Even though I see some part of myself in him, the fact of the matter is that he is a fool who deserved no better. He should have married a woman who loved him and not one who won't make a suitable wife.
@@SanjayFGeorge Dude she would make an amaizing wife, shed just unsure of her feelings but tis not ehr fault guys keep chasing her raher than moving on
Frank - "I can't wait until we get married on Saturday" Fanny - "I can't wait either! Which part of town is the church where we're getting married?" Frank - "That's not really important."
I hate her and the soldier. Gabriel deserves a better woman. He has all the qualities of a good partner and a husband. He’s a keeper and very reliable.
wait so she first rejected oak, then married the soldier, then almost married the businessman then after the first two options are gone(soldier dead, businessman imprisoned) she then agrees to marry him🤣🤣talk of finishing last
So she walks off into the sunset while one man is dead and the other in prison as a result of fooling with her, oh boy. The soldier did it to himself but Mr Boldwin is the one I feel sorry for and poor Gabriel being loyal, hardworking, all the while watching her not only court other men but even marry one of them. Where there no other women in this area.
Fanny Robbins did not walk of into the sunset, but she might have not wound up dead, if she had access to contraception, or failing that a safe legal abortion. As well as the legal protection of her job, so she wasn't forced to starve in the hedge row when Troy abandons her to marry a rich women.
Wait a minute why did everyone wanna marry her on the first time?? that's really crazy lol like every man who saw her wanted to marry her and told their assets to her!!
Apparently the female was supposed to be very pretty. If you ever read or watch any of the Jane Austin stories money and class were very important to the prospects of the men with women, rather like today but more direct. (but in Jane's time women could not really earn a living on their own. (1800s vs. 1874)
@@dudeonyoutube Or more education. Having a more formal, traditional education doesn’t mean that person has more education. One could choose to self educate by reading books on topics essentially getting the same education as an associates. They could completely understand all of and possibly pass any test that would be required for licensing. However, along with licensing one could need “proper uni education with transcripts” PLUS pass the test to get the licensing. Someone can audit classes. So maybe they’ve actually audited enough to have a bachelors degree but.... the other person could’ve gone traditional route with accredited courses but only finished half the courses. But of course, your statement is also correct
@@tempbauer2131 I put over 10, 000 hours in the US National Archives reading source material documentation before I ever stepped foot in a College. I had a love and a passion for research. When I was in my first 100 level History class I showed my professor my external hard drive my research and categorization, that I'd did for fun. He said to me you already have a Master's Thesis right here. I was a horrible student when I was younger. Then I went in the Army got to go all around the world and my favorite subjects were History and Geography. Going back to College after the Army to get a History Degree was easy. I had professors borrowing books out of my research Library. I wanted to get into Museum work, like everything it's gone all woke as fuck so I work in a Shipyard doing Blue collar work for the same money and don't have to deal with a bunch of Karen's.
Such a foolish woman can't notice a best person who came into her life at first ❤️🤷🏻♀️but I was literally cried for poor guy with rich hearted person 🥲💝 finally they choose themselves 💕👏
No-one would ever have expected this wealthy woman of property, to marry one of her penniless farm hands. It would be more expected for Bathsheba to go for the prudential match, and marry Bolewood. Troy abandons Fanny to pursue Bathsheba for her money.
How hypocritical is it to reject a man who offered true love by telling she loves her independence and married another man who actually doesn't have feelings for her and added to that he even dominates her and afterwards she shamelessly asks for the love of the man whom she rejected before without any logical cause.
It sounds hypocritical, and may continue to sound when we put logic into matters of heart. Nor the person who truly loves know they will and can truly continue loving and caring about the other person neither the recipient of that love knows if they deserve such love or if they can patiently enjoy the slow love. Bathsheba knew frank was wrong for her, still she married him, because he "showed" her how he can communicate his feelings (even if they were not true ). She enjoyed how he could make her feel. She enjoyed those feelings. Thus the haste and unwise decisions when she knew he wasn't the right one.
Glad it's a happy ending for both of them. Sad that Fanny and her child died and Mr. Boldwood got imprisoned for protecting Batsheba. I wonder if there is a part 2 or different movie from other characters. It's just so creative and realistic I wanted to watch a movie of the other characters, specially Fanny and Mr Boldwood. A Walking in the Clouds is good too but after watching this recap, I wanna watch this one when I have plenty of time.
@louli lola thanks for the info. I searched about it and got more interested so I watched the full movie of this version. I liked it a lot too. Im sure the book is better than the movie as it contains a more detailed info but Im quite satisfied with the movie and I. Can see myself rewatching it again in the future lol
@@AH-bh4zw I can speak English but as a second language. I just learned about it here and watched the full movie on free movie app. Im not much familiar with great writers or novels but I appreciate their work in forms like this (movie)
Well. That was a very convoluted round about topsy turvy way to get right back to where she started at the beginning of the movie. The main characters were brilliant though and I especially liked the flawed character of the soldier. Very sad. Thankyou.
