CONTROL YOUR TONGUE Biblical Homemaking & Traditional Wife God Talk 

I’ve been a homemaker for 29 years and homeschooled for 25. This past year my nest emptied as the last child left home for adulthood. In this last year, I’ve grown lazy in my home making snd ESPECIALLY in the area of cooking for my husband. I found your channel tonight was instantly convicted by the Holy Spirit through your words. I removed myself from the sofa and from scrolling on my phone. I listened to 7 of your videos & in that time, I cleaned & reset my kitchen, swept, mopped, cleaned out trash cans, wiped down all cabinets and baseboards. Truly my kitchen hasn’t been this tended to in years. Thank you young momma for your ageless wisdom. My home & heart are so at peace now as I have reset my heart towards my homemaking!!!!

Sis!!! Holy Spirit is calling me out on this video....recently been struggling with controlling my tongue...thank you God for correcting me through my sister in Christ.

This one is for me. My go to with the slightest frustration is vulgarity. I yell too much. I use my words to hurt. Lord, forgive me. Lord, help me use the power of my tongue to uplift and not to harm.

This video hit me so hard today. I am an ER nurse and often come home short tempered with a sharp tongue. I am working hard to stop and think before I speak so as not to hurt my husband or my children. Thank you for this message today.

One of my favorite scriptures Proverbs 18.21- Death and life are in the power of the tongue. I made a choice a few years ago to speak only "life". I pray daily for the Holy Spirit to lead me.

I am an "older" Christian woman, and love your sweet, gentle reminders. 😊 💗

This was a good reminder. Not just words, but tone and volume matter too. Thanks Tabitha.

I absolutely needed this today. I've made progress with stopping swear words, but I often dismiss crude joking because it's "joking" when in reality it is harmful. Biggest challenge for me because I love joking and having a good time with others, but God's standard is supreme and final. This helped me to address this and say a prayer to the Lord. Thank you

Whew, I needed this. My mouth needs a cleaning. My heart, too. Please help me pray about it.

Thank you! This is my greatest challenge, because I have lots of negative thoughts and when I get tired or irritated, it all comes out.

I'm a teacher and as I head back this year, my goal is to not allow myself to be pulled into the gossip and complaining and such. Thankful for this video to encourage me!

I just found this video tonight. My preacher's sermon tonight was on let the words of your mouth and the meditation of your heart be acceptable unto the Lord. This is something I struggle with. T h e Bible has so much to say about our words. Thank you for your video. God bless

This topic has been on my heart and mind a LOT lately. The witness I give at work, especially. God forgive me when I ran my mouth, and please shut me up in the future! 😂

When I was growing up my mother would say" think before you speak." She was not always talking but you knew by her expressions it was time to listen. ❤

As a Christian, this is my downfall this is what I struggle with on a daily basis. Thank you for putting out this video has really helped me to become the woman I want to be.

We are starting Monday, and our days are already so busy. I've been canning like crazy, and someday I'm all day in the kitchen. I enjoyed this, I think the way you speak to others, says a lot about you!

This morning I was so frustrated and I was very upset with my husband because of unspoken expectations. I snapped on him and my son. As soon as I sat down to take a break and saw this video I was instantly convicted. Thank you for this video ❤

I feel attacked and loved at the same time. Seems like I needed to hear this today 😂 Thank you 🙏🏼

Praise the lord 🙏 sister

I have four children at home aged 6, 18, 19 & 21 and I am perimenopausal so really struggling with mood highs and lows. This is something I am working super hard on, it's a 10x-a-day prayer kind of thing because these hormonal swings are overwhelming at times and seriously messing with my personality ..

I was totally being called out by the Spirit in this one!

Once again thank you for this! Your videos have truly helped me be more of a Godly wife, Mother and homemaker.

Thank you for your encouraging words and allowing GOD to use you thru your videos.

