She looks sad & afraid b/c of the conflict. Not only that, but the step-daughter admitted that she feels like her step-mom loves her more than her own father, which could mentally mess up a child.
@@Leniloveyeshua3483no she’s not she tried to k*** that poor girl by trying to stab her and even bragged about it! What are you missing?! Her being old doesn’t mean she’s right. She’s evil spirited and has a big mouth and bad attitude and needs to humble herself and her tone when talking with people. SMDH
@Leniloveyeshua3483 She doesn't come across as a big bully, that can't respectfully "speak" to and not "at" a person. She could barely allow Karamo to speak..setting boundaries and having teenagers be challenging is part of life. The way she carries it out is extremely problematic ....she did NOT come across as reasonable nor nurturing....at all.
So she was mad that a man who had a daughter put his daughter first. Okay. Many people are going to be surprised when they have no idea where their children are or what they are doing. These new kids have no problem going completely no contact and not being concerned even when someone is on their death bed.
@scorpionmish right like I just got off the phone with my mom and my parents are still married however if for whatever reason my parents divorced and one remarried I don't think they will allow the step parent to have a say in how they raise kids that ain't theirs and vice versa
The daughter was raised right! She didn’t get loud or disrespectful even through her pain. Please support her in whatever she needs. Ugh breaks my heart.
You know that may be the case but it could also be a possibility that the reason why she’s not getting loud and disrespectful is because when she was younger, she was taught to be quiet. and when I mean taught, I mean like forced if you get what I’m saying
The step mother is beyond toxic. She’s in deep competition with his daughter. Even admitted to replacing the daughter as the, “First Lady.” At the end of the day the step daughter was a child. How dare you blame her for child behavior? He’s also the problem
The father and the daughters realtionship is toxic. How are you bringing your child weed and the step mama gotta come in and say stop that and go to school. Are we serious. That girl was used to doing everything she wanted before that lafy came. And she had has boundaries. Imagine having a house and child come in there thinking they boihht to do whatever they want whwn your own children couldnt do that. No
@@basicallyv9873 that’s valid but she’s still a child. Imagine being an only child with your father and someone new just comes in and changes everything. She deserved better and for more space to deal with her emotions. The adults in the situation should’ve understood that instead of being beefed up with a kid. That trauma of feeling like your dad isn’t choosing you…I know it and that’s going to stick forever unless they heal that and acknowledge her feeelings.
Karamo you really missed the mark on this one man I’m disappointed fr. First off, the day that lady pulled a knife on his daughter should’ve been the day that relationship ended period. Secondly, you can tell she got that man whipped and gripped.. no matter what, if your spouse or partner doesn’t have respect for your child and make rude and slick comments about them the relationship should be over period. I don’t like when people say your spouse or partners comes before the kids cause that’s bullshit always put your child and their emotional mental and physical health first! I can tell by how that lady was talking to his daughter she got an evil bitter spirit and she can’t hide it…. To the child on the show I hope one day you can learn how to love from a distance to protect your peace. Just cause they “family” doesn’t mean you have to put up with the toxicity of the parents relationship. Healing is a journey and hopefully you’ll conquer that journey so you won’t have to live with bitterness and desperation to be loved. Stay up kid
@@Lenasevilla-yb4eithat’s your response? She still came at her and was going to stab her and even made a THREAT on the show about it. Scissors aren’t sharp???? Why downplay and dismiss that?! SMDH that woman is WRONG, WRONG, JEALOUS, and WRONG AGAIN!
Ew that’s an EVIL woman! If a teenager is smoking drugs then it’s substance abuse and counseling needs to be required. All that anger will push the child further away and more rebellion will come. The way she’s talking to that child is absolutely disgusting. Lady unscrew your lips and clam down, that anger doesn’t look good on you. That is an angry masculine lady, talking about MY HOUSE 😮💨 Dad seems weak minded 🤦🏽♀️
Absolutelyyyyy she is disgusting! Acting like she is a better parent therefore producing “better” children. Yuck. She wants to prove that she’s first in the dads life. Pathetic 🙄 & Yes! The dad is weak asf.
