COME WEDDING DRESS SHOPPING WITH ME & BRIDAL SKINCARE | Lydia Elise Millen 

shes is really beautiful too.

Omg yes

You're just trying to pry. Nobody wants to go over their negative experiences, let alone sharing them with the whole world (and an abusive place like RU-vid), let alone when they are super excited about their wedding. You are a toxic person. Leave her alone and let her enjoy her wedding butterflies to the full.

Amber Leaf Just because she would like the opportunity to discuss how someone else overcame a very difficult situation does not make her toxic. It may not necessarily be appropriate at this time but not a bad discussion subject at all.

I feel like "nobody wants to go over their negative experiences" could be a rather unhealthy way of looking at things. Personally with someone close to me, who had some pretty bad experiences, talking about them and talking about how they affected her really made her come to terms with the fact that they happened even though some of those things happened donkey years ago. She used to be be incredibly repressive about the past - saying that what had happened could not be changed, but since I "pried" she's become less prickly talking about her past and it's given her power over her history. It's psychology and that can explain how we deal with subsequent events in our lives. When she wasn't willing to talk about them, she was a lot more bitter and tense. Of course some past experiences are harder to talk about than others, but some people are more adept at coming to terms with their past than others. That can set an example for people who don't know how to put their experiences into perspective and be brave about them. Ultimately, the choice is up to Lydia and whatever it is we should all respect it. Her sharing would make her far more vulnerable to abuse because this is the internet and not a chosen group of friends whose reactions and perceptions can be more fairly managed. But encouraging openness and sharing about trauma in a safe and supportive environment can be far better than sweeping it under the rug. With regards to Val asking - I can understand if you think that she is prying, some people indeed do that. But it's also good to give her the benefit of the doubt rather than labelling her a toxic person. You are free to question the intentions of other people on the internet, but I hope you can also do it in a kind manner whenever possible.

Amber Leaf There's no need to twist my words. I said that I understand she might not be willing to talk about her past, so I didn't ask her to bring up her past! I asked for Q&A, meaning, her viewers would have an opportunity to ask her questions whether general questions or questions related to their own relationships if they are willing to share. Thats it.

Yes we do! xxx

Me too! She is so lovely. I would love to have a friend like that.

I agree! X

Thanks babes

Rosangela R agreed! But at the same time I think these are all the extras and rejects as she won't show her viewers the actual dress. This is probably just a little way to show her viewers the process of her dress hunting

Rosangela R I absolutely agree. 💓💜

I believe she said that she already had her dream designer contact her even before Ali proposed. I think this dress hunting journey was so that Lydia sees what she likes on her and to inspire her so that she can tell the designer what kind of dress she would like.

Rhea Mehta Agree. She was brave enough to put so much effort into something that wasn't paying off in the beginning at all whilst working another full time job. It wasn't the safest bet because a few years ago, it was not even considered to be a "real job". There was no guarantee that it will turn into a sustainable career. But people that go out of the comfort zone, work hard and keep pushing it no matter what, tend to achieve great things in life. And she did.

Oh ladies thank you this was so lovely to read! It's not the hardest job in the world but its not easy to get off the ground, I feel very fortunate xxx

Just gotta do all the ruffles!!! hahhaa xx

Hahaha :) xxx

Haha :) I don't even want a wedding. But I'm excited for Lydia's!

Thank you Lena you cutie

Rosia I feel you😭😭😭

Me

Oh girl, enjoy your time. I'm telling you because I've experience on that matter...

Awwww :) I'm sure you will to one day.

Same 😭😭

Also did you get the filler in your nose again as it looked red when you were doing the skin care routine, I bet it really hurts, it hurts when I get it in my forehead (Botox) 😂❤️ xx