not me sitting here crying because i see all those parents being supportive while my parents are homophobic- Edit: you are all so kind I'm gonna cry, thank you all
@@illegalcoding Aaaand it's fake. The "daughter" and "mother" is coming out in another video, and they're making jokes about buying Barbies in that one too.
the one at 8:04 absolutely crushed me, i'm not even non binary but i'm sitting here and crying my eyes out, i hope that person was financially independent at that point and they weren't in any danger of getting kicked out or something.. i'm sending virtual hugs to everyone who's closeted because they don't think their family will accept them or who came out but weren't supported
Only getting a little sappy in saying so, but as a certified Late Bloomer Lesbian who didn't feel safe enough to even think about liking girls until her late 20s, these compilations always warm my heart. The world is changing drastically for the better and it's an honor to witness it.
Omg I should do that with my friends maybe then I’ll actually participate in drama for once instead of just freezing on the spot- Thanks for the amazing idea!
I really don´t know why but the mother´s reaction at 3:10 makes me cry every single time, the way they are singing the lyrics together in the end, it is so heartfelt and pure...
Brennans dads reaction is just the best there is. "Brennan, I love you, man." Simple, straight to the point and to the heart of the matter. Treating it like it should be treated, acknowledge it, support it, move on.
Me trying to come out to my mom be like- Me: hey mom, we need to have a talk. Mom:ok, what is it? Me:soooo will you still love your children or grandchildren if they were gay? Mom:ofc and why are you telling me this for? Me:...oh no reason at all 😃👍
I just wanted to tell everyone that I finally got up the courage to come out to my two best friends as bisexual today! I am so so so happy right now! They took it so well (I was unsure whether that would be the case or not), and they are treating me the same as always :)))))
My friend group doesn’t make a big deal of this coming out stuff cos we have a very diverse group, there’s trans, disabled, ppl of different races, but we still love and respect eachother
When my niece came out as gay my first reaction was "ok oh well, so should we have tofu or bean burgers" I'm sorry to all those who are not accepted for who they are, and I may not not know you but I care. I'm sending you all a virtual hug.
Is it just me, but I only want ways to come out to my friends, not my parents. I feel like it's not their business about my sexuality unless I'm in a relationship. I don't know, maybe I'm just ignoring the fact that my dad is homophobic edit: I CAME OUT TO MY BROTHER AND MUM! my brother made fun of me at first because he thought I lied (he's also younger than me) but my mum was pretty supportive
I came out to my friends first, I talked about the idea of being bi to my mom and she rejected it (I still don’t know why) but it made me nervous af afterwards and I wasn’t sure if I was bi at that time and it was about a year until I officially came out as bi, I never really got one of these cause it was covid, I did it through an Instagram post during the summer of 2020 but I had a couple of close friends that knew along the way but came out to my parents months later (kinda separately unintentionally) I had a chat with my mom both of them I was in tears and so nervous but luckily my parents are supportive
I am in that phase!!!!! I don't really want to come out to them, only my friends know. And, I don't care that the decision of telling your family should be made. Anyways, I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!
I’ve wanted to come out to my family for YEARS but I was always too anxious about what their reaction could be. A few days ago I decided that I’ll do it before the end of this year and I really hope they’ll support me EDIT: I just came out to them and what the hell they were so supportive?? I did NOT expect that, I'm so glad I finally told them
i told my dad when I was like 8 (I'd known since I was like 5/6 like when you just know) And my dad said "Oh, if you liked women and men. You would have known when you were younger" YEAH DAD I did. Sorry for my little rant
My dad was homophobic and coming out to him was a nerve wracking experience, he think im a waste but later on hes okay with me and heard him chitchatting to his friend and he said "id rather have my gay son alive than straight but dead" i was like 😭🥲💚
this whole compilation warmed my heart- i came out to my mom and two of my friends as nonbinary, and my mom was supportive but she tried to give me reasons at to why i should think about it more (like i havent thought about it all-the-fucking-time) and my friends crack jokes about it. one time one of them said, and i quote, “tHerE aRe oNLy twO geNdErS iM sOrRrYyyyY” and i really really reaaaallly wanted to yell at her but, yk, im an idiot.
bro im fr sitting in the dark at 11:29pm crying bc of how jealous i am of all those people with supportive parents. i just want to be loved. is it really that hard? i think im slowly losing it.
i’m so scared i think my parents will accept my sexuality but i’m also questioning my gender and i don’t think they’ll ever understand it. also heartbroken because my best friend who i used to tell everything to is homophobic and i just found out today so i either come out but she doesn’t accept me or i don’t come out at all to her
i'm telling you, the happiest life you can live is the life where you're yourself. rather live as your authentic self than someone you're not just pleasing others. i'll absolutely support you even if i don't know you because i want you to be happy. so will so many other people in the world. and i think you'll be able to teach your parents and friend a lot about the lgbtq+ community, if they love you they should love you just the way you are.
