I know it’s been awhile this just completely slipped my mind 😫 Inspired by: DJ demz I’m so sorry dj I totally forgot to add this. I love youuuuu! 🥲 (no homo) Bad grammar and mispled words ⚠️
It hurt because... I'm transgender and tend to go into the men's bathroom only to get leered at...and it hurts... especially the comments about why a girl is in the men's bathroom and why I'm so "flat" (I normally wear a chest binder but haven't been able to due to some..."circumstances")
Agreed. I'm a female and I dress like a boy, and..I'm in middle school so some of the girls in gym spread a rumor that I'm a "Pick-me" and a "Whore" because I feel more comfortable wearing men's clothes. But that's not true I just don't always wanna wear girly shit, plus its more comfy to me ngl. Honestly, those rumors just added to my depression... so babes don't let dumb people make you feel that way. Dress how you want, where you want, when you want, just be yourself...
I know because sometimes a boy in my class acts like I'm not a girl because I love wearing hoodies and I never take mine off so he bullied me so did another boy but he got moved to 6th grade. Sometimes people might get to your head and if they do just ignore them, if they continue bulling you either tell a teacher or take action. Just remember people want to get to your head to hurt you.
As a trans ftm, I deal with this stuff a lot more then you might expect especially from full grown adults. I sound like a tomboy according to my friends and look like a boy, but my face is a dead give away that I was female. Important info for story under! My mother and brother are Extremely accepting of me, and my dad is homophobic towards me. I live with them at separate times. I one time went to a nice restaurant and told my mother I had to go to the bathroom, (I was with my mother that day not my father) I stood outside the bathrooms for a solid 2 minuets deciding whether to go into the females or males. my brain was running like this- should I go into the females? its what I am biologically?... but I'd feel like I'd be losing my dignity to call myself a man... but if I walk into the males restroom I might get looked at weirdly by the older people... in the end I went into the males, but it doesn't end there... a fear of mine happened I was sitting on the toilet doing what needed to get done and A WHOLE A** GROUP OF PPL WALKED IN, AND WHEN I MEAN GROUP I MEAN LIKE 8 PEOPLE. I got scared because there where 2 toilets and 2 urinals. So I sat there for about 5 minuets contemplating to leave or not, in the end I was ready to walk out the bathroom stall door, when I did immediately 4 guys looked at me, 1 glared, 1 stared at me in confusion, and the other 2 didn't seem to care. I walked over to the sink to quickly was my hands and in the mirror I could see one of the guys staring at me (the confused guy) he then walked up to me and asked me a question that generally made me shocked that he had the b*lls to ask. "What are you doing in the boys room little one?" (I look like a 10 year old) immediately I get scared and do the only thing my brain could function... Cry I start crying buckets and the guy jumps back shocked that I was crying, the guy that glared at me before was watching his I assume friend and overheard the question I was asked. THIS MAN ACTUALY HAD A SMART BRAIN AND IT SCARED ME MORE THEN THE QUESTION I WAS ASKED the guy slaps his friend and starts yelling at him to not assume peoples genders, especially in a bathroom. as I was walking out still crying I could still hear the guy still yelling at his friend. once I was out of the bathroom I Immediately stop crying and smile, I was glad that FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE A RANDOM STRANGER RESPECTED ME, if your wondering how I stopped crying immediately, no its not acting (I cant act to save my life) no matter the situation if I'm stressed even a little I start crying.
I’m trans as well, and everyone I know calls me by my died name and they don’t care they as still say I’m a girl even though I dress like a boy look like a boy and they all still don’t care so I get this I have one friend that only calls me by my new name and care so it’s really like this a lot in I now how it is.