That's the whole charm of these. It's not an AI-generated entertainment morsel unless told to you using abnormal pronunciations and sentences structured as if written by a being of greatly superior intellect that was first exposed to human language one half Earth Standard Years' ago and to the language of the Angles one Earth's rotation past. Come. on. now. If yew hadjust learned. The. English language. Only. Won and won. Half days in. The past, yew. wood. knot. Learn to speak it. So. quick, Le. Would. Yew?
I was happy she rejected him at first, and didn't like when he told her she was dumb for wanting her independence. But I do feel he learned to love her charm and how a partnership would work. SO happy when they finally got together.
The idea woman are all going for bad boys first is jst a myth backed up by confirmation bias, the nice geys finish last idea actually goes against years of scientific research on the matter
Like so many modern women, she dosen't respect the "nice guy" was attracted to the money of the other but slept with the "Chad" (bad boy). And in so doing waited too long and runied the men's lives. They should have walked, no run, away.
The classic tale of a woman falling for a bad boy. If Gabriel had any sense, he would have gone to America and maybe meet someone who truly loved him back.
Normally you proposed to the person the man did this the woman waited directly to the woman or their parents or the one who raised them if they werent adults by the law yet
Normally for a lady the gentlemen would go into courting them properly. Basically what the rich nice guy did. But even for that time the guy was moving way too fast into proposal. Usually this would take weeks or months. The farmer isn’t rich so it wouldn’t apply to him the courtesy. Same with the soldier
Ah so, if this happened in today's world, she have 3 suitors: one is a loyal yet poor dude, one is the lonely yet kind rich dude and a narcissistic playboy 🤣🤣 ~ Shows how women can be easily lured by the wolves, with their passionate words and alluring gestures 😅 I liked her character from the start but right after she met the soldier, I knew exactly that this movie is gonna be the same thing like others, where wise woman will be fooled by a handsome playboy, typical storyline. ~ Wolf always gets the finest prey, the kind cow just tends to get rejected, especially if the lady is also rich, and of course the sheep, yeah, they always neglect the sheep, then sheep will get what's left in wolf's plate... (Not that she's a scrap, but you know what I mean, Wolf always gets it first then right at the end the sheep will take what's left. Why can't the sheep have what they deserve? I'm not really sure with cows, some of them can get it easily, some just required more effort, some were just clearly the 2nd or 3rd-option 🤣) Tbh, with the loyalty and kindness Gabriel have been given to her, I think he deserves better, realistically or logically, she only gets to him coz he is her second option and now that the wolf is dead, she went to her second-best. Just think about it, she can't run her farm by herself, it's mostly Gabriel that did the job, and I can guarantee, had he left, her farm will be in shambles within a day or two, getting into him was a win-win. And it seems too quick that she came to realized she loved him, right around the same time he bid his goodbyes. It's either that she's that calculating and canny person or she indecisive and impulsive one. ~ Also, I don't like that she kept rejecting the rich dude, like you has made it clear once why bother doing it again and waste his and your time if you'll end up rejecting him anyways, do you even know how much pain you could have cost to the dude, rejecting him twice, she's always indecisive... He's desperate and she's Idk stupid or foolish to take all his proposal just to reject him anyways.
The story is telling about how _flowery words_ can be lethal. 🤣 No matter how strong you are, you will still fall for it. 😉 ~ _just give the piano to me!_ 😋
I always leave the recaps to play in the background. When she was saying Gabriel … i thought she was saying Gabrielle. So I assumed he was a girl. Lol til she said he.
They arnt guilible just hoplesly in love and she is like this for character development, they artn controled they all made their own decitions regadless of what you think of them, its basicly why you should just fall in love without actually dating
What an unlikeable characters both Bathsheba & the soldier were!! No thanks!! Poor Gabriel, to fall for someone like her! Also, could they please learn how to write these summaries better, AND how to pronounce the names? Improved vocabularies, word choices, & smoother writing would make it more enjoyable to lusten to. I was rewording certain parts due to clumsy wording & passive voices.
She was just living her life. He was in love with a woman who didn’t love him back. Women don’t owe men love because they’re nice guys. The whole point of the book is that she didn’t have to choose the safe option and could follow her heart because unlike 99% of women at the time she was financially independent. And yes sometimes people don’t know what they want but maybe if men stopped proposing the first time they meet her 🙄 And the soldier played her and ruined his own life. Her marriage to Gabriel will be better because they actually knew each other well enough to love each other by the time they got together. Female characters who aren’t perfect are always judged by the harshest standards.
