okay with making their 15 year old daughters marry 25 + year old men. If your so worried about not being able to afford their expenses, than at least give them the option to continue their education until possible and help with the money. Marring off her to a family that’s only going to treat her like a peasant is NOT A FREAKING SOLUTION.
No it is not. And I agree on what the kids need, but when you consider the poor are easily exploitable because they are desperate to survive today and tomorrow hasn't arrived yet, you will see some vein reason why they do it. Also consider these parents might be doing it in hopes at least their daughters will be better off with someone more financially able.
It's like how people talk to me in Marathi but I respond in Hindi or English. It's because we kinda know the language enough to understand but not well enough to speak it confidently so we respond in the language easiest for us. 😂
I have a friend who is much older, he is from Turkey. He and his wife were forcibly married when they were 11 years old. He told me how they would walk hand-in-hand to school together as a married couple. At least both of them were of the same age and they were (and still are) best friends. EDIT: WOAHHH 2 years later, over 3K likes on my comment, and only now am I notified!! To answer some questions: Mustafa (Mu-Mus) and his wife are in their mid 70s. They come from VERY rural Turkey, and their union basically solidified a fruitful deal, as now they own a gigantic piece of prized land, which has secured financially both of their families completely. Although they are indeed Muslims like me, it's their CULTURE that joined them together, it is NOT a religious thing whatsoever. As for the notion of 'force'... a lot of y'all (presumably Western folks) don't seem to understand the mere WEIGHT of your family's opinion on everything you do, for most people in the Middle East and Orient. A lot of y'all also have failed to think about the fact that the romantic love people so desperately seek today, is a very recent phenomenon... and a not very effective one.
@@nurtenkocaman1699 I know how arrange marriage work and I know how Islam works in their countries mostly Muslim they believe they can. I've even seen where they will exempt the girl if she is married if still in school until they take her out permanently. The practices are disgusting these marriages are preformed under the table and never registered because it's illegal. These people pay high dowry (mahr)(money) for these young underage girls. No child at that age or any age should be forced to do this. Again as I said the parents and all involved should be arrested and thrown in prison for life
this happens around the world even in christian and Muslim countries ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-8YXMSk7TJjI.html ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dMWbaep-Tyk.html
Ra JeSh dude, please stop spamming, we know, and you can find videos about forced marriage and child marriage in the US, and lots of other countries, I’ve watched several. Spamming a rude, you don’t have to post on every comment.
coc lover! Just because it’s not new doesn’t mean that it’s an okay thing to do and we should let it slide, I know this won’t fix the problem, but on rare occasion calling people on their bullshit makes them see their bullshit for what it is.
Child marriage is illegal in India , but some people still forcing this ... their are lot of govt schemes for female education but still some family doing that . Girls don't give in . Don't become victim . It's ilegal practice , you have legal rights to seek support . Call child helpline , call police , tell your teacher don't give in .
One of my friend was also get married in teenage ... Now she has one daughter ..... But sadly her husband left her only because she wanted to study after marriage .... Shame on that man ....🙄🙄🙄🙄
It is obvious that the girl must be jobless because of her young age and the cash cow of the family, the husband has to go to abroad or some other places for studies. So, no doubt it's completely not the fault of the husband.
Just because family and culture will say “that’s the way it is and always has been” time for people to start responding to them.. “yeah. And this is where it ends” Evolve guys. To better things and better practices.
Nah Hindu culture never says this according to Hindu books a girl should marry only after attaining maturity and the maturity age is after 20. This culture started in the 12th century when invaders started invading India ppl used to marry off their girl child to protect them
The principal deserves a raise. Such a hero. I really love it when he said that the girls can be the future assets of India. I feel sad for these young ladies.
Its very sad. I live in Mumbai which is far developed than any other cities in India. Still I see many people like these here who have this attitude to get their daughters married early. Daughters are treated like a burden here in India. Its very sad.
@kazutoras lawyer! She also said that arranged marriage and forced marriages are different... What video is talking about are forced marriages not arranged... So you repeated her comment...
@rindousgf! They weren’t making a joke, they were laughing at the fact you repeated the exact words of the original comment. You made the same point as the original commenter, which was redundant.
@@girlnextdoor_222 What's shocking about that? It's been considered normal since the dawn of time. I won't always go to India, Thailand, the Philippines, or South America. When they legalise this everywhere (the United Nations already confirmed it), I won't have to go to these countries anymore. When they legalised LGBT, it was only a matter of time before they'd legalised all other things. Not to mention that LGBT has never been considered normal in history (and still isn't in most countries), while this has been considered normal since the dawn of time and in every culture of all time. As for the jail (you mentioned in your other comment), you'd be surprised at what money can do.