Yessss and I also feel like the demeanor she has towards the child is just crazy and for her dad to act the way he do he pisses me off so I can see where she feels unsafe, unwanted , he’s wife keeps bringing her down with comments about her being “ gay “ so the hatred for what ? All because of some weed HER PARENT HER DAD allowed her to do ? & 9/10 that’s probably how she copes I cope by listening to gospel music or I will push everything truama , bad thoughts etc in the back of my head until I’m backed up in a corner where I then have a episode … . And I’m only 19 so it’s crazy honestly
@@areyahouston5868 I don't think it's competition because the stepmother is mature enough to understand the difference in his paternal relationship with his daughter and his romantic relationship with her. I think the daughter was overstepping her role because she thinks the stepmother is too controlling.
Literally what i see. Because she keeps saying im the first lady you USED TO BE THE ONLY WOMAN. Its lile she feels like she has to make it know IM HERE NOW SO MOVE OVER. and thats weird
i absolutely hate parents that weaponize their care as some kind of gotcha "i buy your food, you live in my house, etc etc". THATS AGIVEN. thats just what you sign up for as a parent. you dont get to guilt trip me for existing. im not gonna thank you for the bare minimum
@@tinafoxx4507feel how you feel, I’m not marrying someone who has kids I don’t like……. that means there’s a disconnect and I personally want to love everything that comes with my husband
I don’t agree with “loving the dad should be an automatic love for his child”. You have to build that love just like you do with your partner. It’s not an “automatic” thing like you think it is. The fact that people have that mindset is sad b/c of a step-child doesn’t love their step-parent then it’s okay, but when a step-parent doesn’t love a step-child it isn’t okay. The double standard is crazy. Note: that doesn’t mean I’m saying the step-parent has the right to be rude &/or disrespectful to the step-child, but that does mean they both have to be cordial with each other.
I hate how this seems to be happening more and more nowadays, stepparents in competition with children. I feel so bad for these poor kids dealing with this 😢
@Karamo, i wish i could've been there (in the audience) for this young lady cause ain't no way this grown lady should be that verbally/physically abusive to somebody else child💪🏽🙏🏽.
I’m glad some of the comments are seeing what I’m seeing. The older lady thinks because she talks more that she knows more. I have dealt with people like her before, so manipulative.
I don’t like this episode. I feel like that baby didn’t really get the support or acknowledgment from the parents or karamo. That woman is competing and bullying that child and the father is allowing it. He clearly cares more for that box head broad than his kid. I hope she heals and move away and go no contact because they don’t deserve her.
I believe that it is perfectly ok to not accept an apology from someone! Especially of it is not genuine, and even if it is, you still have a right as a human being to not accept that apology. I feel so bad for kids sealimg with this, its so tremendously sad. I haven't even gotten to the fake apology yet, but I'm appalled by this woman
@@keeshamcmillon4282 I honestly think this family will be fine if they do what Karamo advised which is for the dad to back the step mother's boundaries and stop enabling his daughter. As stated by the daughter she actually does feel loved by the step mother. I think she was just confused because the father was causing confusion by giving into his daughter's pouts.
The so-called wife should still come second to his Daughter. The Daughter was there before her. That lady is aggressive for no reason and beyond disrespectful.
@kirascullark5224 youre wife is first. That doesnt mean you choose your wife over your children. Because that dynamic should have been established before you got married. Kids get older and become adults and live their own lives like we did. Our spouses are supposed to be our life partner.
the daughter is going through things mentally she really just needs support from both sides not bickering, maybe ask her why she’s using weed instead of putting her down about it, aint no teenager smoking weed for no reason. and give dad some grace you can see he’s trying and doing the best he can, and stepmom isnt an villian either she was just raised differently. you guys just all need to come together and have an understanding of eachother.
Y’all my father’s girlfriend was like this and now my father who lives 2 min away from me doesn’t speak to me or ask about my daughter at all.. should I call the show?
I jumped all over my aunts ass one time for the way she spoke to my child, like no ma'am you don't even know her or let alone really know me, don't fxck around and find out. I could never imagine letting someone who is supposed to be my partner to treat my child this way
Im glad that most ppl see what i saw, this Lady came out gate talking reckless. The dad should support his wife but tell her to watch how she talking to his Daughter.
Yall right! 🤣 She’s does kind of look like Auntie Tab. & Little Miss Queen of parenting needs to calm tf down because if she was that great she wouldn’t be pushing this child away and talking down to her the way she is. Tryna prove that she comes before her in the dads life, comparing her to her children and acting like she doing her a favor by taking her in is disgusting.
