Jay Shetty discusses how to appreciate and learn from missed opportunities and past mistakes. Subscribe to HuffPost today: goo.gl/xW6HG Get More HuffPost Read: www.huffingtonpost.com/ Like: / huffingtonpost Follow: / huffingtonpost
Jay, if you ever see this. I've been in a debbie downing rut for a while just starting to resurface and this video popped into my recommendations today and was the best thing I've watched in a while. Exactly when I needed it most. Thank you. Appreciation for what you do and put out. Anyone else out there in the same situation keep fighting and as Jay mentioned in the video, sometimes you have to take it slowly a day at a time. Don't be too hard on yourself. Love and kindness, namaste.
I'm going to be 25 in October and my life is already full of regrets of things I didn't do... Fast forwarding to 70/80 years.. that's scary... I hope I'll learn to stop feeling regret like you have before that age in sha Allah..
This man has all world class idea and Surelly when he said life with no regrets I became big fun of it. Regrets won't let u help fix ur problems but moving on with it heals all the problems about the past . What ever happen happened and chase life as its .
I wouldnt regret neither because i lost nothing in the process, but gained knowledge that i invested wrongly or had an oppurtunity to make money. Money will come if i work hard i lost nothing in this process. You have given me the tool of seeing things as a blessing rather than a curse.
As for your regrets theory, you are absolutely spot on since when in our seventies, we will feel laden with regrets only in our life instead of gratitude. your teachings as to how to ensure we don't live with regrets are commendable and pragmatic.
I could listen to you all day along. You are so motivating and you have the clarity of thoughts. I want to have same level of clarity, also I have noted down the points from this video and I am definitely going to work on it as I don’t want to have any regrets later. Thank you so much for making a difference in all of our lives! God bless you.
*Taking* *control* *of* *your* *life* *is* *the* *KEY* *to* *happiness* *and* *success* . We all start somewhere, whether that be at the bottom or with a little help. Ultimately your potential is determined by your habits, which will *DEFINE* Who you are and what mark you leave on earth.
i choose in the regret question 1. Not investing . and the reason for my answer is You . You helped me see life better, from your videos . Thanks Jay ! You make an impact in this World .
Im at a position of my life. Where i had all personal family issues and im working on some peojects as well. I have a regret that I think yeah i think that i not spent my school life as joyful as it could be. I think i have to do more . But the best part is i learned this and i am start working on this now. I will spend my two months of high school as dope as possible. Thanks jay
Finally i fell good about myself that i tried for things i want in my life and if it doesn't end good then what? At least i tried😃. After listening to you i'm sure i will be a happy man at the age of 60+. Thank you.
Hi Jay me and my children watch all your videos and even that I knew all about it you are one of my favorite helper teaching my children Thank you......Planet Earth need more men like you and Ralph Smart, Aaron Doughty, Prince Ea.....and others!!! WHEN EARTH BECOME FULL OF MEN LIKE YOU....WOMEN WILL FEEL REAL HAPPINESS !!!!
Awareness and Forgiveness is the first step to overcome regret and look for the lesson in it for you. Then understand how it can be done differently and do it again the different way.
Hyyyy I did had a lot of regrets...but I have overcame all those while I was surviving from depression.....I believe that v don't need to regret coz the things u r regretting were the things u wanted at that point of time....make sure u don't repeat that's all.... make those regrets ur own lessons that u could not repeat.....
Hello Jay !! how are you ? I like your videos of inspiration So could you please make a video about how to make a good communication rules with friends and people in general . And thanks
Love the videos Jay, I love you’re passion and inspiration , I kinda felt like this one missed the mark as there were no practical applications ( personal ) to be able to put into practice , although i totally understand the content I didn’t understand what you personally were trying to say , you only regerg and plagerised other people, no drama , thanks anyway
I regret going out and giving a chance to a guy who did not care, and all he really showed was being inconsistent. I can’t take back what happened, but the lesson is to be more discerning in the future. Asking better questions of future guys. Continue improving myself and not worry about a guy. As a widow, who lost a lot of things recently, I can continue learning and being a better me.
