Always thankful for your transparency my Brother,mental health check ins & even removing yourself from relationships that serve no positivity in your life are a huge part of emotional awareness..learning more day by day
@23:46. 100% my G! Keep it 💯. Not only do you need to hold yourself accountable as a MAN but you need your boys & your homies to hold you accountable as well when you "effin" up! Not everyone is perfect, of course as we know BUT we need Healthy advice & counsel from the people closest to us who are around us. Hold yourself accountable, let your homies hold you accountable when you're flying off the rails & if you got that type of relationship with your girl? If you guys are tight & close like that? Hold EACH OTHER accountable as well. Some girls/women aren't capable of being Real with their Men & some Men are incapable of being Real with their women. If you got it like that & she respects & understands you? You're Blessed. Talk it out & have healthy/mature discussions with her. If you don't? Keep that realness with your boys to evaluate & evaluate yourself on occasion while holding yourself accountable for your actions. Keep that mental & emotional stability. Life 🧬 is about balance ⚖️♎ & equilibrium.
Man when I still lived in Jersey, there was a group of us guys who would meet up once or twice a week in the evening at my oldest friend's barbershop. We would chop it up, have a few drinks, and play poker or ping pong. It was a great getaway from the stress and pressure of everyday life, and a way to stay balanced and blow off some steam. If I wasn't so far from my boys, I wouldn't have an ounce of shame about going to brunch so we could eat and chop it up!
Bro I'm not really a "comment guy" but I just wanna say you've come a long way as a RU-vidr. I've been rockin with you since 2019 and have never been disappointed with any of your content. Your vibe is so refreshing, I swear if I knew you in person we'd become good friends. I look forward to your continued success. Much love.
Great convo today king! I’m a 59 year old black woman.. and I love your pov!! Been married for almost40 years and u are very intuitive for someone of your age! Much love ❤King!!
Thank you for this! Lost touch (family responsibilities and maturing) with my group of friends and hearing you talk about that made me realize that I am missing that type of support system. Much love and keep it up!
First...thank you for acknowledging my comment King 😀. Second, eventhough this video was aimed at the "Bros", I as a woman, could take away some gems as well. I've always prided myself on being the type of partner that was a "safe space" for the guys i dated. They could cry in front of me, be held...(if they needed it) and etc...and i never saw it as "feminine." We have to do better with realizing that MEN need support too and it comes in different forms, based on the kind they need at that moment. At times they need space and they get their insight, fun, advice, healthy distractions and reality checks, from the Bros. Whereas with females i feel like they need nurturing, motivation, love, uplifting "you got this babe" phrases, etc...from their woman. You just have to reach a level of emotional maturity and self-awareness to be able to ask for it and not feel ashamed. Ladies, we can do better to listen to our men as well. And i mean just...LISTEN...not always respond! Sometimes, they just want a safe place to vent. Everyone can't be strong all the time and you can't pour from an empty vessel. Our friends are their to replenish us when we're running low and need that refill. Anyways im rambling...😂 I just really appreciate this platform and love these discussions. Another W video King 😊.
I totally agree with everything you said....Men have emotions they were brought up being told not to express any feelings whether it be happiness sadness depression confusion and that's not healthy for any gender we need to break and rebuke that general curse they should be able to speak freely of how they feel without being question in a derogatory way..Mr. King you're always on point they going to learn today
Respect ✊🏿 Mental Health is not talked about enough in the black community. The lack of a father figure also plays a role in our lack of emotional intelligence imo.
Appreciate this video and the talk about mental health man. Been struggling trying to get my ish together, everything you said was so on point. Love ya man, keep it up!
Thank you so much for sharing this and dropping that knowledge. They do the same thing to me and my best friend cause we hang out all the time. Friends are invaluable! Also, that food looks amazing!
Damn it's like you're talking to me, I've been trying to handle my anger for a while now, I feel I've gotten a lot better but I still catch myself getting angry sometimes. I need to learn to forgive myself because I am doing a lot better but with those small setbacks I always judge myself too hard and feel like I have to start all over. So now I'm trying to learn to forgive myself and let go and move forward in love and positivity🙏🏾
Been a huge fan since I stumbled across your videos about a year ago. Love the food content but I appreciate the life lesson content you put out boss!! You got a great message for all of us! We on the same page. 💯💪🏼
Thank you for this advice I feel like this applied to everyone. I needed to hear that because I am still struggling with money and saving and I'm 39 so thank you for that.
