Couples Summit: His parents don’t like me || STEVE HARVEY 

OptimusXian Prime funny because often in love stories , when you don't listen to your parents people bash you

It depends. Parents are not also perfect. some parents are cool. some were not. Its always depends on the situation. You should be man enough to stand for your woman but make sure that she's the right woman for you otherwise it will backfire to you. lol. Man always know if she is the one.

OptimusXian Prime RIGHT

@OptimusXian Prime - that’s so true ! She might even be disrespectful to ur family behind husbands back. Anything I’s possible

His parents didn't force him to do anything and they don't have to love his wife

Shelly Jensen Yes she is

I know!! Him not so much!!

Why the f&$@ you lyingg?? Tell me why you lying.. oh my god!! ..Stop f*#@n lying!!

Yeah she looks like an american girl doll.

I totally agree

Aki Scott and her eyes + face

The husband got no hair

@@dervettehenderson9532 the bald and the beautiful

i feel like HE knows why they dont like her but in the end it shouldnt matter, noones going anywhere

I agree but the problem is her husband got no balls he should have been sorted out a long time ago but he doesn't like Confrontation that is the magic word but like Steve Harvey said woman needs closure I need to know why do you not like me what is your reason I can't see the husband talking about her negative to the parents so I just feel like the parents have got an issue

He's too submissive.

Elisa so sorry to hear they treated you that way...freaking witches! They probably both single too.

@Douglas Jacquez 😂

@New England Patriots Go Eagles! ;)

My ex was in the military and we had two children before I ever met his family. They hated me. Never knew me for one second and my ex was afraid of his mother who gave him ultimatums about being with me and he eventually chose them over the children and I. I know exactly how you feel. I am so sorry this happened to you and your family.

Elisa Ellis i know how that feels. I’m honestly sorry that you had to go through all of it. Hopefully, you’ll find a better man and have a way better relationship.

MissTinasheXO Excatly I agree with you on that.

Not really because the kids will start asking questions on why do you dislike my mum so it's better that they keep them away from the Grandparents then keeping them around them and picking up and seen their behaviour towards their parents so you really just saving them to be honest so now I don't feel sorry for the kids because the kids will never know what's coming because the mother has protected them if you can not respect the mother then it's wrong that they see the kids can't be playing up and down with the kids and not respecting the mother out of order and time is precious so it's wrong that she has to be around that type of surrounding while they're running up and down with the kids but disrespecting the mother in a cold manner way

Not really. I don't deal with my grandparents and better for it

Yes and no. If the grandparents are lame, they're better off without em

Ikr!

Mikki Taylor the husband isn't standing up for his wife though.

His wife seems like a nice lady, that is why she is being strangling.

True and hes man enough to choose her and that's enough

@@mikenelson8377 he did , they made their choice and he made his without hesitation

exactly

I love that example!! 👍👍👍 you have to live a life that is pleasing unto God. The parents are being immature.

Mr Pine Amen

He probably means the whole shebang

Mr Pine idk............... I mean how is someone religious without practicing the religion? 😐

Escape Reality christianity is not a religion Christianity is the truth. Religion is just a bunch of rules and regulations and norms that can be obeyed without Love. A religion can be practiced without Love. But the truth can not be practiced without Love. That’s what makes it different. I could go to a mosque and impersonate them and go up the ranks real quick. But try that with genuinely real Christians, The Holy Spirit will spot you and alert them. You can’t fake it when the Holy Spirit is looking at you. That’s the difference between the truth and religion, The requirement is Love and the Holy Spirit. Satan knows the Bible verbatim, but he’s spotted a mile away when the Holy Spirit raises the alarm.

Banana Anna me too

Banana Anna it is so hard... And you never feel good enough.

Be yourself,that's all u need

Really? That’s a plus for me. It means I never have to deal with them.

Banana Anna exactly

Exactly, that's the reason b/c of in-laws hated feelings, cause someone took their child away and they no longer need them as much, which is wrong. The child still needs the support and love. Parents are afraid their child will forget about them. God knew why he had to address this cause if married and still under parents approval, no one will ever grow up and be a responsible adult.

True no one can choiced your wife or husband for you.

They his parents how could you say that

stive martin RIGHT

Iam not sure I could marry someone if their parents did not like me. I know I will get thumbs down for this...but when you marry-you marry the family noy just the wife or hubby (or ins the USA and Europe- wife and wife or hubby and hubby).

Charlene Carmon agree girl.. same here..

