@@sixratsinatrenchcoat4327Just wait until you get a baby man, even one baby needs constant attention that'll leave you sleep deprived. And clearly they have had no rest
Like I get when men wants 10 kids cause they don't have to bear the physical trauma but I scratch my head when women wants more than 2, I mean ma'am, is your body made of steel or what? 😂
@@confidential2497 and some top the exams and get multiple offers with a high salary right from the start. I don't wanna brag but I already started my job even before I graduated. I have a rich family but they don't have any connection in the music industry. I bought my first house 2 years after working. Just saying this because some people want to be on top of the class because they want to have a good job right after graduating. I'm also not saying they are one.
Since I'm on my mom's account, lemme tell you one thing. Me and my sister would rather have eachother and not be a only child. We love eachother so much. You don't deserve more then one kid.
@@TraceguyRune He put his family first as a father should. I'm sorry but as a man I don't think a man who won't put his family before himself deserves to be a father.
It’s so cute that millions of people watch the little kids and babies on RU-vid! It’s too cute that there are some pedophiles on RU-vid too, that can watch these babies too! It’s too cute that these kids didn’t even get the chance to say “no, I don’t want to be on RU-vid and TikTok” Y’all are just dumb af
to be fair single children are a lot less socialized than children with siblings. all that fighting is really good for something lol, even if they don’t get along in the end. Doesn’t mean you can’t adopt !
@@comfortmeyeah, it makes me sad because i grew up by myself and my mom, all my sibling are half siblings and they live together with my dad and stepmom☹️
Usted ha violado la Ley de Dios que Él escribió en su corazón; su propia conciencia le condena (¿quién no ha violado su conciencia?). Por lo tanto, merece "la multa"-el castigo del infierno. Pero Dios no quiere darle justicia. Dios es bueno, benigno y bondadoso. ¡Quiere darle misericordia! Por esto, Jesucristo (Dios en la carne) murió en la cruz. Usted violó la Ley pero Cristo pagó su multa. El sufrió en su lugar, como su Sustituto, y resucitó después de tres días. Arrepientase y ponga toda su fe en la Persona y obra de Jesucristo, y asi sera salvo de la ira de Dios.
@@wanderer3004You can plan for new family members, it’s not this unknowable, hard thing. Just like any important dream (going on an expensive trip, owning a business, working towards a career, etc.), it take a lot of love and effort. And well worth it!
@@zizojaezekeom3565 I agree that is his job, but about being the same I disagree I would much rather support my child and live with him them depositing a check everything and having restricted access to my child. But either way, he's got a beautiful family. Best of luck for him
That is true when talking about families individually. As a human race y'all should consider stopping at 1 or 2 because otherwise we will keep growing.
@zainebhidoussi1498 no shade but, I'm really curious why people decide to date when they have such fundamental differences? "I want kids" and "I don't want kids" is such a huge difference in how you guys see your future, it's like a huge incompatibility. Like why did you guys decide to date? /gen Also, sorry if you got multiple notifications 💀 yt is being weird
@@beeppboopp no your question is completely fine i see no shade in it but genuine curiosity ...the thing is ..we've been bestfriends for 8 years since middle school and he had a crush on me all those years on and off because i was clueless and he saw that each time he tried to be friends he couldn't until one time he was serious and told me there are two options either date or just cut out our relationship because he was being hurt ...so because he meant so much for me i was like okay i think trying to date you is way better than losing you ...he meant so much to me i couldn't see my life without him ...and now it's been 2 years and a half since we're dating and we fell in love with each other deeply and we have such nice chemistry with each other and we share many hobbies and we always game with each other during the weekends and watch movies and series...and we did never have one of those conversations about how many babies do i want or does he want we're both so young and we didn't think sooo ahead of us because those things change when we grow up ...anywho so you see why we're dating now even tho i'm scared of having kids and he sees himself with kids ? we literally lived half of our lives knowing each other so those stuff come later imo because we can change completely our views in those matters ...also we love each other deeply that we can make sacrifices and change our mind depending on what the other wants and we're ready to listen to each other to continue our relationship because we believe our love comes first before any babies
@beeppboopp Exactly. Kids are a pretty serious thing. It should be a non negotiable thing for everyone. I don't want kids. Someone telling me they do is an automatic disqualifier. We're fundamentally incompatible. We want 2 different futures. It's bound to end or lead to resentment. Idk what kind of fairytale people are out here living in.
