There's this idea that has always been popular, but unspoken, and that's you can only decide not to be a parent after you have kids. This idea comes from the highly popular and very verbal idea that you have to have kids and become a parent. It's great that there's this new movement that is outspoken on the idea of being childfree before someone becomes a parent decides to free themselves of their children.
I never understood why women had it worse. Women have to sacrifice so much to have children (pregnancy harms the body in so many ways). Men don't suffer at all. So it makes WAY more sense to me that a woman would be apprehensive to have kids, yet we get the most crap for it. Not talking about parenting here btw, just the making a baby part (although there is also an argument to be made about women often needing to parent more).
exactly, in fact it’s enjoyable to men cause they get to use the woman and then just spill his seed in her and his work is done. like i really wish these suuuuper far right conservative men would just take a moment to try and understand what its like going through with pregnancy and then being a slave to your family.
Probably not the perspective you're looking for, but as a transgender man, way less strangers ask about if I have or want children then they did before I transitioned. Family expectations haven't truly changed, but less strangers think it's acceptable to ask a young man as opposed to a young lady about if there's children in the picture. It was always random before, now it's only if we're already talking about children, often the other person's children
İn my case most women do this bcs they did not get to choose, sadly. Now it is bizarre for them to see a woman who can decide this for herself. And having a man who has respect for his wife
Kids are taken from men on a daily basis. It’s in the best interest of the child to live with the Mom. Judge always say. Women used kids to get back at men.
@@annabellehe4307 The ones that make the "judge favours mothers" argument always seem to skip over that part. Men rarely ask for custody of their children (especially their sons). They would rather the mother raise their offspring and bitch about paying child support. Then, after the children have become teenagers/adults, they try to slither back into their children's lives. It's pathetic.
