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I am helping this single mom of 3 kids by helping her clean her extremely cluttered bedroom. Mom suffers from ADHD and her oldest is autistic which has been a challenge. There are also other mental health challenges here as well, but Mom is in a better place, has a new job, and is making efforts to clean up her dirty and cluttered home.
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@dlsetaro
@dlsetaro Год назад
I just love how thorough you are. Like doing the laundry that she couldn’t do and getting those carpets so clean. Those are the things that really allow for a fresh start/reset-not having to worry about any hold over mess. You are amazing!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thanks so much! 😊
@marinagray3988
@marinagray3988 10 месяцев назад
I wondered about the overwhelming amount of laundry - wow! Great job!
@colinecleans
@colinecleans Год назад
Wow, you put a video up while having this busy weekend! 💪🩵 Personally I love these declutter/organizing jobs as much as cleaning! 🩵 You created a healthier home for this family!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yes, I didn't want to skip a week when I have gained so much momentum from the shout out that Mack did for me last week, so I'm trying to post a weekly video no matter what right now even if it needs to be a little shorter, like next week will probably be a little shorter. I just finished watching your video while I was waiting for all of the video that we took today to upload to my computer. Amazing job!❤️❤️
@colinecleans
@colinecleans Год назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Exciting! Oh right, that is smart thinking! 💪😉
@debby891
@debby891 Год назад
Can’t wait for the collaboration! As always, an amazing job and think it’s awesome that the homeowner is there working and chatting with you. You are so right, we all have issues or challenges to overcome whether it be being able to clean and organize, lose weight, smoking, alcohol, drugs, etc. I give the person so much credit for taking the first step and humbling themselves to ask for help, that’s huge and I so admire her for that. In this chaotic world, divided and always critical of someone for something…the world would be so much better if people would just be kind to one another❤
@lia-liz2012
@lia-liz2012 Год назад
💯 😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😊❤️🙏
@jennycurtis8724
@jennycurtis8724 Год назад
You need contractor size bags.....sorry
@robertamcclain9298
@robertamcclain9298 Год назад
Beautifully said and I wholeheartedly agree.
@cindyroberts5703
@cindyroberts5703 Год назад
This is one of my favorites with the sped up video with you narrating because it shows how much work was done. And I think I heard you say on one of your videos that you were boring, something like that, and you most definitely are not boring! You have a lovely voice and my respect for how much you helped this lady! Can’t wait to see you, Barbie and Mack clean together.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you. You're so sweet! I'm feeling a little more confident with every video.😊❤️ Me, Mack, and Barbie are having a great time!🤗
@piano3738
@piano3738 Год назад
I am so happy to have found your channel last week. You have motivated me this week to do some house cleaning and have removed 4 boxes of stuff from my house! You are doing a great service for the people you are helping. Life changing stuff. Thank you so much for your good soul!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you. I love hearing that my videos motivate people to clean and declutter, so thank you for sharing that.🥰
@RayTator
@RayTator Год назад
We all have struggles don’t judge unless you walk in their shoes. This mom needs help . And you are very kind
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much🥰
@AngusHenry09
@AngusHenry09 Год назад
We don't want Mack showing up at our house spin kicking the crap out of us !!! You, like Barbie, are so kind to these folks who need help. Am very excited about the collab.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Lol! Thanks so much!
@246lost
@246lost 10 месяцев назад
Sometimes people do need a kick in the butt in order to wake up to a situation
@linethy42
@linethy42 5 месяцев назад
@@246lostMack from Midwest Magic Cleaning only spinkick dirt not people 😊
@vickijankowski2945
@vickijankowski2945 Год назад
The fact that she could ask for help is one step forward 😊
@carolynmaves503
@carolynmaves503 Год назад
You are so patient, I would be overwhelmed tackling such a project. I admire you for helping people and being so gracious.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Why, thank you. ❤️
@elisha052550
@elisha052550 Год назад
Yes, she is a blessing
@colinecleans
@colinecleans Год назад
I smiled when you held up some treasures that you discovered in the mess. Makes it more fun! 💙😊
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😂💜👍
@dianebinns9905
@dianebinns9905 Год назад
If everyone was perfect. They wouldn't make pencils with erasers. But this helps with how to clean (if) they had a problem like this. This was so nice! If you need help. There is no shame in asking for it. Thank you for being able to help this person. Have a super day!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Very true! Thanks for sharing.😊❤️
@cathyprosser1050
@cathyprosser1050 Год назад
I'm excited to be joining you today, at the recommendation of Mack, the Midwest Magic Cleaning wiz😅! And so excited for the collaborative effort you, Barbie and Mack have taken on and anxious to see the videos you all do for us. New subscriber. Appreciate what you guys do for people for free and hopefully you are all making a positive impact on these people's lives going forward ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I'm so glad you're here! This collab has been super fun so far. Just ending day one by responding to all of these comments that came in throughout the day while I was busy cleaning. And, yes, I hope we are making a positive impact. At the very least, it positively impacts me. I feel my best when I'm helping others.🥰
@rsamom
@rsamom 8 месяцев назад
I watch a lot of these channels. The one thing none of the RU-vidrs suggest to the people they help is to have a small rubbish bin in every room. Yes even living rooms. Also a laundry bin in every bedroom and bathroom. Where the house has multiple people living or children. It helps if they gave a bin close by for rubbish and a laundry bin to put dirty clothes in as they change or unpack sports bags. It makes it easy for the people cleaning to just gather all the bins every week and throw it in the outside bin or sort some into the recycling. Just something I found works nice. Even a rubbish bin in the garage, to take rubbish out of vehicles straight away.
