I'm single, but I had issues with talking, I was using it negatively until I embraced Christ and he showed me my purpose, I realized I actually had so much to do with talking but not the way I was using it...... Now, I'm living purposely, I can teach the gospel for hours without getting tired or bored, I enjoy talking scriptures. Pst k's advice is right 💯
Wow! I've been watching Pst Mildred's videos since morning,same as Pst Kingsley and it has blessed my soul. I'm not much of a commenter but when Pst Kingsley mentioned that he had just Ond as at the time he got married to pst Mildred i felt relieved cos I'll be getting married to someone who doesn't have a degree in few months and when i told my mentor she said I'll probably regret it in the future even tho i do not see it as a problem, he's doing great for himself,but what she said got me worried, but hearing that from Pst K has set me free from that fear. Thank you ma and sir for yielding to the call of God upon your life, you are a blessing to this generation.
That's why the Truth is more powerful than knowledge or an ideology of men. So far your man fears the Lord, has a Vision, understands and is working alongside the purposes of God, he is ready and fit. See Dr. Cosmas MADUKA. There are boy and there are men - the difference BTW these two aren't gotten by degrees. May the wisdom of the Lord Jesus fill our hearts through His Spirit
I am happy you were able to hear this truth that liberated you.This also shows we need to weigh some of the advice that our mentors give.Not everything is written on stone.God bless u.
I had a list I so didn't want to give up on but when I Jesus came, I began to give into the word and prayer, a new list came, prayerfully and scripturally selected, I then knew that my own self made list was not just unnecessary but a bit selfish and not knowledgeable..... Now I'm glad Jesus came through, tho he did so much to convinced me that my self made list was bad😂.... I'll have a great kingdom Marriage ❤️💯💃💃
That first question about MIL staying “permanently” is a little tricky. If you have aging parents requiring extra assistance you will understand what I mean especially if she’s a widow. No caregiver on earth can ever take care of your parents like you can. What’s most important is that you cultivate a great relationship with your MIL even before aging sets in. While it’s always advisable she stays with one of her daughters in her later years but what if she has only sons and no daughters? I’ve no issues with my MIL staying over especially in the later years because she’s a woman of honor and has behaved herself as such.
What if a lady is in a relationship with someone that has vision and very okay to marry but is having financial issue making the marriage indefinite Does it mean she should move on since she isn't ready to wait for long..?
Vision is one thing, but is the person.actively seeking to make that vision a reality? Also while they are getting to the vision both ppl need to do what they need to do to improve their finances. Maybe take on a 2nd job temporarily
@@snsn7251You have a point. But “jealous-loving” is not entirely bad. It can be useful in marriage. It can be a protective tool. I’m married. My wife is a jealous-lover, but not to a toxic extent. The jealous-love actually helps to protect our marriage. The problem is when it gets toxic. I think they should get more knowledge and counseling on the subject.
The first question, I think it is okay for a mother in law to stay with the couple especially if she is widowed. She may not want to live alone or she may have health challenges. It really depends.
@iremiposi Ajayi, the problem is that our parents will always see us as kids and Interference will always happen no matter how hard we try. This is why I encourge widows to remarry and not sacrifice their happiness for kids who will still leave
The most important factor is, are the couples agreed on this? If they are , then it's goes to no issue! If one is and the other is not, then it's best they work out a solution agreeable to both of them.
@@couplesissues5150 Fact is, the couple are best suited to iron out the areas of disagreement and arrive at a resolution. Why is the man insistent on his mum in-law coming to stay, and why is the wife insistent on that not happening?? That's where I think they can start the resolution from!
YOU DONT KNOW WHAT PEOPLE GO THROUGH WHEN SOME MOTHER IN-LAWS STAY IN THEIR HOUSE... TO AVOID UNNECESSARY ISSSUES. THEY CAN GET HER AN APARTMENT PLEASE. SHE CAN BE VISITING
Please what do you do when your husband constantly denies my input to the family both spiritually and financially and he does these things infront of the family members and parents but when things get difficult he turns to you again. So what do I do
This is not right. You are a team, he is supposed to discuss things with you and get your input. Seek God in prayer before discussing this with him. Then with wisdom, approach him and bring out your concerns. If he accepts he is wrong and changes, that's good . But if he does not, seek counsel of your Pastor and church elders
Communication is key. You must find a way to have a discussion with him about it. You must look for moment when he is calm and open for talk, then you respectfully and carefully present the matter to him. He may be doing it ignorantly, as most men do, based on ego. And if he continues, he may create problems that may be difficult to rectify. Pray about it. Let God order your steps.
Good morning sir I appreciate all your teachings on relationship and marriage but I think I got it wrong when you approved remarrying. According to the bible I understand that husband and wife can only separate as a result of fornication (fornication is different from Adultery)and either of the two would not go Scott free why; Because he or she has caused the other to commit Adultery
“Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery." Luke 16:18. The scripture is plain. Remarriage is adultery. Period. There's nothing about if the divorce is because of abuse, immorality, or whatever. Only death warrants remarriage. And God's word is final.
pastor, i don't agree with you, interest cannot be compromised, you can get a Godly person that u will like, is better to be single than be with someone because of the biological clock, that is a marriage of convenience, ladies make choice from there options.