Charlene Carmon---Be careful, sis. Many times, women who say they don't need closure really do, but are in denial. Once you've been in denial for so long, you actually start to believe it. Lack of closure will cause you to stay angry with people and harbor unforgiveness in your heart, which will lead to bitterness. I have a sister who swears up and down that she doesn't need closure. She is so bitter and she's angry with the whole damn world. She'll snap off on people over trivial things, because she's really taking all of the bitterness in her heart out on the people who didn't hurt her. Everybody needs closure. If you choose not to get that closure for whatever reason, trust me, it will affect you in the long run!

The problem is, it ain’t just them in the situation, it’s also their kids who are suffering without the contact of their grandparents, so I can see why she is very bothered by this

Nightingale Bou you’ve may not have been hurt that bas

You are so ironically strong

I agree

Yeeeees, parents dont dislike your partner for no reason mostly, there must be something big that happened before they married or during their marriage, and parents feel like their son is way better to be someone like that regardless. I need well articulated back story on this case. I dont trust the son and wife confessions... I need to hear the other side of the story from the parent. The one sign i knw that these two is hidding something is that when the son said i cant confront my parents, its clear he cant because they give him the truth and he dont want to face the truth. Thts it.

Yeah true.. u know what .. just becos u go to church doesn't make u an honest person .. Steve couldn't give a judgement like that ..not like him.. u need to speak to the parents to understand .. they've lived their lives to know something is not right .. the husband looks like he's got a gun to his head ..

Not always my exs family were horrible to me. They had a warped way of thinking and i warped as everyone ive spoken too and has physically seen how they are uses that word Mental health wasnt dicussed its like they didnt believe in it. Unless youd gone threw something they deemed bad enough. Or was severe enough like aspergers ect. I have adhd and anxiety. I was told i play on it and that i should deal with on my own. Was told that no wonder there brother used babe station im a burden.i was actually going threw a lot of health issues down there sex was excruciating stopping hald way threw resulted in him yelling st me to get it sorted. Adhd was somthing only kids have and you can grow out off that its my perents fault that i haven't grown out of it. He had a second job and made it clear it wouldnt drive 15 minutes to me at weekends so i had to stay at his. Instead of telling him to quit his job or make the comute when they made it clear that they didnt like we staying on a friday and saturday night up in the room out of there way might i add they expected him to choose the job and not see me. As payment i was to get up on saturday n sundsy at9 am and clean the house. Exact words we go out on Saturday and sunday and wed like you to hover the house. Tidy up any mess weve left in the kitchen. Hang out there washing do there washing. Fun fact i would wash the dished and clean the kitchen after dinner which i never asked for but was alway told theres always some left anyway. I would ask if i could do my laundry in there machine but if they had any i would seperate into the correct piles and wash them together ie there white and mine and so on. Id also hand it up and fold it and place it on there bed. I never asked for anything asked before i made things as simple as tea if theyd like anything. I always kept the tv low and when they went bed at 8 id make an effort to be extra quiet with any movements and use headphones if watching somthing. His room was never messy. they called me lazy cos i slept in with there son as i too would stay up untill he came home at 4am due to my anxiety cause i troubked sleeping unless he was home save. They knew this but still expected me up at 9am. They also didnt take into consideration that my adhd means my brain works harder and that my week at college can take it out on me. And ive got proof from my doctor stating i need more rest then most. Were are my perents u may ask. Stupid 19 year old me decided to move hrs away from home to be with ex due to distance and family issue on my side that genually nothing to do woth him as he was great to begin with any way yeap. So during the week i also lived on my own and aswell as going college had to deal with the other live aspect which adhd people also struggle with. Im now free from him and his family as he choose a night out with work instead of being there for me after my op. Yeap my op fell on the same day that he had a night out with work. Im lucky my mum was there to take care of me. Ass whole thought it was ok to come back at 4 am even tho we asked him to come back at 2am. Didnt text me. Gets blind drunk. When told to go back to his own house as my mum needed sleep he ignored her then come back at 4am and then trys to turn it on us. Why didnt he have key you ask well student accommodation has fobs that work the doors and kitchens. Meaning i cant give him the fob or i wont beable to access my kitchen. Moral of my story sometimes they dont need a reason they just hate you

He might know something I don't think so because you go to church they should be happy if because of the church if you involve some thing bad thing what they gonna say he is hiding something I agree with you

Claus Zuhaus I agree I want to know myself

Claus Zuhaus...🤣🤣true it would be awesome

Me too!!! We’re in the SAME boat!!!My husband doesn’t like confrontation so he rather just walk away from it because whatever he says won’t matter. We don’t even know why they haven’t liked me from the beginning. After 2 years of the bs I stood up for myself and us. They wasn’t good.he told them not to invite him if my son and I were invited. For 1 year they continued to invite him and he just didn’t reply. I knew right then how much he loved me! For him to be willing to just walk away from his family bc they didn’t accept me told me right there he was in love with me and no one can break that bond.The WHOLE family has followed. They still won’t talk 2 us or invite us to things.We went 6 years without hearing from Gus parents.To see his kids they would call his ex. They didn’t come to the wedding we had in MX, they were invited. They booked their room then cancelled it...smh...They give up there son because they didn’t like the person he dated.🤦🏻‍♀️We have 4 boys we could never do that!So I want to know the outcome too!!!