@cleanwithbarbie
@cleanwithbarbie Год назад
Goooo Bonnie!! Gooo! 😍😍😍😍
@lisbethkelsey6622
@lisbethkelsey6622 Год назад
I think your analogy comparing anorexia to someone not seeing this level of mess is spot on, I never thought of it that way. Also a question, I wonder if just throwing everything away on the floor wouldn't be better, although very wasteful?? I think if people haven't worn clothes/blankets in months do they even need them? To wash and put them away and keep up with them may be part of their overwhelm....Just curious. I really enjoyed this video, good luck with the collab!!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
That would have been hard for me just to throw them away, but after getting them washed quickly by taking them to the laundromat, she was able to go through them really quickly and donated a whole bunch. She still had more to sort through when I left, but she was making great progress.👍
@famlbk
@famlbk Год назад
So gratifying to see such supportive comments on this group. I am glad I found you thru Midwest Magic Cleaning!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Me too!!
@AZHITW
@AZHITW Год назад
My mother-in-law taught her boys how to take off their socks so that they were always right side out, same with T-shirt and pants. In the 44 years I was with her son I never had to turn anything right side out. WAY TO RAISE YOUR SONS Loretta! Edit: That was an amazing before and after! You're a miracle worker. Have you ever tried 20-Mule Team Borax in your carpet cleaner? That's what I used to get out stubborn stains, but my stubborn stains were way less than what's on that carpet, but it might work.
@MSHoneybee210
@MSHoneybee210 Год назад
Raising a boy I never would’ve thought of something like this to teach particularly but I probably will now 😂❤
@AZHITW
@AZHITW Год назад
@@MSHoneybee210 His future wife will thank you.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
That is definitely something you have to teach boys. My younger son always takes his clothes off to where they are inside out and it drove me crazy enough that I told him I was done doing his laundry, so he's been doing all of his own laundry the last 3 years.😄 I haven't used borax specifically for carpet stains, but I actually forgot to mention what I used to treat the stains with in this video, which was OxiClean. It worked better the second time I cleaned the carpets because I let it soak for a little bit longer.
@TRGillett
@TRGillett Год назад
​@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Agh!!! I HATE when they do that! 😖 Growing up, my dad and brother were very clean and organized. So I wasn't prepared for a husband and tween who are not. I've asked and asked and asked for them to make sure their socks are not left in a bunched up ball and for clothing to be a right-side-out before putting in the laudry. But nooooooo.... it ight last for a day or two, but that's it. 😂 But, it does takes me that much longer since I have to do that while sorting the laundry. Let's not even talk about how dirty and sweaty those sock are, too! haha (We won't even start about them leaving socks anywhere and everywhere in the house. 😂 Grrrrr!!!)
@al-ub2yl
@al-ub2yl 11 месяцев назад
I should try teach my kiddos this too. I always have to pull them the right way out to wash, then inside out to dry on the line so sun damage is limited, then pull them right way out again to fold. 😂
@dianeb411
@dianeb411 Год назад
You said it just as it is. Not everyone is the same and I know that I am becoming really tired of judgmental self righteous people .There should be more people like you as that is what we were commanded to be. Kind, loving and forgiving. Step up and offer to help someone who's brain is wired a little differently than ours. The rewards are truly amazing!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Exactly! I have been tremendously blessed by taking this approach. I just think, if all my flaws were out there for the world to see, I would love for someone to graciously accept me as I am anyway.🥰
@leem200
@leem200 Год назад
I used to help people clean when younger like this too. Also did yard work for others. Just subscribed. Wish I still could help people like that again. I watch these so I do not get like that. I am downsizing anyway and getting rid of extras. Even though my house doesn't look like this it is running over with stuff. Stuff keeps you a prisoner in your home. My house is so much easier to dust now and clean. My closets garage and sheds are overflowing with junk. I even downsized my holiday decorations, and it is freeing. instead of thanksgiving decor I just change out floral arrangements and greens, pillow covers, and throws, add a pumpkin here or there and I am loving it. Christmas, redo table tops no more than three things on table or buffet. Again, change out throws and pillow covers. Outside this year just two wreaths lighted in windows, big ones and pine fake garland on top of door with lights. Took my latter potholder off ceiling. Tired of dusting it. I took boxes of decor off walls and only have a few pieces up now. Candle sconces, metal things, cross wall, all gone. Just a picture above sofa which I change out for seasons, Fall and winter an old painting, Christmas a wreath and mirror, spring summer a floral picture. Peace! All vases stay the same accept Christmas on tables. It was fun going through stuff and getting rid of it and only buying what I really like and getting rid of the rest. Easy Peezy to keep it all clean and manageable now. I can do my whole house dust, vac, mop, glass in a few hours now.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I love this! You are exactly right! When you have too much stuff, it is like a prison. You are a slave to your things because every single item you bring into your house is one more item you have to take care of. I would much rather spend my time making fun memories than taking care of stuff. I love that you have been able to reduce down and that you found peace by doing so.🥰
@bethirwin7445
@bethirwin7445 Год назад
Glad to hear the devil worshippers from Midwest found you 😈 Can’t wait to watch the 3 of you together. Gonna get through your collab like a tornado through corn 🌪️🌪️🌪️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😄❤️👍
@jenniferknowles7219
@jenniferknowles7219 Год назад
Wow! You really know how to tackle the mess. That’s the hardest part for me is to not be overwhelmed and just do it! Thanks for the inspiration ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
🥰👍
@Lorrainecats
@Lorrainecats Год назад
With me too
@damson6981
@damson6981 Год назад
Rolled up socks drive me mad! It is gross opening out the stinky socks of another person. I probably need to speak to my family about this issue today!
