Couples Married for 0-65 Years Answer: When Did You Know You Were In Love? | Brides 

Cobrakay2003 Jesus loves you.

Josh 🙏🏽😇

Josh what about me ?

yoongi's nose Jesus loves you too

Same.. Cutting out excuses

I scrolled just for this comment. Thanks.

@@glmrs16 same lol

😂😂😂 gold!

@@ellamathilda i'm sure it was a joke

@@ellamathilda Girl, it was a joke. Sheesh

I'm aromantic

Me to but like 100 languages

😂😂😂😂 same

Lol 😆 🤣 😂

🤣🤣🤣

Juicy laugh lol

idk sometimes it's just simple stuff i think

those two 🥺❤️

when he changed his answer i literally laughed out loud

that was brutal to watch

I see German

That was great

@@hiraeth2080 ???

@@youraverageimperialguard7932 Das is a german word

SergeantSilly what does it mean

Maddie whatever I respect that

You won't know how to find the right one if you don't date

Maddie whatever good ❤️ you deserve the right one

Same. 🙌🏻❤️

@@HanBroman "Dating" doesn't necessarily mean a proper "relationship."

Lol that’s how I felt/feel for my boyfriend. But the first time, I was like “I NEED to make a meal for him!”

I did exactly that . Then he said he didn't need me to cook dinner from scratch for him, he can do that himself... from my side it was love.. but not from his side.

@@Fingerscrossedout learning each other's love languages is important

@@swimmingfool4266 he didn't have a love language. He was never satisfied 😑 glad I'm done with him

@warner tesla Yuck.

She told her mom that he was the one in middle school. It's amazing that she knew so soon

I'm saying

It's as if they got married and stopped aging together O_O

I did a double take, like honestly they both look like they are in their late 20s .. But if they married for 22 years, that must mean they are 40 something

Really young but not exactly 20 year old...where do you see 20 year olds like this

Lmao!! and he was so serious too.

Lily Thompson omg now I’m DECEASED🤣

Old man sarcasm is the natural evolution of dad jokes. It's the pinnacle of comedy IMO.

With the straight face though!!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 They are so sarcastic!!

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

LOL

It is like the couple of this Movie “up”. It is just so cute

@@ooo9837 except for when the wife died that was probably the saddest thing I've ever seen in a Pixar film

Princess Sissy Jesus loves you.

They are hilarious!!

Lmaooo right

Lmfaoaoao

They were a mess

@@kaymen10 Nah it sounds like English isnt their first language

I came here for this comment

This is sooooo cute ❤

Oh my gosh so cute!!!

Awww😂

That's cute :)

There is nothing wrong being virgin dude, and no one is gonna judge you. To me personally instead of losing my virginity to some wrong person I would stay single ;

Crazy but not impossible

@@yeslinajpop5794 kinda impossible today with the people splitting up after a single "fight" or argument :/

I know this older couple that's been together for almost 70 years and they're honestly adorable. like that's some relationship goals right there

My grandparents met in 5th grade and are still together, over 60 years later :)

That's pretty much every asian country marriages.

That's honestly though how Italians work 😂 even the postman at the door: reads my Italian name and instantly starts talking in Italian to you about anything and everything

how italian*

Jude Xavier no. Stel was right. Wtf

My moms family has been in America for a long time and my grandma was 100% Irish so there’s that

ka ty I didn’t realize until I saw your comment and now I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

😭😭

nvm

XD

BAHAHAHAHA that was the best

Yet it's become so cliche and used out of context.

This ^

Love is a verb. There are 5-8 words for love in Greek and all of them are action words not “feelings”

Bernd DasBrot “sence” wow what a genius you are huh

**Gets divorced**

They are the cutest, my grand parents used to have those vibes

MademoiselleCl3 reminds me of my late grandparents too. My grandfather was always joking with my grandmother

My parents talk like that too:)

@@missmadelinesadventures3278 lucky

LOOOL so true

YES THIS RIGHT HERE

💀💀

My grandpa: I was going to go on a date with her sister but I thought your grandma was cute, so it sort of worked out 😂

Wylde Fyre “sort of” what’s that supposed to mean? 😂

lmaoo

LMAO! Legit laughed

Haha

🤣

her husband is handsome too.

