Convincing Parents For Studying Abroad: Why I Quit IIT-JEE? 

Correction I meant ITI not IIIT (where you get 5k or 10k salary) English Version: of this video: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Uf6-NegJK6E.html AP Exam Prep: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5HtleQxUjuM.html SAT Exam PREP: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-k0bnw2ivpjU.html

1:55 Maine Non medical li aur non medical ne meri li. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

If you try to convince your parents they will just say a single line: Jo tumhe sahi lagta hai karo baad me mat bolna

Your parents got convinced because they had money... We people take loan for 2 lakh fees and 24 lakh is such a huge figure

Coaching or school wali baat bilkul shi boli

I prepared for IIT-JEE in 2011-2013. I mentally gave up in 2012, and ofc never got into IITs. At the end of my 11 standard, I went from being a school topper to being completely hopeless and depressed. In admist of all this, I discovered that I enjoyed learning physics, so I went on to do a BSc. Physics from Amity University in Noida, after keeping my pride aside and fighting an year long depression. Perhaps the best decision of my life, not to waste another year in the rat race and save my life bcz I was becoming suicidal with the existential crisis I had. In 2016, I graduated from Amity as second of my class and got into NIT Srinagar for my MSc. Physics after qualifying IIT-JAM. I learned more in Amity than at NIT. Neverthless, no one knew how to teach properly. No one had any happiness when teaching and talking about physics. My true inspiration came from RU-vid where I watched American Professors. In 2018, I took a gap year, worked hard and took GREs, and came to the US to do my MS in Teaching, because I realized how fucked up our education system is, private or government it is all about the next rat race, and I wanted to fix it by being a teacher. I am almost done with my MS, I had assitantship for the whole 3 years, the University of Maine paid for my tuition, and I got a monthly stipend of 1700$. In fact, I even saved and bought my first car last year. Professors here have completely changed the way I understood Math and Physics, and how to teach it. I have been very happy, and I look forward to becoming a Math and Physics teacher, and then want to do my education based global non-profit startup. I am extremely happy that I didn't make it to IITs, that I followed my love for physics and then for teaching, and studied what I liked and found my own personal way to make it big, rather than becoming an engineer. My Physics teacher at Aakash Institute in Delhi used to say, "there is more to life than IITs," and he was absolutely right. I hope if you are reading this, you write your own journey and become what you truly value personally rather than finding your worth in a tag. If you will use a brand to validate your self-worth, you will never feel satisfied and always keep running. IIT, IIM, UPSC, all of these exams do so much harm to our talented pool of youngsters, who could very well go and do so much with their lives, but our dumb society and its ego games are making them sick and depressed. Please, take it easy, find what you really enjoy doing and work hard for it just for the sake of it. Learning is a rewarding process in itself. Study for excellence not success, what you have learned in these years, no can take from you. And if you ever need a real Jeetu bhaia to talk to, who actually knows how to navigate life after you don't make it to IITs, shoot me an email at anupamraj0701@gmail.com I wrote this long ass comment bcz I wish the younger me had the older me as an example.

Engineering aur MBBS chod ke aur fields hain aur sab ko same interest nahi hota ye kab samaj kab aayega Indian parents ko 🤦‍♀

Title error -You did not quit IIT JEE. You quit preparing ? There is a huge difference here

Congrats man , you worked hard and hope you will get everything you deserve....

*Really IIT. or nothing in India. You should have other back up plans also.* *This video is damn important. Convincing parents is really really tough.* *Thanks for the video*

Seedha bol india ka education system chutiya h !!

I was not knowing about the foreign university stuff at that time. I hope new 12th graduates won't be repeating the mistakes🙂 The technology is urs, use it and rock❤️ All the best❤️

The best part was, "Maine non-medical li, aur non-medical ne meri li..."...hey bhagwaaaan...ROFL😂😂😂😂😂

Upsc , NDA or buy ticket for mla 😂🤣

Harnoor congratulations in advance for the graduation and best wishes for getting 100% waiver for Masters .. I already know you will have a 4/4 in your Masters ! Best Wishes !