@marystrenke3050
@marystrenke3050 Год назад
😅My son David's socks 🤢
@ei_maj
@ei_maj 7 месяцев назад
​@@marystrenke3050😂 i always hold my breath
@debmacie1612
@debmacie1612 Год назад
What an excellent job you did! I hope this inspires her and the kids to keep it up. ❤️
@asumner1959
@asumner1959 Год назад
Amazing transformation! That room looked like a bedroom again. I hope the resident will find it much easier to keep it tidy now.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I hope so too!
@kylaallen822
@kylaallen822 11 месяцев назад
People do not understand the mental challenges of ADHD and the fact they aren't lazy, uncaring, etc. It is literally a mind thing. They see the mess, are ashamed they can't control it and have such guilt until they click and find the thing that helps them do things like cleaning, answering texts or even brushing their teeth. I am so grateful people like you exist helping lighten their burden without being judgemental. Your videos are awesome!
@autobotdiva9268
@autobotdiva9268 9 месяцев назад
its a lack of executive function
@kylaallen822
@kylaallen822 9 месяцев назад
@autobotdiva9268 hmmmm... that could be. I'm very new to this. But how does that explain me falling asleep immediately after a strong cup of coffee?
@autobotdiva9268
@autobotdiva9268 9 месяцев назад
@@kylaallen822 1. ask dr for a micro nutrient bloodwork or basic bloodwork, you might be lacking vitamin d3, b12? try google nest or alexa in your bedroom, livingroom and kitchen (i know its extra) and google calendar or apple? 2. you need 6 cleaning bathroom supplies in a clear tote: spic n span or whatver you like, awesome, fabuloso; comet cleanser or bar keepers; windex; toilet bowl cleaner; paper towels; gloves. 3. coffee wont probably wont help you as you thrive on dopamine. set a 10-20 minute timer for household tasks. 4. minimalism is a MUST. 5. try loop earbuds #adhdadvocate #dysgraphiaadvocate #dyspraxiaadvocate
@Magdalena287
@Magdalena287 9 месяцев назад
If she can pay her bills and go out and buy all this junk she can clean up, I think a lot of people have too many excuses. My brother had paranoid schizophrenia and could keep his room clean
@autobotdiva9268
@autobotdiva9268 9 месяцев назад
@@Magdalena287 he had schizophrenia? when was it cured?
@wingingitsemiretiredlife2981
My tip and it may not be for everyone I always buy the same socks. The time this saves is absolutely worth not having fun socks. I suggest everyone try it and they will thank me.
@suewright984
@suewright984 Год назад
I’ve seen others do that. Good idea.
@lgibson0515
@lgibson0515 Год назад
1. Wow!? Wasnt expecting a video with busy schedule with the upcoming collaboration!! 2. Going above & beyond!! Shampoo and doing her laundry!! 3. Wow, people....?!? "Ye without sin, cast the 1st stone "..." walk a mile in their shoes "!!?? Why must be haters!!!?? Incredible job!! Sooo satisfying!! Safe travels, have fun: and cant wait for the next videos!! God bless 🎉❤🎉❤ Be safe!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yes, I felt I still needed to do a video since my channel is still fairly new and I don't want to upset the algorithm by missing a week... haha! And, yeah, I cannot believe the amount of super judgmental comments on last week's video when I really hadn't even told much of this person's story. Sad that people feel like they need to dump all their judgments on the very people who need acceptance and love in order to make any changes. Thank you for your kindness!🥰
@RoxannaNeeley
@RoxannaNeeley Год назад
I truly understand the struggle with clutter.. I have realized that it is not all my stuff but, the soon to be ex has put the organization and the storage of everyones belongings on my shoulders. I am looking forward to a new beginning, watching your videos gives me hope, thank you.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
🥰🙏
@lenac7671
@lenac7671 Год назад
Oh wow, that’s an incredible transformation! Thanks for helping her.