Hello Tabitha!!! Thank you for this reminder!!! Everything you said was so true!! I've found a everyday prayer life helps with this issue!!! Everyday reading God's word. The old saying think before you speak. We are all guilty of wrong speaking, of saying words we regret saying. I'm so thankful God forgives and gives us chances to make things right. You are so encouraging to us all. Thank you I pray that you continue to allow God to use you, and give you wisdom, and knowledge of his word. Take care God bless!!!

I want to say this….controlling your tongue does not mean not speaking up when things are wrong or for those who cannot speak up for themselves….it does not mean to allow things to continue that hurt you for your sake of holding your tongue….I just watched that documentary SHINY HAPPY PEOPLE…and I felt sorry for Jill Duggar as she kept her mouth shut to a good Christian …..never stay silent when you or someone is being hurt…and when it comes to disrespect…choose your battles

Aha perfect! I had just started folding my gigantic pile of laundry xxx

So blessed to have found your channel, sister! Wow..definitely convicted on this one. Thank you for your obedience to our Lord Jesus! ❤

Blessings ✝️🙏🏻❤️

You have a beautiful way of speaking and such a good heart, I love your videos. I needed this message today. Thank you 🙏

This seems the word of the day. Two pastors I watched on this Sunday was about your words. One was about Simon who had a name change to Peter by Jesus when he was asked to come and walk on the water. The other pastor talked about do not curse your body by speaking sickness and telling that your home is a no fly zone by what you watch and what you should say or do. This is a struggle for me because of toxic co workers that I work with. I am praying that God gives me people I should be surrounded with and a new job. He knows mine and your desires/needs.

We all have issue with controlling our tongue I believe. Ty Tabitha , this was a great , encouraging and convicting video. We forgot the power our words have. They have the power of life or death.

I just recently found your channels while learning the Flylady system and am finding your content to be super encouraging! I love that you are Spirit-led and I am so thankful for your wonderful example to so many of us moms!

I feel like this is a common struggle for women especially. We can get way too comfortable saying the first thing that comes into our minds.

Blessings. I don't know what happened but I was looking for your channel this week and I couldn't find you... I am adding this to my favorites so I can listen to it during my week.

Mama your videos speak to me! They always seem to come just at the right time and double down on the homily that day! Thank you for answering the Holy Spirits calling for you with an unconditional YES! And making these videos you are truly inspiring ❤

Ouch, I am so convicted because these past few days have been hard and I have been careless with my thoughts and my tongue. Thank you for sharing this, it's just what I need..God bless you..Sherri-Payette Idaho

Thank you again for these gentle reminders of how powerful are speech is. I needed to hear this. God bless you.

I needed to hear all of this! Thank you for the reminders!

I needed this. 💕🌱

Another timely blessing, Tabitha! I just watched while I did my dishes. I am about to get ready for work and head out the door, but I will be watching a second time on my lunch break. I DO have issues with control (which stems from anxiety in addition to personality) and I do often speak in an unkind tone and manner.

Thank you! Beautiful message.

Amen we need more videos like this. Our voice the most dangerous thing we have but we can control it with God's help.

Thank you. We all needed this.

This was another beautiful godly video Tabitha!

I have been waiting for your video all week!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤🎉

These are great thoughts. Thank you for sharing ❤

Love the decorations!! ♡♡

Powerful message! Thank you for making this

This would make a great podcast. I would love to just listen sometimes and just close my phone. This is beautiful ❤

I needed to hear this!! I suffer in this are but working very hard to improve this.Thank you for this spiritual motivation ❤

Thank you my sister, I really have to work on that 😭

Thank you so much for the spiritual motivation 🩵

This blessed me so much. 😢❤

Thanks for sharing this was so convicting for me

Great topic! Thank you for your spiritual wisdom. You have such a kind voice.

Thank you. I needed to hear this.

Thank u friend, this is so helpful and encouraging. This is a hard topic, but so necessary!

Thank you. I needed this.

Lovely video! Thank you!

This is very convicting and encouraging. Thank you, Tabitha 💜

Thank you for this video. I’ve been convicted about my words and how I have talked about others. Appreciate what you do on this channel!