Oh that's why your grandma is here because you are gonna graduate in 2 weeks Are you gonna post your graduation video

I am an iitian but kafi bache isikiye management/upsc vgyara krte hai kyuki unhe engineering pasand nahi ati na hi uski related jobs. Personally vo forcefully management vali streams mei jate hai.

Bhai sahi mein JEE NEET ke aage kuch dikhta hi nahi science mein logo ko . Aur uncertain job opportunity .. night mare .... Your efforts are beyond my imagination great work bro!

I got 73% in 11th due to pressure between coaching and school. I'm currently in 12th and will prepare for abroad studies!..hope it works. Bcoz, I think there is much more scope in abroad as compared to studying in India like fields of biotech, biomed etc etc...

Parents ko kaise convince Kiya: JUGAAD 😂😂

"Maine non medical li, Non medical ne meri li" *Harnoor Singh 2019*

I am from IIIT 😅😅😅pr mujhe lgta h mera kuch ho jayega

Bro i really appreciate your idea of making a video on this topic. As here in India the mindset of every person is like IIT or nothing. Everyone is running in same direction for becoming engineer even if he/she is interested in commerce.

Your grade in 11th - 80% Mine - 56% Lol.....

Exactly what I am going through... just finished my 12th... Your videos really motivate a lot :) Thanks for sharing this !!

Seriously Bhai same problem here sane problem in 11th

Kya baat hai yar, apki story Bohot inspiring hai! I hope everyone in 11 grade sees this video so that they can avoid the horrendous scam of coaching classes. Inspiring story brother, keep up the good work!👍

Kudos to you man for doing this video. I think it will be a great deal of help to those who want to follow the same path and can learn from your experience. Also I think it must have not been easy to tell your life story like this so openly.

And there is this myth : "MONEY CANNOT BUY HAPPINESS"

Dude you are one of the lucky ones...unlike most of us. You took non medical and I opted for mbbs and oh god!!! I am suffering till now🤣🤣

Thanks for making the video, I hope you remember I messaged you about it.

80% of people can't afford education loan. And ITT and AIIMS are different level.

2:14 exactly the opposite in my case... School mein toh concept dete hi nhi. Organic pura rattafication

I've taken non med just a few days back . Sitting in class we all feel secluded and isolated . Why it isn't like arts ?

Can relate so much! Proud of you bro! Phenomenal Video! :)

Paisa ho toh kya kuch nhi ho sakta babu bhaiya. But for real...convincing parents is still the toughest exam ever.

Bro I'm in 9th Class And I Started My IIT Coaching Because my father mother were forcing me.. Igot 98% in 8th and in Coaching Admission Exam i got 100% scholarship so my parents enrolled me and now we have alsmost covered 11th class And My Marks Are ImProving In Coaching and School But I dont like IIT And I want To go abroad to pursue Aviation but they say Just give it. And i am Thinking That if i Clear that paper They will not let me go abroad... One more thing My sister Is very Good at Co curricular Activities and even I am Last Year She got selected By The London School Of ECO and Oxford. SHE's studin in Oxford. I GUESS My life Will be ruined in Indi😭😭😣