@christawe1876
@christawe1876 Год назад
Great, that you’re doing the laundry as well. Obviously this is often something the owner is overwhelmed with
@erinmaclean5064
@erinmaclean5064 Год назад
ADHD come with side effects of depression and anxiety. Folks adapt to living like that, and it becomes their norm. If one of her kids left the waffle in there, it could easily go unnoticed. There's also the anxiety of the mess that causes us to just put our heads down, slap on a pair of imaginary blinders, and scurry past without really looking at the chaos. It also, personally, makes me feel ill to know that I am the cause of such a situation and that I'm unable to remedy it. It makes me feel weak, broken, etc... It's a vicious cycle. The clutter grows like a tornado sucking up more and more debris. So thanks for helping those of us who can't always help ourselves 💕
@sunnihunny
@sunnihunny Год назад
Me .
@Lorrainecats
@Lorrainecats Год назад
Accurate assessment 👏
@HobbitBroad
@HobbitBroad 9 месяцев назад
Well said ✨💖✨
@marystrenke3050
@marystrenke3050 Год назад
Excellent commentary!!! So enjoyable and I loved the reminder about each one of us having an issue with something
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977
@eyrunsigrunardottir6977 Год назад
I was so happy when you said you were taking all the clothes to the laundromat! Otherwise it never would have been done and sorted, it was too much. What a great job you did in this home 😃 Bon voyage, looking forward to see all of your videos from the collaboration!
@barbarapratt5682
@barbarapratt5682 Год назад
What a fabulous before and after! I’m so happy she was able to do some laundry and declutter on her own! Looking forward to the collaboration!
@sarahb3606
@sarahb3606 Год назад
So satisfying to watch the transformation, you did an amazing job Bonnie!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!
@KristieFallwell
@KristieFallwell 11 месяцев назад
I totally understand this woman and her problems. I don't have kids, but I married extreme ADHD and he keeps me on my toes. Thank God I have a biweekly house cleaner. :)
@Zia_Kristin
@Zia_Kristin Год назад
You are doing an amazing job for these people that are so overwhelmed!
@tonyaclaxton4925
@tonyaclaxton4925 Год назад
I’m so excited for your calibration with Mack and Barbie. This was a lot of work wow!. Those ppl who complain don’t mind watching lol. Can’t make some ppl happy. This video was so satisfying. I’m glad you helped this family. Some ppl just need a little push. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!! You're right. Some people will find something to complain about no matter what. Thank you for being one of the kind ones.😊❤️
@rg-mi5hh
@rg-mi5hh Год назад
What a refreshing difference! The clutter makes me claustrophobic.
@hurleynoelle
@hurleynoelle 9 месяцев назад
One of the best ideas I ever heard about saving kids' schoolwork is to hang it on your refrigerator and take a picture of it all. Then you can throw out the "paper" but keep the memories
@bernicehoggsfav
@bernicehoggsfav 8 месяцев назад
The thing that really shines through in your videos is your sincere kindness. So glad I found you via Midwest Magic Cleaning!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 8 месяцев назад
Oh thank you!🥰🙏
@brendaturpen9336
@brendaturpen9336 Год назад
I’m so happy you put this up to tide us over during The Big Clean! You’re the best! Oh, I’ve watched to the end now. Incredible job! I know she’s happier now.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yay! Thank you for watching!😊❤️
@genwhite1175
@genwhite1175 Год назад
Wow, what an incredible difference. I hope the lovely, tidy, roomy bedroom she now has will help her to feel calm and relaxed when she is in there. Our bedroom can really be our retreat and this is lovely now. I am amazed at how well the carpet came up. It must feel so good to know all that dirt is gone!
@lisabee2314
@lisabee2314 Год назад
Wow! What a difference you made! Such a satisfying transformation! The wardrobe the home owner worked on looked amazing too! Thanks so much for helping this lady 🙂👍
@MsArtistwannabe
@MsArtistwannabe Год назад
You’re a blessing for this mom and her family. Created a little sanctuary for her.
@HobbitBroad
@HobbitBroad 9 месяцев назад
She did a great job on the closet. Sometimes it just takes a little bit of guidance especially with ADHD and that makes all the difference in the world.