I love her accent and hair (they’re unrelated, but both are really cool)!

@@bananahat3350 her eyes are really bright too

Amanda M. Durham I was wondering how someone could be this beautiful. She indeed is gorgeous

They look like normal versions of Cameron Diaz and Antonio Banderas

Lika Lawson Jesus loves you.

Sarah Johnston you don't know them

@Sarah Johnston weLl Hap Ok MrS tOP 5 CeRtIfIeD MarrIGe CoUnsOulEr tHaT cAn reAd mIndS aNd kNow If SoMeOnE reAllLy lOvEs AnOtHer pErsOn hElL yeAhh

1:53 look at antonios hair on the side of his head move back rlly weirdly. Im done

Lika Chika I’m not married...what you talking about 😭🥺

stacey that’s lovely! I’m an introvert too and I find being with people draining. It must be lovely to not be drained by someone.

@@elorajai3609 I was so surprised too! I didn't know it was possible. He said it was the same for him.

stacey my wife is an introvert I’m 55/45 but on our first date we planned to go to the park and then get frozen yogurt. I planned for a two hour afternoon date. We talked at the park for 10 hours until we got kicked out at 9pm. I got her that frozen yogurt about 3 years later after I put a ring on it. Together six years, married 3. So glad.

Similar situation here. Introvert. We became best friends in high school and I could always be around him and not get tired of him. Even when I was mad at him. We're planning to get married early next year. 10 years of friendship & I cant wait to grow old with him

so sweet

HEY NIKKI!!

@@lexie9814 Hey NIKKI you so fine! You so fine, you blow my mind, hey NIKKI! Hey NIKKI!

Update, I have no idea who you are I just wanted to make that joke!

@@saxtonturner2240 uh ok......😐

@@saxtonturner2240 I absolutely love that song. I even read the reply while singing😂

Omg sameeee like no more than 10 miles lmao

Lol

Ooooh this really made me laugh 😂😂😂 hahaha... thank you. I needed that

My tinder max was 40 miles and thank god i put it up that high cause my man found me :)

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I'm dead 💀 lmao 😂

HAHAHAHDJDKC

Haha same! 🤣😂

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I was confused.. too

i want this in life

Alyssa Anheyia when?

@@maddierawn4906 5:40

That couple was goals. Hot and rich energy

I'm A Rocket Man thank you!

When they came on I thought it was a commercial break

Did you do anything about it? Sorry, I'm curious 😅

@@g.l.4214 I broke up with them and we don't speak any more. I think people should understand that you can still love someone with all your heart and only end up being with them for a short while and that can still have a really significant impact on you and be worthwhile. I feel like nine times out of ten we turn bitter in relationships because we don't cut them off when we should. Most relationships aren't meant to last forever, and if I knew that before and ended it I probably would've looked back on the whole thing more fondly. In fact, I think the one-time connections we make with other people in a romantic way are worthwhile because they're not forever, when we draw them out longer than they're supposed to last for is when we suffer. I do believe eventually we'll find the right person, but before you find that person I think it's beneficial to just take an easygoing approach to intimacy and stuff like that. But ultimately a comment like this isn't going to get you to adopt this kind of view, you have to experience it yourself and come to that conclusion yourself. Sorry if this bored you haha, good luck with your life wherever you are

@@florenceloveect oh that's sad but... good for you

Oliver hi. I did the same thing. I was with someone for 3 years and broke it off 6 months ago when I realized I didn’t want to be married to this person. They were great for the time but my happiness meant more to me. We remained in contact until last week when I realized I didn’t want to be tethered anymore. It’s hard but it set me free to achieve my dreams and opened up so many opportunities to me. Right now, I just want to focus on me. One day I’ll get back out there but right now I just want to enjoy life.