Very very much needed. Thank you so much 😀

My father is an Engineering Assistant at AIR & DDK ( Prasar Bharati). Currently posted in IT Cell of DDK Golfgreen, Kolkata. His current salary is ₹1,18,000/Month. {Would have been more agar iss saal Modi DA Nahi rokta to} Soo Many of his colleagues are also from ITI and Polytechnic, some have B.tech, one is from IIT Kharagpur..har tarah ka hai. The only thing Common to all is that they cracked the entrance exam conducted by Prasar Bharti. Some joined directly as EA, whereas others as Technician & got promoted to EA through Departmental Exams & CR (like my Father). Many also got promoted to SEA(solely based on Seniority cum Fitness) & get salary ₹1,22,000/month. Mere Baba ka agar thoda aur Qualifications rehta, atleast graduate to wo Assistant Engineer (a Gazetted Rank) k liye exam de sakte the :-( Khair, koi nahi, woh jahan se aate hain aur aaj tak jo kuch bhi unhone achieve kiya hai, without compromising on values and ethics; it's Incredible & Very Inspiring. My father is the chalta firta example we hear about in motivational videos. Paisa to bohot koi kamata hai lekin bina diplomacy-politics kiye, bina aapna morals and ethics ko halka sa v dagmagaye...sirf izzat kamana aur usse jitna paisa aata hai sirf usi me santoosht rehna sab koi nahi kar pata hai. I AM VERY PROUD OF THE HARD EARNED HUMBLE MIDDLE CLASS LIFE THAT WE HAVE ☺️ CRUX:~⚪⚫⚪⚫ 💠 WHERE EVER YOU COME FROM..NO MATTER HOW EVER POVERTY AND TERRIBLE BACKGROUNDS, YOU CAN ACHIEVE SUCCESS WITH YOUR HONESTLY, HARD WORK AND INTEGRITY. 💠KOI V KAAM CHOTA YA BADA NAHI HOTA. KAAM BUS KAAM HOTA HAI. 🅱️∆©K 👊 G®🏐️🌶️n▶️ He is from Kalyani ITI. My father wanted to study engineering but couldn't since we come from a very very poor background. He used to work in our small radio repairing shop to support family. The headmaster didn't allow Baba to sit for the Pre board Exams of Madhyamik (10th) since ₹12 school fees was due! He lost his year because of₹12!! Actually my father was thrown out of school for those ₹12 and later he passed 10th from some different school from a relative's house. Had taken Science in HS but had to again drop out of school due to poverty.....My Bua got married zabardasti by Cong goons with her bf, her in-laws didn't accept her as we are SC, with no place to go, were living with dada-dadi only. Even in that terrible poverty jisme 2waqt ka var pet khana nahi milta tha, ek boiled aanda ko half karke 2 Jan khate the.usme bhi pehle Damad ka khana pehle arrange karte thee, uske baad kisiko chahe mile na mile...it impossible for 7members to live on ₹50 salary of Dadaji...Forget the school fees! To Baba ki school chhut gaya & he started looking for something so that he can earn at the earliest. So he joined Certificate course in ITI as back in 1980s you could get a job with technical background. My Grandfather, though he belonged to a wealthy goldsmith family from Faridpur, Bangladesh..but Bare handedly, penniless they eloped to other side of the border.. India with his newly wed wife, my grandmother...they started life from scratch...from negative...stayed in Refugee camp for years, Did every meagre jobs, had no support no shed overhead, sold vegetables..n then managed to get a job as a peon in BSNL and raised the family with extreme hardships. My father being the elder son of two brothers and 1sister had to take the responsibility of sustaining the family from a very tender age, class 4. So though