@micheleforman
@micheleforman Год назад
Wasn’t this particular video but the music no matter what type is a NO for me!!! I turn it off immediately !!!! Just talk to me so I can clean as you talk, PLEASE
@bonniewinninger4896
@bonniewinninger4896 Год назад
I,m a member of Mack’s channel, and I’m so glad he sent me to you. Suck it! I can’t wait for the collaboration, and future adventures with you!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Awww...thanks so much! I will suck it!😄❤️
@FischerNadia
@FischerNadia Год назад
Between, my youngest daughter is just like this. Usually I clean up her room before she is here and when she leaves again, her room looks like a bomb blew up 😂 I am so thankfull I put hard wood floor in that room. So much faster to clean and wash it 😅
@jennifermanian1420
@jennifermanian1420 Год назад
Love yourvlogs. It inspires me to keep cleaning when I really dont want to.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I'm so glad!💜
@nancythomas1954
@nancythomas1954 Год назад
That is a big difference!! wow! I don't know about anyone else but my mom raised me with this"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all" And that is how I raised my kids, who raised their kids. Like you said " You don't know all the facts" I hope you have fun with Mack and Barbie, I am looking forward to watching from all of you how it goes. 😁 Have a safe journey!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Right?! It's just so crazy to me that grown adults can still be so mean. Thank you for your comment. I'm having a blast with Mack and Barbie!
@patwyatt7776
@patwyatt7776 Год назад
You did an amazing job on the carpets. We used to have Berber carpet and it wears like heaven, but it stains like hell. I always had to clean it with sudsing ammonia. But it does take it up. That’ll be some thing you can think about. I’m so glad the lady ask you for help. I have a daughter that needs help terribly but her husband won’t let me come in. So when he starts a new job… I will be there to help her go through things and get it under control.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you for the tip about the sudsing ammonia. And I hope you are able to make some headway with your daughter's home!🙏
@patwyatt7776
@patwyatt7776 Год назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp make sure you wear a mask or work in a well ventilated area. The ammonia can be very overwhelming. But it is amazing how much it can clean. It’s also great on porcelain tubs
@jackieokcal4888
@jackieokcal4888 Год назад
How about socks that are still balled up and still in the trouser leg?!?!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yep, have had that too!😂
@salscycleshop3416
@salscycleshop3416 Год назад
You're so right about everybody needing more grace and to show more grace towards others. Also Mack says " Suck It". Great job 👍
@andreav9811
@andreav9811 Год назад
Kuddos to this mom for reaching out for help. She is actually setting a good example for those kiddos - we ALL need help from time to time. Sounds like she could use the help of a professional organizer after you’re gone but not sure how much they cost 😬
@AZHITW
@AZHITW Год назад
I checked in my area once and they ranged from $35-$75 an hour, but that was a few years ago. I wasn't really looking for an organizer I was trying to figure out what I could charge to organize other's homes. After watching RU-vid videos, I realized some homes were way beyond what I was willing to organize.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yes, she definitely would benefit from a professional organizer. I actually would love to spend a few more weeks at this house just getting it in order. Unfortunately, because of her ADHD and having some anxiety about some of the big changes, she asked if we could just be done after I cleaned the kitchen and her bedroom and bathroom. She was very appreciative for the help, but she was starting to feel overwhelmed with all of the changes, which I can kind of understand. It is a lot all at once. She was actually making some good progress on her own though, so I'm hopeful that she will continue decluttering at the very least. I'm going to reach out to her again in a couple of months and see if she needs more help.
@GinaOhNo
@GinaOhNo Год назад
Yup, a “professional organizer”. That’s the only thing she needs….. That will fix everything. 👍
@rredpenn2029
@rredpenn2029 Год назад
Oh wow Bonnie! That was so satisfying! Thanks for that one, and what perfect timing. I didn't know how I'd get through my weekend while you and Barbie and Mack were all off having fun together. LOL Super excited to see what you guys can do together, and watching your channels all grow.
@lia-liz2012
@lia-liz2012 Год назад
Same
@debrawichmann5152
@debrawichmann5152 Год назад
Super job Bonnie! There needs to be rules, no eating in rooms other than the kitchen #1. Too much stuff. Like you said there's underlying issues at play here. When you have ADHD the amount of stuff you have needs to be limited...less stuff = less stress! Plus having organized places to put things, a list of chores to accomplish everyday so things stay organized. Children need to be taught these things. My guess is this Mom gives in to the children whenever they throw a fit. Being a single parent makes everything more difficult. Making chores fun by dancing and singing with a song helps. Thanks for helping this Mom get to a point of organized in this room. Now rules and chores lists need to be made. Perhaps some family therapy would help also.
@jeannieelliott8519
@jeannieelliott8519 Год назад
That was a hard one. But u made it 2 the finale. U r one hard worker. 😅Your Oregon Viewer.
@sharonhughes588
@sharonhughes588 Год назад
My husband, of over 52 years, STILL throws rolled up socks in the hamper! He has had triple bypass surgery, and he had a light stroke this past May. I try, very hard, to remember how glad I am to have him still with me so that I don't nag.....much. Oh, but when we were younger and our two boys were at home.....I could NAG!!! LOL
@suewright984
@suewright984 Год назад
I empathize. My husband of 49 years no longer can put his own socks and shoes on. So I make sure they’re not balled up when I put them in the laundry! And yes, I’m thankful he is still here (Vietnam Vet sprayed with Agent Orange. Has had cancer 5 times. As he says, still kickin’ but not too high 😅)
@sabbys7750
@sabbys7750 Год назад
New subscriber!! Came over from Mack's channel!! 🙌🙌🙌 I can't wait to see the collab video!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Welcome!! Thanks for being here!