But is she really a friend if she doesnt accept you? People who really love and care for you will be there regardless. Oh and family is what you make it. Doesnt have to be blood. #youarestrong #liveforyou #behappy
I'm to nervous to come out to my parents especially my mom because she seems to be transphobic.... so I'm coming out in the comments as..... GENDERFLUID!! I'M GENDERFLUID!!!
PLEASE HELP. Here are some clues about myself: + I'm a female + I know for a fact that i can picture myself dating another female in the future as i find females attractive + I also like men, but for some reason i don't really feel like dating them...? Even though i can find men attractive?? Don't really know how to explain the men part but basically im happy if a man is attracted to me and i may be attracted back but im not comitted to a relationship?? I THINK that my parents are NOT supportive of the lgbtq+ community because they look kinda disapproved when they see a gay couple so i don't know how to tell them that i can be attracted to females. I also don't really know who i am because im not sure about my geniune intrests. All in all, SOMEBODY HELP ME
@@n0pe873 also! I'll add on because I made another help comment on your other one. It can be a hard pill to swallow, but your happiness should be prioritised. Not your parents. You probably still hold love for them and they probably do for you too. However, I'd honestly recommend coming out to a friend first, then being sure you have a safe plan in case things go wrong and if need be find a friend who has plenty of room in their house and stay with them and live as your true self. If your parents don't support you they don't deserve you and it can really suck, genuinely, but you're the only one who can really make this choice.
In those video's it seem easyer than it is. But this gave me the mood I needed to come out to my dad. It was really hard for me, that I just couldn't get words out of my mouth. So my mom said it.😅
OH MY GOD I JUST CLICKED ON THE THUMB DOWN BY MISTAKE BAHAHA I'm pansexual myself and wore a hoodie with the words "pansexual and still not into you" at school to come out lol (Liked the video now instead😂)
Nah I kinda wanna do that the next time we have non uniform day at school but my parents are homophobia as hell so they wouldn’t let me buy that- Also it’ll be really annoying coz the people (mainly the boys) in my school are such idiots so if they find out I’m pansexual they’re just gonna be like ‘oh you like pans?’ all the time 😑 But yea that would be really funny to do if I could lol
The dad with the barbie house was so wholesome. LMFAO. Reminds me of something my Mom would say she actually supports me. Came out as an Asexual Nonbinary, but according to my Father I can't be non-binary thanks to how I dress or I can't be considered "straight" if I have no gender. I am interested in men. My pronouns are he/she/they/them. I personally like to address myself as the following for personal enjoyment/comedic effect: Goblin Goblin-self Greyling Grey-self It (Terrified of clowns, would kill a clown if one jumps at me, but the idea of becoming fear itself is enthralling) Oogie Boogie (I WOULD ROCK IT SO HARD BUT NO ONE WILL COORDINATE WITH ME ON HALLOWEEEEEEEN!!! T^T)
Notice how much easier it is to come out to friends ☺ Btw : Why don't we start coming out even if we are straight, idk just think that would be fair 🤷♀️
Watching people come it for apparently I’m ‘ to young ‘ to be aroace ( I didn’t come out but one day my mom asked if I like boys or girls. I said “ what if I don’t like anyone…? “ she looked at me and said. ‘ Your to young anyways ) she is bi herself but we live in a very romantic household for some reason. So yeah…
I came out to my two bestfriends last year and at first they were supportive, but i cant even talk to them about being gay. If i try to they get real silent and annoyed/ awkward. Tbh i wish i never had come out to them and this is one of the reason i havent come out to my family yet :(
They sound like the lip service supporters. What it means is that they just aren't hostile, but they don't actually support you in a meaningful way. Maybe try and reach out to other LBGTQ+ folk in the area.
I wish my bestie reacted like that i came out to here and she was like idc and its probably just a face or something its probably a trend im like what girly no this is me
