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He looks so exhausted, and emotionally drained. Like he just works, comes home and works some more. His eyes tell a sad story. I hope he finds some sense of self after this.
He spent his 20's and most of his 30s being married when most of us was in college and partying. He tired he really to live his best life. And he don't have kids either. I'm with you I hope he find his self
She treats him like a child. She does not appreciate his efforts. He is working taking care of her and 4 kids that are not his and she is all in her feelings when he gets home tired, sweaty and wanting to relax. While she has been chilling at home all day!!! Go somewhere FELICIA!!! He needs his freedom a bit longer to experience a different life without her baggage!!
Right? I mean some of those Ummms and pauses might be from nerves being on tv and all but they are not a good match at all due to the age difference. The trainwreck wedding and then having the "fake pregnancy scare" right after the wedding...she chose to ignore all the signs of his "youth" and not being ready for a marriage. She should have known better at 28.
I think bcuz she's older, she probably talks to him like that's her child or he feels that way. I'm older than my husband by 7 years and I have to catch myself bcuz you can easily slip to acting like their mom. And that's not what I want.
K Daye geez I’m a year and a few months younger than my hubby and still talk to him like he’s a child ..maybe ..highly likely..it’s the way they act..behave..and don’t do the obvious.
Not putting his clothes in the hamper was an act of defiance in response to her bulldozing the life out of him. Had she shown him love and an understanding of how that warehouse job was wearing him the heck out; he could have become her Superman. He would have had the mental fortitude to make his videography his full time gig. Her constant harping has worn him down and he looks older than she does. He is so unhappy. I hope he has the courage to get out of the marriage; and to grow into the man that he could be.
So she was 28 with FOUR children already from a previous relationship and she married a 22 yr old? It's a miracle that their marriage lasted over a decade.
@@angelacarlisle1708 well I mean somebody did say"I do" for him so yeah lmaoooo anyways she knew what she was doing. And I believe him wen he said she asked him when is he gonna marry her.
Way too many signs... It's like she was more focused on being married and just picked the guy willing to marry her. Desperation will have ppl accepting any ol raggedy piece of a person
She designed her own hell. She was sleeping with a man barely out of boyhood, coerced this kid into marriage, then expected him to turn into a proper husband overnight. He's overworked, undersexed, and overwhelmed (as another person in a DC episode said lol). Found himself in a grown man's situation and just simply wasn't ready. He's got a good work ethic, he can make a great husband one day, but she designed this disaster. I ultimately blame her.
Looks like she found a young man who was a lil slow and easy to manipulate so she snatched the opportunity to get married. tried to mold him into the man that she wanted while treating him like a lil boy. The young man looks exhausted. 28 years old with 4 kids trying to force a lil boy into a man, she did it to herself.
This dude was a young kid not far from being out of his teens. He didn't know what he was doing getting into a marriage with a woman with 4 kids. I believe he was pressured. She should be ashamed of herself and go find herself a real man who can handle those responsibilities. Girl, stop being Desperate Diane and do some growing up your damn self.
I think people forget that being a stay at home mom isn't as easy as we think. COVID proved that. A lot of parents couldn't handle being at home with their children. Take the fact that she is doing laundry for 6 people not one or two---6. I'd be mad too if after i just picked up after the kids and cooked (because southern people don't play with meals) my husband comes home and drops all his clothes in the floor right at the door after he cheated on me for most of the marriage. Sometimes it's the little things that build up that cause a problem. He really wasn't ready and she's resentful now.
I don’t think so, he’s ready for a relationship but not marriage.She really doesn’t listen to anything he says. I think he can’t even get his words out a home, notice how she tries to interject to tell what’s he trying to say & gets it wrong every time. Give this man his freedom .
*Man-Child* She has herself to blame...she was old enough to know from the get go that she had no business dealing with him.... I'm not even 1/2 way through & listening to him talk is frustrating AsF #smh
I agree with how the judge called the situation on this at the end. He wasn’t ready and I totally feel his headspace. You shouldn’t even be thinking about marriage until you’re in your mid-30’s and got some living, grinding and rachetness out of your system.
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Wow, I've never seen anyone comment on here saying their from Haiti...and I just met a girl earlier today at Wingstop who said she is from Haiti! Interesting! Can you tell me more about Haiti and how it is living there? You could email me if u want at trulytried@gmail.com
I'm sorry, but I don't care if you've been gone 20-11 hrs, it's disrespectful to just drop your shit anywhere you want because you think your mate is obligated to clean after you.
Yeah man have 10 kids he's the man. Woman have 4 kids she's not worthy of love. She had her own house and taking care of them before she met him. So I don't get your comment
SHE FOLOWED HER FREINDS SUGGESTIONS. AND NOT HER FIRST MIND! AND EVERTHING EENT DOWN HILL! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! IT WILL "NEVER": * LEAD YOU WRONG! ! !
Don't get me wrong, domestic work is valuable and can be tedious.. but let's not pretend working in a factory is equivalent to it. Working from the comfort of your own home is WAY different from working in a factory climate-especially with the one he described working at. I wish more women would see admitting the truth as just that rather than thinking it's devaluing their efforts. Just my virgil cents.