@niksand1713
@niksand1713 Год назад
I hate the sock donuts! My husband is bad about it! Of course he doesn’t do his laundry.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Sock donuts...LOL! Love it!
@federicamanfroi
@federicamanfroi 9 месяцев назад
Mack? You mean "Spin-kick The-Damn-Clutter- Johnny-So-They-Call-Me"?
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
The one and only...🤣🤣
@LC-38338
@LC-38338 Год назад
amazing clean up job!!! I can't believe you even did laundry AND carpet cleaning.! wow. That is above and beyond!!!♥♥♥♥
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I love both of those things, so it was no problem.😁👍
@heatherakagamermom7790
@heatherakagamermom7790 Год назад
Don’t sweat the things you are missing. If he does find the footage you can make some short videos for RU-vid. Or are they called Shorts? You are doing awesome. I’m so excited about the collab. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yes, they are called shorts. He was able to recover one of the files so far, but it was the one that I wanted the most, 🤗so I will probably just add it into my next video which is still of the same house.
@melaniehutchinson5306
@melaniehutchinson5306 Год назад
Amazing Bonnie! Enjoying your videos a lot. Best of luck this week with your collab.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!❤️❤️
@trishb6895
@trishb6895 Год назад
Hello I’m here from Midwest magic cleaning so suck it lol.
@trishb6895
@trishb6895 Год назад
This video reminds me of times over the years helping some of my kids clean their rooms. and I remember having to shake crumbs out of the clothes. That wasn’t fun. But always so satisfying when done.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Oh Mack...LOL! He's a funny guy.
@ItzMzJulez2U
@ItzMzJulez2U Год назад
What a nice surprise, a video from you as you’re getting ready to travel for the collab. Hope everyone arrived safe (NYC looked bad with the flood…poor Barbie) and became fast friends! ❤️ …Jules in OK🙂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
It has been so fun to meet both Barbie and Mack in person. Barbie is so much smaller than I thought she would be and Mack is so much taller in real life. It's pretty amazing that this is finally happening! We are having a lot of fun and we will be doing a live together on Mack's channel tomorrow night. So excited for that!🤗
@ItzMzJulez2U
@ItzMzJulez2U Год назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp I hope someone gets a pic of Barbie & Mac together!!😉 Thx, will look forward to seeing you all together in the livestream! Enjoy your stay!❤️
@al-ub2yl
@al-ub2yl 11 месяцев назад
I have a little unsolicited advice about the home owner asking for the breaks/a stop. I also have ADHD, and would be extremely overwhelmed with this transformation. It's wonderful, don't get me wrong, I'd be so happy, but it would also be stressful. Something that could help would be to make a map of the room, and list where everything is? Or spend an hour going over where everything has been put, and maybe reorganise with the homeowner for how they actually use the space (it's not going to be typical) if it is "wrong" for them. Labels on the cupboards, and draws would also be helpful for the initial period when they are relearning their space. With ADHD if things are behind doors, they almost do not exist anymore, it's not quite a lack of object permanence, but it's close. We only look for things when we need them NOW, and get distracted so it's important we know where things are because I know at least I personally flip out and meltdown if I can't find it right away. Spending that hour showing where everything is will help give people a rough idea where to start looking. We also need things right where you use them. Because we tend to not be able to organise everything we need to finish a "project" if things aren't where we need to use them, it's a lot of walking back and forth to go get that thing as it comes up. (an example from my life is that I will frequently go to the car, then realise I need keys, so go back inside and get my keys. Then I might go shopping because that was the goal, but realise at the checkout that I didn't bring my wallet because I didn't think about that part of shopping until I reached the till. My grocery store knows my face, and just points to where I can store my trolley to run home to get my wallet, because they are so use to me doing it.) Also if it's possible to slow down the process, I know you can't just go for an hour or two each day so the change is a little more gradual, but if it can be spread out a little more that might be helpful. I know once those rooms are done, I'm going to be trying my hardest to keep on top of them. And it may be too much to have three rooms to suddenly try and keep on top of all at once, and the feeling of "failure" may be overwhelming (even if there wasn't also three children to care for, at least one with additional needs (ADHD is genetic, as is autism), and a job on top, it's a LOT! Hats off to the home owner!!). Plus knowing that cruel people will be judging. I'd love to see you and the homeowner be able to work on this house more together, but for now, I can see why the breaks were needed. But also want to thank you so much for helping this family out so much. ❤
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 месяцев назад
Thank you for your "unsolicited advice."😜 It is helpful to get perspective from other people who also have the same struggles. I've been learning a lot more recently about all of this and I'm understanding it a little better. I do hope that with a little break, she will be able to allow me to continue to help her. Of course, I really hope that she can just do this on her own, but it sounds like with the ADHD there are a lot of good intentions that never come to fruition, so I will gladly help her again if she will have me back.🥰
@debralaforest9274
@debralaforest9274 Год назад
Thank you so much for giving us a video before the collab! I can’t wait to see you and Mack and Barbie together.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
You bet. I couldn't lose the momentum that my channel has gained since Mack has been promoting it. Just ended our first day together on the collab. They are both amazing people. We are having a lot of fun!