His daughter needs more support..maybe a older cousin or aunt..step mom aint it..the dad needs a backbone as well..and her daughters has nothing to do with this young lady..I know how she acts at home...no wonder they leaving to smoke...Karamo in that sweater 🔥
that's what i'm confused abt when she said she was 19 i was like what i thought we talking abt a high school teenager why she so mad a 19 year old wanna smoke lil weed 😭😭😭😭
Did he say it’s too many Sagittarius in one home? 🤦🏾♀️ ugghhh the ignorance, that stepmother is a piece of work. Why is she speaking on that child’s mother, or even comparing her to her daughters? It’s ok to have boundaries, but she’s talking with her mouth all twisted up like she’s trying to intimidate her.
My daughters will always come first. No real woman should expect anything else. After the stabbing attempt, If I wasn't in jail for defending my child... she would have some divorce papers to sign!
that woman is down right js weird u can tell it’s clear she’s in a competition with this girl and is tryna be someone she’s not and that father ain’t doing nothing but sitting back
Maybe missing her BIOLOGICAL MOTHER?!?!? for example?! Its actually soooo easyyy to understand and comprehend. Maybe the parents should have a little more compassion for the young woman damn!
Why is this grown woman talking to a teenager like that for? It isn’t her child. The woman has some valid points but her attitude is disgusting. The dad was like oh I’m stuck? Your child comes first mate. Not your wife. The wife is disrespectful!
You can really tell where the communication is breaking down. The stepmom keeps saying she's a grown woman but she's childish in going back and forth with her stepdaughter. She has been hurt and so she lashes out at the stepdaughter. The mom needs to be the adult she claims she is and build a bridge rather than keeping this contentious behavior towards the girl. You can't get respect as a parent if you show no respect. The father should have created this boundary and supported both his wife and his daughter as well, and instead he allows them to go back and forth which creates a big issue between them.
After that incident with the scissors, the father and daughter left for six months. In my opinion, they should have stayed away. That way, the father could have gotten a permanent place for him and his daughter. I wouldn't agree with him getting back with his wife after she went to jail over the knife incident with his daughter but if he did, at least him and his daughter wouldn't be in her house under her rule of thumb. - O. Love the daughter's Dreds, she is a cutie. 9x💯
I personally don’t understand the hate for the step-mother in this comment section. It honestly sounds like the father doesn’t know how to balance out the relationship between both women in his life which is what’s leading to all of this conflict. The daughter’s use to it just being her & her father. Karamo explained it best about the whole boundary thing. The fact that the daughter feels like her step-mom loves her more than her own dad says all that you need to know. It’s all her father not the step-mother, so everyone hating on the step-mom has no valid reason to. This just goes to show that people only see / hear what they want to see / hear 🙄
I agree with this comment. The people in the general comment section are tripping. A lot of them must be young. This stepmother might be a bit stern and she was wrong for pulling out a weapon on the girl but that kind of dysfunction isn't new for families dealing with teenagers who start smelling themselves. This family will be alright, as long as they stay out of this deranged comment section.
Trust, if this woman acting like that on the show , she worst at home with the daughter and her father has no say so. Stepmom mad disrespectful and she mistreating this young woman. How can he stay in a relationship where his child is being mistreated.
Sounds like the daughter came from a household of no structure to one with structure and didn't like it and dad doesn't help strattling the fence of want to be his daughters friend over parent
That’s EXACTLY what I got from it! She don’t like rules and daddy just let her have her way and stepmom wasn’t having it. Just like a teen/young adult don’t want to follow rules and expect to be treated like they are grown while being taken care of like a child 🤦🏾♀️. These comments are crazy I’m 32 and can see this for what it is‼️
That woman is not loving at all. Idk how he deals with her and her demeanor attitude tone energy vibe. It’s awful. She doesn’t project love empathy understanding nothing. Very much my way or the highway. She is awful. That poor girl needs hug love and guidance and this *itch and her miserable bitter ways won’t be providing that
This women gives the most stupid arguments to defend herself and the fact that they slept on the fact that she was going to get stabbed by that women is crazyyyyyy to me and why is she arguing with a 19 year ild like she is an adult let her smoke weed that is none of your godamn business 💀
This is a messy situation. Seems like there’s a lack of boundaries all around and in my opinion it starts with the dad. The dad is permissive & the mom isn’t. It’s a mess. The step mother wants a man that the dad isn’t. It’s a hot mess.