Im a crossdresser and have problems involving my grandparents subtly showing hate towards me by saying “you would look better in boys cloths” or just generally using me as a way to make them look better by saying “look we have a trans person in our family that we love“ if they actually loved me they would listen to my complaints instead of saying “your rbither has work to do so he gets a gaming pc” he used it to play mainly games and i get for my birthday a laptop that i needed 4 months beforehand for school homework they also mess around with my clothing alot and my only comfort is when im with my dad and mom wich because of social services isn’t alot so im staying with my grandparents. They are liars and have lied for their own benefits multiple times (Sorry is anything is spelled incorrectly i speak my native language better) Edit: im not gonna say evrything they said because i might get banned for some of it
To everyone who reads this! If you are comfortable on what you are wearing KEEP WEARING IT! DONT LET OTHER PEOPLE MAKE YOU DRESS ON WHAT YOU DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE WITH! Thank you for reading this and have an amazing day!
But not be gay BC it's haram and you'll go to hell And haram is smth not good like drink alcohol and go disco andd wear short things for girls like skirt EXT.....
Im in love with this, I’m transgender(ftm) and my family it’s transphobic and I went to boys and girls club, the class was just teen boys, and I admitted the first day about my pronouns and they were the first people to accept and defend me and I even have a boyfriend now, the point is, even if you are bullied or hated their always be somebody or 2 to accept you and that’s all you need as long as you accept yourself haters can stfu and also I’m glad they haven’t told my family but if they do they’ll defend me I know if because their kind warm hearted people! Find some friends that care, because your don’t need the world to care honey darling you are beautiful just the way you ar!
Be yourself, your own person Don’t let anyone tell you what to do, what to say, or what to wear Don’t let anyone control you, don’t do things you are not comfortable with Don’t let anyone stand in your way to being yourself and doing the things you like Don’t let anyone bully you just because you like certain things Be yourself, and stay safe out there! Remember you are an amazing person!
The world is a cruel place and I really feel like this video summarizes that perfectly. Unfortunately people will be like this but always remember "if they don't accept you, they don't deserve you."
I love the trans allegory while also addressing the harassment crossdressers and drag queens get for expressing different from others! It’s all pretty accurate and the need to fit in is real.
I know no one asked but I'm also a Cross dresser, I haven't had any problems with people bullying me because I haven't told anyone, but that doesn't mean other people don't get bullied because of it. Stuff like that is really sad and always makes me feel like tearing up.
Omllll this video has so much meaning to me, I’m a cross dresser, more of the masculine side, I even cut my hair, but I still identify as female. Yes I am lesbian but my sexuality doesn’t have anything to do with the way I dress
:) I’m glad you liked it and I hope cross dressing becomes a more recognize thing I also dress like a boy and prefer baggy t-shirts and I love taking my brothers old clothes :,) my mom does not like that tho-
It’s sad how people don’t understand that If your boy and your comfortable wearing girly things, it’s okay. That doesn’t mean he’s a p3d0 or pervert. People need to understand others. Same for women. If they wanna wear a suit or something, let them. Women don’t need to act like a lady ALL the time. Don’t change your self to make others happy. Don’t think about what others think about you changing your self. Luv you stranger!
Tbh this is true :( it will really heart his feelings. My friend always use to say I'm disgusting and all and it hard my feelings really bad and our teacher called her and said no one is disgusting people are born with anything everyone is a same person no one is disgusting she said and I cried their and our teacher hugged me and said I'm not disgusting at all and thanked my teacher and my teacher said to everyone in our school that no one is disgusting and no one is allowed to bullied and also the end that she said "be who u are" that means a lot ty
i feel like id enjoy this better if their personality’s were more accurate, like ururaka and kirishima, they were being really rude to deku, in the show they’re both very understanding and kind 🤷♀️
Honestly though, I have the same thoughts. I hate when people make uraraka seem like a brat, when she's literally extremely caring and close to izuku. Same with Kiri Also, I don't really like the ship because izuku already likes uraraka and him and Baku are more friends, even brothers. It just doesn't make sense to me - but it's fine if u support it!I also support the LGBTQ+, and I'm a part of it, so don't think I'm a homophobe
@@-erla-5061 I COULDN’T AGREE MORE, i don’t personally like bakudeku because i simply think it wouldn’t work after everything that bakugo did to izuku, the show also makes it really obvious that deku likes ururaka!