he was a bright student but couldn't study engineering himself so unhone mere chacha ko Diploma in Civil engg. padhaya. Papa ka dimaag bohot sharp hai, his mathematical skills are very good even today..khud 12th complete nahi kiye hai but he used to guide me in Calculus and Algebra in my +2. He is a very fast learner, even today he is constantly learning something or the other to stay updated.. recently he is taking training in nano technology from NABM, BBSR. Though in a very middle class family set-up but Today both the brothers are settled. My uncle is in South Eastern Railways, Garden Reach, Kolkata and My Baba as EA in DDK, Kol. He joined in Aakashvani Kol in 1988 and served there for the 1st 10yrs. My uncle chose to stay in halishahar, our ancestral land, a sub urban town in WB. And We have settled in South Kolkata. My father has raised us quite lavishly compared to his counterparts... bachpan se lekar aaj tak kabhi v kuch maangna nahi padha...sab kuch bus aise hi mujhe aur meri behan ko mil gaya. WE HAVE A PRIVILEGED LIFE GIFTED TO US JUST BECAUSE OF THE BLOOD, SWEAT N TOILS SHED BY BABA & DADU. But Baba khud aaj v bohot jyada humble life lead karte hai..he still has only a handful of shirt, takes bus instead of metro to save ₹22! Sirf thoda bohot gadgets ka shaukh hai. 💚THE LIFESTYLE/SKILLS LEARNT THROUGH EXTREME POVERTY STAYS WITH YOU FOREVER. YOU ALWAYS HAVE A MINIMALISTIC LIFESTYLE AND NO DEMANDS, NO FASCINATION... JUST THE BASIC NEEDS & YOU ARE DONE. And though this may sound like bragging, asole I am but my father is so skilled and has such expertise that he is professionally very sought after & famous in his department. His colleagues call him "BISWAKARMA"🌟 since his tenure in Aakashvani 😄 He has more than 12 Outstanding CR reports 😊 Unhone hume wo sabkuch diya joo kabhi unhe nahi mila tha. I am an aspiring Doctor, didn't join BDS this year, preparing for Neet few months after. My sister is studying fashion designing from Nift. So basically humlogo ko bina maange sabkuch mila hai but I never took this for granted. The inspiration I get from Baba, the character he carved in by living through extreme poverty is just amazing! I hope I can strive to be the daughter he will be proud of someday, exactly the way my Grandparents are proud of him. Though they are no more today but the legacy Of their Struggle, Strength and Sacrifices Lives On. I just want to be a great human being and a good doctor, Not someone settled in Delhi/London but working in Govt hospitals in Rural Bengal. Coming from extreme poverty and hardships has carved the finest human being out of him. I want to be exactly like him. My father knows every thing...from Stitching 👗👖Clothes, to🔨🔧 Masonry, to ⛏️🌾Farming, repairing ☂️, to️ Cobbler 👞work, Carpentry, Plumbing, Electrical & Electronics, painting, raising livestock🐔🐐🐫 walls, Mechanical job... LITERALLY EVERYTHING! Paisa [ Bachane + Kamane ] ke liye sab kuch karna seekh gaye.😊 AJ TAK HUMARE GHAR ME KAVI V BAHAR SE KOI MISTRY NAHI AATA...😊 Sab kaam Baba karte hai. 👊 💛❤️💚THOUGH HE DOESN'T HAVE ANY GREAT EDUCATIONAL QUALIFICATIONS (infact much below normal) BUT THE LIFE SKILLS HE ACQUIRED, HIS TENDENCY TO LEARN FROM EVERYTHING & EVER DOWN TO EARTH HUMBLE PRAGMATIC APPROACH MAKES HIM THE MOST SUCCESSFUL HUMAN BEING I HAVE EVER SEEN. HE IS MY IDOL 😊 A TRUE LIVING LEGEND, MY ULTIMATE 💞💞 Don't know why but Ordhek family history bole dilam. A silent tribute to BABA written in oblivion.