Stumbling on happiness. Short term regret of doing something lasts for 2 weeks but regret of not doing something lasts for longer. So, do what you want to do. Blaming self when we do some mistakes or around 'what ifs' during inaction. Thought: what/how could have it been better is the cause. *It's process of making sense of something. *Write down the lesson. *What I would regret in my old age that I didn't do? Write down/plan now. During tough situation/making decision: which option/decision would you regret in the long term? Change how you deal with it (emotionally/mentally) even if you can't change what has happened. Change your choice accordingly. 5. Self development 4. Parenting 3. Career 2. Romance 1. Education Continuous consistent action is the only solution to remove regret. How it could have been any worth? What could have gone wrong? What can I do now? While making decisions, which one would I regret in the long term? Regret is useful to gain insight, to make sense, to change future negative behaviour.
GOOD DAY JAY - Take one day at a time and work on of being - The Best YOU can BE ROCKSTAR. Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda. 2 is my story.. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS INFORMATION AND VIDEO THANKS MAN
What if you regreat not doing something that you only regreat because you already know what the outcome would be, but at the same time know that you would also reagreat it if you did that something but the outcome was diffrent. This is the moment i get flustrated. The other things you regreat are all these things that you forgot to do or make a tiny mistake you know you could avoid making but it is already too late. The point is things that i regreat are the things that i only regreat because of sth i didnt know back when i was making a mistake or things i did because i for example didnt expect sth/ was unfoused enough at the time. I also regreat that i didnt do sth but then when i am in a similar situation again i may not be even capable of actually doing the thing i would later regreat. Regardless, i still love this video and the things you talk about here, you truly inspire people and propably make their lives better (even if things you talk about here work like 5% of the time)
I chose 1 because for me taking wrong decision at least contain a satisfaction that i tried in the hope for best.....but not taking any action fills me with guilt for missing an opportunity and i blame myself for this. That's hard to overcome from.
There are many things I regret in my life . Some of them I can fix it now but some I don't want to , I wanted was to be a "Doctor but now I am too old to go back to school for that.
There are some regrets that you can't change. If someone gets dementia or dies, there is nothing you can do except learn to live with the chouce you made.
Please help me Jay please while watching your videos and applying it on me i have activated my fight n flight mode pleasure program me to switch it off please help
But it is difficult to guess at the time of making decisions, whether I will regret for this decision in future or not. May be our ignorance forces us to take wrong decisions....
AssalamoAlikum.Good Morning. I think its depends on the mindset.And what is beautifulmindset??? Its a bunch of creativity,its abeauty of thinking its an implementation of options, its a reflection of personality. Soo,beauty,thinking,implementation,creativity indicates positivity of that person.That is all about which i learned.
Well I'm just backwards. It's a lot that I haven't done but I've never regretted those things. I think it's all for a reason. But the things I have done and regret afterwards those are the things that torment me.
i have a regret, can you help me i have a regret for not understanding the problems of my best friend i didn't did that intentionally but i m sorry for him what should i do for him so that he can trust me one more time. please help me jay this time I really need you just help me please
I think you should talk to him and communicate what you feel. Hear him out and say sorry. If he is a friend he will understand too ! Otherwise wish him good luck and try to move on . Some things we can't control
It's all good big dawg. Brush your shoulders off, learn from what mistakes may have been made and give it another go. The hardest part you have already done. Have a great day man, cheers.
REGRET - When you look at regret it is looking at life with hindsight. How do you know something is important to do right now. You can only have regret when you set a goal now and not achieve it in the future. So do not use the word regret loosely, other wise that will make you feel like a failure. So step 1 is set your goals first. Write them down and constantly focus on them. You really only can have four or five major goals. Then pursue them.