@alwaysthesleepless1
@alwaysthesleepless1 Месяц назад
I am always impressed by the work you do. There were so many clothes, I hope the lady made space for some of them. My mother had a wardrobe full of clother (she was a hoarder) she had put another cupboard infront of it for 30 years. When we cleaned the house after she passed away it took us 8 days. We gave 17 car trailer loads to the charity shop. Some said no because of the sheer volume. Keep up the good work
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Месяц назад
Hoarding disorder really breaks my heart.😔
@rocky6055
@rocky6055 Год назад
I found you way before Mack did (suck it anyways)! Number 10 on the "likes." Can't wait for your collab!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😂❤️
@JJ-nn9de
@JJ-nn9de Год назад
When you showed that antique waffle in the laundry basket I said "Dammm girl" lol. It happens though, I get it. Awesome job!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😄❤️
@megwolff58
@megwolff58 Год назад
Another astounding job! This lady is so lucky to have your hard work, example and supportive presence. She really made a lot of progress on her wardrobe.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!
@kathryntitus9647
@kathryntitus9647 Год назад
I thought you'd like to know that for some reason when I watch one of your videos, I cannot go back later and find it in my RU-vid history. I imagine this might affect your analytics in some way, you might need to get RU-vid to fix this issue. 🙏 All of the other channels I follow, even the ones I don't follow it will show up in my history. I'm really looking forward to your collaboration with Mack and Barbie!💚
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
That's really strange. Thank you for taking the time to share that with me. I'll have to look into that further and see what the deal is.
@Arleen1010
@Arleen1010 Год назад
Awesome. You are an angel blessing this mama. Loved the video.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!
@CynM.
@CynM. Год назад
I was subscribed to Mack but I found you separately from him. Then when he said you guys were getting together I was excited. Can't wait to see you all together. Oh and suck it.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😄❤️👍
@tammyrouse7422
@tammyrouse7422 Год назад
that is what you call a transformation. Carpet looks great. Can not wait for the collab. Great job Love Your Channel
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you! 🤗
@valentina...6537
@valentina...6537 Год назад
Can't wait for the collaboration! Find your channel through Midwest magic cleaning, so suck it😅
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😄❤️
@susanrascone2098
@susanrascone2098 Год назад
Amazing job. Well done! Whatever you used on the stains worked really well.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I realized I forgot to mention what I used on the stains. It was OxiClean mostly, but also some hydrogen peroxide on a few of them as well.
@josephdaly2015
@josephdaly2015 11 месяцев назад
Well done on another fantastic job. This lady was brave to ask for help and she did great on the closet too. Oh the rolled up socks 😵‍💫😮‍💨 Fantastic to see all the donations too. Have a fantastic week. Mary, Joes wife 🙇‍♀️👏💪👍🙏
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 11 месяцев назад
Thank you so much, Mary! Hope you have a fantastic week as well!❤️
@lisabee2314
@lisabee2314 Год назад
Love the scrubbing sounds when you're cleaning the carpet stains! 🙂
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😊❤️👍
@neesr13
@neesr13 Год назад
While I don't have children, I do have a husband (for whom his mother did everything) whom I am teaching how to shop, clean and do laundry, as I am 10 years older. I suffer from a consistently messy home, but it is because I have so many projects and their supplies and they have taken over my life. Twice hubby "cleaned" my areas, and nearly died/received a divorce because of it. I spent good money to build a studio to help clear the house of most of my overflow, but I will never be a neat person. I am clean, but overloaded with stuff. I have depression, ADHD and a need to create. Hopefully, I will live long enough to leave behind pretty things, artfully speaking. Hopefully hubby will live long enough to bury me. LOL
@lorikruse4565
@lorikruse4565 Год назад
That was amazing!!!!! Great job!!!! A fresh start for her and her family!! Loved it!!! People need to be more kind and yes have grace! Looking forward to the collaboration!!!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!!
@lindaandersen3289
@lindaandersen3289 Год назад
The collaboration will be great!!! Love your videos ♥️
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yay! Thank you!
@terrirouleau4758
@terrirouleau4758 Год назад
Such a big room. The carpet really looks good.❤🇨🇦
@lorenewhite8985
@lorenewhite8985 Год назад
Going to the laundromat was the best idea ever.
@adrienel6600
@adrienel6600 Год назад
I can’t wait to see the colab, it’s going to be epic I’m sure
@DVD927
@DVD927 Год назад
I’m so looking forward to that too!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
It has been a fun first day together. Both Mack and Barbie are amazing people!
@reginapatriot5468
@reginapatriot5468 11 месяцев назад
Beautifully done!! Learning SO much from you, Mac, & Barbie 😊 Thanks!!!