This is why women that date men should date UP, not down. And young guys shouldn't commit to anyone at all if they aren't ready. If y'all need a place to stay, get a job, save some money and rent a room. Stop relying on women to house you, because if you aren't on that lease your bum card will expire and you'll either have to show up ready or get out.
I hate seeing men over 25 with braids ..(love locs) update just listening to him speak make me understand why bro said I do for him.(didnt get too the part when Judge said the same thing) She came with 4 extra mouths and he's a hard working man I see him in a different light his a pretty decent brother.
This poor guy is just plain defeated! Women love to get men then complain to death about their shortcomings. She was old enough and certainly experienced enough (4 kids) to pick better. You didn’t and now it’s his fault?! 😒I’m confused 🤷🏾♀️
So he’s like one of your children? It must be nice to have 4 children that can financially support an entire household. He financially supports you and the 4 kids you brought into the marriage. You cook and clean for him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and the 4 kids YOU brought into the marriage. Which is more impressive. 1). Providing financial and physical security for a woman and her 4 kids (I know, it’s a package deal). Throwing an extra chicken in the pot, and making what was a dinner for 5 now a dinner for 6. This ain’t about gender either. Judge Lynn took on 4 stepchildren when she married. I’m sure Big E recognized what a HUGE sacrifice that was. His cheating was inexcusable. But if she doesn’t realize that his contributions to this marriage makes life easier for her than her contributions make life easier for him, he should just leave and let her find out the hard way.
@th1smomentisfate I understand,and I'm not saying he's not without fault cheating is serious and I'm not calling him a good father but rather a good provider but after watching so many cheating lazy no job having men..the bar is low but he is above it for that reason alone.
Okay I get that he works in a warehouse and that’s hard work but I’ve seen my aunt do the same thing. My uncle doesn’t devalue her contributions nor does he say he does more than her. She also gets frustrated when he leaves his clothes everywhere. It’s mad annoying. Like if I clean all day and you don’t have to lift a finger when you get home, the least you could do is throw your damn clothes the hamper. Also she’s probably still mad about the cheating and doesn’t want to keep bringing it up but doesn’t want to let it go
My question is why doesnt she work outside the home? If she is getting benefits they also provide low cost or free daycare. I think he resents very much that she doesnt work
@@ebbyf294 she says she held her own, in the title it said she is an event planner. (She probably was not a good one based on her own wedding outcome.) When Judge Toler asked her if she brings in $$ (& owns her home- ??? is it a coop or condo because they in an apt complex???) she said yes but when he talked about jobs she said she's home. I conclude she is getting welfare, food stamps & possibly section 8 and occasionally do events. The part about the caterer makes no sense at all...raw food & venue late by 3 hours. Real catering cook food b4 offsite & bring prepared or partically prepared food then complete the heating or cooking process at the venue. Since the food was raw this prob was not a professional & since she works in the industry it doesnt add up. That sounds real racket especially if she is a event planner. Sound like they took a really cheap tacky route to get married. An event planner would have hired an event planner which if professional always a plan a, b & c in order to execute properly. If funds was low the she would have done her own event planning up to a point then designated someone reliable to coordinate everything the day of. With the 3 extra hours she could have called a neighborhood restaurant , got hot food delivered & someone run to sam, bjs or costco got appetizers, salad to stretch the food so the guests had something. Very. Very tacky.
She is so pretty. I wonder what did she see in him. His conversation is so wack, in my opinion and he was far too young for her, especially if she was as mature as she seems to be now. Divorce is horrible but I am glad they are divorcing. He needs time to do what he wants to do and get with a woman on his own level that fully understands him and will treat him like a man instead of wanting him to be who he isn't.
Now one second lemme get this straight first before I continue watching. *clears throat* she was 28 with 4 kids marrying a 22 year old? And him as young as he is.... okay back to watching.
She married a 22 year old and expected him to father her children and pay all the bills. She’s selfish and robbed this man of his youth. I can never respect a woman that dates a younger man and tries to mold him into her man slave. I hope he finds happiness.
I’m sorry. I work from home full time and we have 4 children in the home. Everyone is assigned chores including my husband and he work 16hr shifts sometimes.. he better not come throwing his work clothes everywhere. Over time that can be nerve wrecking.
I think the brother rushed the "I do" because he knew Mr. Duram's hamster wheel isn't moving...🙄 that AND they were three freaking hours late with EVERYTHING! 😡
Delusional daisies , Dis chick aint buying ur nonsense. She knows exactly why she pounced on a no experienced “Working” kid ...because behind door # 2 was the bachelor with 8kids and no roof over his head, Romeo that urgently needs a place to stay!
Ok so because you work in a warehouse that means you come home and put your clothes on my clean floors¿ it's just as easy to take them to the laundry basket or wherever it's kept. Y'all complain about coming home to a dirty house but once its clean you place it on the floor? Smh. She's has 4 kids and working from home and he feels like hers not as stressful as his. Little boy bye. I work in ac applying billboards. Don't mean because you in ac you don't sweat.
She is just insecure. Period. So what he had afro puffs or whatever. The man was working in an environment where there were "so called" beautiful women. If you feel good about yourself, you don't care what they look like. The fact that he came with some DRAMA definitely made things worse. I wish both of them well.