Clark Fredericks (follow up-2023) 

Here’s a link to Clark’s first SWU interview: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-9gTedz_OCZY.html

Clark, I am a detective working child sex abuse. You are helping more people than you know with your talking. Stay strong.

It’s hard to articulate just how much I’m rooting for Clark. You rule brother.

I am one of the 9 who never spoke of the abuse. My abuser was my 4th grade teacher. Even worse, he became my brother in law (married my sister)! I also fell into patterns of despair and defeat. I am 50 years past the abuse now, and I still harbor that pain. Thank you for telling your story. It helped me.

I am a survivor...abused by grandfather for years...I am a young 64 year old woman who has had other trauma's as well...I always dreamed I would be a motivational speaker....after watching you, I called a therapist to FINALLY address this madness inside me... Thank you.....

I am a 72 years old female who is still haunted by the pain of my molestation by my own father as a child but the one thing that hurts me the most and always will was my mothers disbelief, her accusation that I had lied and thus ruined her marriage. A bullet to my heart would have hurt less. We never really made peace with that before she died. I believe Clark, every word.

I just watched the first interview. I managed to hold my tears until the very end, when he talked about reconnecting with his old lover. I just exploded. What a story brother. What a man.

Clark being happily in love is the thing I needed to hear 😭🫶🏾

Because of Clark……. I found my voice! Thank you!

Love this guy, how can you not? Respectful of dissenting opinions, works hard, came back from hell to tell everyone how to address their trauma. God bless

Dude is talking to me! Feeling like a victim is shit. It’s gotta stop! Thanks Clark!

Absolutely love this man. The original video was one of the most powerful things I've seen and he delivered it so articulately and with class. Great to see this follow up. You're the man Clark!

I'm 60 years old now and just starting deal with my sexual abuse. Your Story was so empowering. Thank you

Man I have never felt more connected to a person I’ve never met. I could talk and listen to Clark for hours. ❤

SO EXCITED TO SEE HIM BACK. Still one of my favorite story tellers on here

Clark, I admire your courage to be so open and honest with us.

Im rooting for this guy 100%. He is going to help people speak out

Clark's story is one of the most impactful I've personally viewed on this channel! Seen a lot but something about Clark just hits different. So happy to be seeing this follow-up!

I have nothing but admiration for this man. God bless you sir.

Clark I used to weight 605 pounds and have lost over 100 pounds a couple months ago I gained 20 pounds back and have been back to healthy habits over the past month. Your talk about building a foundation is so helpful. I’m going to start counting wins right now! Thank you. Hope to keep you updated when I hit 220! Congratulations on moving in with your girl! ❤

Clark wasn't even halfway through his first interview when I thought, "Wow! This man should be a motivational speaker!" And then...he IS!! I have a heartfelt thankfulness for anyone who speaks out for victims of CSA! And, thank YOU Mark, all you do!

Clark, I recall the applause at your sentencing and the kind words of Judge Critchley. Thank you for being you and for helping children find a voice and a positive path. Your interviews should be shown in every school. My very best to you always.

I was on the edge of my seat for the whole story. It had such an impact I brought it over to my friend’s house and we listened to the whole thing together- it was the best damn AA meeting we had ever been to. I’ve been sober 24 years. Thank you!

As a person with a loved one who was sexually abused as a child, I think you are a hero on many different levels. You are inspiring many and I can’t wait to read your book! May you and your girlfriend have many happy, healthy seasons ahead. Thank you for being so courageous and telling your story.

His attitude here vs the previous video from a year ago wow. To see him happy and cracking jokes warms my heart. I’m so glad that he is doing good and that his life is still prospering. You are a hero Clark and you inspire millions of people with your story. Keep shining 🤍

Clark, you're absolutely one of my favorite guest!! Your brilliant and stronger than you'll ever imagine!! Thanks for sharing and returning.. blessings

I'm crying listening to this follow up with Clark ... what a remarkable man! He's a true survivor and force of nature. Wishing Clark and his girlfriend many happy, healthy years together!

My abuser was my grade 5 teacher. So glad that you are helping to educate people about the affects that this has on victims.