Same happened to me also. Well done Harnoor. You are an inspiration for all.

Our interests are different but the mentality is the same. Im a aspiring doctor planning on getting into a BSMD program in the USA. I know that it’s not your field. But any information you can provide will be highly appreciated.

This is damn inspiring . Even I also want to pursue CS in USA but the only problem is JEE. Actually I never had any interest in JEE/IIT and I only realized it after watching this video. Actually I use to think that going abroad for studies is almost like impossible for me but after watching this particular video I realized that it can be possible. Now I m actually really inspired and motivated. I will start to apply for universities abroad before this year's December ends .I just hope that I get accepted there and ya Thanks Harnoor.

I also loved to collect certificates for full attendance therefore I didn't missed school for even 1 day from eighth to 12th

BC me coaching Kar kyu Raha jab mujhe IIT me bilkul interest hi nhi

Bro you had applied to 5 universities that means $1000 dollars just for application of universities 😱😱😱😱

Don't blame IIT's ... Even the best professor of world said IIT is best and hardest Exam in the world ....

A channel, totally worth for...

Same case is with me...u and I have the same school track.....but u r lucky to go in America and i m in India and I know i wont have a good job ( if only I have), even after studying in NIT. Trust me..same school journey and same feelings, exactly same.

Bhai same situation thi.Amazing video yaar.You rock man!Do you have any idea how are things in Canada after ms in cs?

Very relatable. Tysm for this video.

This is the video we want. Thanks.

And your videos changed my perspective for IIT and made my mind for studying abroad

I got 100/100 in computer science in twelfth class. But I can't convince my parents even for JEE coaching. So now I am in B grade college with physics honors

This shows how much dedication you have for your Dreams. No matter how rich or poor our family is... what matters is that what you have in yourself to turn your DREAMS into reality. Also the best part is u did not give up to the various pressures of life. All the best✌✌

bhai itni pyari videos banata hai..bilkul dil se..sacchi

In starting he actually mention's some really harsh but true points .... And reading all the garbage comments below these guys dont have any idea whats comming for them... I agree iit's are master institutes .. but it should be a choice or an option not the goal of life... And if u (guys from 12th and 10th) fall in the phrases from coaching institute that iit is everything that will do some serious damage to ur happy life... I agree that they provide excellent platform for star students but for others its a disturbing experience ... School study is the best coaching they will kill ur childhood and young life.... Choose wisely guys world is an open place may be ur not gud in phy,che,maths or bio but as long as u believe in yourself and can work hard u can acheive anything ... I really hope that a day will come where students from other institution will also do great and set some example for others ... This craze of iit will fade away... All the best to u guys...

Hey which languages have been taught to u in ur university. I am just asking because i have completely learned css html and python.

I hope the English videos aren't stopping

One right thing you did at that time is that you used internet services very effectively for gathering all information about US universities. Good Decision & I know the cost of your decision bcoz now I'm graduated & I'm seeing the current situation here(India🇮🇳)

Singh saab your are really intelligent like Einstein 😀

CGPA 10 rakhkar 12th fail aur CGPA 9.2 rakhkar GEORGIA STATE UNIVERSITY. This is called Life

Same happened to me and my grades dropped in 12th due to managing coaching classes for iit jee

thats awesome you've worked so hard to get in . keep working hard success comes on its way.

Great video and super inspiring journey...

Your advice is applied to a very niche market, I dont live in India and hence, am aware of the rigor that is needed to get into a uni in the US. STEP UP UR GAME

I am encouraging people to come to USA and study Cs not other branch. Anyone can get job by consultancy. 25 dollars per hour job is cake walk . Chances of H1B is less and visa rejection rate is high. Overall coming to USA is risk no matter how talented you are first preference is locals mean us citizens. Not more than 5% people get direct placement in us companies. Good luck

Can't hide the proud feeling here !!😀haah! So Proud of u!!☺

The video is on point!!! Something I Was so in need !! I m in 11th and planning to study abroad for cs !!!tysmmm btw love your videos!!!!

Brother you inspires me a lot and i'm waiting for the day when you'll get million of subscribers

Hinde vlog better to English's 💪😜

I think one of the few honest videos which i got over internet.. man u nailed it...

Hey bro. I Subscribed 😁😁😁😁😁Although I can't come there. But i will try after completing my college. First to earn in India and then come there for some yrs to hav a good experience on what i want to do (Hardware Engineering)

1:57 was literally 🔥🔥

Really love your vlogs! I'm in 9th myself and want to go to Australia for my university. Experience from your videos really really help, so please don't stop uploading. At least till my 12th!

Yes this is a very important topic.nice that you made this video.

I didn't even know some parents don't approve I think if they are supportive they are showing immense trust in you don't let them down

1:57 once a legend said

ਹਾਹਾਹਾਹਾ ਜੁਗਾੜ ਤਾਂ ਜੱਟਾਂ ਦਾ ਕੰਮ ਹੁੰਦਾ। ਲੋਕ ਤਾਂ ਬਾਡਰ ਟੱਪ ਕੇ ਸੈੱਟ ਹੋ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਅਾ। ਜੀ ਓਏ ਸ਼ੇਰਾ । ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਨੀ ਰੁਕਦੇ 👏👏👏

Absolutely loved ur vlog bro!!

maine non medical li aur non medical ne meri li. oh god cant stop laughing, p.s this ITI thing freaks me out too!!! I literally cry everytime my parents or teachers say that to me...