@@stephanietreat4884 That's a big step, and congratulations for doing it. It's hard but your own self is worth 100 times more than any romance. Good luck wherever you are

what minute

That's what my husband would describe me lol

Hanna Rankin I guess it implies that a higher proportion of men have a definition of love that is linked more closely to physical appearance than women do. Hence more men fall in love immediately, based on looks, then perhaps, over time, their love develops into something deeper, following that initial thrill of chasing and catching/winning the beautiful woman.

Eve Tats if men were groomed better , then we’d probably have the same reaction. Lol

Probably cos they don't remember 😂

I remember reading something where it says guys statistically “fall in love faster” because they have less to lose. Like scientifically women are programmed to look for a lot of deciding factors, along side society wise as well. Women have a lot more risk. Guys have a little less

Eve Tats that's only some guys :/

Spill the Tea Yup, single as a Pringle

Man . I hope this can be me one day 😭

Hello

I was your 2000th like👀

I imagined somebody replying to this comment saying "wish I was single"

they're*

Jadasimonexo which couple was that

@@juliapatricia4696 married 57 years I think

*they're

All my grandparents had arranged marriages and they have the cutest stories. But my Filipino grandparents got married at 14 and 17, and stayed together until death in the late 70s.

That's one of the cutest love stories I've heard.

Sometimes it's hard for me to comprehend this kind of relationship... Idk why for some reason, prople these days (including me), are thinking too hard about relationship to the point that I think it's impossible to get the right one with a sustain economical life. Probably I've a broken family so that I think this is impossible.. But media are also keep showing me that relationship is hard and always overly dramatic and stressed me out :(

Did u say she was 16...and he was 21? 😮

awwwww

amounna that was so funny 😂😂 they’re too adorable

🤣 🅛🅞🅛 he had to clean it UP

that guy is brazilian! he didn't mean ruuude

😂😂

😅😅🙈 still don’t know the word for what I wanted say..

I didn't see any people with animals must be racist against animals

@warner tesla bruh..

@@kg957 pls tell me thats a joke

@@Liv-hs6os if you found it funny, it was a joke, if you were offended it wasn't a joke.

didnt see a 60 year old man with a 10 year old child

I second this. Arrange marriages aren't usually "love at first sight", so I want to learn how their love blossomed or when they found out they just did. And it could also be helpful, whatever they'll say, as advice for those who are struggling with the definition of "love". Because it seems not all "click" easily...

ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-2YHlkgK_eLs.html This video isn't exactly like this one but it is similar to what your talking about : )

@@emilyleavitt4088 thanks

My ex break up with me because he's been arranged for marriage and idk but i always hate arranged marriage from that day :)

@@EL-ls6nx Why don't u hate him instead? He's the one who dated u then left u without a fight. I hate those types of guys who know they're gonna end up willingly in an arranged marriage yet they go around dating and breaking girls hearts. It's just not ethical.

I think their . age is not that much they just looked old ... That's why their hair is still pretty good ..

@@maddyroy5249 or extensions?

Didn't even notice i was smiling so much till my muscles ached a little :))))))

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I’m literally sitting here with the blankest face expression. Idk why I’m watching this

Jannete Rodriguez cause it came in your recommended lol

cassiopee26 meeeee

The best

Basically

Super cute

Same!!

Lol I’m single too but I love coming across these. It gives me hope there’s beautiful people out there and one of them I’ll find when the timing is right. Be inspired by love! Thank RU-vid 😂

Ikr! He looks like mr. Carl

Amazing mom! 😊

Sounds like it was arranged marriage :P

She probably forgot

My mom said the same thing about me and my idiot neighbour. I hope she's wrong.

I hope my mom is wrong. She keeps telling me I’ll marry my first and only boyfriend because even though we broke up before we graduated from high school, he keeps popping up in my life once in a while. We’re 30, but he’s been in and out of relationships and I’ve been single (no comment) this whole time.

