Aww the dancing together sounds so sweet! Also, I love that your babies have inspired you to do more together--and get out more.🫶🏼 Loved this!! Most likable couple ever!🤍🤍
Hi zel and Ben, I think the money thing is fine as long as rent and bills are paid and kids have clothing etc, my partner WAS a ridiculous spender and there’s not a lot you can do to change things. However now having children it gradually has got a lot better, after several years he’s changed with regards to spending on luxuries/ drinking etc, realised that we have to save a bit for emergencies such as broken washing machines, new phone, etc holidays, weekends away, so gradually he’s thankfully passing me some on pay day for those things meaning he can then squander the rest and still have his treats, I’m very greatful he’s now home every evening and we eat at home more, tbh I’d rather have that than not have him around at all, as long as the essentials are paid money is not as important as having our happy loving family. I mean I would rather have him here helping me and caring for us than be rich, sorry a long answer I hope it’s ok as it’s a very important subject for all of us, to get the right balance between finances & happy caring family that stays together indefinitely Xxx love your family and Ayse Jack and girls 💕💕💕
My husband is terrible with money, although I don't save much, but I do save up for holiday's, Christmas etc. If I didn't take care of our finances I dont think our bills would get paid!
Sorry to hear that Michelle, mine used to be horrific with his wages, over the past few years he’s gradually changed , I am conscious not to nag or start a row but just really gently calmly explained life would be far better if he passes over SOME money on pay day for bills, food, emergency savings. I then write down every expenditure so he can see where the money is going, ATM it’s ok, better than it was, I wish you well Michelle.
In answer to your question, I think it’s ok for one person to be a great saver and the other not as much, as long as the person spending quickly isn’t then not contributing to the household expenses as much as the other, or making the other person have to carry them financially. I don’t think that would be right or fair x
I feel it’s great when a man is a spender in a relationship. I am the saver too, but I would hate it if my husband was telling me how to spend his money 😂
@zel hahah the last question. My partner would also say that gives him the ick omg ive only done it a few times but the reaction 😮 hed probably kill me one of these days for it 😅
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@@KANDR402yeah think Zel said they are going for 3 weeks in March & staying with Bens family, did give the rough dates but nothing finalised yet, I can’t wait to see them all on this trip of a lifetime, especially for Pia it will be incredible. Can’t wait for the vlogs 👍
Lool I really thought his name was Ben ,but in the video you said Benjamin 😅 My son’s name is Benjamin and I’m the only one who says Benjamin, everyone else says Ben.