"Faith to me equals love" -and that is what is most important. Keep going Clark... may the Lord bless you 🙏

I am writing from France and I am a female just a little younger than you. I am impressed by your honesty in telling about everything you went through and by your commitment to help others who went through the same horrific experiences. Thanks for being you !!

Seen Shorts of that Story on TikTok and came straight over to RU-vid watching both parts. God bless you and Thanks for sharing!

Clarks videos are hands-down my favorite. I have a very similar life experience and his testimony helped give me strength to have a talk with my family about it. Years of therapy and healing were not enough, but having confirmation from my loved ones helped alleviate a lifelong heavy depression. Clark encouraged me to reach out to my childhood sweetheart, which has been the most heartwarming part of my process. For the first time in decades I have hope. Thank you Clark and thank you mark.

Turning trauma into triumph. You’ve doing the work every day, thanks Clark. Best wishes on your continuing journey!

I am an athiest and I would never tell you that you are a fool. Faith comes in many forms. It's whatever you find that helps you heal, makes you stronger, and gives you the structure in your life to move onwards and upwards from whatever trauma you are recovering from.

I just watched the first video with Clark and cried my eyes out. I cried for that little 11-12 year old boy, I cried for the angst filled teen looking for redemption from horror that was not his fault, I cried for the young man that destroyed so much of himself because he couldn’t silence the trauma and yet couldn’t put words to it either. I cried for all of the survivors. I cried for myself and my traumas that I’ve never spoken of. I cried for the guilt I have for not speaking up and there being more victims because of my silence. Thank you Clark, thank you for your bravery to speak of the things we’ve been threatened and shamed into silence. Be well my dear.

It was WONDERFUL to see Clark looking healthy and happy, yet still showing his tender vulnerability and honesty of the struggles. His ability to communicate is beautiful and inspiring and REAL. He doesn’t sugar coat recover from addictions, sexual abuse, his personal demons, his family’s trials and tribulations, and his incarceration. He helped me realize better that there are good and bad times, ups and downs and we take each day to try and do better, be better, give to others in their struggles. I love how he answered when Mark asked him what was the most important lesson he had learned in his life - he said it so perfectly, and simply…Love. ❤

Clark thank you so much for your story. It gives people hope. I was molested as a child also, it takes so much energy and strength to stuff it and keep going. I am 60 yrs now and am just starting to get some help. It is an amazing feeling coming out on the other side. God Bless, Edie

I love listening to this man. I myself have traumas and 1 year sober at the moment with a tag around my ankle. We have different traumas but he still speaks to me. Thanks for listening, you help me.

I can't help but smile when Clark smiles and talks. Very infectious and beautiful energy and if you're reading this, Clark, I hope you're proud of yourself for turning everything around, we sure are.

So sorry about your brother. It did cross my mind in the last video about whether your brother had gone through the same trauma, but sometimes predators only choose 1 child. Good to hear your update and I just subscribed to your channel. God is Good!

So glad to see Clark again!! After the first part I watched the other videos he’s made and listened to his speeches. Clark, thank you so much for what you do and I hope you continue to prosper and be happy

Clark’s first interview is one of the most memorable and touching… glad to see you’ve been doing well. ❤

Clark! This man's interview was one of the best I've ever heard. I watched and listened thoroughly many times and I watched his courtroom testimony, and really looked into other parts of his story because of you. Glad to see he's doing okay and thank you for doing what you do Soft White Underbelly/Mark. And last but far from least, thank you Clark for taking what is a horrible past and really helping people with it moving forward with your life at the same time.

Man Clark, your two interviews moved me deeply as a SA survivor, still keeping my story a secret. I am so proud of you for climbing out of the depths. I am taking little steps to do the same thing. Thank you.