Hey this is my hometown Malda.Malda is a district of west bengal and there are lots of villages in Malda district.And this things dont happen in proper town area...mostly happen in village areas..I live in Malda Town And I'm 24 years old.I'm a govt primary school teacher.Most of the primary schools are in village areas.I have heard lots of stories of foreced marriage from the villagers of my school area.since my joining date of school I am teaching my students how to deal with it and protest for this. We organise parent teacher meeting and tell them what they should do and how to stop forced marriages ..it is also our duty to raise our voice against child marriage and aware our students.
My state is poor and traditional and mostly rural But literacy rate is 90% Child marriage is 0% Rape cases are minimum Who gave u the permission to say that
My mother was engaged at thirteen years old, married at seventeen, and had two kids by the time she was my age (twenty-two). My dad was ten years older than her, they are now divorced. It's crazy to know that countries like my country, Pakistan, and then India partake in child marriages. It's a way to get out poverty and get a better life, but in reality, it ruins the lives of these young girls. So sad, I really hope child marriages continue getting stopped. Im so proud of those young girls for making a difference.
Your mom must have been sister of ur dad .....which is very common.....and child marriages are fixed in cases like yours when kid is as young 6-7 years even before that.....
@All Mixed Online Media she is in the middle of divorce process and continued her study. Also, she has found a loving partner. She is very happy and healthy now.
Im 29 and still single enjoying life.. i cant imagine these kids.. getting married at the early age because they got no choice i hope their parents will wake up and let their kids to enjoy life.
@@427skies I've had plenty of problems being a traditional Catholic. Theyndon't believe in birth control and sometimes families have as many as 12 kids! It's expected. In fact were taught you'll go to hell for using birth control.
Speaking as a girl from Bangladesh. Child marriage is truly a deep rooted problem. While girls in underdeveloped or rural areas wre forced into it by their families, you'll be surprised to know how many of them are groomed into marriage before turning an adult. This is a serious problem in the small towns. I live in a small town myself and have seen many of my juniors and classmates getting married already and their parents aren't the ones who've forced them into this. The thing is, in Islam, it's haram to do casual dating. Love marriage is most certainly allowed but under some rules such as - the girl and the boy should meet each other when there's a mehram (father, adult brother, immediate uncle and immediate grandfather) near them. They can talk, laugh, spend time for hours but they can't be physical with their love. Premarital s3x is also prohibited in Islam. So, when the parents find out about their teenage daughter dating, they ask her to break up which she doesn't do. In most cases, the boyfriends are adults and groom the girls into thinking they love them and then ask for their hand in marriage. These marriages fall apart quickly, once the men are fulfilled of gheir lustful desires.
this is a serious problem in many desi/southeast Asian countries child rape,sexual assault,abuse,trafficking,prostitution,arranged marriages,and terrible conditions and the government is so corrupt they don’t care for example the case of Zainab Ansari she was raped and killed and many more victims and what did the police do they just sat there saying “oh well we don’t give a fuck”And the culture plays a big role too. Southeast Asian countries tend to typically force marries,shrug off sexual abuse and rape saying “oh she should’ve covered up” or oh “she just wants attention” it’s so sick . Thank god In This modern day and age there are documentary’s and activists bringing awareness to these terrible things I pray to god that every girl that got sexually abused or raped that they get justice and for all the trafficked ,killed, and so much more. And many pepole blame Islam when this is punishable by the death penalty in Islamic law Its FORBIDDEN to have sex before marriage to rape sexually abuse and force anyone to Marry. a woman in Islam can KILL her rapist with no punishments by Islamic laws start blaming the sick pepole not the religion .
Please stop child marriage... Girls have their own dream..... Their own aims........ Their own ambition.......... And every & each girl have to complete their aims..... Such a low class peoples.... How could they even think to her marriages at this immature age...... They really a low class people.... They think that marriage is everything.... But no marriage is not everything........... But this thing can only a girl understand who faces such troubles....... HUGE RESPECT TO ALL THE GIRLS
@@fillfun3341 If you're saying child marriage is okay. Then you're a f*cking idiot. I remember back in my school days, the boys in my school said "girls were useless" and you're like the representation of that but reloaded with a whole new f*cking set of ammunition.