I think if you’re in your early 20’s going to school, working part-time & very focused on that you might not see further. That was me, but when I got to my 30’s married already for a decade with someone that wanted kids, I started to feel a pull towards being a mom, but I just couldn’t imagine it in my 20’s. People change, we don’t always know what we want
Nah! It’s always fun if the parents love each other and their kids and are wise in the upbringing process. Four of my siblings and I are pretty close, I’m so glad it’s not boring!
If I could go back in time, I wouldn’t have been born if my mum or dad were different also would have a completely different outlook on life if I didn’t have a younger bother and would have probably became a spoiled brat, that only thought about myself. And never care about my partners well being. Trust me when I say I would have turned out so much worse and I probably would have never wanted my independence or individuality.
Yea we stopped at one because shit is expensive. We like to travel and paying the costs for another child would definitely reduce how often we could travel. My daughter turns 8 next month and has lived in 3 different countries and visited 7.
@scottd7222 health insurance car insurance food clothes shoes, college money, medical bills, glasses, family trips, and paying them to go with friends phone bills vehicles gas schooling diapers toys $306,924 is what parents where spending in 2023 to raise a child multiply that by 6 and it comes out to 1,841,544 dollars and with interest rates now im sure its even higher
well yea.. unless one doesnt wanna have a big family :D bc its basically kinda forced.. unless they meant he kinda changed his mind and wanted kids instead of just tryna make everyone else happy like not tryna be rude but raising kids takes a while and if you dont even want them its just depressing i bet
Yep. Hopefully he didn't get "encouraged" into having more. I know a lot of fathers and mothers like that. They look back and there is resentment and regret, even if they love their children dearly.
I have 3 siblings and I love all of them but things are so expensive because how many of us there are. Like when going some where even 15 dollars per person adds up quite a bit. Also the price of food for 6 people is a lot. We spent at least $100 every time we order out. So six kids to me is wild.
So freaking cute!! Love the inclusion of the kids!! Gotta do another when you've had the 6th and have him holding little one saying "we done!!" Or something....lol
The thing is nobody believes you when you have tons of kids and say you’re done. My Facebook memories recently came up with me posting “my last ever bump photo” with my youngest and as I read through the comments again around 40 of them said “yeah it’s not going to be the last”. That “bump” is now my 13 year old daughter and definitely was my last. I did get broody around 1 year as I always did so I had to do something else to distract me. My husband came home one day to me announcing I had signed up to do a healthcare diploma online so that I could do a 3 year midwifery degree. I’m lucky that he was chill about it as it was a bit of a quick decision to stop me focusing on another baby lol.
@@Breydee69ridiculous mindset. People raise large families on one humble income everywhere. Not without sacrifices, but we have 4 and I homeschool them and we don't touch govt assistance, not even the low income card. We could but I don't want to.
i love how you originally respected his wishes and waited till he wanted more 💛 so often i see one person forced into having another kid, just because one partner wants it. it’s so refreshing to see genuinely happy and loving couples 😊
Cute vid. I always admire people who want to have lots of kids and feel like I'm missing some motherly components because I get stressed with my 3 lololol
And the fact that the man, who is physically the strongest one, NEVER HITS BACK. I feel a little bit uncomfortable when there is a couple and the man beats the woman, even knowing it's only a simulation
The happiest family were my Aunt and Uncle and their 7 kids. They didn't have a lot but they had lots of love and laughter. It was always a good time at their house.
Me too!!! Me and my siblings were always playing together. And my parents always had family activities planned during the week, so we remained very close. Now that some of us have moved away, we still stay connected through FB messenger. My parents travel a lot, especially since my siblings give them traveling gifts during the holidays. I’m so grateful for everything my parents have done for us, they deserve to travel the world ❤
@@dominickcolon4755 What I find the funniest is that many couples aren't even legally married. In Cuba, if you start living with your partner without being married, everyone will consider you a married couple already. We're built different, ig 😭
tbf... I don't think I've ever met a guy in my life (Internet excluded) who would willingly defy their wife when they say no condom. I have met guys who don't want a wife before though... those aren't as rare.