Why do I remember the vine?

Beautiful, congratulations

rafaella berenguel Jesus loves you.

That’s so beautiful mate, thanks for sharing.

beautiful❤️

Ona same!

Lmaooo

so did she

Me too!!

SAME

@I'MDEprEssEdaNDqUIrkY that's what I was wondering

@I'MDEprEssEdaNDqUIrkY asking the right questions here..

Did you cheat?

@@siratlas9005 what did they say

@@Getout634 what did they say

Yjnah Lim Jesus loves you.

Its a deep "hahaha"

Right!!!! So cuteee

I hope you find yours!

Therapy! Make sure u get in and release whatever associated trauma and fears.

awwww 🥺

she's my mom

Lillian Salem Really?

@@kiem1238 yeah

I was searching for this comment, she`s absolutely gorgeous.

@@lilliansalem7784 Isn't "Salem" an Arabic surname??? Is the man beside your mom, your dad, Arabic?

awww thank you!!

I thought that too!! That last couple the older man was really attractive for his age actually

I hope you'll find a great chick

@@addmado2729 well I am a chick and I'm not gay but thanks for the kindness XD

True

She's just absolutely lovely in every way. My heart 😭

her hair is lush

Face has got plastic surgery

Mariana Oliveira meh

Hahaha... I had to re-read this a couple of time and then I was like Ooooooh 😳

It's a show

Hailey Antonitis 😂😂😂😂

Meee

where's that

lol glad you liked

"what war was he in?" they both have such a great sense of humor it's a perfect match hhehehe

Hey don't let anything get you down. I am in a long distance relationship for the second time (first time when we were both at university and now I am specialising to be a consultant) and we are ok. The hardest thing is physically being apart but my fiancè told me this once, "I call you a lot because I don't want you to be alone". He is quite sweet.

I did long distance for a year before moving in with my lovely bf. That year was so hard and seemed to go on forever. Now I feel as if I've blinked and we've lived together longer than we spent missing each other. Being apart was incredibly difficult, but now I get to roll over every morning, look at him, and remember how lucky I am to be next to him and how we'll never have to be apart again. I'm almost glad for the time we had apart because it reminds me how precious this time is.

I'm in the same situation

Same

same lol

love is beautiful, so keep loving .

Yes, I see most of the times other than this video couples who were long distance last longer and have much more respect for their relationship

camila 👀

Ain't no cryin in the club hey hey

@@swored. stop be nice

A CUP OF TAE방탄소년단 that wasn’t very friendly

Maybe you should panicking at the disco?

awwwwwww

Asians and Africans generally don't get that many wrinkles from aging. White people tend to get the most wrinkles and Middle Eastern people are somewhere in the middle of that spectrum.

Dave Cullins oh really... well, they are living proof to that theory then! Good for them! 🍀

I think they got married quite young too, cos she did say "in 8th grade", so I imagine they were childhood sweethearts and got married as very young adults :)

Sounded like a first love and they married young

Omg I thought u meant the 1st 22 year couple and I was like "Huh"😂😂😂 Actually super confuseddddddd

Still together?

@Ari that's the sweeeeeeetest thing I've ever read 😭❤️

true.. if you watch one of our videos you'll see

So happy for you. Congratulation in advance!

Aww so cute 😭❤️ congratulations!

Wowww... Such a nice advice. And congratulations to you guys..💐🌸💮🌻🌺

absolutely believe in timing!

What’s so ?

Lol

Ask yourself 2 things: 1. If you were never going to see that person again, how would you feel? 2. Picture yourself at 55/60 years and slowing down, when you look beside you do you see that person sitting there? Falling in love is the easy part and building from that love, is worth it. Two of the most precious things that helps a relationship survive are respect and communication.

