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"a woman who cuts her hair, is a woman who has really decided to change her life".....life truly is the art of learning, unlearning and relearning. love all you have going for yourself right now my girl. God bless ♥️
"Just because i made a terrible egg this morning, that does not make me a bad cook and we are not defined by our failures" 😭😭😭 im crying coz ive been struggling with letting my failures define me but i am unlearning too and thank you Clarissa for this discussion and letting us take our power back!! Yes you are gorgeous in everyway and very much capable 🥺🥺❤ you are such a blessing and thank God for you Clarissa
U look pretty. I shaved all of my hair a year ago and it's flourishing again. I always tell ppl that it's hair, it will grow back. Don't be scared of change
Watching this video really made me so emotional, I can't wait to actually tell myself that "I'm proud of myself". God knows it's been so hard for me to actually say this to myself.
Why does this make me cry 😭. Thank you for writing this. It truly reminded myself that I too have come far and I should at least clap for all that I’ve become this far 🥺❤️.
I saw you in public about a month ago and was so starstruck. I could tell you were not in a good space so I didn’t approach you that day, I’m so glad I can hear the story about how your life has been lately. May you continue on your healing journey and continuing to inspire us
the most prettiest girl i've eveeeeer....no one gets to put a label on you. you are the only one to put a label on yourself...be you and do you girll..love from Botswana🥺
Cutting my hair was one of the best decisions of my life. When you are bald especially as a black women I feel like it’s our way of letting go of all the negativity and judgement. It’s not for everyone but if you feel the urge just do it cause life is to short and hair always grows back.
I’m literally at the verge of crying, you have no idea how much I needed to hear this. If anything this year has really humbled me, I quickly had to learn that all the ideas people had of me and that I myself started to believe isn’t even close to what the Lord has for me. I had to do (still am) a lot of unlearning and leaning more onto my intuition and discovering my personal desires. I had also clung soo tightly to my hair even though I wasn’t enjoying it anymore because everybody around me pretty much worshiped my hair and so I had been dancing around the idea of cutting but never really settling on it. This really is all that I needed! We love and appreciate you this side Clarissa❤️
I know the feeling of wanting to be your old self again, and I’m grateful for this video because I’m moving on from that now and just focus on the new book of my life ❤️
You look so beautiful. Just in perfect time for your new year. You're really encouraging me to go for my big chop! I've been thinking about it for a while now. Love the new beginning for you sis! 💕💕
This is so inspiring, I was just telling my friends that I also want to do a big chop just for a fresh start 🥺Ill take this as a sign , I’m definitely proud of you wishing you all the best in your new chapter 🤍
I'm not crying...you are 😭 I'm so proud of you sthandwa, this is all so relatable, I'm so emotional right now. Cheers to your new book, thank you for taking us along for the ride. ❤️
Thank you for reminding us that nothing external defines who we are. You are beautiful ❤️Your inner light is shining through Tbh. I spent this year stressing about braiding my hair, doing this and that. Really none of that matters anymore. Never did. Bless your journey sis 🙏🏾❤️
It is indeed your time to shine bestie, you are an amazing person, you have an amazing personality and overall you beautiful. Thank you thank you so much for your content, you inspires inspires me❤️❤️❤️🫂
I watched this video yesterday and today I finally got the courage to cut my hair off. I had been contemplating cutting it off for a while and this video just seemed like a sign for me to just do it. So, thank you❤️❤️
I literally cried watching this, I love you so much,hair or no hair,your beauty is out of this world😍...your coffeebean here all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸
Ooo Chile, love your content, love the look and can't wait to read the new book 💛. You don't know how many people you're inspiring rn !! Stay shinning 🔥
Its the fact that you went to cut your hair with your edges on point!! I remember a long time ago in one of your videos you said you wanted to cut your and said “it’s just hair”. I’m really happy you finally did it❤️
I’ve never watched anything more relatable 😭🥺🥺 I’ve also recently cut my hair and it really was about letting go of the hurt I kept putting myself through and like you said writing my new book in which I define my own terms🥰🥰 Love you so much Bestie🥺❤️❤️
you are so beautiful and I love this sooo much for you 🥺! You often to speak so much sense and it gets me! You are growing hey , and I love the fact that you're so honest and lenient to yourself. I'm 13 and you motivate me so much❤️! I've been a part of the coffee bean family and I don't regret it. Love you so much bestie!🥺
Is there anyone chopping onions?😭😭I ddnt know how much I needed to hear this until now, gurl u God sent ,thank you for venting n giving us the light😍💯❤️ you sóo beautiful bestie, keep pushing n keep narrating your own book , it's your life, live it to the fullest 💯💯❤️
Here to send you all the love❤ I didn’t know about you before that reality show but I’ve since fallen in love with you and your content. You are doing amazing, your channel is doing amazing and there’s serenity one leaves with from watching your videos. Be proud of yourself, you’re amazing! ❤ And the haircut honey😍 so gorgeous bestie!
Girl I think that your beautiful, confidence, intelligence and the way you carry yourself can bother people that aren't at your high level. Hence they will try drag you down and project their insecurities onto you. I'm glad you're much better now. Love your content ❤❤
Cutting your hair was such a big step. You’re so brave! We’re proud of you and this new book is going to be beautiful. Also, you look so very beautiful 😻🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
So proud of you, I cut my afro as well a week before my birthday last month, and its the best decision ive made... Love my new book and glad youve started yours too❤
That was so beautiful Clarissa! Each and every word that you uttered was meaningful and powerful. For the longest of time, I just wanted to hear something that was so meaningful and relatable like that. Thank you❤💫💯.
I’ve been following you for quiet sometime and I have never commented but I’m huge fan. I’m glad to see this from you. You’re authentic and very real. I’ve wanted to cut my hair for a very long time maybe I needed this video. Heal and I know this is a healthy beginning❤
Listen you literally a big hug and I know what I'm saying doesn't make sense but when I watch and listen to your videos, I feel like I'm getting a big hug from someone, your content like i can't explain but your videos are like medicine you know like healing like you as a person you're literally the most real and authentic person ever, we love you so much Clarissa
