What do you mean? Is he not a human. He's handsome. All men have issues. No one is perfect. Please keep your perfection to yourself and stop underming the work of God.
I will never understand why would any woman want to marry a guy that already is a cheater and is on dating sites. She damn well know that he's not gonna stop just because of a ring.
They want a ring to legitimize the relationship. Also it's make it easier too get child support, alimony, Life insurance etc, etc, when she ready to leave.
@@deedee7520 Oh please. They want the ring as a way to magically claim him, magically believing that it's going to automatically turn him into a faithful Prince Charming. They also want the ring to be able say this is my husband. If a man wants to marry a woman, he will.
I’m sorry but this man is slow. The judge is asking him clear direct elementary questions, and he can’t comprehend the simplest commands to answer the question.
He's not slow. He purposefully talks in circles. He takes one word from a statement or question to change the subject. Not marrying her is a gift. She should put him out and let him be free to be single. She looks sad.
He can't communicate his thoughts very well. He wants understanding but he can't communicate his issues with her. The judge doesn't understand his communication and neither do I. Why marry him? I will keep watching.
That's why loyalty exists. It's not available to what comes its choosing what you want, and sis is not what he wants , she's what's available, too available.
Them 2 need to separate and go on their own way ...he ain't about family ..the man cannot even explain something to save his life . He is a cheater that's why he kept finding fault on her ...a bag of chips are you 5 smh
Okay... I’m glad I didn’t give a preconceived statement. He doesn’t know what he wants. He doesn’t want to be married because he’s not sure if he wants that. She, on the other hand, is the one talking in circles. She wants him to do certain things, that she never really named simply because she thought she was holding out on some major “wifely duties” until she got the ring. Sweetie. 🤦🏾♀️ The ring is a piece of jewelry. You’ve already been giving wifey duties. You cook, you clean, you give sex, you bore his child... all things a wife does. A sandwich does not constitute a ring, especially if it’s soggy. They need to separate, they don’t know how to do simple kindergarten communication.
I really don't get the sandwich vs baby thing. She's not a wife, but she made a baby with him ... more substantial than making sandwich. Priorities warped‼️
Hey Judge! I hope that you're doing good and that you're being safe. I really like the advice you give on your show. It helps me in a way. To support you and to get more advice I bought your book Letters to my daughters. I can't wait to read it! I saw one of your videos and i was so surprised that you said you was 60 years old! I couldn't believe it, you look so good and young! Xoxo 💕
He doesnt love her.never did. She probably doesnt necessarily love him either but thinks she does because that's how she was brought up to be in a relationship. Her goal is to marry. So much so that she keeps hitting the wall that is this guy's lack of emotional attachment ( personally i kept hitting the wall that is this guy- and probably also you) perhaps this too is part of her behavior pattern: picking someone who doesnt love you. We've seen it on this show many times. Also: they are both limited in communucation skills him more than her. He's not odd, he just doesnt want to say on tv what most men think already: i just want sex, food, silence( which includes no kids) and more sex- of the oral variety ( cant figure out the fascination with oral sex but to each their own) I already go to work for my money( hopefully most men) why should i work for you?- now of course im talking about most men who arent in love but i dont generalize and i also realize that there are women out there who feel and do the same.
It sounds like he's giving her the run around in their relationship being difficult while at the same time cheating or having conversations with other women or woman.
I actually believe him on that one. I was on dating sites 8 or more years ago, never got around to deactivating them. So emails still come. She didn't prove he was active, just prove he was a DUMMY for not deactivating.
Yes. 19 years for me. We've fought and it hasn't always been sunshine and moonbeams. One rule we always have is talk through our issues and never go to bed angry. Our relationship remains strong because of this logic. Best comment I've seen on here for awhile.
She wants that big heart felt family type of relationship and he seems to not want the same . They both deserve what they truly want which makes me feel they don’t need to be together. Even a break may do them down justice in seeing what they truly want . Maybe they’ll get on the same page but as of right now, I can tell what kind of family she’s wanting and she’s not going to find it in him right now with his mind set he has as of right now & she doesn’t NEED to wait for him to step up . They’re relationship isn’t horrible, they just aren’t on the same page .
In my definition if you are telling another women she is sexy and you are exchanging pictures and stuff how much more full on does the cheating have to be before you call it cheating. Cheating is lying. Period.
I can’t stand him either. Toasting the bread and make the sandwich the night before. It doesn’t get soggy. I do that all the time for my sons and my husband for lunch.
No one is perfect. As Judge says all the time, " YOu get the guy you choose , not the one you hope he becomes". I think he wants to do the right things he probably just doesn't have the tools..but i think he loves her..
Am I the only one that watch Divorce court with judge Lynn Toler I love watching her, I'm not really into the new judge still giving her my support cause I believe she is able to make good / similar decision like Judge Lynn Toler.
These women need to understand that if you want someone to marry you... don’t give him wifey privileges before you do that. Why does he have to marry when he got it without the final commitment? Smh. Ya need to be smarter ladies
Being an adult really should come with a pamphlet or instruction booklet, cause this is the norm for people like this couple. Grown folk behaving childish and no comprehension
He doesn't let her get a word in edgewise, he's constantly talking over the top of her and drowning her out, and when she is trying to explain how she feels about something he completely disregards it and starts ranting and fixating on something small and meaningless because it's so much easier than admitting to looking outside of the relationship at other women, and/or cheating. She has her answer, he doesn't want to marry her. If she's desperate for marriage (perhaps for its potential for stability) then she needs to move on and marry someone else, because he's not willing to marry her. I agree with her when she said she shouldn't have to do wife duties without the safety of being his legal wife. He can wash his own clothes, pick up his own laundry, pay half the bills, do half the chores around the house, do half the parenting, and make his own damn lunch before work. It's not her responsibility in any way shape or form. She isn't his mother, she isn't his wife, she is the mother of their children and his girlfriend, that is it. If he wants the extra kindnesses that wives sometimes do for their husbands, then he needs to stop leading her on and marry her. If he's not willing to marry her, he can't expect her to be his wife in action but not in name. If she's not happy she needs to walk away and she didn't look happy.
What is so hard for her to say..” when you come home, take out the trash, wash the car, pick up your clothes etc..” and for him to say..” fold my washed clothes, set my lunch out and work uniform, etc..”🤷🏽♀️
I know your question is possibly rhetoric, don't want to assume here, but once men and women understand their biologic makeup it will be a whole lot easier for each of us to communicate verbally and nonverbally our needs, wants, and desires which will then place us back into normalcy. Animals for the time being is normal. I'm sorry to say because it's natural for them on a biological level.... no miscommunication nor complications. Animals do what they do with ease and no interference. The animal that is the most free is a bird. Hopefully that helps Hangtyme. Lol.
His communication skills are horrible so he’ll never be able to explain himself for the cheating accusations. But why his lady look confused after the verdict.