The part when you said "If I got a dollar everytime for being called a pervert for going in a boys bathroom, I would be rich" I was so glad because I thought I was the only one who does that.
It's just so depressing that we all wish we could look at this and think it's overexaggerated, but the reality is that this is a very common occurrence for cross dressers or people who don't fit into the gender norms.
i love how this addresses the fact that you don't have* to be gay/trans to cross-dress. cross dressers get so much shit from other people sometimes. especially men in feminine clothes. its such bs. i'd pick a man in a dress over one in some boring ass suit any day lmao
@@Quitting-v8t uraraka solos ur ass dawg + what did uraraka forget in this?? Are u one of those bkdk fans who says ''oh uraraka is getting between the ship''?? Im coming for you dawg sleep with eyes open u r not safe
omg this boiled me so much i can relate to this i just don’t get why this world can’t accept different things it doesn’t have to be boring and simple all the time if your a girl and wanna dress like a boy you can! and vice versa jeez i hate ppl who are like that.
I'm literally crying so hard right now- To the people reading this: Don't let anyone control how you look, eat, and just you in general. LUV U POOKIEEEESSSSSS
Omg I’m crying I’m glad you made this video because the same thing happened to me before my parents my friends my classmates my cousins everyone dose not accept me for who I am thank you for reminding me that I can be me and I don’t have to listen to what everyone else says or thinks about me
Its so sad that people are like this in real life If someone is getting this type of treatment dont change just stay who u are cause there are other people who will accept you for who you are dont listen to the people who are being mean to u stay who u are cause u are unique and beautiful :')
You see, I’m trans, and most people that bump into me think I’m a girl, at first I though because I’m black and my mom only knows girl hair styles, but it was the way I dress, I didn’t care tho, so I kept doing it, and now people that I know don’t care and finally understood me 😊 this video was very well explained, don’t let people change who you are. It’s your body, your life, they can’t control that!
I cried at the end All he wanted was to wear a dress and gets called "Disgusting" I feel bad....But I can tell Baku feels the same way as I did he didn't deserve to be hated by a dress ... Poor deku 😢😭
I really love this type off gacha mini stories they really have good moral stories and teach us something Like example if you are an dress crosser dont let yourself be embarrassed dont Ever change yourself for someone you are beautiful the way you are! to All the dress crosses stay strong dont be embarrassed Everything is okay! i know its hard being called an pervert but dont worry if people call you that remember stay strong that people that talk shit about you remember they're fvck up
She wants to get beat up…don’t hurt the innocent broccoli let him be and dress how he wants! Don’t change your self just to fit in cause you don’t owe anything to anyone be yourself!
this made me tear up. One day at school I wore “boyly” or black jeans. The girls called me weird and I ahde no friends form then. So don’t change yourself for the others..
Thank you for this amazing video. i really love it, and it brought me to tears at the end. pls pls pls keep making videos like this to show the world that it's ok to be yourself no matter who you are
This is so sad, there really are people in this that get bullied so the moral is stand up and if you get bullied more then just report it. BE YOURSELF AND BE PROUD!♥️💐🏳️🌈🎉💕
You are completely right. nobody should be judged or made fun of just because of who they are, It doesn't matter if your gay, trans, lesbian, or a cross dresser. be who you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be.
Sometimes it’s easier to deprive yourself from the things your heart longs for than to deal with the backlash from this cold and calloused social expectation. It’s often easier to leave everyone and everything you’ve ever known behind when either transitioning from male to female or crossdressing as a girl. This is because it is more socially accepted from girl to boy but heavily rejected when reversed. This is not the reality that I wish to live in but there are also no socially accepted ways out. We’re trapped in a loop of disappointing facts and none of us can truest break free. The torture comes from the desire that you can never get rid of.