Clark and Mark, thank you for this platform and for your inspiring message, I’m taking it to heart. We survivors thrive from hearing each others stories and inspiration of all kinds. Wishing you the best always, and thank you for caring as much as you do, it matters 🤗✊🏻💛 also for survivors whose abuser is still alive you can report them to Child Protective Services. Many states have removed or changed the statute of limitations to 50 years. Please report these pedophile monsters 🙇🏻‍♀️

You are one of the most genuine, humble, brutally honest people ever! Your story is inspiring and traumatic and uplifting and everything all in one. Thank you so much for sharing it

You motivated me today to get a few wins in first thing in the morning. I’ve been insanely depressed lately. My baby at 6 months old was abused by his daycare owner and she went off and made 5 other victims. We are all involved in a huge case now. I have so much rage and anger. I’m not using but I’m so lost. I have no identity as a person and it feels bleak. I live for him so I can protect him but I’ve lost touch with myself. I think of your first video often and so glad to find this next one. Thank you for bringing me some hope today.

Hands down my FAVORITE story on soft white underbelly!

I love this Man. Such strength, courage and heart he has. True inspiration of overcoming and thriving for so many.

I send Clarke so much love. He saved other boys from abuse and what a blessing he is for all of us. Love you Clarke!!!💖

Nice to see your update Clark! I also managed to change the law, setting a legal precedent with the Human Rights Tribunal here in New Zealand in a case where a brothel owner was abusing a friend of mine who worked for him. Seeing that precedent used globally for working girls has been so rewarding for me after all of the abuse I suffered as a working girl myself. Thank you so much for your advocacy and the work you put in to change lives of victims in NJ

I have seen soo many SWU interviews and for the first time I just have to comment on it - just saw first and the second interviews and oh my, Clark, thank you soo much for putting your heart in front of us and articulate your whole life in such an amazing way. I am soo touched but also inspired at the same time, your purpose in this world was obviously greater - to point out to those monsters, to stricten the legislature, to draw light to child abuse, to help some to speak up and some to recognize signs with their children. I am sending you a lot of love and hope that one day I will have a chance to shake your hand and hug you for a moment. ❤

I watched his first interview twice in one day because after the first watch I made my husband sit down and watch it. Such an incredible story. You’re right- pegg was no longer human, a true monster walking the earth. No guilt in his death just hope in your future. ❤️

Glad I went back and found the first video and watched in sequence. Unbelievably helpful. I was meant to see Clark's testimonials on hope and resilience. I am 47 days into my healing journey, and this was a remarkably serendipitous find. Thanks, Mark, for your work and for using this platform to bring people like Clark to my attention. I will be looking for his book and his documentary. If you're reading this Clark, you've hit a chord with me that makes me believe I can change, and I can't thank you enough. May your Higher Power continue to work through you to help many more people struggling with their lives and keep you safe and happy as you do so.

The most impactful and moving story I’ve ever heard on this channel, I’ve been searching for the original. So glad about this follow up!

Clark, as a recovering addict coming up on 8 years of sobriety I cannot even put into words how inspiring your comeback is! Thank you for being so courageous and inspiring! By sharing your story you are giving a voice to the voiceless! Thank you my friend 🙏🏻

Congratulations on all the wonderful things happening for you. Your walk through this life is incredibly important to the world.

You're right, Mark, he is a favorite! So glad you're back and still doing well Clark ❤ So sorry about your brother and other victims of that man:(

Clarks story could be mine if I had the courage. I am going on my 70th birthday and grew up with no self esteem and rage. The damage is permanent. My parents sent me to a psychiatrist instead of believing me. I failed in school and because a long distance trucker crisscrossing the US for 20 years after the fact to lead a singular and lonely life. 3 of my friends were also damaged but refuse to look back and speak about the abuse. Your words were not wasted on me. Thanks!

Keep telling your story Clark! You're an inspiration.

Clark- your realness and rawness is beyond inspiring. Im sure your courage to share has made a difference in many lives. Rooting for you always !

Clark, you’re truly an inspiration , and I mean that. Can’t seem to hear enough from you. Wish you luck in everything you do.

I can’t imagine say something negative to Clark. An incredible story and human being!

Nothing speaks like action. And you are the picture perfect embodiment of Resilience! Life to YOU..!!

This is what a real hero looks like. Thank you Sir. I salute you.