My online friend messaged me about her parents forcing her to marry She was literally depressed about it to the point she talked about suicides or running away. They couldn't talk it out with her parents so she had to tell me, her online friend. It's just heartbreaking..
You should do something if you can. Try to contact authority. I can't help either bc I'm a minor, but I hope she's okay. Please give update/s about this. Thank you, stay safe.
"The Prohibition of Child Marriage Act, 2006" is the law which requires that both Girl & Boy should be above 21 to get married if not then the marriage is void and PARENTS as well As the Witnesses of such marriage will be punished. And Child helpline 1098 is always available to help the who are being forced to marry.
As a Indian citizen I feel really bad for these girls and am ashamed of our government they just make new schemes in papers but in reality they doesn’t even work .
@@marcangelocamoro2845 in India when it’s come to women safety and rules our government is hopeless they just make rules regulations but only in paper not in reality that’s hurt. Sometimes it’s hurts because men doesn’t want to accept those rules and our society suck 😶
Actually the situation is improving but at a very small rate which can be negligible. Our government has potential and when they try to do our problematic egoistic conservative men and women step in and force them to marry. I wish our govt use their full potential cz if a teacher can stop 50 marriages then imagine how many they can stop. I want the improvement to be visible unlike these times.
this is literally pedophilia! may all those young girls become the educated, beautiful, free women they aspire to be! my prayers and heart are with them!
Many of the young men don't wan to get married either. I know one who was forced into marriage in his late 20s and he warned his parents he wouldn't stay with his new wife. When she came to live at his parents home he refused to sleep in the same room with her and the marriage was never consummated,. A week later he left home and found a room to rent. He is a taxi driver. His wife has stayed with her inlaws for years and they are very fond of her, and her own parents won't take her back. She has little chance of remarriage or having children, so she will just stay with the inlaws and care for them in their old age. Young Indian people are starting to refuse arranged marriages and rejecting the dowry system. Change is slow but it is happening.
They don't understand a 'Basic Need before a Marriage to happen' CONSENT Not the consent of parents, Religious leaders or sages, Khap panchayats and Village's unauthorised religious mini courts, Religious or caste based matchmakers or brokers, third party agents or middleperson, Elder bro or sis, or caretakers, or culture preservers But the CONSENT of THAT PERSON WHOSE MARRIAGE U WANT TO FIX But sadly , in India irrespetrive of what constitution entrusts, in reality Be it adult person's marriage or child marriage, They are not married with their pre-consent, Or no parent actually has a conversation with kid, that do u feel comfortable getting married now, what expectations of u from future dream spouse, etc. They think marriage is all arranged by CONSENT OF RANDOM GROUP OF CULTURAL , RELIGIOUS UNITS like even The whole village, Ur neighbours, marriage brokers or khap panchayat's Consent is CONSIDERED But Basic Need of CONSENT from ACTUAL GROOM AND BRIDE is an alien concept to many here Marriages are still done as a way to escape daughter burden, wealth distribution, Political and feudal arrangements, and even just as a practise but not as a LEGAL UNION OF GROOM AND BRIDE WITH BRIDE AND GROOM'S EMOTIONAL CONSENT TO FIX THEIR MARRIAGE
what I don't understand is why beg for a child bride, treat her horribly, let your family physically and verbally abuse her, then divorce her? marry someone you like/love
They usually want them young so that they are "pure" and after having their way they lose interest and the bride is no longer an innocent girl but a woman. So they discard and try again. I saw another doc on this but from the mens point of view. They claim the europeans took their sense of masculinity and that is why men find young vulnarable girls who will listen and obey so they (men) feel empowerd.
Well I think they wait until they have had a child (preferably a boy) with her and fulfilled their "duties" to the family. Than they can keep the children and marry anew while the woman is an outcast in society.
Arranged marriage.. -definition of it by poor and backward Indians is if you like someone thats the last person u gonna get married to. Only parents decided who u gonna get married to.(basically everything what westerners think an arranged marriage is) -definition by urban/educated/middle class Indians is that it is a blind date on steroids where your parents and relatives emotionally blackmail, pressure you into marriage if they think they found the perfect match, and you get from week to few months to get to know each before getting married and at the end you(bride/groom )still get ‘veto’ . And both these co exists.
@@juminhansfiance2802 in usa child marriage is legal in many states. More than 200,000 minors were married between 2000 and 2015. It depends on the mindset of the parents. Evil people resides in every country. Same thing happening in India also and in many more countries