@sandicarter6370
@sandicarter6370 Год назад
I'm really looking forward to the collab. What a great team you three are.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
🤗❤️
@robynburns2375
@robynburns2375 Год назад
We all are in need of grace, for sure. Passing judgement does nothing to encourage growth. Thank you!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
😊👍
@happyinharned9583
@happyinharned9583 Год назад
my my my...thats wonderful work to help this mom. i dont get the part of saving clothes from the floor. She hasnt needed them, she didnt know hat was there....i just feel it puts a new burden on her to have that huge laundry chore....i would have her agree to throw all away....they had clothes to wear. what they needed she could by new. just a suggestion. you did a fine job. best of luck to mom.
@hollyjobitner3285
@hollyjobitner3285 Год назад
I disagree with this point. Clothes can always be washed and maybe passed on to another child. Wasteful in my book. I realize it’s a lot of work. I don’t mean to be disrespectful. 💙
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I get your point of not really needing the clothes since they obviously haven't needed them up to this point. But I also agree with Holly that they can definitely be passed on to other people who could use them after they have been washed. Which is why I made the washing of them a lot easier by taking it to the laundromat and just getting most of it done at once. She sorted through them pretty quickly the next day and got rid of a ton of clothes. 🤗
@hollyjobitner3285
@hollyjobitner3285 Год назад
@@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp Thanks for going the extra mile to wash all the clothes and especially the socks. Do you ever do other people’s laundry at your home? I would think it would depend on the potential bug infection. I have a big washer and dryer. It would certainly be cheaper. 💙
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I have only done that for my good friend who is going through some tough stuff and got way behind on laundry. In this case, I just knew it would be faster to just get it all washed at once. I had to take my husband in for a colonoscopy that same morning, so I didn't have a lot of time to babysit laundry. It was worth the $25 to just get it all done so quickly. 😊
@dianethompson2458
@dianethompson2458 Год назад
Thanks for this great episode. You did a great job. As far as art and stories go, I took pictures all the art and kept it on a USB stick. I kept the stories because they are so cute!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thanks for sharing!
@jennah6673
@jennah6673 Год назад
I'm so glad the owner was there cleaning with you. It shows commitment to keeping the house clean.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Yes, I'm trying to require this of them for at least one of the days I am working there. But I understand sometimes they can't get work off or can only work with me for a few hours. That's fine as long as I feel like they are trying.
@shannonmcrae1364
@shannonmcrae1364 Год назад
Are they able to keep their house clean after you help them? How long had they been living with this mess? I am hoping this has been a huge blessing for this person!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
I don't always know if they are able to keep it clean after I help them. There was one house I went back to about a month after I had cleaned it because I had given them some assignments of things I would love to see happen because they were very open to learning new habits and cleaning stuff on their own, so I was super happy to come back after a month and see that they had, not only kept it up, but had in fact cleaned up quite a bit more. The only other house that I have gone back to after I have cleaned it is actually the very first home that I featured on this channel. It's all kind of a long story and is explained in the videos as to why I went back to help, but she has been amazing with cleaning right along with me and is in a much better mental space to deal with the Clutter, get rid of it, and move forward with better habits. Most of the others I have not checked back in with, but there are a couple I would love to contact to see how things are going and, if they have shown some progress on their own, but still need a little more help, I'm happy to help them again. I've only been doing this a little less than 5 months so I haven't had much of an opportunity to see how these homes look after a period of time.
@KelleeYouPersonalOracle
@KelleeYouPersonalOracle Год назад
You’re one heck of a lady to help out like that!
@jenndpbudgets
@jenndpbudgets 9 месяцев назад
You’re such a saint for helping people deep clean with no judgement. You do such an amazing job. I watched your video of doing I believe Mira’s house and it was like night and day with the difference before and after.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp 9 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!
@jenndpbudgets
@jenndpbudgets 9 месяцев назад
You’re welcome. As someone who struggles with cleaning at times you’re such a great person
@lindamiller1945
@lindamiller1945 Год назад
Awesome transformation. You did a great job,
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you! 🤗
@sewinggrandma1961
@sewinggrandma1961 Год назад
The room looked amazing when you were done. I am sure she felt so grateful to you. It looked so peaceful.
@pamelamueller538
@pamelamueller538 Год назад
You did an amazing job! I am sure that you have given this mom a fresh start and I am sure she is grateful!
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you so much!
@LisaAnnSpencer
@LisaAnnSpencer Год назад
Hi, I've been watching for a while, but I decided to drop a comment today! I do watch Midwest Magic Cleaning too. How cool that you are going to collaborate with him and Barbie. Have fun! I homeschooled my 6 children. I would be buried in paperwork if I kept anything. I only kept exceptionally beautiful art. I have a large portfolio filled with their artwork.
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thanks for commenting. I'm so glad you have found a way to manage School work.🤗❤️
@grannyboo2823
@grannyboo2823 Год назад
Amazing transformation !
@ABeautifulMessExtremeCle-zl1wp
Thank you!!
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