I absolutely love listening and watching your content…😊you truly know how to relate and how your sharing the Bible verses as well I just love it. Thank you for inspiring me 🙏

Excellent video. Thanks for sharing.

This was MUCH NEEDED FOR ME TODAY, thank you!!! ❤ AND PRAISE GOD!!! 🙌🏻

I haven’t even started and I know I need this one! Love your videos.

I really enjoyed this word ❤

Thank you for this. Sometimes it's good to have this reminder, and I definitely needed to hear this. I've really been trying to work on patience with my three kids. Sometimes it's tough when I'm stressed, but I've been praying for more Patience with them.

Ugh I struggle with this so much. I really need to grow in this. Thankyou for this video.

Listening to more of your Lovley words today while cleaning my home 🙏🏼💖

This was one of my very favorite videos you have done. Such a good and needed word for us women, especially myself lately. Thank you

I love your videos ❤ thank you for sharing

Thank you for posting, I really needed this reminder.

Loved this today!! After watching your video and turning on my K-LOVE app Kelly was talking about the exact same thing. Said she saw a quote online line about the tongue not having bones but can break a heart. Maybe she watches your channel?? 😍😍

This video was a blessing .

This message really spoke to my heart thank you for this video

Appreciate your video. Thank you!

Wonderful! ❤️

Thank you.

Thanks a lot 🙏❤🙏

Thank you. This is very helpful. God bless you.

Thank you for sharing . 🇬🇧💛🤍

I love these videos and the community of like minded women that comment to help each other become the wives that God calls us to be.

Thank you for this video. It was piercing and convicting to my heart. I have spoken harshly to my kids for a long time. Although it has gotten better, its still not where i would like it to be. I will pray and seek to be kinder in my speech after this video. Thank you❤

I look forward to your videos every week. God uses them to speak to me. I get so much encouragement and a desire to clean. Your words put me in a peaceful calm. Thank you for your faithfulness, I know it's not easy. God bless you. 🙏🩷

this is GOLD!!!! pure gold refined in the Fathers fire

The laundry cart 🙃 i have 4 kids and I feel this. Ahh.

Thank you 😢

Thankyou for your kind words. I hope I can learn how to speak with a soft calm voice.

Thank you for another video 🙌🏼💕 Love your dress! Where do you shop?

I am so thankful for your channel and your walk with the Lord. I have cried listening to your seasoning of sweetness with the Lord, as I was once like you. my load got heavier after a continued disappointing marriage after 2 years, now 20 years later. and adopted children that have added great blessings, but troubles as well that seem to be destructive to gaining any ground to a level of expected peace but rather around the same dysfunctional mountain. I am praying for my own settling in spirit and connection to SELF and my reach for the Lord. Music seems to unlock my heart that seems sheltered in a hidden cage, but it doesn’t seem enough...I want to be ME reaching for HIM open and free. PLease pray for those of us who are in situations with our families that dont allow freedom of heart to grow and breath but rather be more like survival mode daily in many ways. I love your dress and am glad you linked it. I am getting the blue one. Can you please continue to link your dresses or aprons etc..thank you and may our Great GOD Yeshua/Jesus bless you and your family dear one!

I’m a new wife and mother (I’m due this May and these kind of homemaking videos give me hope in the Lord that I will be able to be a great wife and mom and most importantly a Women of God thank you for these videos and God bless 🩵☺️

Love this, just last week. I know I did not control my tongue, I repent even though I did not say anything so bad just correcting someone, but she's the one who gets offended, she's also the one who started speaking not good. I ask forgiveness but she just ignored me and saw my messages. I believe God protecting me from those people who are not really into him.

Proverbs 11:16 A gracious woman retaineth honour: and strong men retain riches. The Lord has been putting this verse on my heart lately. This video was a help and encouragement. Blessings.

YES.

Good morning mama

Yes

Dear God please help me to prioritize this and purify my speech ❤🙏🥰

Always love your videos! Also where is that dress from??

Amen 🙌🙏

Ouch 😣 this stepped on my toes . 🙏🙈