When you feel like you cannot truly be the person you are meant to be as long as you are with them, or that you have to compromise who you are meant to become in order to settle for a future that seems still good, but not as true to yourself. Or when your life would be better (consistently) if you were single, than if you were together. That is when you leave. When you think of who you know you've always been and who you are meant to be, and this person makes you feel like you honor your childhood self, and lights a fire in your soul that will give you fuel to being who you've always known you could be. Or when your life simply cannot unfold in the most delicious way you can possibly imagine unless they are there to walk along side you in it. That is when you fight with everything you have to hold on to them. And if it makes them happier to leave, but it breaks your heart. You let them go. Because truly loving someone, means loving them on their entire journey. Not only in their journey with you.

My fiance and I have been together 12 years. In that time, especially during the first few years, our relationship was in terrible shape. Our arguments got so bad, that the police were called on us and he had to spend the night in jail. It was extremely rough, but it was a massive wake up call. I started to change after that. I started to do some soul searching and got to know myself better. When I didn't respond to his outbursts with anger anymore, he was forced to change, as well. I had to make a decision, though, about whether or not I could see the relationship working out. With how it was going, the outcome didn't seem so good if we stayed. However, I was also very much aware of his traumatic childhood, which I knew played a part in his actions and words. He never fully let go of that trauma, so it consumed him and made him angry, bitter, frustrated, and resentful towards life and the parents who caused it all. You can bet we had a long discussion about this. I told him that I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt, because I loved him very much and wanted to see him heal. But that I also wasn't gonna take anymore verbal abuse. So I told him that he needed to seek help for his anger issues and that we needed to work on communication. The fact that he even bothered taking an anger management class showed that he didn't want to lose our relationship. Fast forward to now, we've made leaps and bounds in his healing, but still have a ways to go. He's far more relaxed and our communication is so much better. There's so much more healing that we both need, but I want to take that journey together. We're very much in love and want to do what it takes to make our relationship last. So, while it's all individualistic, your instincts know when it's best to leave someone or stay. Your gut is never wrong. You have to decide what feels right. Weigh the pros and cons if you must, but again, go with your gut. And always do what's right for you.

When you know life would NOT be better if they are out of the picture. When you want them around when things are bad. When you feel hurt if things are not right between you. Can't imagine life without him/her. This is assuming you are in a healthy not abusive relationship And you are willing to sacrifice comforts or riches for that person so long you are content together

Samantha Rovai Well what you should think about is whether the good times the tough times. If objectively, you had to close your eyes and say how do you feel about being with this person? If the overall sentiment is yes, then the tough times are worth it. Otherwise maybe some introspection is needed? The other thing would also be to think about what is causing the hard times - if it’s caused by a situation like long distance , then the situation would change or is the difficult due to someone’s personality trait ? In the second case, both have to work to reach some sort of middle ground - be more accepting and conscious of how their behaviour impacts the other. Sometimes the fact that someone is making the efforts to be with you is enough. Of course, all this is assuming that the relationship is healthy and you have strong feelings towards each other.

V. Bright I need a man like him he’s so weird but in the cutest possible way like he could wreck me if he wanted to

cyano wow that’s incredible!

Thank you so much for sharing 🥰 bless your hearts

cyano Jesus loves you.

This is so beautiful, I have chills!

Oh my gosh!😭❤️ what a beautiful story!!

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And her eyes!

her twang is adorable as well

It’s a wig

Really? How do you know?

I had someone like that, but I broke it off because I found it creepy? How is that endearing..?

@@commongravekeeper9670 boohoo for you lmao

Millie Cat I don’t know why but this made me tear up a bit

Yeep, I’ll die alone

Some ease of burden was likely provided.

I think some of these people defined love differently than others. Like some of them were clearly saying they were in love like "they felt something" and some of them meant it as "I knew I would spend the rest of my life with them". Maybe for that year and a half she just thought this was a nice relationship and she had feelings for the other person but didn't know it would last that long.

Has her husband said 2 months I was dying

some people just take longer to feel their emotions....everyone's different

Grace Power they were feeling it along the way, but some kind of push is needed for them to define it as love

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Thea Stybe my parents have been doing long distance for five years now😅 not that u care lol:)