@@vigilauntie8381 Absolutely woman tend to be judged more harshly for social situations, she didnt make the lord lover her neither did she lead him on, she was honest with him and rejected his proposal but he still persued her, thats on him but people somehow think she did something wrong for hi decitions
It's crazy how many stories there are written by men, trying to drill down the idea that a woman shouldn't consider a mans finances when marrying, yet I haven't seen any movies where a handsome young independent man struggles to choose between an ugly older girl & a young beautiful one 🙄. Patriarchy is so cliche.
Have you tried to search for such movies..i would love to see such movies that portray what you mean without being mean..the only one i know was the one with paris hilton.
Poeople are judging her when its the guys fault for falling in love with someone off the bat when it wasnt returned, this is why courting/ dating is now a thing as it stops all this stupidity
I don't why do they have to make movies out of classical novels if those cannot express true complexity of human emotions and desires . The movie is adapted from the novel " Far from the madding crowd " by Thomas Hardy . It's far from being only a love story . Many of the events have not been depicted as they are originally in the book . Bathsheba is not to be blamed for everything . Her impulsive , wayward nature and lack of discretion lead her to tragedy and ultimately to true love . Troy's a person whose abilities are seen by everybody but his flaws , which are many are always hidden whereas Oak's flaws might be on the surface , but his qualities which are many , lay hidden . Also, Boldwood becomes obsessed and ultimately loses sanity . Just read the book and you'll see for yourself , the complexity of human emotions and desires and an understanding of how human behaviour works . In addition , dialogues are the best ..
Sorry? Are you supposed to say that women are stupid or they couldn't love? Or they're just mens property and not their own person? Typical patriarchal man right there 🤦🙄
This movie is completely real and reasonable, the lady accepting the charming playboy is typical behavior of most women, well done for the creator of this movie.
Womanallways going for bad boys actually goes against years of scientific research on the matter, you see the basis for this idea you have is actually based on confirmation bias rather than objective facts about what most woman are doing
@ymarrero23 I'm a female of color who grew up in the worst kind of poverty and I can understand what you're saying, but no woman should rely on a rich man to fall out of the sky and save her from her situation because it wont happen usually men can be bad providers and bad parents whether rich or poor, plenty of rich men have used women and thrown them away women these days have to bring in their own money whether they have a man to help out or not, it just takes one bad day in court to take every little thing you thought you owned away just like it did to my mom
@ymarrero23 HYPERGAMY usually described as this - A woman who makes a million dolars a year isn't going to go for a man who makes a 200k a year. HYPERGAMY is woman wanting a man 'better than her' in social, financial position and OTHER THINGS she finds superior, somebody she can look upto, so as higher she is she need someone even higher. ALSO BY HYPERGAMY MEANS SHE MOVES FROM ONE CHOICE TO AN EVEN BETTER CHOICE IF THAT COMES ALONG.
@ymarrero23 Pump and dmb was not possible a few decades back ask your grandfather, when women chosed partners RESPONSIBLY, instead of based on TINGLES (just like the lead of this story, what if she got pregnant with Frank's child), female validation of bad behaviour is what led to the explosion of P&D.
@ymarrero23 There was the poor farmer - good guy, the rich guy - good guy. And Frank - the bad guy who didn't cared about her but wanted her wealth (& hr in bed), SHE CHOSE FRANK OVER OTHER TWO BECAUSE OF "TINGLES", This is literally the Modus operandi of P&D that you talked about, and blame is on men.
@@redstar7292 Fair. BUT if she hadn't played with Boldwood and told him NO (in the beginning and/or later) it wouldn't have happened at all. Plus Troy would have moved around the city more than the farm, and maybe he would have found his love sooner. And they wouldn't both be dead.
A story about a damage woman with daddy issues and 2 simps competing for the title of greatest simp in the history of mankind while a chad destroys her v card ♦️ 😂.
I genuinely don't know why they're trying to villainize an independent woman? Like this movie seems like it's constantly trying to tell this lady that she NEEDS a man that her personality is absolutely garbage because she thinks she doesn't and it's infuriating.
Waste of time next time don't do a 30 min recap for a movie that uses so much filler you could have done it in like 10 minutes. When everyone already knew whom she would marry. Of course, she wouldn't try to make it on her own and keep professional with her staff and of course, she would end up with the horrible personality guy who talked shit to her and really had no respect for her intelligence its typical shitty movie it could have been a movie about a woman who starts a business or becomes a strong no no no its trash.
You think this was long you should sit through the whole movie hoping the woman would develop some sense, which is the moral of the story I suppose. Imagine having to sit through the movie with a girlfriend having to pretend you care after the first hour. This recap could save you from a very tedious evening.
This is based on a novel. "Far From the Madding Crowd" by Thomas Hardy written in 1874. It's really just so obviously over your heads. It needs to be seen in the context of it's times. This woman of property would have never been expected to marry one of her farm hands. I suggest you stop watching Love Island, and try and get some education or read a few books.