Any human being with at least subpar social awareness can see that the boyfriend is working in the wrong field. He’s a narcissist. What kind of human cheats, preys on his clients, and then smiles at the man he’s affecting.
Yep you nailed it! Oh and to the person that commented about the other guy getting on a treadmill, well in the update these two are happily together. They both went to the counseling programs and wanted to be together. Charles also lost 60lbs! Oh and I loved when the girl said that her relationship with the counselor guy was not a relationship, cause the look on his face said it all, he was butthurt 😂
@Elisa Marie Else Not really a,' poor guy', if you watch more of him; he's abused his wife for years, she's tried to leave him 19 times, and they have only been intimate once. That's not a marriage.
Luckily they ended up staying together! They both went to counseling programs and seem happy as ever now being together. Dr Phil has an update video on them! Oh and the man lost 60lbs! He also then proposes to her on that update video on the Dr Phil stage!
Now I’ll admit that the laughing and mocking was totally uncalled for and incredibly rude, BUT we all have to agree that that guy’s cry was HILARIOUS oml
@@michaelavanduesen You're correct, Thank you, I don't know how I missed the other clips. 😦 This story is just sad. Her husband needs help. But, she needs to stay away from the other guy as well.
That’s two u healthy people in a unhealthy relationship being taken advantage of by that rabbi. I cannot stand when people use there religion as excuse for there choices. Ole boy will definitely be let go by his rabbi.
Well I honestly think hes a simp. He could have had a bunch of women during the twelve years or at least found one that was better than this lady... smh
@47 E.B.O Well, doesn't help when one partner abuses the other, as this woman claims he has done to her for a decade. That's usually going to result in cheating and/or loss of connection. He's definitely deluded for thinking they can still make it work, but as you said, it takes two, and neither one did anything good for the marriage.
Y'all need to watch the whole thing. The dude laughing is a jerk, but the crying husband was physically abusive. So I had little sympathy for his crocodile tears too
I'm sure the laughing was involuntary. So a bit ridiculous to call him a jerk. Someone crying with a fucking quiver in their voice would trigger many people beyond their control.
@@WaterspoutsOfTheDeep yes, it would trigger many people with very little empathy beyond their control. I can tell you what's ridiculous though- someone whose profession is a counselor laughing at the situation- that's ridiculous. And he wasn't just laughing, he was smiling which, unless you are mentally disabled, yeah, I'm pretty sure anyone can control.
My brother end up sleeping with his councillor when he was in rehab he got chucked out and she got sacked, he stayed with her for 10 year she kept him clean a long time
Your 10year statement seems like it didn't go any further than that. Did she leave ? Did he leave? Was the result of him getting clean the cause of their separation? I am happy for your brother of his turn around and hope it is continuing that way. All the best.
Anybody who’s been in an abusive relationship with a manipulative person knows those tears weren’t genuine especially after everything he did to that poor woman. And that other guy isn’t any better. Reminds me of when I finally left my abuser and he cried wolf to everybody saying I made everything up after he got arrested and put in jail.
It was messed up he laughed about it but when he said i dont have to like it do i i couldn’t control my emotions😅 . But yea i know the pain it took me about 4 years to get over someone i dated a year i loved her so much but she never loved me in fact she cheated. Now im talking to an amazing beautiful girl we have our problems like a lot of them but were trying to work them out
This is the most dysfunctional relationship I’ve ever seen. They’ve been together 12 years and had sex once, She’s left him 19 times, then she hooked up with her counselor at the church. At first I didn’t like her husband because they made him seem like an abusive piece of shit. And then when I saw the whole story and I see the pain he is in. I quickly changed my mind that the counselor is the bad guy. He intervened in a situation that needed to be handled between themselves first.
