CHIT CHAT! TOO FAT FOR LOVE? + MAKING NEW FRIENDS + INFLUENCER SECRETS & MORE! | ChrissyB Styles 

This is a word sis

I use to feel the same way you do. I was 5'5, 200 lbs, and I was that from like 14 to 18. At 18 I got down to 126 lbs from 200 lbs. And at first I was annoyed that the same ones that wasn't looking at me but low-key liked me then, are now trying to get with me. Also men were trying to spend money on me or give me free things. My dad said when he was alive to never accept gifts from men you don't plan on being with. So I would turn them down. But I saw it like wow. I can use my new outer beauty as a tool to success. And I've used it wisely. Yes I am a stay at home wife now. We have to understand that we want men to be at their best before we even consider them. Men want the same from us. Everyone wants their person to be at their best when they meet them. Chrissy said herself that "He lost me at poor" The way we see a broke man, men see an obese woman. We not trying to wait around to see if a broke man has a good personality. Same with men with obese or morbidly obese women. Alot of us women are not trying to get with broke men and wait until they make good money, and most men aren't trying to get with obese women then wait for them to lose weight.

That poor foreign man thought he had a chance to slide into Chrissy's Dms because she was fat. A morbidly obese woman is an equalizer for a poor man and that's how most men see it. We don't like it but it's facts.

So let me educate you real quick. First and foremost watch your mouth. I’m a plus size woman you don’t have to go into morbidly obese you have no idea how much I weigh see ppl like you like to sneak diss and try to fake support me . I have never seen you on this channel till you saw an opportunity to be weird. Now let me make myself very clear. Like I said in the video “I could have a wheel over lovers” I pull men all day everyday , men you could never pull at the end of the day none of them are for ME. It has nothing to do with their quality or anything because tbh they were all quality and all had more money than me with amazing careers. Now whether you’re skinny or not you will get broke men, low quality men trying to holler because one thing about men If they don’t have anything else they have AUDACITY. You didn’t even comprehend the above comment correctly. I know so many women who are small who are single af and deal with the most trash men. Check the ignorance babes it has no place on my channel.

At the end of the day everyone pulls somebody , it’s about who STAYED and did the necessary work and sacrifice for the relationship. If it ain’t that then call it what it is ‘chasing waterfalls’ .

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I think I wasted so much time thinking about my weight I know as women we just tend to think that way. Your fine at any stage in life.

This!❤️.. Amen

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Awww babe!!!! Are you about to get it or have you already had it?

Not you noticing me 😩 I'm scheduled for September! Excited and v nervous for the future loll 🤞🏽😂

I think what’s sad is that you think you’re giving me “tough love” lol when I don’t love you or know you like you’re not one of my real supporter so what you’re saying doesn’t matter. 200lbs is not big really lol but I find it even sadder because I know you were confident then and it shows that you’re probably not very confident now. Being skinny won’t get anyone a man. I know so many plus size women being loved properly by amazing men and a lot of small women struggling. I can tell that this thinking has been engrained in your mind from very young your parents probably used to talk to you like this. Idc if I gain 100lbs I will never except less than what I deserve and I deserve the world. If a man loves me now there is nothing wrong with him as a matter of fact that man won a trophy. I feel bad for you and I pray you don’t have daughters. You need to educate yourself and watch what you say. For you to even think that my weight is contributed to a good addiction shows how truly asinine you are. Fix what’s inside of you, go to therapy to heal that little girl inside of you that was picked on and wasn’t confident that’s manifesting itself as a grown woman , so that maybe one day you can stop projecting that on others. Babe we are not friends, you are not a true supporter and honestly I don’t even think my platform is for you . I want to block you but I’m not because I’m going let you watch me be loved in my obese body 😘😘😘 SMOOCHES!

Oh so I actually saw that you’ve commented before and mentioned you grew up with “ugly duckling” syndrome and had never had a bf or kiss or anything until your bf now husband and he’s the only man you’ve had. Okay now things make sense. Like I said heal that little girl within you love. Just some tough love for you ❤️

@@ChrissybStyles Peace to you sis. 🙏

@@ChrissybStyles period!!

Honestly, everyone’s experience is their own reality. Sometimes the grass is not greener where they say it is. You good be 600 pound and have a man that adores you and be a twig that no one sees. Life is not always black and white .

I absolutely agree with everything you said❗️

@@chocolateprincess8543 lady self love is the best love and a lot of us need to learn to love ourselves before seeking love from someone else that’s y a lot of women are insecure because they don’t love themselves enough

@@rockymagana1 Most definitely. A lot of us women have insecurities that we definitely need to work on.💕

You’re going to find your tribe I promise! ❤️