Bro, this video is FIRE…the problem with todays Men…a lot of the MEN don’t truly know who they are as a individual, because they put on so many acts trying to fit in…it’s like the MEN nowadays are scared to be DIFFERENT…me and my crew are the MEN whom are comfortable with SELF, comfortable with our TRIUMPHS, the Ls that we have taken, and comfortable with being accountable…Fellas, it’s ok if you’re not a a TOUGH GUY 24/7…it’s ok to smile, it’s ok to love, it’s ok if you get emotional…being a MAN is you just taking care of self and those around you…and lastly to PROTECT your loved ones with all you have…I appreciate the love, bro💯💪🏽💪🏽
I love your videos man I’m young and your teaching me how to deal with life and money and how prioritize my money and talk my problems out with people close to me I just want to thank for making these type of videos and keep going.💯
You cool as hell king let them people troll and be negative bro you gonna rise and always rise above em bro you 100% authentic and thats rock solid man keep your head up man you help me out just with your videos
Damn bro I love your channel. Keep up the good work. That food looks amazing. Next time that you get that fried noodles that comes in the pack. Put it in the wonton soup. It's a banger. With some hot sauce. U have to give it a try. 🎉
It's terrifying the lengths dudes go to to not be seen as "sus". Like yeah, I get what yall are saying about social norms and all that, but it also needs to be said that there's nothing wrong with softness, being feminine, or gay. And also: these are not one in the same. Dope video tho. I'm glad this conversation is happening and dialogue is going. And more openly nowadays.
I don't eat the sweet and sour sauce but I do love the hot sauce from the Chinese place all over my food. I wonton soup it's my favorite. And I also love the duck sauce and hot mustard.
Been watching you for months and haven't subscribed to yet idk why crazy i guess, but i am now you da best in da mukbang game man keep it up and i love your positive vibes man you make me feel like apart of your family just laid back and chill .
I didn't have yellow fried rice until I was in the tri-state. Still good either way. My favorite spot gives you a lil zip lock of mustard & duck sauce with the cookie 😊
I don't think my species (women) consider the harsh reality of the percentage of men suffering from mental health issues and why #22aday is not myth. We'd definitively take a closer look at ourselves and check in on our men. My man suffers from combat PTSD, severe depression and anxiety, sometimes I have to get in the trenches with him, other times he needs time with his brothers independent of me, and I understand that is necessary for him to hold it together. Thank you, for highlighting this topic today.
Love your talk in this video. (also thanks to you I now want Chinese for dinner) lol. I'm a single mother. I work hard and I do and do and do and never stop. So I have a roll of both a man and a woman. The bread winner and the homemaker. when it comes to daily life and raising a child. So I always have to have a straight face or be smiling. I can't cry bc that's weak on me. Yada yada. I have to be super mom at all times according to standard.. I have no time to date anymore between my career and my home life but I sometimes need that time out. That without feeling guilty having time to either be alone or go out and talk to other adults who are not co workers etc. I feel you. Men need brunch dates. Just the same as a women needs a girl's date. It's therapeutic in balancing the world we have to handle daily. And I have a few who will legit set me straight when I need it. The one who will call me out instead of nod their head when I'm bullshit&ting
I really enjoyed this video you really spoke knowledge that these men need to here cause they dont know this stuff and thats one reason why i prefer to be single most of the time lol!
Man me and my bros would get together and go bowling or shoot pool and just chill and get away from everything even if it was for 2-3 hrs which helped alot
Yooooo I got put on to game by accident about that Chinese hot mustard 😋 🔥. Damn I've been sleeping on that all this time 😮. Most likely because I don't care for mustard BUT this is the exception!
Teriffic discussion, Schratz Thank you for the continued quality wisdom. Men and women are both so attractive when they value emotional intelligence growth and nurture. This is such truth, you speak1 Ideas for future cuisine: 1) Walmart bakery items with various chips and dips 2) Rotisserie chicken with various sides 3) Thai food feast
Coming from Miami.FL. That is not fried rice unfortunately. It's super yellow and not brownish, no eggs in it, no bean sprouts, no pork, or ham. You GOTTA hit up a Miami Chinese resturatnt. Especially Hialeah!