Recent killings of police officers - allegedly at the hands of their wives - highlights the dangers of unresolved marital issues. eNCA’s senior reporter Dasen Thathiah looks at possible motives behind these murders. #dstv403
@mabhanekazimda529 I'm with you, men are always brought to book for gbv and women are always protected, someone has to stand up and protect men as well
@@sibonisozulu2128i am asking myself what is after tears?some of us they never celebrate with the person who are buried but to come and jaiver the whole night so called celebration, it's only here in our country South Africa you can not find this anywhere in world or in Africa. this thing makes me sick
The most dangerous person in your life is a partner like this. In Gauteng you hardly find women doing this. Eastern Cape and KZN lead... sometimes there's no abuse, sometimes u simply marry a greedy woman
The problem is that our government are concentrating on GBV in women, they are not aware that there are cruel women's in South Africa , abusive and manipulative and very dangerous .When those man report their cases to the police they laugh at them , they don't take them serious until a person death.
It’s very sad and concerning how human life is so disregarded. The government is failing everyone because clearly prison is really not enough because these cases happen everyday maybe if they changed the sentencing techniques. We really need harsher sentences for everyone now
True Domeestic abuse (DA) is not gender based and our sons, fathers, nephews, uncles and cousins are also encouraged to speakup, rather than thinking that it shows weakness for them to scream "Hey I am a victim of AD"!
Also because some women vow never to get a divorce,regardless of whether the marriage works out or not.They get frustrated when things don’t work out and they opt for assassination.
I lost a job and was struggling to put food on the table and my wife reported me for financial abuse. The police however called me to the station but did not open a case. On the other hand I will never expect any money from her salary.
I also reported and the protection order never worked till today. Police will tell you they is nothing they can do I must go and sort it out but they remind me that they will arrest me if they are called. double standard😭
@@boetiesonny9452 yho! I'm so sorry you have to go through all that turmoil. May God provide you with the freedom and peace from this evil person in your life 🙏🏼✨
It is greed bafuna a high life that they can't afford it. Two maybe man and woman should not just get married nje because society expect us too or our partners get to know a person ungathi mawuthola umsebenzi nje usuyashada.🙄🙄🥴🥴
The problem with women is that they always view men as abusers and them as victims. In this beloved country it is a crime to ask a woman where she has been, Infact don't ask anything. She borrows money from you but never pay back, who are you talking to she never reveal, who did you go out for a movie with She doesn't answer. Yet at the end of it she still wants the man to love her.
Why are those foreign national are not in their countries, ANC will be voted out on 24, kwerekwere talk too much because they are protected by corrupt ANC EFF and DA criminals
Attention to foreigners will never stop because they're always in the mix or on the way. They are the biggest problem and they add more to crimes of the country. And theirs is even serious, biggest crimes they bring to SA. The more foreigners rushed in, you are scared what new crime they bring.
I almost got stabbed when collecting my daughter by her drunk mother and after defending myself and take the knife away from her, the following day I received a protection order for her and not for me as a victim...... This is south africa
Horrible women😡 This is the unfortunate misconception abt GBV, men can also be victims. If u r in a dysfunctional relationship, get out and go as far away as possible 😢
It doesnt matter which gender , this depends on the character Of a person, or the situation in the family problems especially financial problems .For this both genders become monsters.
When a Man dies at the hands of his wife u women blame the same man for being abusive.... When again a woman dies at the hands of her husband you women again blame the very same man. You are so Godly hayi🤮
As far as i onow and understand Men have always been accomdated to reort Gbv and assisted. Men have cosen . to keep quite about ther sufferings. There is a lot of Education andawareness that neds to be done to sensitize men. The aareness must start at Hme it must not be peft entirely to the got.
At last this thing of man being abused is voiced out because i think most women have been getting away with it..I've witnessed a woman beating up a man and the man not fighting back..we have sons and brothers it's not only us women who exist please pay very much attention and efforts to the abuse and killing of men as this country does for women 😢
Men suffer a lot and some have just thought they have live with it ... Behind closed doors a lot is happening.. When GBV happens at home the man will say hes staying because of the kids yet he is suffering inside.
Well I would never be a victim of GBV, never. The term in itself connotes an imbalance of power. I would never be at the mercy of my wife, aowa, qha! I would rather be called 'toxic'. If you cant solve it yourself, leave the wife.
Men need to stand up for themselves and fight fire with fire because the government is ignoring this matter. GBV rule favors only women honorable Mr President Ramaphosa can agree with that statement, it seems like these days he's more on the woman's side since heard his last month speech regarding gbv
@@Inspirationdiaries I find that everytime a person wants to be pc abt generalising they are avoiding or trying to dismiss a truth when it comes to what occurs enough of the time to form the generalisation in the 1st place, so want us to be purposefully obtuse. I was just hoping the ppl who read the comment are grown enough to know how to nuance different situations for themselves, but you can’t so i will do it for you: Is every policeman abusive ? No, are most policemen abusive I haven’t read up the stats, are alot of policemen abusive ? in my anecdotal observation, yes! The lady expert in the even confirmed this in the interview at the end, alot of times these cases have alot to do with abuse, why are you trying to dismiss that ?