So inspiring Clark. Sorry for the loss of your brother

Thank you Clark for sharing not only your story, but how to make a strong foundation for yourself. We aren’t alone.

Thank you Clark, you really are the best of men. God bless you brother, Greg, New Zealand.

Clark I have deep deep respect for you. Your story is so dark but powerful. Keep fighting the good fight you are my hero 💪🏼

I just love this human. Clark, your story, your voice, courage and faith is so important to this world. You are an inspiration and you are needed. Thank you for sharing your advice and also to remind others that it never goes away completely, there are situations and times all the pain and anger resurfaces and it takes so much effort to regulate again. As you say, having a foundation to fall back on is everything. I’m so sorry for the loss of your brother, may he now be at peace. Thank God for you and God bless you. Please always remember how important you are. Best wishes to you and your girlfriend for a very happy life together.

Your first video was a big one for me personally. I shared it with everyone I knew. Your story stayed with me for weeks. As soon as I saw you on the SWU notification I clicked immediately. ❤

Men who can reflect like Clark, you are applauded! Men should not ever silence your pain. Don’t do it!! Don’t take it out others either, don’t do that! To all the men, you deserve love that’s healthy because you are the leader for yourself and others. Take time to listen to Clark & figure out what love you have still left inside you to love Love! Clark here is helping all the men to love yourself no matter what. Begin with brutal honesty, humility, cry like a baby (who cares, right?) & begin the journey you always wanted. Hate just means, you drifted away from love. Love is, you stayed the course! This beautiful man, Clark, doesn’t hold back because he has found his heart thru his traumas. To you, Clark, you are so deserving of love & restoration of the broken self. Heal brother, heal more as you are helping other men & women as well. God bless you & all the men who need courage to change the things they can. God bless the women who also love their men. We are Not here to cast stones but here to reflect & restore & share. 🙏🙏🙏

What a breath of fresh air! What a resilient, sentient and health oriented strong guy! If only we had more people like these in society. Hope he has more of a great life and good surprises 🌹🙏🏼🍀

Clark is truly inspiring.

It is hard to find a spot to stop and find the way out. It's like trying to swim your way to the top. Your talk has helped so many people who needed to hear this. Adding how to move from this is so powerful. Thank you for sharing again with us and Mark. Do take care of yourself and keep "The Power of Positive Thinking". I read the book when I was 15. Happy for you and your Girlfriend!!! ..... coming from New York. 🗽

I found this channel about 4 days ago. It's like a missing piece on my long drives. The stories are absolutely incredible.

Mr. Clark Fredricks... You gave me gold for my soul by your testimony in your first interview with Mark. I, too, am a childhood sexual abuse survivor. You said something that really hit home for me: You said that you were "lucky" because you didn't live with your abuser. I am one who lived with my abuser. My father raped and beat me savagely from the age of 2 years old until i ran away from home at age 14.... It has been a long road of losing my faith to regaining my life. I heard your story. It was a VERY FAMILIAR road to hear of your journey. Drugs. Sex. Arsons. Fast living... Suicidal ideations and self abandonment.. To being incarcerated for "snapping " because of my abuser... Anyway... Too much to talk about here. I just want to tell you "Thank YOU" for sharing your testimony. Thanks for letting me know I am not alone. Thank you for reminding me of HOPE.

Glad to see this follow up on Clark. He's one of the few who actually offers suggestions about how to improve one's life. Most other interviews just have sad endings.

You have an amazing story. I can't imagine the amount of people worldwide that you have helped just by telling your story.

For anyone who is interested, I just searched Clark’s name on RU-vid and found Clark’s channel.

My favourite interviewee on soft white underbelly. Thank you for sharing more wisdom and inspiration Clark, can’t wait to buy your book! ❤

I remember Clark’s story so vividly. I can’t imagine how he remembers it. And all I did was watch the podcast once months and months ago and I can recall his story more than any other.

Clark is just so inspirational. Love this guy

Let's just agree to call him SUPERMAN! Thank you for fighting the good fight Clark!💪😍🙏 God bless you and make His face shine upon you and your family. I am sorry for your loss. I am thrilled over your love found. Keep going!!!

