The smoker door color before being cleaned is so nostalgic to me Like it makes me think of the maroon painted walls with very dark oak window sills with dark beige blinds with dark lighting in the summer with everything having that color tint, good times😌, seeing that color as a tint made me happy😊 Reply if u feel the same
Yeah my wife is the cook here and I try to do the related cleaning to balance it out. I do like the image of penguin pebble passing and will use it myself - thank you!
@@Modest_disaster72yes it is! The penguin, specifically the males, actually gives the female pretty pebble much like a ring to us humans. The female rejects the male if she thinks the given pebbles are ugly to her
Not really split. The effort it takes to cook is nothing compared to cleaning? She tries to justify it by saying he's working for hours, but we all know that's not how it works
@@kinggl0ver9It all depends on the person. The same task can seem like different levels of effort for different people. For you it may not take much effort, but for others, it does. As long as they feel the effort is a fair exchange, and they aren’t pushing it onto others, no one really has a right to say they are wrong because we aren’t them to know what works best for them.
my first thought was “why is he complaining to her about his appliances?” but after what she said, that’s such a mature and thoughtful way to be. i’m glad i watched this !
Yep, not many men love to cook like that, so if I was getting spoiled with food and briskets and who knows what else all the time, I could see the appeal. It does also remind me however if that episode of south park where Randy cooks huge extravagant meals and leaves his wife to clean the whole kitchen😂 Not the same, but that's where my mind went until she explained their dynamic😂❤
@@heehoopeanut420imagine your husband cooking a gourmet breakfast, leaving you with 2 hours worth of cleaning, just for your kids to ask for a pop tart
Literally so grateful my boyfriend is the chef in our relationship, I will simply not eat if it’s too much hassle to pick or to cook so him and my grandmother keep me alive 🤣
Almost complained about Sam not doing his own cleaning on his own equipment until I realized he had a great woman in his life who recognizes the exchanges as acts of service to each other. Good stuff
@@Hi_JessHereit’s golden hour somewhere is AWESOME- and i don’t wanna start drama but why don’t you support em? (i understand some upsetness toward will but not the rest of the band)
@rockintalkin3363 Ehh there was also some drama where a girl on tiktok came out about her experience meeting Lovejoy and it's all just iffy so I'm just staying out of it ig
When I read the title, "...the smoker door" I thought you were cleaning the door in the house where a smoker lived. Imagine my surprise when I clicked to see what you were talking about. LOL
When my roommate moved in, he had a $300+ Breville Toaster oven with a completely opaque window. That man hadn't even finished moving the furniture in when I was slathering that glass in oven cleaner 😂 he was shocked when I showed him the perfect glass afterwards. 😂😂🎉
wow, what a great relationship. best relationships are where both sides feel like they’re winning and i think that’s the case here. he’s lucky to have you and youre lucky to have him
@@H45556if a man ordered me to clean anything, I'd tell him to do it himself or pack his bags. Ordering woman around like house maids isn't "a healthy relationship"
It’s so nice hearing couples with healthy dynamics, I’m glad you guys share tasks like cooking and cleaning It’s not a bad thing if one person in the household does the cooking and cleaning, but I feel like there should be a healthy balance between the two
Probably not.. as an avid smoker myself that layer is called “seasoning” just like when you season your griddle or a cast iron skillet. Probably took a couple sessions to get it seasoned with all the smoke and she pretty much destroyed that layer with all the chemicals
A couple who splits the work like this is honestly my goals😂😂 I absolutely love cooking especially for others so if you could clean for me and I cook I will be in the most loyal trustworthy protective husband I could ever be😂😂 I just can't stand washing dishes or cleaning in general, I'll cut the whole yard I'll landscape the yard and make a flower bed or whatever you want take out the trash cook all the food and take all the kids to any of their events just not to clean. I will wash and fold the clothing though😂 Like doing it while I watch TV or play video games😅
I did some googling about the “lyric” difference- it looks like “I won’t announce my descent into madness, but there will be signs” is a meme. Wonder if Lovejoy played off of it- surely they did.
Did I just make the song of the summer? Made by yours truly, George Cooper. Soft brisket warm brisket little ball of herbs, happy brisket sleepy brisket rub rub rub
"Ugh, my wife was complaining about dirty dishes after hours of cooking for me. Why can't she just cook *AND* clean for me!?" Same vibe roles reversed. You're probably only complaining cause it's a man.
To be fair.....that 'hours of cooking'....is just alot of waiting for the smoker to do it's thing. So, he's really spending minutes of cooking in trade for minutes of cleaning. Like, obviously whatever works for you guys, but don't let these Smoker Bros gaslight you like that. 🤣
I was gonna say the same😂 Idk, my bfs dad stresses out so bad like he's doing brain surgery when he has his meat in the smoker, so maybe that adds to it.
Doesn’t she literally say she likes cleaning, it’s her love language and that she does it so Sam cooks for her. Not specifically smoking but cooking in general
It's gross the amount of people complaining. Imagine if the roles were reversed and you told your wife who spent all the hours prepping, cooking, and serving you delicious food, "Ugh, why do I have to clean the dishes!? You bought them!!! Why can't you just cook *AND* clean!?" Maybe because they aren't your servant. It doesn't matter whose cooking appliance it is, just because my partner owns a pot doesn't mean I don't clean it after they cook for me. That's not how a relationship works. You're not going to request food, be fed, enjoy an amazing meal and then have the *NERVE* to complain when you have to clean the thing they used. You're their partner, not their guest, and they aren't there to be your servant. *Period.*
I think it is more about this door being this dirty because it is never cleaned after cooking. If you divide the Tasks into cooking and cleaning then the Person who cooks should Not create utter Chaos 😂 Wipe the door quickly after cooking, then there will be less build Up. If one Person uses all Kirchen appliances, Pans and dishes then the other Person will Not be Happy about cleaning ;) And yeah i agree with you, dividing tasks so both are Happy is absolutely fine!! But cooking a brisket for 14 hours is Not 14 hours Work 😂 Seeing this Video critically is the fear that other men will watch it and assume that their Partners will Love the Same chore divide. But many women prefer a more balanced divide. Because e.g. for me cleaning is boring and tiring, Same as for my Partner. So we both need to do it. But yeah No hate to the Video, Just trying to explain some of the sceptic reactions.
@@TheSarahskaninchen First, the specific reactions are in reality just the same people who hate seeing happy couples. It's an internet phenomenon. Second, 14 hours of cooking is still effort put towards his responsibility, to do the cooking. Just like how her responsibility is to do the cleaning. Third, what they demonstrated is the ability to communicate. Which hopefully, other couples can figure out when they talk about a chore divide. Lastly, the reason it was so dirty wasn't because he "created utter chaos" but was because she hadn't been keeping up with cleaning it. Her failure to do so is what made the mess, not him.
@@terriblebats7425so basically.... Like saying Saying. Your wife prep's and cooks a nice meal for you to enjoy and then tell her basically to clean the dishes too... Wow.
It's called splitting up work. She already brought up the minutes she takes to clean compared to the hours he takes to cook things for her. Imagine if the roles were reversed and you were basically saying "Ugh, why doesn't the woman cook *AND* clean!?!?"
I throughly enjoy watching you clean, but please slow it down. You could do projects for hours and I would be glued to my IPad watching you with glee and new motivation. I like to sew during cleaning shows. I’m a multitasker. Thanks so much! 💙
Just like me fr doesn't matter what im cooking i Just have to see it cooking if I can't see it I'll complain about it 😂 which reminds me of how just three weeks ago i was complaining to my grandma when the oven light didn't come on fast enough when i was cooking pizza 😭