This video is really genuine. I agree with u.👍❤❤

It was just the opposite in my school. I'm from Delhi Public School (one of the branches in Kolkata) and there the teachers just dictated from the book. Majority of them hardly knew how to explain (no offence but it's a fact). Whereas in my coaching FIITJEE North Kolkata, the teachers were extremely good, approachable, and explain everything beautifully.

1month ago i watch this video I was expecting that they will let me got far from them but today my mother told my father that i dream to usa that time i thing that my father won't allow me because of financial aid and I am weak in studies but he told me if you will study alot and get scholarships we all will support you I am not saying that I will not let you go but you have to study hard and he was watching my studies from always cheating in online exams to 76% in offline exams so all of you want parents to allow you study abroad then show them that I am working hard to achieve my dream will definitely melt their heart towards you and in future you will get full support I am in 9th grade now always getting good marks through cheating only since 8th and I worked hard today I got my report card better percentage ....Yes,thankyou bhaiya I got gidence from you & I hope when I will come to study at USA definitely I will meet you 😊

U r right all the coaching institutes in India r of the same type. But sadly in our school all teachers r only tuition oriented. They don’t teach well and don’t even clear our doubts.

Love your videos man. But I must say I had the exact opposite experience Coaching class (VMC) was like amazing for me taught me the foundational concepts very well and gave amazing life advice as well but school teaching was not good. Also I'm that guy that does all the assignments and rest of the class copies from me.😅

Make a video on how to convince Trump to stay there

😂bro hr student ki dil ke sawaalo ka jawab tum hi ho

Hi harnoor, was a little curious about you college essay topic . Can you make a video on how to write ole get essays

6:30 👍👍👍... please vlog it

Hi harnoor, hope u r doing great with ur career. I just want to thank you from behalf of all those students..who really r in need of this knowledge about getting entry into US university & managing own stuff while keeping career in focus. I feel ur videos r soo useful and inspiring. I would like u to keep making such videos coz u never know whom u r inspiring ...great job brother . Best wishes for ur future..:)

If one can perform in India, I believe he can perform anywhere in the world. Here in India the competition is too high, that it's a place for the fittest. Please, encourage people to be in India. Preparing for IIT-Jee not only lasts till the exam it shows but it's brings your true potential from inside. How to handle pressure how to handle downfalls how to enjoy success and lots more. I suggest every non medical should take IIT-JEE just to see his/her true potential. Cause not very often in life one gets to discover the true potential within and IITJee is indeed I way.

I think top IIITS do much better than some old IITS... and do not forget that IIIT-H and IITB both are almost on the same lvl for CS

Bhai please make a video on how to get an education loan becoz my parents can't even get me in private college so pls🙏🙏🙏

“IIIT se 4-5 hazaar ki job”...........IIIT Hyderabad is comparable to IIT Bombay

Agreed with the points you stated. However, my coaching scenario is different. So here in FIITJEE, they do explain the derivations and stuff and explain concepts. Teachers are IITians so they know how IITs work and they don't have the "IIT nahi to kuch nahi attitude" at all. They mostly motivate us that there are things in life other than IIT, and a few days ago, our physics teacher told us how you will explore different fields of life when you actually start with your college life cuz right now we are stressed out because of managing school and coaching.

I just passed class 10th with 92℅. I am gonna choose commerce as my subject in class 11th but there are many of my friends and cousins who are going to choose science (specifically PCM). Which makes me asks myself that am I doing right by choosing commerce.

Bhaiya... I want to CEO of my own world class top multinational company...!!! Its my dream and parents dreams..! And dream richest man on the earth.. 🌎🌎 And help poor people in the world..

Bro you answered my question 👍 Thank u

It's not possible for middle class indian, because you know 24 lakhs per semester, it's overwhelming. This is possible that you get a job there in US, then it becomes so easy

He followed the saying " if you can not handle the heat, then get out of the kitchen!".