You’re always so amazing and inspiring to listen to. I’m so sorry for everything you went through recently 😞🤦🏼‍♀️ but you’re a warrior and you always get back up

I love you for your bravery, your voice for those that are silent, and your beautiful kind soul.

A part 2 !! Keep on shining !! You have such a way of making such a horrific story , beautiful !! There is indeed beauty in every facet of life . Thank you for your strength and courage , your helping so very many ❤🙏

This breaks my heart. As a female survivor of childhood family and neighborhood sexual abuse, I understand so much of this. Thank you for sharing this.

Congratulations on moving in with your old flame, Clark. I'm so happy for you. I love your wise advice about creating a morning routine and foundation for life. I am trying to establish this for myself. Finally, thank you for your courage to speak out against the scourge of pedophilia that continues to destroy lives immeasurably. You are an inspiration for so many.

One of my favorite guests. A true Class Act. Synchronicity is real if You are on the right side of God. Live well and God will provide.

As an investigator working these type of cases, for a small agency, your story struck my heart. You are an inspiration and voice for all the victims out there. God bless you and thank you sharing your story.

Clark, you are more an Amazing person than you realize. You are very courageous in your ability to face your issues and your frank honesty. Thank you for the sharing of yourself

You’re an incredible guy Clark. Thank you for sharing your story and for the update, looking forward to the next one!

Much respect to Clark and his ability to so well articulate his story. Wishing you many more good seasons ahead ❤

I can’t describe how much I appreciate you telling your stories. Although it’s two videos summarizing your life, I felt the energy and power and all the life lessons you’ve learned deeply with you. I wishes you, your family the best and I am looking forward to hearing you continue inspiring people around you.

This man’s story blessed me! 🙏🏽 more life to him and praying for any other victims in the world! He’s an example of what not to do as he said but with Faith he’s getting it right in the end,,, and it’s not always pretty but Foundation is Key! I truly appreciate this Mark and Clark

I was amazed by this story from the start, and I love the message that life has seasons. I have met so many miserable people in my life, and they ask how I stay smiling through all the crap I've been through. And I tell them that life sucks. It does. It's always gonna throw crap at you, but you can either take it and smile or hate everything. I'd rather smile.

Clark ❤ Your story 😢 the first video moved me to tears seriously I had to stop driving pull over to the side of the road and look at your face as you told your story You have so much wisdom in you and what you have gone through would have utterly destroyed 99.9% of the population But you said something important in the first video and you kind of allude to it here. And that is FAITH and faith is something so intangible and it is completely a Grace I am truly sorry for everything that you’ve gone through. I’ll give you my most utmost respect and I also offer my condolences for the loss of your brother. As I was listening to this second part the follow up video and you were telling me about the seasons of life that is life. Nothing lasts forever ( well only one thing)… No bad thing last forever no good thing last forever and so we must be grateful for the moments life is exactly what you said it comes in seasons it comes in waves I am not joking when I started jumping up and down in my kitchen with glee to know that you are still together with your sweetheart. That you guys have weathered the most inexplicable horrific situation and I promise I’m going to pray for the two of you that you guys make it that you guys can find a level of happiness within one another because I believe that you deserve nothing less and neither does she… To see someone you love being so much pain and be unable to help them is like torture , I am very glad that you were able to find each other again. And on a side note Being a New Yorker I kind of like your chains lol 😂 that’s what’s up !! I hope that your story continues to illuminate the world to the darkness that is within our world and that this world can understand that the darkness does not last forever. ONLY LOVE DOES (Love is willing the good of the other, it is sacrificial) And so as I see in your videos that you like to have motivational phrases… I’ll leave you with this one i’m paraphrasing Dr. Martin Luther King: Hate cannot destroy the darkness only love can do that I cannot wait til your book comes out ❤ Dios te Bendiga!!!!!! And to Mark thank you for the work that you do this channel is life changing

Thank you so much Clark. I found this video at the perfect time. You’re first video absolutely blew me away. Thank you god sharing

Thank you Clark for sharing your incredible story. Keep on truckin brother! Love you man!