They’re both pretty awful. He acknowledges mistreating her, and she acknowledges cheating on him (obviously) with a narcissistic “counselor”. I hope they’ve both moved forward in a positive direction
This reminds me of my girlfriend, her ex was a waste of space who used her and controlled her into staying with him she was so desperate to be loved she stayed but he didnt change she just wanted to have and be loved but she couldn't they broke up a bunch, her ex was one of my "friends" (we call him d***head) he put her through so much she was diagnosed wuth deppression and eventually she broke up with him and a year later i contacted her and showed her she can be loved by someone, iv been with her for a year and a bit and shes come such a long way and changed soo much, she changed me alot aswell i was going through alot at the time before we got together, after we got together he started stalking us and and wouldnt stop, he even tried using a friend to trick us into a phone call, he only stopped when i said to his mum "sort your son out or the police will and thats not a threat its a promise" not heard from him for almost 3 months.
I know what he’s going through, that’s hard when you put %100 I couldn’t just drop my feelings .... it makes you feel broken and weak. Took therapy and even then I had to just focus on myself. It’s hard to learn after a decade
I watched this dr phil show little did l know l was going end up coach mikes wife and girlfriend God is great mike is moving to Austraiavto live with me we deeply love each other like we never loved before it june 2024 he be here in 1 month and he do his life coach work here in Australia
@@plexyglass429 in anyone defense that guy was funny and possibly trying to be. They ended up getting married and he lost decent amount of weight, shockingly.
There's more to this than the wife cheating. The husband was emotionally and physically abusive for years, yet claims he loves her and wanted to grow old with her; maybe don't dump your wife on the freeway, grab her neck, and shove her around, and then expect her to still love you. The cheating is wrong, she should have just left and stayed away, but the husband is hardly innocent in the breakdown of the marriage.
Grown ass man I use that TREM loosely ANY MAN WHO CAN SHOW HIS REAL EMOTIONS IS A REAL MAN & laughing at THIS MAN crying & in pain look having a love for someone who DOE'S not share the same is the most painful emotion U can EVER feel & it just SUCKS at ANY AGE . I hope he got the help he obviously needs & to the loser who smirk at another man pain God will DEAL WITH U .
I feel so bad for that man... he’s so hurt and broken and the balls it takes to be that open on live tv for a rabbi to then disrespect and laugh at him is awful.
Gentlemen who are going through this: NEVER EVER EVER show your emotion to this degree if you are in the process of losing your wife and aren't happy about it. First: really decide if you actually still want the relationship. People tend to panic and grab for what they are losing. If you really want to keep her, do not react with tears, anger, neediness. If you do, any chance for fixing it is gone. Any shred of respect she had for you will now be lost forever and will be replaced with pity. No woman is attracted to or aroused by a man she pities. You know I'm right. Be 100% stoic. Do not ask questions. Ask her to move out/move on in a direct but kind manner. She has made up her mind long ago. DO NOT CONTACT HER EVEN ONCE!!!!! If there is any attraction left for you, it will grow in her due to your history and your absolutely strong behaviour. If there is any chance, this is the way to nurture that chance. She may wonder about you and reach out. If she doesn't, then you can be damn proud of how you handled it and will be forever thankful to yourself for not being a blubbering bitch. May sound cliche but work on yourself and have a great life. You will recover and conquer.
Angelique Delgado the whole issue here is that he DOESNT know how to handle his emotions.. how else would you think someone acts when they’re overwhelmed with emotions they don’t know how to handle. i felt really bad for the guy. He literally yelled out “i need help” in a very overwhelmed state. If not empathy than maybe some sympathy. All love ❤️
@@boiilndn5744 on-point, for sure. As a society we are drunk on drama and true crime. This dramatises any perception on reality regarding these real-life dramas thus diminishing the severity of their behaviour is too dramatic - only films should have that amount of melodrama. This isn't true for the reasons you point out above; a little more empathy, if not, sympathy goes an incredible distance when it comes to understanding.
12 years and only slept with him once, no wonder he got frustrated.....i would too and i am a woman myself. that is not a decent woman, that is someone who uses the man for a roof over her head until she can find another to mooch off, then lays the blame on him for his frustration over being used. she went back every time she needed a place to stay. what she did was mental abuse and caused his reaction so i have no sympathy for her case. she wanted him to be her doormat not husband....no man deserves that kind of crap as a wife..... she is trash tier.