Throwing what you did for a child in the child's face is crazy. That lets me know you didn't do it out of love. Then blaming a child for her parents down fall is crazy
I feel bad for the daughter Dad definitely shouldn’t buy her w33d at all They need to be supportive towards her and be better parents and a blended family
What is ORDER according to the Bible? Outside of food, shelter, and clothes, the parents aren't required to do ANYTHING else. The problem is parents be trying to be their kids' friends, and when someone steps up and have rules and regulations, it's 'out of the norm.' You all heard the child say she feels the step mom cares MORE than her own father! So who's really the problem? Sounds like the dad to me. IJS
I get it she seem a little aggressive and can come off in a different way because she's arguing with a child she needs to be a little more nice and maybe they could get along
I don’t see what everybody else see’s. 😅. I’m very observant and I had to watch it a few times. But, the stepmom is overbearing and argumentative. I don’t see a woman in competition with a child though, I believe the daughter didn’t want to lose her father to another woman and she got use to being his one and only. The father should have established everything before inviting this woman in their lives. 11:53 step mom can’t be that bad cause the child said she cared more than him.
The dad clearly didn't have boundaries. I think the kid thinks the step mom loves her more because she wants her to do better in life like go to school and stop using substances. A parent who loves you will absolutely not allow dysfunction in your life.
I have to agree because I know women like the step-mom, and she has a strong personality. Of course, personalities were gonna clash, and the dad is too laid back and reserved. The daughter acts just like him, so I honestly understand why the daughter and step-mom fight.
I dont like how the step mom keeps throwing her issues with her real mom in her face…that prolly make her feel like an outsider that really aint got nobody. Ion like that
She’s tripping saying she invited that child into her family, that may be PARTIALLY the truth but SHE ACCEPTED YOU into HER world as a CHILD! You came into her world and then disrespected her. I see both sides but she was a child growing. You claim you’re the adult, so act like it and stop arguing with a child!
Why throw the things you’ve done for her back in her face ! She’s a whole teenager who is not mentally developed & probably has internal issues . I also noticed her trying to throw her power around talking about she’s the 1st lady yea I’m side eyeing the step mother she shouldn’t have married anyone with kids !
Being a teen who basically had total freedom,and then going into a home that has rules is hard! I know because I gave my step-mom and my dad hell! This girl's dad even let her get high,so you know the step-mom putting a stop to it was going to be a problem! I don't blame the step-mom for trying to bring discipline and stability to the girl,but at that age it was inevitable that they were going to clash. The girl has a problem with authority,and you can't blame the wife for wanting to put a child in a child's place. The dad is a pushover.
That's literally it. The woman did also have to consider that the kid had a different upbringing so she had to be more gentle in her approach. Structure and discipline are important but be careful to not be too harsh.
The problem is today kids think that are grown no structure no discipline.Dad need to stand up and be a man. It’s hard blended a family mom is old school stand your ground mom just encourage and love her until she grow into her own identity.
Seems like the dad lacked a backbone and when his backbone showed up in the wife the daughter couldnt handle the change. She started off saying she was already doing what she wanted can't expect her to change. The wife stands on business for them both 👏👏 nobody gon walk over her husband not even his kids. The daughter is okay with the lady doing stuff for her as long as she has her way. She wants to be treated like a kid until she wants to be grown. She knows that lady was good to her she just don't like discipline or know how to accept it because she has never had it. I hope they work through it.
Yeah, no. I know a bully when I see one. She is trying so hard to make herself look good to Karamo and the crowd. The stepdaughter said multiple times that she says little slick stuff and tried to force her to wear a dress. That is telling in itself. She said she is “not being herself”. It is obvious she has an issue with her being gay. Just because you don’t call her slurs doesn’t mean you are accepting. And talking about the fact that you fed her and talking about what her mom never did for her or whatever is so uncalled for and unnecessary, because all you’re doing is twisting the knife on stuff that you know is hurting her. Basically she’s just saying that because she was there and her mom wasn’t that she’s the better parent automatically and that’s not the case.
The father is COMPLETELY in the wrong! Fck the “lack of support “ for his wife, what about the lack of support for HIS DAUGHTER?!? This woman is blatantly disrespectful and the father sits there like a lost puppy constantly expressing his love for his WIFE 🤦🏾♀️ this shi ain’t sittin right with me. This is a classic case of the woman being jealous of her spouse’s child. She holds the fact the girl wouldn’t have anywhere to go over her head. What does the father do? Just..SIT THERE. I am baffled, disgusted, and uncomfortable.