Probably the mother is manipulative, controlling, wanting to be centre of everyone's attention and focus. The Father-in-law is whooped by the Mother-in-law. He won't tell her back off. The wife is direct threat to the narcissistic mother. The grandchildren too, as the babies take attention away from her. My take - mother in law is toxic, narcissistic. Son and his own father cope with the horrible woman through caving in to her demands, submitting to her control

Hayley Doan , man you’re right on the money, are you a professional? You should be

Mrs. Shaniee Kennedy exactly

If he made an effort, and his parents are still not wanting to do their part, I’d cut your losses and move on. It’s hard and better said than done though

Agree

Amen!

We don't know that that is the reason. No one has asked them.

I agree. My super christian, extended family have abandoned other family members who are not Christian, for no reason whatsoever. Every family function (like weddings, milestone birthdays etc.) they have always had a church excuse (eg. hillsong concert/bible study/band practice) for not attending, just because we are not christian. But they go to all church functions at a drop of a hat and even drive an hour and a half away to church, 3 times a week, even though the members are not blood related. They never visit family that are 5min from their home or any family functions that are within half hour from them, even when invited several times... Just shows how hypocritical and judgemental some Christians are.

Jo Amor As a real Christian, they should go out there into the world and be lights therefore they should go visit your events too. They need to be lights. Humble modest lights but bold when they need to. They should not huddle together so much like how you were saying. That’s too much salt in one place. Got to spread out over the food you know? Not all of it in one spot. Humble lights man. So I agree with you. Christians are supposed to be warriors. Soldiers. Fighters. Not scaredy cats huddling and acting like Pharisees.

religious people are weird.

Puro Religous people and Atheists are weird. Non religious people can be just as weird or weirder too. Lots of serial killers on the west coast of the United States in states like Oregon and Washington state who didn’t believe in a after life had pretty weird ways of expressing their feelings towards this life they’ve been given here on earth. Tons of Hollywood actors who aren’t religious have done very very weird things in their private lives and domestic lives and public lives too. So... Nice to meet you... Captain Obvious. It’s been awhile.

+ugaas wiilhoog yeah but come on 14 years later and they go 2 years without seeing their grandchildren? They're all adults you don't have to like someone to be cordial especially when there's children involved. They really need to hash it out and if they're not gonna like her don't but geez be civil...

+Lufann Stewart Amen! 14 years!?! Come on now! They're being children themselves!

Maybe the wife is the one who isn't civil.

They probably got together while he was with the first baby momma

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Haha trueeeee

#nochill 😂😂😂😂

Lmbo!!!!!!! Rotfl!!!!!!!!!!

I agree.

+idomagirl abahi yes for sure

Sometimes family members will dislike your partner for no logical reason. My parents don't like my boyfriend, and when I sat them down and asked them why, they said, "We just don't like him." And they wonder why I never call or visit anymore.

@@lillyautumn3110 maybe they see something in him that you don't. Plus, he's a boyfriend not a husband. Big difference!!!

eugene robinson exactly

The same thing happen to my sister. She's married and have a 1yr old son now. Our parents dont like my brother in law. I dont know why but they think he's not a good fit for her. From what im seeing, my sister is very happy with her marriage life, never had any problems with her family. They did tried to make it up to our parents, talk them out of it but nothing seems to be working. Its been going on for a year now. As a brother, i felt bad for her. My parents are missing up a lot coz its their only grandson for now and he's growing up fast. Sometimes i just dont know how to help coz im not married and dont have these kind of experience yet.

Fitry Hakim yeah thats exactly what happened to me. Its been almost 8 years and its hard but there really isnt anything to do. Since you are her brother, i would recommend being there for her. It hurts to know your mom doesnt want you so it helps to have someone with you in your corner

+Caren Collins damn, that's sad! I don't even know what to say. 8 years!! Idk if you're a religious or spiritual person but I am and based on the benefits I received from that all I can say is pray about it. Pray for your mom. There certainly has to be something wrong with her for her to feel comfortable with not seeing or hearing her child for 8 years! I wish you all the best cause that's just so sad man!

SwaggerChiick1 yeah I've prayed for God's will because there's nothing else for me to do

Caren Collins exactly, just live your life and keep it moving!!

Amen!

Absolutely. What if her in-laws did somewhat accept her, she'd probably still feel uncomfortable because she'd know that their behavior wasn't truly genuine.

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